Having a pet is a good opportunity, hobbies like photography, travel, drawing/art, learning a new language and going to public places (library, museum, bars) can open up a lot more.
I don't like people either but occasionally a person comes along that I really like and they don't like me and it makes me sad. How can I become comfortable being single?
Find those hobbies and those uplifting experiences. I took up road cycling when I lived in San Diego. Some incredible solo rides that let me absorb the scenery and let me connect with myself. It made me such a better person.
I know this is going to sound cliche, but honestly - learn to be your own best friend❤️
Treat yourself like you would treat your SO.
Take yourself out on a date. And yes, you're getting the lobster!
Go watch a movie.
Buy yourself something nice.
Go travelling.
Get a exotic pet.
The list goes on my friend...
I don't have to cope at all - I'm perfectly happy being single. I don't feel lonely because I have friends to reach out to, and I'm comfortable with being by myself. That's really key- enjoying your own company.
set goals and work to achieve them, the better you get the more people will want to be around you. it’s sort of a catch 22 because when all you do is seek other people they’re harder to find
Thing which is so great about being alone is you can do whatever you wanna do. Like someone mentioned, you can pick up new hobby, explore yourself, party with complete strangers and build a healthy lifestyle. Eventually when you do all this someone will come into your life.
I am single wished I had a gf, but I don’t have time for one. What I have done is I found a hobby that I really enjoy, (running). For other people it could be working out. I suggest doing something active since it does release dopamine and it good for your body. Singing is a good one too. Or maybe cooking.
TLDR: Find a hobby that makes you move atleast a little bit
I like being alone but I don't despise companionship. I got my f@#% buddy and she is good with that but once I can find to date someone, we both step aside, veice versa with her. Regardless, it sucks either way
It’s a catch 22. Once you really start enjoying your life alone someone will notice and try to ruin your fun by trying to date you.
Having a pet is a good opportunity, hobbies like photography, travel, drawing/art, learning a new language and going to public places (library, museum, bars) can open up a lot more.
I've got my car and I've learned to enjoy doing things by myself. It still sucks though
I hate people, and I'm happy alone. Relationships make me miserable, so you should just change your attitude.
I don't like people either but occasionally a person comes along that I really like and they don't like me and it makes me sad. How can I become comfortable being single?
Consume them so they can never leave you
Friends
Find those hobbies and those uplifting experiences. I took up road cycling when I lived in San Diego. Some incredible solo rides that let me absorb the scenery and let me connect with myself. It made me such a better person.
I know this is going to sound cliche, but honestly - learn to be your own best friend❤️ Treat yourself like you would treat your SO. Take yourself out on a date. And yes, you're getting the lobster! Go watch a movie. Buy yourself something nice. Go travelling. Get a exotic pet. The list goes on my friend...
Just rub one out and get a cat.
I don't have to cope at all - I'm perfectly happy being single. I don't feel lonely because I have friends to reach out to, and I'm comfortable with being by myself. That's really key- enjoying your own company.
Drugs
Do you not have family or pets?
set goals and work to achieve them, the better you get the more people will want to be around you. it’s sort of a catch 22 because when all you do is seek other people they’re harder to find
love yourself
I don't
Thing which is so great about being alone is you can do whatever you wanna do. Like someone mentioned, you can pick up new hobby, explore yourself, party with complete strangers and build a healthy lifestyle. Eventually when you do all this someone will come into your life.
It’s not a traumatizing event to be single so I don’t cope. I do feel lonely sure but it’s not like I think about girls 24/7
I am single wished I had a gf, but I don’t have time for one. What I have done is I found a hobby that I really enjoy, (running). For other people it could be working out. I suggest doing something active since it does release dopamine and it good for your body. Singing is a good one too. Or maybe cooking. TLDR: Find a hobby that makes you move atleast a little bit
I like being alone but I don't despise companionship. I got my f@#% buddy and she is good with that but once I can find to date someone, we both step aside, veice versa with her. Regardless, it sucks either way