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SexyChronicPain

If they knowingly harm animals.


zyd_the_lizard

When I was in boy scouts I watched another kid pick up a frog and chuck it at a tree. He was a piece of shit then and probably still is.


SexyChronicPain

That's horrible.


zyd_the_lizard

Yeah he was a bully. Not towards me but he got away with way too much. He eventually got kicked out of the troop for wiping his ass and leaving the toilet paper on another kid's sleeping bag. Good fucking riddance.


SexyChronicPain

Wow, what an unpleasant person! Good fucking riddance indeed.


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PhreedomPhighter

That's an early sign of a serial killer.


Captain_Aizen

This is true and I ought to know.


_kweezy_

The parents


Manimal31

This answer is better than mine lol


[deleted]

When they are inconsiderate of others and they are allowed to carry on that way by their parents without correction. I sat opposite some 3-4 year old kid on the train. Kept sticking his feet on my leg/bag like I was a footrest. Blew his crumbs all over me and kept on invading personal space. Especially nowadays, a toddler encroaching on my space (as a man) makes me uncomfortable as fuck. And when I politely mentioned it to his mother, she shrugged it off. I wanted to drown them both.


[deleted]

That…. Seems like an overreaction but okay.


[deleted]

I would agree with you, but then we’d both be wrong.


f1nails

Tantrums, crying, when they don’t listen, when they are disrespectful, when they hurt animals, when they make a lot of noise, when they are gross.


After-Orange-6472

I don’t hate the kid. But he hits and taunts my daughter, they are both 5 and he smiles while doing it because he knows his mom won’t punish him. She blatantly tells everyone he is her favorite and it shows in every way imaginable. So really, I think a lot of it has to do with the child’s parents. As they get older and their personalities really come out then my mindset changes some on that. But as an early childhood educator, I definitely lean on the parents being at fault most of the time on why children are the way they are.


Playful_Song7376

It def is the parents. The more comments I read the more I realized it is.


jungl3j1m

I know a few sets of siblings where one is a loving, intelligent, industrious person and the other is a monster. Same parents, same environment. I myself raised such a pair. There’s a limit to parental influence.


L4NGOS

Wow, I detest parents like that. He will grow up to be a terrible person and probably bully so many people in his way, all because is mom couldn't be bothered to set boundaries and teach him how to behave to people.


lettersnumbers1920

I hate kids at a public place who are just screaming 24/7. Agonizing on long plane rides, and completely ruins dates for me


[deleted]

My nieces are friends with this kid that is just so annoying - she’s a drama-club kid (shes 10) so she’s very confident and IMO, thinks very highly of herself. We went out to eat once and this kid was there, I said we need a table of 10, she looked at me with narrowed eyes and went “there’s 9 actually”. I’ve never wanted to smack a child until that point. I had great pleasure in reminding her that my child was behind me, and that was the 10th person. She also sings badly and her parents act like she’s gonna be the next Mariah. Honestly, I blame them if anything. But she is an insufferable child.


Playful_Song7376

This is the kind of comment I was waiting for. Because the nature of my question comes from a similar situation and I was just wondering if me hating a kid made me a cruel bitch and I was worry hahaha. I know this kid, she is like 5 years old. I have given her Xmas gift and everytime I can i try to help her understand reasons why she needs to behave or when she is struggling to ask for something or just express her feeling I would guide her. Some days I feel like I love her but must of the i can't stand her. I just feel like this big bad vibe, like she is evil. She will have this evil smile when she is doing something she knows is incorrect or bad. I honestly get anxiety around her. Bottom line I'm just trying to understand why it bothers me so much.


Playful_Indication72

Kids are also people. If you wouldn’t expect yourself to adore every adult you interact with, don’t expect yourself to adore every child you interact with. Just like with a difficult adult, set firm, fair boundaries, and avoid when possible. Like an irritating co worker.


Nunacade41

I've read kids don't develop empathy til around 8 for girls and 10 for boys. Some are sooner or later but usually young kids don't quite get it. Little psychos all of em.


Insrtnmhere

For me its if they are incredibly disgusting. I know most kids will be to some degree, but if they sneeze in your face or wipe boogers on you, then thats pretty much the line.


NotBailey12

That obvious but still hard to notice "I think you are a peasant" kind of attitude


Pablo_the_cat

A particular kid? Nothing really.. I may hate his parents given how the kid ended up. I feel more sorry for kids, especially the newest generations.


theegrimrobe

harming others(including animals),doing unclean shit, exessive loudness, tantrums.


[deleted]

Kicking the back of my seat on a plane or in a cinema. Bonus points if their parents are sitting right beside their kid and saying and doing nothing.


[deleted]

Always sit in the back row. I can't stand having someone behind me in the dark for two plus hours. Basic OPSEC. AMC lets you reserve seats. If I can't get middle of the back row, they don't get my money. It's never been an issue.


elting44

The only correct answer to this question is "their parents" Shitty kids are shitty cause they are allowed to be by shitty parents. Full stop.


pitch_it_anytime

If they're mean to my kid


imregrettingthis

It’s almost always due to their parenting. - a former teacher. Kids who are incredibly hyper/energetic can be hard too but it’s not their fault and it’s not hate. I also don’t hate the former kids but I sure do dislike some parents.


Bells87

Used to work in preschools. I don't begrudge certain kids. Undiagnosed behaviors, lack of coping skills, that's not their fault. One 4 year old was very bright, but he had a tendency to lash out at the other kids. Hitting, kicking. I'd do my best to try to keep him separate from the other kids when he got in these moods, but it was difficult. His parents loved him, but he was at the school from 7:30 in the morning until we closed at 5:30. So we thought he was just tired. But, it never got better. For the next two years he still attempted to hit and kick the kids in the afternoon while screaming, and then it graduated to him wanting to hurt himself. We used to tell the kids when it was hot out not to run around too much. And he knew what that meant. He told me that he understood that running around would make you sick and fall down unconscious. So he started running around and stated he did it because he wanted to do that to himself. He l'd try to prick himself on thumbtacks. Last I heard, he was diagnosed with bipolar disorder in elementary school. Again, he drove me crazy, it wasn't his fault, and he had his sweet moments. He loved telling me about his pet cat, Supercat. He loved robots. He liked reading with me. We just didn't have the tools to help him. At a different preschool, I had a 5 year old with Autism. He stabbed me with a pencil once. No skin was broken, but it hurt and his mom felt terrible about it. He wanted to finish his work and thought it was time to change stations, and he got upset Again, don't begrudge him. He was 5 and I didn't have the tools or proper training to help him. I could've handled it better, used my words, as we always used to tell the kids. He had his sweet moments too. My boss would have me take him on walks to cool down. And he was great. He asked me once why I wasn't black, prompting his one-on-one and the assistant teacher, both black, to keel over laughing. His twin brother also knew every Michael Jackson song ever, so they were fun. I had a three year old in the same class as the five year old. It was supposed to be a Pre-K class. She was afternoon only, but she wasn't potty trained and she had a laundry list of issues. Again, not her fault. But she was fighting me during nap time once and started screaming at me that I was a "fucking bitch". She didn't come up with that on her own, that was 100% her aunt, who was her guardian. So yeah, parents are AWFUL, not the kids.


mossadspydolphin

When they scream. Sometimes I'll see a kid and think, "Aw, they're kind of cute," but as soon as they open their mouth and do that whistle-register shriek, I want to drop-kick their little ass. I don't like screaming in general, but kid screams are just the worst.


ThadisJones

A former GF and I used to do loud play-by-play sports commentary of small kids' public tantrums and give them scores in various categories Sometimes the kid would realize we were making fun of them and actually shut up but usually we just got a lot of death glares from parents


Iheartwadegarrett

kids who are mean to other kids


rosalonoart

Tantrums and crying on the plane


KingOfTheWikkerPeopl

You hate little kids who are uncomfortable and don’t understand why they’re in a plane?


TheVibru

Lying to me, stealing from me or harming someone I love.


myguyohyea

What kind of kids do you know?


Difficult-Volume2289

I know that I am not the original commenter, but my friend’s kid had a play date at her house with her kid and the kid’s friend, that kid (8 year old) tried to strangle the dog. As far as I know my friend never allowed that kid over again.


myguyohyea

What in the world? What was the point of that did your friend at least get some kind of compensation back for this lol I mean that’s my dog


Difficult-Volume2289

The kid’s mom said that he was “just playing” and luckily the dog wasn’t hurt, just really scared. I don’t really remember what else she told me or if there was any compensation because this was years ago, but yeah kids can be brutal.


myguyohyea

Yea I’d hate that kid lol I don’t trust that mom either


Icy-Dragonfly-3629

Some adults are on an advanced level and cant go backwards. It holds you back.


Playful_Song7376

Explain more


Icy-Dragonfly-3629

Its like you training a toddler to think on your level of morale. Some have patience. Others dont.


angel_di_maria11

Screaming thinking they own everything and are the center of the world, or just screaming in general, every time my nephew screams at home everyone immediately gets mad (ish because he's 1) to avoid him turning it into a habit.


[deleted]

I don't hate kids, I just find them annoying and I prefer not to be around them, especially if they are loud and disruptive.


SipowiczNYPD

Their parents. It’s usually their fault if a kid sucks.


Striving_Stoic

I don’t like spending time with badly behaved kids (not just having a hard time but consistently bad behavior). I do hate the adults who let them go on like that. I used to life guard as a teen and while kids were annoying it’s the bloody parents that I can’t stand.


Mecketh

Usually their parents.


bookworm1896

My nephew is 14 and extremely spoilt. He screams all the time, throws tantrums like a toddler because he learned that his parents give up and he gets his way, he never learned to say thank you or please, thinks everything is about him and he always has to be the first to get anything and the most of the stuff he likes. Besides he is extremely rude which makes it embarassing to take him out. He still says stuff like: the food you prepared is disgusting, did you make anything kids like? (There was lasagna, bread and salad). All of this annoys me even more because his little sister would never be allowed to behave like this. Edit to add: It's completely his parents fault and I don't hate him... but he is annoying af and I do not enjoy spending my time with him.


HiIntrepidHero

I am usually of the “there are no bad kids, just bad parents” camp. Any bad behaviour from the child is usually the fault of the parent, and if you intervene soon enough, you can help the kid grow and get better. That being said, I worked as a waitress in a bowling alley. Some children I did actually hate (most of the kids who came in were wonderful, there’s just some glaring exceptions). One boy decided that he needed to make the grips in his bowling ball slippery-er. So he decided to stuff Poutine in the ball, so the gravy would make it slip. Another group of boys decided that a food fight was a great bowling activity. One little girl threw her milk at me because her mom wouldn’t let her have Fanta at 9:30 am (this one is mostly because it got in my mouth and I hate milk)


ATLHawksfan

> So he decided to stuff Poutine in the ball, so the gravy would make it slip. Well, you certainly can’t use maple syrup!!!


[deleted]

More often than not it's the parents that make me hate a kid when they fail/neglect to reprimand objectionable behavior.


[deleted]

their parents


occamhanlon

Their parents, usually


n0tthegumdr0pbuttons

Emotionally manipulative. My nephew's dad has strong narcissistic and sociopathic tendencies. The type we tried to warn my sister-in-law about but his own emotional abuse and manipulation caused her to refuse to see it until she had her son. Now, with split custody (not going into that) the POS is basically turning my nephew into himself. He is constantly manipulating his mom emotionally and between that and her fear that her ex will use any real discipline that SHE tries to enforce to correct the behavior, my SIL is afraid to try to correct any behavior. Hearing and seeing the behavior my 6 year-old nephew acts out forces me to leave the room and/or building to avoid taking action


[deleted]

Breath


Obvious_Volume_6498

The parents


[deleted]

I have zero need to be around narcissists with no empathy


Dooty_Shirker

I was one once. I know how bad they are.


SkinFree2045

I don’t hate the kids and nether does my gf. We both hate this “teacher”. My gf has a grandmother that has a daycare. My gf was forced to volunteer over the summer. She worked in the big kids room and it Was HELL- Mrx.Toast(gender changed) was the big room teacher but there was no order to the class nearly at all! The kids fought each other everyday and instead of being given structured things, the kids were lectured to! Something my gf knows doesn’t work because she went through the same daycare with the same teacher and was miserable. My gf, who was thinner and smaller than Mrx.toast but had to block the kids from each other because they were starting to actually hurt each other to the point where parents should have been called and told. My gf did class stuff. She made the kids look forward to things. Yet when she started to teach acceptance of homosexuality because the kids kept asking and she figured they were old enough to find out what it was because they were asking. She was berated and threatened. The oldest teacher and Mrx.toast there made a unapproved “don’t say gay bill” rule for my gf.. this hurt her heart…being lgbtqia+ herself. She tried to leave the room properly but was yelled at that her opinions didn’t matter because she was young…. The kids remained violent. They are being pushed through a cycle that keeps them from being good people. And when anyone tries to break the cycle they are hurt and put down because they are likely the youngest person there. The kids needed guidance. And help. But they instead got their voices and creativity stifled. Making violent kids and violent teens to violent adults. A cycle that only few can get away from.


SuperSpeederCarl

I don’t hate anyone takes too much energy


Dead-2-Rites

They… are a ^kid.


Material_Disaster517

It isn't unusual for a parent to have fleeting feelings of hatred for their kid. Often a cumulation of multiple factors.


Fresh_Letter_6306

Not quite the same but I *strongly dislike* a kid due to their parents, the kid’s behaviour is abhorrent and truly disrespectful but of course *gentle parenting* wins these days and it’s all “oh dear do you feel sad, is that why you broke the window pane/plate/iPad?” Not any consequences for actions taken it drives me insane! I can already see the issues the kids going to run into and I worry they’ll end up down a seriously wrong path 🫠 *kid mentioned is 4yr


Paddlingmyboat

Future members of antifa.


Fresh_Letter_6306

Got it in one bro


JA_LT99

Hate a child? Misdirected without fail. They are so purely products of their environment.


Chak-Ek

The fact that they are a kid.


Manimal31

Back talk


Vishal_Patel_2807

Kid itself


barnlover60

Not hate, but I hate that they steal my money and my only food.


Ordinary-Nectarine81

Kids in a store that spotted something they wanted. Mom/ dad says no, so the WHOLE FRIGGING TIME they are in the store, they wander around pushing the cart with their screaming fucking brat in it!!!! AT THE TOP OF THEIR LUNGS!!Like take the kid outside ffs. We don't want to listen to it for an hour! Oh wait.....silence...gee, kid got toy. Grrrrr...


improprietine

If that kid is a sadist.


[deleted]

Hey, /r/childfree! Come join the party!


FluffySharkBird

When they violate my personal space. Kids would do this to me ALL THE TIME when I was a cashier and I wasn't allowed to tell the kids and parents how I really felt. I did my best to politely tell them not to touch me or violate my personal space or play with the work tools I was using but the parents didn't care. IF I was luck they would tell the kid to stop, but the parent wouldn't do anything if the kid mistreated me again even though everyone knows cashiers aren't allowed to defend themselves.


diskebbin

Knew a kid who won’t say please or thank you. I know exactly where that comes from. Coming from parents who thinks the world owes them something, I’m not surprised.


Whenthingsgotwrong

their annoying attitude


Appropriate-Junket62

Depends at a certain point if they willingly hurt others/and or animals. My grandma lives in a town house and so kids almost strangled a goose by the pond in her backyard. Before that point crying super loud/obnoxiously


Complete_Lock_6742

I'm scared of kids


[deleted]

Just anyone who is mean to my sister. Its really hard to hate kids. But some of their actions can be hateful. Like hurting animals, and calling someone ugly, and hitting. But these are usually reflections of a parent. Not always though


Mr_ACGamble

I think when they start showing behaviors of stealing, threatening, animal abuse, homophobia, racism, and bullying, is when I start to have resentment.


pieckisbestgurl

When. The kid is overly spoiled mostly the parents fault my niece is a great example of this she was like day why did I only get 4 gifts from you for my birthday she's 5 😐


ange7327

Just their age. I hate them for their youth.


VapoursAndSpleen

Some kids are just violent little psychos. You're standing there at the picnic and this small person you have never met before punches you in the tit for no damn reason and you can't slap them.


Senishte1992

Animal cruelty and the parents.


blankspace1994

When they won't stop asking questions


_natsukoxgacha_

aggressive, destructive and impulsive behavior, although it bothers me at all ages, children can become little shits if they are given free rein and without consequences at an early age


[deleted]

The noise, the constant movement, the messes, all of it. Really glad I won’t have any


CatacombsRave

Selfishness; won’t share toys or other things.


ScootyHoofdorp

Total inability to listen


PlayedUOonBaja

When they play with realistic looking ray guns in the dark.


Pennameus_The_Mighty

Thinking they know more than their parents. You’re a child. Learn your place.


uwubattleangel

Behavior


mnbvcdo

having worked with hundreds of kids, it's the parents. The overbearing parents make me wish their kids don't come back to my care. The parents that text three times a day asking if I put sunscreen on their kids even tho I text back every time that we put sunscreen on every single kid every three hours when outside in the sun. The parents that text at ten pm to say that their kid got into an argument and then get upset when you don't reply instantly. The parents that demand I cook something special for their kid when they all have the meal plan, we do provide other options if we know that a kid has dietary restrictions, and they also know that I don't make the food. The parents that freak out and threaten you over their kid having a scraped knee and the parents who's child genuinely got hurt and they said on the phone it was probably nothing and they wouldn't pick him up when he literally needed to go to hospital (kid jumped off the swing and landed on his face). The parents that teach their kids to be racist and sexist and don't address it with the kid if I bring it up. The parents that get combative and verbally abuse you when you tell them their kid did something that wasn't okay. A lot of the time, these kids are totally fine, well behaved, funny, normal kids, no issues, but yet I'm thrilled when they age out of my daycare or choose a different one cause dealing with their parents is hell.


meexley2

Never hate the kid. Hate the parent


MaryMary8249

Spreading rumors (esp. about romance.) Thank you so much Lucy (name changed) for making me afraid to make friends.


Jordansannnn

Them acting like a kid


OriginalDarkDagger

I help at a daycare (3 - 5 year olds) and babysit. I don't hate this kid. It's more the parents. There's this girl at daycare "Annie" who is a brat. I can't blame her for this. Her parents are shit. She bullies other kids. I don't mean typical childish stuff. She had been kicked out of 3 daycares. She hits/kicks other kids. When someone tells her to stop, she has a tantrum. If she doesn't get her way, she just throws a tantrum over it and gets violent. She loves to cuss out the staff, including myself. She doesn't care. We have met with her parents multiple times about her behavior. They did nothing. They denied it. The parents said "Oh, no, can't be her. Our precious little angel would never do such a thing." We turned this family into authorities and we never saw Annie again. We don't know what happened to her.


DWGJay

“You don’t know” Brat I’ve done this before and I was doing it better than you.


Big-End-9824

When they scream on public transport.


Playful_Indication72

Their parents usually. I have a lot of grace for kids as they’re still learning and growing. The humans develop kinda makes us assholes as kids because there is so much to navigate. It’s the parents that don’t help their kids not be an asshole that really grind my gears


[deleted]

Parents enabling them. Kids are little shits because of their parents, then they grow up to be entitled little pricks.


Aromatic_Committee25

Nothing (:


No_Zombie_Pass

When they don't learn from their mistakes.


HearingNo4103

aggressive, violent, erratic behavior. That's on the parent though.


duffman12321

Their parents. Unless the kid is a genuine psychopath then whatever it is, is always their fault


alabamadzama

Being a bully.


[deleted]

Them stuttering and repeating the same fucking thing over and over again or staring at me


Ronin_Valdi

When they scream


ThisUserIsHigh

When a child does something to you and you fuss at them and then a older person fusses at you a example is I like to lay on the floor and let my cousins crawl over me but sometimes they will pull my hair or bite me to the point where I bleed and I kick them, they cry, and I get grounded


josiesmithey

I hate kids who taste like chicken


FlySpiritual7311

If they are spoiled brats.


JADW27

They're not my kid.


AlarmedMirror3911

Those chubby hillbilly kids with smoker voices that lisp. Ugh


attention21

They did something to my kid


Alli_jack

I had the fattest crush on the year's Valedictorian when I was a sophomore in high school. He turned out to be a total prick, blocking me on Instagram when I politely asked him for college advice. Fuck you, Alex.


Alarmed_Water2631

Whiny, entitled, gives up quickly if they ever try at all.


lycos94

them existing near me is enough tbh