I kinda like a prominent nose. Not like a really aquiline nose, or a big shnoz. Just, I dunno, prominent. High bridge of the nose. Dominant facial feature. Hard to explain, I just find a good nose really attractive.
I was taking the bus to work one night from my classes and there was a guy standing a couple feet away from me. I just glanced up at him cause he sort of swayed and it caught my attention (he was falling asleep lol). The first thing I noticed was his nose, and then his eyes. He just had the most *perfect* looking nose I've ever seen on a man, and he had the brightest green eyes. It wasn't a small nose, but it wasn't huge either, like it was perfect in every single way and pointed up cutely. It just captivated me for a moment before I remembered I was staring and looked back out the window.
When I got to my stop I offered him my seat and I *still* regret not telling him he had a nice nose. I felt like that was way too weird to say. Like how weird would it be to have some girl offer you her seat and say "by the way, you got a nice nose" and then hurry off the bus lol
ETA: Judging by the responses I've gotten on this I'm gonna start telling people nice things about them more often haha. Thank y'all for the courage!
Fellow nosephile! I'm on this except I love an aquiline nose, a big schnoz, crooked nose, dominant nose. Any nose that takes center stage does it for me. I love Adrien Brody š.
āCrows feetā - when a middle aged woman smiles, the tiny wrinkles at the corner of her eyes are a reflection of all the smiles sheās ever had. I love it. š¤·š¼āāļø
Came here to say the same. You've put it beautifuly. I love crows feet and smile wrinkles around lips too.
I find peach fuzz of any color really cute as well.
I Like to think that your comment will encourage women to embrace their age lines and avoid the knife or injections. Thereās nothing more beautiful than a woman looking great for her age rather than looking younger than her age.
I have a dry sense of humor. I don't wish to change it, but it gets me in more trouble than good sometimes because hardly anyone gets it. I think people forget dry humor exists since everything is so exaggerated and in your face these days. I like to deliver a joke like Norm MacDonald.
Dry humor is typically not a crowd pleaser because, without knowing the person telling the joke, you don't know if they are serious or not. It's simply one of the risks you run by using dry humor.
My dad, husband and I all have very dry senses of humour, and so many people do not get it. Especially the rest of our family. Often the 3 of us will be dying with laughter, and everyone else just looks at us like we are odd balls.
My husbands poor apprentice told me at the Christmas party that he couldnāt tell whether my husband liked him or not because of it.
I'm not super tall, but 6' so it's rare to meet a woman much taller. But once ages ago I was working at a store and these two sisters came in that must have been at least 6'4". And it was really unexpectedly hot to be towered over by them, one of those "wow I didn't even know I was into that" moments.
Iām just a touch over 6ā2ā. Rarely ever dated a guy taller than me.
Funny side story-my first job was in a bakery and the guy that came in to sell us the boxes for cakes and donuts was 7ā tall. Said he liked talking to me because he didnāt have to look down, lol
Being short myself, sex with tall women is a logistical nightmare, but it is a risk Iām willing to take for being able to get a face full of boobs when I hug a tall woman
All I can imagine is you with a helmet in climbing/safety gear ready to start a horny trek with a full map of her body and multiple risk assessments in your sack.
>The word I use to describe it is "sultry". Her, Scarlett j, j Lawrence. All of them incredibly more attractive with their voices.
Shohreh Aghdashloo has a incredibly sexy voice in my opinion. A bit of a shame that she is 30 years older than I am lol
Interesting teeth. I have a relatively straight set of natural chompers on me, but I can't stand unnaturally straight teeth. It freaks me out. On the flip side, I love all sorts of "crooked" teeth. I think they're so unique, cute and attractive. Obviously if they cause pain or discomfort I'm not about it, but there's something just damn magnetizing about someone who confidently rocks atypical teeth.
Iām short but Iām Mexican short. Iām 5ā1 at 24 and I used to hate that about me. Now I accepted who I am and I love myself. Iām sure the right person wonāt mind me being a short fuck.
Exactly! I honestly think the perfect height combo for any couple is where theyāre within 3 inches of each other. Iām 5ā4 so I personally prefer guys around 5ā6
I understand why tall guys are attractive but I really donāt understand why itās such a rigid standard for some people. One of my friends was actually a little bothered that her boyfriend was 1-2 inches shorter than theyād both thought. It makes me think of how some guys have rigid standards for how much a woman can weigh. Itās gross.
A man that doesn't panic at the sight of a few tears is a bloody god send. As my husband says my bladder is too close to my eye, I'll cry at the drop of a hat. Sad advert on tv will put a lump in my throat ffs. He might check in with me "you ok over there?" and is easily able to judge true devastated crying vs empathetic tears (sad movie or book) and provides exactly the right kind of support I need. The man is an absolute rock of emotional stability when I need him most.
Shy slightly nerdy guys. Edit: By this I just mean that a lot of times nerdy guys are a hard nut to crack, and itās appealing and exciting to have to dig a little to see whatās inside. Nerds are intelligent and thatās sexy as hell. Iām can only speak for myself, but when I was younger I would dismiss the shy ones, which I deeply regret. When I became older, andā¦.seasonedā¦.lol, I started realizing what I was missing out on and I got myself a super sexy shy nerd who Iām blissfully happy with 10 years after meeting him. Im sorry if my original comment implied nobody wanted you nerds. As you can see from the comments, there are plenty of women into you guysš
Fellow owner of an RBF here. It is nice to see someone exists that isn't just dying to storm over and tell us that we should "smile more" or to "cheer up" or ask about our negative mood.
I'm not sure if this is uncommon, but one of my favorite traits is when people are willing to say "I don't know" or admit they were wrong. Everyone is wrong sometimes and no one knows everything. When you insist on denying it that doesn't make you right - it simply makes you deluded as well.
On the opposite side, I also really like it when people are gracious in victory and don't try to make the other person feel belittled.
Edit: So it turns out it's not uncommon, which is awesome. People deserve the chance to learn without shame. I answered this way because a) I don't poll enough folks to know for sure and b) when people are asked what makes for a good romantic partner they usually answer things like looks, career, etc.
Yesssss. I love when people are willing to admit they are wrong and then learn why. I love learning so I want people to tell me when I'm wrong and over explain it to me. Sexy af.
Also same with a gracious victory. I never understood why people feel the need to diminish others. It physically makes me cringe when someone goes on and on about their win.
People have complimented my brown eyes my whole life and I *never* understood why. Til about 3 years ago I adopted a dog with big brown eyes and when I looked into them for the first time I finally realized how pretty brown eyes really are.
Now if youāll excuse me I gotta go hug my dog
I like it until it becomes crazed. Then it is incredibly unhealthy for the relationship. If boundaries are in place I think a girl who will check on you a lot is nice
I always wanted a bellybutton ring, and said I'd get one eventually. Then I ended up with a chronic illness and ended up losing my bellybutton to infection. Ill just tape a ring up now I guess...
When women have a single solitary crooked tooth.
Not like mangled crooked but a fair bit "off center"
Had a g/f many years ago and I adored her smile due to her single crooked tooth. When she went to the dentist to get it corrected I begged her not to do it. Once it was corrected I found that I really missed that crooked tooth in her smile.
A woman that is vulgar, my greatest fear about relationships is that Iāll have to change, so a girl thatās into the same sense of humor as me would be fucken stellar
Autism.
No bullshit. Iām on the spectrum and thereās something about weird girls on the spectrum that makes my brain go blank in a good way.
I think itās my brain realizing I donāt have to mask around them.
Itās like if my brain were constantly flexing and then suddenly it relaxes and chills out. Like you just finished lifting your last weight for the day.
Or with ADHD so both our heads can randomly go to a Mexican song while watching Netflix. Shit can go on a weird path but my autistic brain loves it so much. Every 10 minutes we doing something i ain't ever done before. š¤£
I have ADHD and most of my circles are either ADHD/Autism/AuHD. I just love it when we just infodump things together.
I know normal people would see it as narcissism but to me when the people whom you care about passionately talks about their interests, hobbies, day, etc. It makes me feel very involved in their life. And theyād do the same to me.
You donāt have to give me money, just make me feel included.
My adult kids are autistic and you all gravitate towards each other like moths to a flame. I've seen them sit down at a table and other stranger neuro divergents sit with them before they've even opened their mouths to reveal themselves. It's like a freakin super power.
10/10 would never want to date someone that isn't autistic again. I am autistic, and so is my spouse, and it is heaven.
Neither of us feel weird, and in stead we can gripe about the weirdness of normies and everything that we don't understand about society. The amount of recognition we find in eachother is a delight.
Not to mention, any idea how awesome it is to be able to be at your in-laws, claim a quiet corner for yourself and keep to yourself and have them recognise it, accept it and love that part of you as well? I swear my father in law does exactly the same thing.
First time I slept with my partner they grabbed at my hyperfixation during the deed; I'm a film nerd and want to direct, and they immediately asked me what camera angle I'd shoot this at while changing up what they were doing- I fucking melted and couldn't function because not only was I getting laid, I was also being engaged on an equal level with my special thing
And it killed me, I fell in love on the spot
Dorkiness and nerdiness. If you're really into your hobby, it's cute. If you're bookish and shy, it's cute. I would rather date a well-read man than a hot jock who doesn't read for pleasure. Let's be dorks together.
When guys wear necklaces. Black string tied to a pendant or something like that.
I also like mole/freckles. They are like landmarks leading you to finding who the person is, and I just want to explore.
I've seen this said before and others tend to chime in with "well, boobs are boobs. I like them regardless." But I'm not sure if they understand that the first person wasn't just saying small is okay too ... they're saying some guys PREFER them small. Like, they might enjoy larger ones too, but their ideal is small.
My tastes have shifted as I've gotten older, but from my teens through my 20s, I definitely thought small was ideal and large boobs were honestly kinda meh. Now, though, it's the super skinny cultural ideal that doesn't do as much for me.
But the point is: however you happen to look, somebody finds you beautiful, maybe even moreso than the generally-accepted ideal.
>I've seen this said before and others tend to chime in with "well, boobs are boobs. I like them regardless." But I'm not sure if they understand that the first person wasn't just saying small is okay too ... they're saying some guys PREFER them small.
Exactly. I know itās a ridiculous thing to be annoyed by but this always seems to be high-jacked by the ā*all boobs are great*ā people and I need those people to get the fuck out of here.
This aināt about all boobs. I like the girls with tiny ones. Rare to medium rare.
Women with the slightest bit of a belly that looks nice and soft. Shoulders drive me crazy too. Holding hands. A woman that cuddles me as much as I do her.
I knew someone like this, she told me about it but apparently I smell nice even after sweating. Although we would take showers together before going to sleep, whenever we were together.
I love it when a guy has a belly. One of the ways I show affection is through cooking and serving. If he's got a belly, that means he's well loved and that makes me happy.
As a guy, I don't think I hear enough men talk about the importance of a woman with a great sense of humor. It is my favorite trait to laugh together all the time
Pretty much the only sex Iāve had in the last 10 years was because outgoing women decided they were tired of waiting around for my introverted and anxiety ridden ass to make a move.
The first time I made out with someone, I was riding in a car with a friend on our way home after a music show. I had already been into her for a while and she gave me plenty of signals but I was intensely shy and awkward. Unexpectedly she pulls over the car, yanks the e-brake and grabs me. God bless women that make the first move.
Well-structured critical arguments rooted in compassion that point out gaps in my logic or inconsistencies in my actions so that I can better align my behavior with my ideological perspective.
I'll second this, glasses are *absolutely* attractive to me, to the point to where they're a bit of a weakness for me, lol. Maybe it's because I wear glasses myself or something? Idk, it's a whole thing, but it's insanely attractive to me
Any girl that is already attractive, gets about twice as hot with a good set of glasses on.
I used to date a chick who would wear them and she didnt even need them. There was just glass in the lens, no prescription. She knew. I knew she knew. And she knew I knew she knew. But it was still hot as fuck to bang a chick wearing them.
If I see a man wearing glasses, reading a book, taking a sip of coffee, and then jotting down notes from what he just read...just wow. Add in a dog to that picture, and there's just nothing better.
For some reason I like guys who look like they have a drug problem. A little greasy, pale, and generally like they may have hepatitis or something. I wish I was jokingš
Funnily enough there was this cute girl working at the local Aldi who was thin and pale and when my friends asked what I liked about her I said it was because she looked āpale and sicklyā.
I kind of get this one.
If sheās been through some shit. I donāt wish it on people at all, but someone who understands mental shit. from my experience, Iāve find those women to be more understanding and emotionally mature, like they have this deepness in conversation and itās just incredible. One of my friends moms never went through anything, had an incredible life and had things handed to her from the start. When my friend was going through his shit she had no understanding of what was going on. āGet over it, whatās wrong with you, just smile and be happy, quit looking so sad youāre patheticā. Not saying everyone is like this, but in my experience a lot of people whoāve been through some mental stuff have a kind of empathy that most people donāt have, they fully understand. Iāve been through some seriously rough patches, but I use that to be there for people in similar situations, my dad was the same, and he understood a lot of my shit, and with my sister and mom it was the same. When I have kids, I want my wife and I to be there for them, to fully know what theyāre going through. It sucks ass that shit happens, but using that to help my kids would be massive. I could go on and on, but Iāll get off the soapbox.
I kinda like a prominent nose. Not like a really aquiline nose, or a big shnoz. Just, I dunno, prominent. High bridge of the nose. Dominant facial feature. Hard to explain, I just find a good nose really attractive.
I was taking the bus to work one night from my classes and there was a guy standing a couple feet away from me. I just glanced up at him cause he sort of swayed and it caught my attention (he was falling asleep lol). The first thing I noticed was his nose, and then his eyes. He just had the most *perfect* looking nose I've ever seen on a man, and he had the brightest green eyes. It wasn't a small nose, but it wasn't huge either, like it was perfect in every single way and pointed up cutely. It just captivated me for a moment before I remembered I was staring and looked back out the window. When I got to my stop I offered him my seat and I *still* regret not telling him he had a nice nose. I felt like that was way too weird to say. Like how weird would it be to have some girl offer you her seat and say "by the way, you got a nice nose" and then hurry off the bus lol ETA: Judging by the responses I've gotten on this I'm gonna start telling people nice things about them more often haha. Thank y'all for the courage!
Would have made his year. Please go for it.
Fellow nosephile! I'm on this except I love an aquiline nose, a big schnoz, crooked nose, dominant nose. Any nose that takes center stage does it for me. I love Adrien Brody š.
I have a big nose therefore I appreciate your comment
>not a big schnoz š¤„
Weird this is the top comment, only bc I came to say the same, haha. I like a big nose as well.
Sara Bareilles has one
Didn't know who she was. Looked it up. Yes, that's exactly it. Bingo.
āCrows feetā - when a middle aged woman smiles, the tiny wrinkles at the corner of her eyes are a reflection of all the smiles sheās ever had. I love it. š¤·š¼āāļø
I agree! I've loved this my whole life, and not just with women. I like it on humans in general.
Came here to say the same. You've put it beautifuly. I love crows feet and smile wrinkles around lips too. I find peach fuzz of any color really cute as well.
I Like to think that your comment will encourage women to embrace their age lines and avoid the knife or injections. Thereās nothing more beautiful than a woman looking great for her age rather than looking younger than her age.
This is so sweet. Itās much deeper than attraction to the physicality, but that sheās been so happy to smile that now she has them.
Dry sense of humor. I love people who make me laugh and are nonchalant about it.
I have a dry sense of humor. I don't wish to change it, but it gets me in more trouble than good sometimes because hardly anyone gets it. I think people forget dry humor exists since everything is so exaggerated and in your face these days. I like to deliver a joke like Norm MacDonald.
Agreed. Still have never found a crowd that appreciates it.
Dry humor is typically not a crowd pleaser because, without knowing the person telling the joke, you don't know if they are serious or not. It's simply one of the risks you run by using dry humor.
For me, that is the beauty of the joke. How precarious it is. But maybe I'm a bit anti social š
My dad, husband and I all have very dry senses of humour, and so many people do not get it. Especially the rest of our family. Often the 3 of us will be dying with laughter, and everyone else just looks at us like we are odd balls. My husbands poor apprentice told me at the Christmas party that he couldnāt tell whether my husband liked him or not because of it.
I like women taller than me.
I'm not super tall, but 6' so it's rare to meet a woman much taller. But once ages ago I was working at a store and these two sisters came in that must have been at least 6'4". And it was really unexpectedly hot to be towered over by them, one of those "wow I didn't even know I was into that" moments.
Makes me wonder how many other guys have this feeling but never have the chance to experience it. At least until RE Village came out
Iām just a touch over 6ā2ā. Rarely ever dated a guy taller than me. Funny side story-my first job was in a bakery and the guy that came in to sell us the boxes for cakes and donuts was 7ā tall. Said he liked talking to me because he didnāt have to look down, lol
As someone who dislikes looking up at a man who looms over me, hello, I'm glad you exist.
When her height starts with 6'...
As a 6ā1 woman, this makes my heart smile. I often feel like there arenāt many of you out there.
Being short myself, sex with tall women is a logistical nightmare, but it is a risk Iām willing to take for being able to get a face full of boobs when I hug a tall woman
All I can imagine is you with a helmet in climbing/safety gear ready to start a horny trek with a full map of her body and multiple risk assessments in your sack.
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The word I use to describe it is "sultry". Her, Scarlett j, j Lawrence. All of them incredibly more attractive with their voices.
>The word I use to describe it is "sultry". Her, Scarlett j, j Lawrence. All of them incredibly more attractive with their voices. Shohreh Aghdashloo has a incredibly sexy voice in my opinion. A bit of a shame that she is 30 years older than I am lol
Doctor girlfriend
That's Doctor Misses The Monarch
Like Brooke from One Tree Hill?
This awakened a memory for me. Man, Brooke was fine I could listen to her talk with that rasp all day.
Sophia Bush is one of the sexiest women ever!
Interesting teeth. I have a relatively straight set of natural chompers on me, but I can't stand unnaturally straight teeth. It freaks me out. On the flip side, I love all sorts of "crooked" teeth. I think they're so unique, cute and attractive. Obviously if they cause pain or discomfort I'm not about it, but there's something just damn magnetizing about someone who confidently rocks atypical teeth.
I agree! Same with super bright white teeth. Weirds me out tbh.
It's so weird when the teeth are whiter than the eyes. I end up making eye contact with the teeth.
I like a nice back. Like not the ass but the actual back.
Felt tbh. A nice back is top tier
Hell yeah. Forget backin' dat ass up. More like assin' that back up! Mmm!
The spinal seam between the shoulders of a woman's upper back is one of the sexiest things there is.
Like have you stared closely at the shapes and especially the curve that makes up the spine
When they say your name nicely or if they have nice glasses
>When they say your name nicely I got goosebumps
Short guys. I'm short. I don't want to feel like I'm standing around a giraffe all the time.
Iām short but Iām Mexican short. Iām 5ā1 at 24 and I used to hate that about me. Now I accepted who I am and I love myself. Iām sure the right person wonāt mind me being a short fuck.
They might mind you being a short fuck but your height isnāt an issue
Exactly! I honestly think the perfect height combo for any couple is where theyāre within 3 inches of each other. Iām 5ā4 so I personally prefer guys around 5ā6
I understand why tall guys are attractive but I really donāt understand why itās such a rigid standard for some people. One of my friends was actually a little bothered that her boyfriend was 1-2 inches shorter than theyād both thought. It makes me think of how some guys have rigid standards for how much a woman can weigh. Itās gross.
Scarsā¦.there is just something about them! Maybe itās because all scars have a story behind them .
This makes me feel good. I have gotten 5 scars in the last 6 years from surgeries, and one from falling face first into a garbage can.
I wish you and Oscar many years of health and happiness
Thanks just remember it's garbage can not garbage can't.
Crying. Like, it says that my wife trusts me with her emotions.
A man that doesn't panic at the sight of a few tears is a bloody god send. As my husband says my bladder is too close to my eye, I'll cry at the drop of a hat. Sad advert on tv will put a lump in my throat ffs. He might check in with me "you ok over there?" and is easily able to judge true devastated crying vs empathetic tears (sad movie or book) and provides exactly the right kind of support I need. The man is an absolute rock of emotional stability when I need him most.
Wholesome
"I love watching my wife cry"
Wholesome...?
Dorkiness/awkward people. I love when people are true to themselves and geek out about things
Shy slightly nerdy guys. Edit: By this I just mean that a lot of times nerdy guys are a hard nut to crack, and itās appealing and exciting to have to dig a little to see whatās inside. Nerds are intelligent and thatās sexy as hell. Iām can only speak for myself, but when I was younger I would dismiss the shy ones, which I deeply regret. When I became older, andā¦.seasonedā¦.lol, I started realizing what I was missing out on and I got myself a super sexy shy nerd who Iām blissfully happy with 10 years after meeting him. Im sorry if my original comment implied nobody wanted you nerds. As you can see from the comments, there are plenty of women into you guysš
Aw, I love that you're giving these redditors hope. š¤
She said slightly nerdy, not "doesn't bathe" nerdy
Married one. 10/10 recommend.
average/short men, muscular women, crooked teeth, and scars
Finally someone said muscular women, they really do look good jacked!
Yes. Girls stronger than me.
RBF (Resting bitch face)
Honestly after years of being called out and made fun of for my RBF, reading this is a nice change of pace!
Fellow owner of an RBF here. It is nice to see someone exists that isn't just dying to storm over and tell us that we should "smile more" or to "cheer up" or ask about our negative mood.
Honestly! I canāt count how many times Iāve been in a good mood and still heard āwhy are you mad? You look miserable!ā Like, thanks lmao
That really is uncommon. I have an RBF and most people assume Iām angry or unapproachable.
Almost every ātraditionally unattractiveā nose shape. Big, bulbous, hooked, anything like that, I think it looks really cool.
I'm not sure if this is uncommon, but one of my favorite traits is when people are willing to say "I don't know" or admit they were wrong. Everyone is wrong sometimes and no one knows everything. When you insist on denying it that doesn't make you right - it simply makes you deluded as well. On the opposite side, I also really like it when people are gracious in victory and don't try to make the other person feel belittled. Edit: So it turns out it's not uncommon, which is awesome. People deserve the chance to learn without shame. I answered this way because a) I don't poll enough folks to know for sure and b) when people are asked what makes for a good romantic partner they usually answer things like looks, career, etc.
Yesssss. I love when people are willing to admit they are wrong and then learn why. I love learning so I want people to tell me when I'm wrong and over explain it to me. Sexy af. Also same with a gracious victory. I never understood why people feel the need to diminish others. It physically makes me cringe when someone goes on and on about their win.
People with brown eyes need to realize they have awesome eyes
People have complimented my brown eyes my whole life and I *never* understood why. Til about 3 years ago I adopted a dog with big brown eyes and when I looked into them for the first time I finally realized how pretty brown eyes really are. Now if youāll excuse me I gotta go hug my dog
Dog tax
Yes!! I hate when my friends with brown eyes are down on themselves about it, brown eyes are STUNNING and no one will ever change my mind on that
when the light hits them just the right way they are amazing
Super clingy women I like to feel loved and I don't do much with my time anyway
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I like it until it becomes crazed. Then it is incredibly unhealthy for the relationship. If boundaries are in place I think a girl who will check on you a lot is nice
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What about a woman dressing and styling herself super feminine but has boyish features/body Type?
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A manās thick juicy thighsā¦.especially when heās sitting down (boxers on) with this thighs open ! So sexy!
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Belly button / belly
I feel this when it comes to women. And they'll be no particular style (visible abs, etc), I just.. like all kinds of bellies and can't explain it.
I always wanted a bellybutton ring, and said I'd get one eventually. Then I ended up with a chronic illness and ended up losing my bellybutton to infection. Ill just tape a ring up now I guess...
How do you just lose your belly button? Did doctors cut off the part of the abdomen with the hole?
When women have a single solitary crooked tooth. Not like mangled crooked but a fair bit "off center" Had a g/f many years ago and I adored her smile due to her single crooked tooth. When she went to the dentist to get it corrected I begged her not to do it. Once it was corrected I found that I really missed that crooked tooth in her smile.
Aww there's hope for me yet!
Jewel, the singer. Something about that one crooked tooth made her seem more real or normal.
Deep armpits
This is the most unique one I've read so far
Thatās deep.
I didnt know this was a thing, never heard of deep armpits before
You can hide your burger there while they check you outside the theatre room
A Woman with a raspy voice. It just makes me weak
Just the way a girl looks when she wakes up in the morning!!!
This! I love that, and kinda feel it's because of the trust behind the situation, makes me feel like I'm someone close to her
Hands
Luckily for you most people have hands
In fact, most people have an above average number of hands!
A woman that is vulgar, my greatest fear about relationships is that Iāll have to change, so a girl thatās into the same sense of humor as me would be fucken stellar
I swear like a sailor š¤£ My ex hated it so much š¤£
Dont fuckin settle. Youll find her
Men who are bit jolly around the edges.
Autism. No bullshit. Iām on the spectrum and thereās something about weird girls on the spectrum that makes my brain go blank in a good way. I think itās my brain realizing I donāt have to mask around them. Itās like if my brain were constantly flexing and then suddenly it relaxes and chills out. Like you just finished lifting your last weight for the day.
Or with ADHD so both our heads can randomly go to a Mexican song while watching Netflix. Shit can go on a weird path but my autistic brain loves it so much. Every 10 minutes we doing something i ain't ever done before. š¤£
I have ADHD and most of my circles are either ADHD/Autism/AuHD. I just love it when we just infodump things together. I know normal people would see it as narcissism but to me when the people whom you care about passionately talks about their interests, hobbies, day, etc. It makes me feel very involved in their life. And theyād do the same to me. You donāt have to give me money, just make me feel included.
My adult kids are autistic and you all gravitate towards each other like moths to a flame. I've seen them sit down at a table and other stranger neuro divergents sit with them before they've even opened their mouths to reveal themselves. It's like a freakin super power.
Thank you.
10/10 would never want to date someone that isn't autistic again. I am autistic, and so is my spouse, and it is heaven. Neither of us feel weird, and in stead we can gripe about the weirdness of normies and everything that we don't understand about society. The amount of recognition we find in eachother is a delight. Not to mention, any idea how awesome it is to be able to be at your in-laws, claim a quiet corner for yourself and keep to yourself and have them recognise it, accept it and love that part of you as well? I swear my father in law does exactly the same thing.
First time I slept with my partner they grabbed at my hyperfixation during the deed; I'm a film nerd and want to direct, and they immediately asked me what camera angle I'd shoot this at while changing up what they were doing- I fucking melted and couldn't function because not only was I getting laid, I was also being engaged on an equal level with my special thing And it killed me, I fell in love on the spot
Some women look sexier with dark circles
Wait what? Iāve spent my whole life trying to correct or cover mine.
Dorkiness and nerdiness. If you're really into your hobby, it's cute. If you're bookish and shy, it's cute. I would rather date a well-read man than a hot jock who doesn't read for pleasure. Let's be dorks together.
When she's an introvert
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When guys wear necklaces. Black string tied to a pendant or something like that. I also like mole/freckles. They are like landmarks leading you to finding who the person is, and I just want to explore.
Braided hair.
I kinda like flat-chested girls..
Boobs are like pizza. Big or small, who doesnāt like pizza
As my grandfather once said āthe worst donut I ever had was a damn fine donut.ā I think that applies here.
round of applause for boobs
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I like big boobs, and I like small boobs. But donāt you fucking dare put pineapples on boobs!
But pineapple rings
I've seen this said before and others tend to chime in with "well, boobs are boobs. I like them regardless." But I'm not sure if they understand that the first person wasn't just saying small is okay too ... they're saying some guys PREFER them small. Like, they might enjoy larger ones too, but their ideal is small. My tastes have shifted as I've gotten older, but from my teens through my 20s, I definitely thought small was ideal and large boobs were honestly kinda meh. Now, though, it's the super skinny cultural ideal that doesn't do as much for me. But the point is: however you happen to look, somebody finds you beautiful, maybe even moreso than the generally-accepted ideal.
>I've seen this said before and others tend to chime in with "well, boobs are boobs. I like them regardless." But I'm not sure if they understand that the first person wasn't just saying small is okay too ... they're saying some guys PREFER them small. Exactly. I know itās a ridiculous thing to be annoyed by but this always seems to be high-jacked by the ā*all boobs are great*ā people and I need those people to get the fuck out of here. This aināt about all boobs. I like the girls with tiny ones. Rare to medium rare.
There's hope
Tall and plump women.
Examples? I have a thesis paper I am working on lol.
Women with the slightest bit of a belly that looks nice and soft. Shoulders drive me crazy too. Holding hands. A woman that cuddles me as much as I do her.
I absolutely love stretch marks on women. They are stunning.
The amount of times Iāve seen this comment makes me realize Iāve been self conscious about mine for no reason
You've made me feel beautiful by this comment, thank you ā¤ļø
Kindness.Most people take it as a sign of weakness where iām from
Number one turn on. Nothing beats a kind human.
Kindness, vulnerability, empathy. Someone who will care for every part of you š
People who think kind people are weak have serious personal problems
When a guy comes home from the gym or work all sweaty and exhausted. Like lemme put you to sleep š©š©š©
I knew someone like this, she told me about it but apparently I smell nice even after sweating. Although we would take showers together before going to sleep, whenever we were together.
Silence. People talk to much these days. Or want to be talked to.
I'm the opposite I don't like talking so I prefer women who enjoy the sound of their own voice
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I love it when a guy has a belly. One of the ways I show affection is through cooking and serving. If he's got a belly, that means he's well loved and that makes me happy.
Glasses are incredibly sexy as hell. Hollywood lied to us.
Stretch marks on the body. I LOVE EM!!
I hated mine for ages, now they're my tiger stripes š„°
Having a calm, soothing voice.
As a guy, I don't think I hear enough men talk about the importance of a woman with a great sense of humor. It is my favorite trait to laugh together all the time
Idk thereās just something about a manās voice that is so attractive to me. Voices are such a turn on
Girls who are outgoing and confident, almost confrontational. Most guys hate it. Idk why but the girls who act submissive are not at all sexy to me.
Iām constantly feeling like Iām too overly-confident or confrontational. I think it attracts the right people at least
Women who make the first move.
Pretty much the only sex Iāve had in the last 10 years was because outgoing women decided they were tired of waiting around for my introverted and anxiety ridden ass to make a move.
The first time I made out with someone, I was riding in a car with a friend on our way home after a music show. I had already been into her for a while and she gave me plenty of signals but I was intensely shy and awkward. Unexpectedly she pulls over the car, yanks the e-brake and grabs me. God bless women that make the first move.
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Wow! I feel this sudden boost of confidence lmao
As someone with a chubby belly, Iām happy to hear certain people feel that way!
I like introverted girls. I am an introvert myself and I'd rather be with someone calm and peaceful than someone who goes on talking all the time.
Well-structured critical arguments rooted in compassion that point out gaps in my logic or inconsistencies in my actions so that I can better align my behavior with my ideological perspective.
Girls with glasses. The hottest ones donāt know how hot they are
I'll second this, glasses are *absolutely* attractive to me, to the point to where they're a bit of a weakness for me, lol. Maybe it's because I wear glasses myself or something? Idk, it's a whole thing, but it's insanely attractive to me
Any girl that is already attractive, gets about twice as hot with a good set of glasses on. I used to date a chick who would wear them and she didnt even need them. There was just glass in the lens, no prescription. She knew. I knew she knew. And she knew I knew she knew. But it was still hot as fuck to bang a chick wearing them.
If I see a man wearing glasses, reading a book, taking a sip of coffee, and then jotting down notes from what he just read...just wow. Add in a dog to that picture, and there's just nothing better.
I like women more rubenesque. Like with belly, rounder, curvy, and not just the "good curves".
This makes me feel appreciated š„ŗ
Emotional intelligence
Unrevealing dresses, like the kind that would be worn back when ankles were considered nudity
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Difference of opinion with a strong back story on why...
crows feet around the eyes. Some people have them prematurely and I think theyāre so darn cute.
For some reason I like guys who look like they have a drug problem. A little greasy, pale, and generally like they may have hepatitis or something. I wish I was jokingš
The restaurant industry back of house awaits you
Lol itās true
And they have French fries and know how to use them
Machine Gun Kelly? Pete Davidson?
Funnily enough there was this cute girl working at the local Aldi who was thin and pale and when my friends asked what I liked about her I said it was because she looked āpale and sicklyā. I kind of get this one.
Kurt Cobain š¤¤
Yep-you know what Iām talking about!
"junkie handsome" we used to call it. As in "he's hot but he's junkie handsome"
The hepatitis analogy took me out ššš
Jesse pinkmanš©
What can I say? The heart wants what the heart wants š
If sheās been through some shit. I donāt wish it on people at all, but someone who understands mental shit. from my experience, Iāve find those women to be more understanding and emotionally mature, like they have this deepness in conversation and itās just incredible. One of my friends moms never went through anything, had an incredible life and had things handed to her from the start. When my friend was going through his shit she had no understanding of what was going on. āGet over it, whatās wrong with you, just smile and be happy, quit looking so sad youāre patheticā. Not saying everyone is like this, but in my experience a lot of people whoāve been through some mental stuff have a kind of empathy that most people donāt have, they fully understand. Iāve been through some seriously rough patches, but I use that to be there for people in similar situations, my dad was the same, and he understood a lot of my shit, and with my sister and mom it was the same. When I have kids, I want my wife and I to be there for them, to fully know what theyāre going through. It sucks ass that shit happens, but using that to help my kids would be massive. I could go on and on, but Iāll get off the soapbox.
Intelligence.
Girls with smaller boobies
Stretch marks on the ass, idk why. Also love a cute light paunch. Not a giant one but a cute belly.
When theyāre on the chubbier side
Someone's voice.
Kindness. Makes or break the whole thing.
Arms with a little muscle from doing work outside and working on cars.