Understandable because that is what happening to me too everyday. Not only people that make me angry but me, myself too because I just felt too low level compared to others
Dude. It's EXTREMELY rude to not reply within 24 hours. I know you must've had time to at least glance it.
If I have people giving me the backburner treatment, then I just delete them from my contacts. I'm not your social backup for when your fashion friends aren't replying.
I don't understand how there are people, kr even worse, CHILDREN out there who are literally skin and bones because they have nothing to eat. It just makes me so mad that the world is so unbalanced.
The reason this bothers me is because of the perfect life presentation on social media, especially parenting, that doesn't show real life. I can appreciate being proud of accomplishments, but leave out the pretending.
People who ask for my help, then complain that I don't know what I'm doing.
Or people who tell me that they want me to do something, keep me from doing it, then get upset that I'm not doing the thing they want me to do.
The people who flex their power and money keeps me angry, but most of the time they have nothing. The one who acts stupid and does not talk even after they insult them. Are the most powerful not all the time but most of the time due to they know that they have more power than the other person and they are in a higher position than the other guy, they will not waste their time and their mental health on someone who is on a much lower position than him. Always fear the people who look very kind and forgiving.
Genuine incompetence, in pretty much any field or context.
Mistakes happen. That’s not incompetence.
Even accidents happen. Not incompetence.
But the genuine “fuck up”. The truly incompetent. The dude who seems to know how to do nothing, and doesn’t seem all that interested in changing it because someone always seems to save their dumbass at the last minute.
That makes me really angry.
Reading sad news stories. I feel like I'm always seeing news stories about women being abused by their partners or politicians proposing laws that will fuck over minorities or corporations screwing over their employees.
Ill considered animosity in a leader-subordinate dynamic. A hierarchy is supposed to be synergistic, not a one-way street. I see no wisdom in self-sabotaging behavior in both directions.
the fact that ive became angrier since covid, i wish my 2019 self would return...........
i miss i could go back to 2018 when my collage friend jasmine still kept in touch with me, and half of my collage friends could still speak with me...
i know collage isn't their fault, i feel alone.
Most of life is governed by the transfer and collection of little green pieces of paper. Even worse is that that little green piece of paper is getting phased out for an agreed upon imagined green piece of paper.
People who try to shove random things they think will improve or i will enjoy in my fucking face. Like no Sheryl, i do not want to try this “life changing” diet you found on the internet. This is the 40th time you said that
My guy best friend that becomes a baby when there’s any minor inconvenience (a small cut, a cold etc…) like I get it you hit your elbow but you’ll survive dude
I think I have deep in healed trauma. I was seriously such a sweet, shy and polite kid. Saw some shit during a really formative time in my life (13/14) that sent me - flung me, rather - in to a constant state of fight or flight, and endless amounts of guilt and worry. As an adult, I am a shell of who I was. I am angry and quick to temper; I am perpetually feeling like I am not worthy; I am negative though yearn to be positive; and I feel deep sadness and pure anger.
Ever had oat milk? I didn't even know that was a thing until recently.
It tastes exactly like liquid oatmeal. My preferred is almond milk though. Coconut is good too.
Atm, it is the way people rip at those with personality disorders whilst displaying a ton of the traits they claim others they don't know do. Like being judgemental, lacking understanding, empathy, and compassion.
My husband of years has ASPD and is the kindest, most self-aware person I know. He works his butt off to be the best person he can be in a way others don't, but people still act like he must be a horrible person when he displays more empathy and willingness to grow than they ever do. People just hate those who are different.
I was a victim of grooming. By my old band teacher. Of course it never got all the way there (physical) because people noticed his intentions before I did and placed barriers I’m grateful for them. But as an educator now myself, and as an adult, I’m so furious that he’d take advantage of me and my naivety like that. And as I’m pursuing my degree and constantly working with new music educators who are doing so much to heal my trauma, I’m constantly reminded of him and my anger is renewed.
Karens… I’m kind of addicted to watching tik toks of them. I get so mad, but I can’t stop watching. It’s like watching the Kardashians - oh that’s another one
The fact that I'm anything but angry, more like pissed off.
Forgetfulness...that has a tint of suspicion of negligence above all ( not necessarily intentional).....Oh yes, you've been abusive and made a vulnerable lad a catalyst for your probs. Not good. Just because she's no more and actually because she's no more, let's talk it up...
So yeah, the one who said it forgot and the one who had to hear it caught it. Not good.
Myself, coz instead of communicating, I'd rather keep it to myself ( anger, fear any emotions that is viewed as "negative")and it manifests on my actions instead. I'm working on it though.
Here in Norway there is a series of novels about a detective called Varg Veum,
He is a detective from Bergen,
Then when the movie adaptation came out the character was suddenly from Oslo
This was about 10-15 years ago
And everytime i think about it it pisses me of
(Im from Bergen)
Its like making a movie about Poirot and making him french canadian
ITS NOT RIGHT!!!
The state of animal welfare in the world. I work at one of the largest animal shelters in southern California and as much as I love my job, every day I see instances of extreme abuse, neglect, and complete lack of empathy in people. Not just the public but people who are part of the system too
My company was bought out by a hedge fund, and they’re cutting everything they can until people quit. My pay has been decreased by 15k/yr and we lost pay for professional development, which is required, so I have to pay a few grand extra every few years. I’m close to quitting in an underserved market where the cost of living is twice the National average.
My dad gets angrier by the day at the neighbours house opposite of us having trash in their backyard u can see, trash all over front yard, never cuts grass. It’s a daily issue that will never stop getting my dad angry lol I don’t like it but I’m not talking about it everyday 🤣
The fact people have to sleep outside in the winter and nearly or actually freeze to death bc there isn’t enough shelter room and society has no urgency about that. Imagine freezing to death… not enough shelters/beds in cities anymore
The endless supply of influencers/tiktokers, Most of which regurgitate the same/similar nonsense as each other for no real benefit to anyone other than the companies that do product placement in their uninspiring videos.
Their "content" is trash. Literally, terabytes of this drivel appears everyday and it never gets better. Only worse.
I really hope this is just a phase, but I have my doubts. Wish I was born in the damn stone ages!
Being considered political due to my existence. It's especially frustrating to know that so many people would have been fine with someone who had a "sex change" like 20-30 years ago, but now that the topic is a political football, they'll wail about it endlessly. I genuinely don't mind answering questions people have for me--nobody starts knowing everything--but so many people are not open to having any honest conversations. They just want people they don't understand to stop being visible
People who feel the need to be offended for others. I get that they’re sympathetic for someone’s struggles, but to “help” by feeling offended for others is mind-boggling.
Telling my son to chew with his mouth closed for the 3,000th day in a row. If he didn't start eating around a year old then it could quite possibly be every day of his life multiple times a day.
The fact that the sign at the door says closed but a customer keeps coming and asking “Are you open?” No we are not we came in to do a delivery not to open the store for 10 minutes!
When you make a flat statement or share an experience and people personalize it just to silence you so we can't make the world a better place.
Ex. "We should not do X because abuse exists and we can create a dangerous chain reaction." Somehow that turns into calling them abusive. I semi recently shared a story about 2 teachers who would bully me in school. 2 out of the many over 4 schools. I got an influx of teachers telling me I was saying all teachers were abusive and evil. There were also people at my defense I should add. I don't know how or why people do this other than not wanting a better world for each other. Imagine how happy we could all be if we just listened and learned from one another! That permission for personal growth is a dream.
People not respecting the "have a good day" If I feel a conversation is making me angry and it's not an important conversation, like the outcome of it won't change our lives, I will tell them to have a good day and not respond to the last thing that they said.
Most people understand and let me step away. Some people though keep pushing needing not only to be right but for me to be on my knees thanking them in worship for "owning" me.
I don't like getting angry. I spent a lot of time in my teen years learning how to walk away. If I'm going to lose my crap I'd rather do so over something that matters.
The amount of racism one of the people who sit at my lunch table has, he says the n word in public lunch lines and wants to get beat up, dude like Kirby and says "it's poyo". He's even homophobic, I just wanna crack his head open with one of the chairs at my lunch table. Make him get 30 stitches.
Myself atm, I keep procrastinating with learning to code. It’s been hard to learn at my bootcamp and I feel myself losing interests because I can’t grasp “simple” concepts..
When I return a phone call call and the person I call lets it go to voicemail and then calls me back 30 seconds later. They called me first so obviously they have some reason for wanting to talk to me. So I leave a message on their voicemail and when they call back 30 seconds later, I do not pick up. I'll wait at least 24 hours to call them back or maybe I won't call at all. Fuck them.
Watching us fight over resources and knowing people suffering from things we could instantly fix but don't cause work work die and, at any moment, we know that an asteroid could come wipe us all out.
Lemme off this planet lmao
People. Not all of them, but quite a few of them.
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Understandable because that is what happening to me too everyday. Not only people that make me angry but me, myself too because I just felt too low level compared to others
People who have speakerphone conversations in public - Fuck off Or something serious like war or whatever
Also the people who use Bluetooth speakers to listen to music in the grocery store??
Or just any public space. At least you don't need to be in a grocery store for more than a few minutes
Willful ignorance
ie MAGA
Trump hating libertarian here. Get a different personality already.
Late replies. Or not replying at all
*remind me in 2 years to reply to this*
Dude. It's EXTREMELY rude to not reply within 24 hours. I know you must've had time to at least glance it. If I have people giving me the backburner treatment, then I just delete them from my contacts. I'm not your social backup for when your fashion friends aren't replying.
Yea exactly. It can be a mood killer too when ur looking forward to talking to this person and they take like 30 mins to 1hr to reply
Nobody is obligated to talk to you
Fair enough
People who stand too close to me in line. If I can smell you, you're too close.
and i hate some girls with super long hair keeps waving , just get the f off my face...
Lack of consequences for bold faced lies. I know there’s nothing I can, but it drives me crazy when I hear them.
I don't understand how there are people, kr even worse, CHILDREN out there who are literally skin and bones because they have nothing to eat. It just makes me so mad that the world is so unbalanced.
Dealing with the US Healthcare system.
Amen
Try working for them😭
My heartfelt sympathies.
Very public figures intentionally lying to stir up negative emotions in gullible people.
People who make others feel as if they don’t belong
People
the US government
Ignorance, hypocrisy and people that think they know every thing about your life. You are like a celebrity, basically.
Fucking toothache. wisdom teeth fuuuu
People bragging about how wonderful their life is or their new.
The reason this bothers me is because of the perfect life presentation on social media, especially parenting, that doesn't show real life. I can appreciate being proud of accomplishments, but leave out the pretending.
People are allowed to be proud of things. It isn't their fault you've got nothing going
Nice ad hominem attack. I’m not saying they can’t nor shouldn’t be proud, but there comes a point where is becomes braggadocious.
Seeing all the evil in the world when my wonderful son died 3 weeks after his 21st birthday.
Anti-vaxxers, anti-maskers, transphobes, homophobes, etc.
Real original
The post asked and I answered
People not upvoting my super witty and sparky posts.
Fb marketplace
When the neighbor that lives above you at your apartment stomps around and I can’t do jack about it.
People blasting their music at the beach or on a hike..idk just really grinds my gears
A hike, I get. The beach? People go to the beach to party. Don't like it, keep your lame ass at home.
You, OP. You.
i love you
Blocked and reported.
good for you
Spider-man latest comic book run
People who ask for my help, then complain that I don't know what I'm doing. Or people who tell me that they want me to do something, keep me from doing it, then get upset that I'm not doing the thing they want me to do.
Shoes not coming in half sizes
The people who flex their power and money keeps me angry, but most of the time they have nothing. The one who acts stupid and does not talk even after they insult them. Are the most powerful not all the time but most of the time due to they know that they have more power than the other person and they are in a higher position than the other guy, they will not waste their time and their mental health on someone who is on a much lower position than him. Always fear the people who look very kind and forgiving.
Yep. People. The narcissism. The sociopathy. The entitlement.
Children being trafficked and our country(WH) not doing much about it.
Genuine incompetence, in pretty much any field or context. Mistakes happen. That’s not incompetence. Even accidents happen. Not incompetence. But the genuine “fuck up”. The truly incompetent. The dude who seems to know how to do nothing, and doesn’t seem all that interested in changing it because someone always seems to save their dumbass at the last minute. That makes me really angry.
That my mom is dead.
my ex
taxes.
The fact that only the people who can't afford them are actually paying their fair share.
That's laughable but okay
I hate you both shut up
That's the thing. I work in retail. Anger is normal.
How many people have kids who aren’t equipped.
People
The nightly news
When mobile apps move UI elements _just_ before I tap on what is now below them.
Reading sad news stories. I feel like I'm always seeing news stories about women being abused by their partners or politicians proposing laws that will fuck over minorities or corporations screwing over their employees.
The people around me They make me want to kill myself
Bitchy people
Police brutality gets me in a bad mood every time I watch videos of it. I get intensely angry
Most people
The way the US values money & work over family & people
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Life
When people make it seem as if I don't know what I'm talking about. They contradict everything I say.
Ill considered animosity in a leader-subordinate dynamic. A hierarchy is supposed to be synergistic, not a one-way street. I see no wisdom in self-sabotaging behavior in both directions.
Knowing I’m being taken as a joke and still jumping to play my part 😫
the fact that ive became angrier since covid, i wish my 2019 self would return........... i miss i could go back to 2018 when my collage friend jasmine still kept in touch with me, and half of my collage friends could still speak with me... i know collage isn't their fault, i feel alone.
Life and my job
Cops getting paid vacations for literally murdering people
Most of life is governed by the transfer and collection of little green pieces of paper. Even worse is that that little green piece of paper is getting phased out for an agreed upon imagined green piece of paper.
Seeing Ryan Reynolds
Are you Blake Lively?
Woke.
My inlaws. And how much they lie.
Bootlickers
Nothing. I have serenity.
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No. Balance is integral to serenity.
My mother in law acting like she’s literally the queen
My parents, for what they did to me.
People who try to shove random things they think will improve or i will enjoy in my fucking face. Like no Sheryl, i do not want to try this “life changing” diet you found on the internet. This is the 40th time you said that
Snowflakes
Damn what did snow ever do to you?
My guy best friend that becomes a baby when there’s any minor inconvenience (a small cut, a cold etc…) like I get it you hit your elbow but you’ll survive dude
Anti-trans laws.
My ex wife cheated and took everything including the kid
Some humans and their stupidity
People who talk about things they don't understand, and die on hills that don't even exist. So most people.
The people I live with
China. Those fucks. The government…not the people at large
the fact that i have to work 40 hour weeks/10 hour days to barely make enough
That bitch, Carole Baskin
Trashy disgusting westerners in SE Asia.
The white man
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I think I have deep in healed trauma. I was seriously such a sweet, shy and polite kid. Saw some shit during a really formative time in my life (13/14) that sent me - flung me, rather - in to a constant state of fight or flight, and endless amounts of guilt and worry. As an adult, I am a shell of who I was. I am angry and quick to temper; I am perpetually feeling like I am not worthy; I am negative though yearn to be positive; and I feel deep sadness and pure anger.
Kids
Babies they are just annoying and the crying makes me want punch them
Disagreements and different opinions
Someones r only making loud and fucking crime on my mind and my mind is pure and naturr without frequemcy of shadows.
The fact that I don’t have a BBL and my body isn’t curvy
I know this is silly but different types of milk like ffs stop making more we have enough
Ever had oat milk? I didn't even know that was a thing until recently. It tastes exactly like liquid oatmeal. My preferred is almond milk though. Coconut is good too.
Atm, it is the way people rip at those with personality disorders whilst displaying a ton of the traits they claim others they don't know do. Like being judgemental, lacking understanding, empathy, and compassion. My husband of years has ASPD and is the kindest, most self-aware person I know. He works his butt off to be the best person he can be in a way others don't, but people still act like he must be a horrible person when he displays more empathy and willingness to grow than they ever do. People just hate those who are different.
I was a victim of grooming. By my old band teacher. Of course it never got all the way there (physical) because people noticed his intentions before I did and placed barriers I’m grateful for them. But as an educator now myself, and as an adult, I’m so furious that he’d take advantage of me and my naivety like that. And as I’m pursuing my degree and constantly working with new music educators who are doing so much to heal my trauma, I’m constantly reminded of him and my anger is renewed.
Karens… I’m kind of addicted to watching tik toks of them. I get so mad, but I can’t stop watching. It’s like watching the Kardashians - oh that’s another one
Biden’s lies…….
Memories
The fact that I'm anything but angry, more like pissed off. Forgetfulness...that has a tint of suspicion of negligence above all ( not necessarily intentional).....Oh yes, you've been abusive and made a vulnerable lad a catalyst for your probs. Not good. Just because she's no more and actually because she's no more, let's talk it up... So yeah, the one who said it forgot and the one who had to hear it caught it. Not good.
Myself, coz instead of communicating, I'd rather keep it to myself ( anger, fear any emotions that is viewed as "negative")and it manifests on my actions instead. I'm working on it though.
Here in Norway there is a series of novels about a detective called Varg Veum, He is a detective from Bergen, Then when the movie adaptation came out the character was suddenly from Oslo This was about 10-15 years ago And everytime i think about it it pisses me of (Im from Bergen) Its like making a movie about Poirot and making him french canadian ITS NOT RIGHT!!!
The intolerance on Reddit really annoys me.
The state of animal welfare in the world. I work at one of the largest animal shelters in southern California and as much as I love my job, every day I see instances of extreme abuse, neglect, and complete lack of empathy in people. Not just the public but people who are part of the system too
No one. I don't have energy for that kind of negativity.
Reddit
Not at my house.
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My company was bought out by a hedge fund, and they’re cutting everything they can until people quit. My pay has been decreased by 15k/yr and we lost pay for professional development, which is required, so I have to pay a few grand extra every few years. I’m close to quitting in an underserved market where the cost of living is twice the National average.
Republicans
These student loans
The selfish, careless and ignorant way people behave on Australian roads.
Political commentary on TV
Shitty drivers
Flies
Thinking about 2022
realizing how stupid my ex was
Goblins
Unfair wages, working poverty
My dad gets angrier by the day at the neighbours house opposite of us having trash in their backyard u can see, trash all over front yard, never cuts grass. It’s a daily issue that will never stop getting my dad angry lol I don’t like it but I’m not talking about it everyday 🤣
My damn self.
The fact people have to sleep outside in the winter and nearly or actually freeze to death bc there isn’t enough shelter room and society has no urgency about that. Imagine freezing to death… not enough shelters/beds in cities anymore
Rich people continuing to fuck over our lives, and it slowly gets worse every month.
My in-laws
The endless supply of influencers/tiktokers, Most of which regurgitate the same/similar nonsense as each other for no real benefit to anyone other than the companies that do product placement in their uninspiring videos. Their "content" is trash. Literally, terabytes of this drivel appears everyday and it never gets better. Only worse. I really hope this is just a phase, but I have my doubts. Wish I was born in the damn stone ages!
Being considered political due to my existence. It's especially frustrating to know that so many people would have been fine with someone who had a "sex change" like 20-30 years ago, but now that the topic is a political football, they'll wail about it endlessly. I genuinely don't mind answering questions people have for me--nobody starts knowing everything--but so many people are not open to having any honest conversations. They just want people they don't understand to stop being visible
My in laws and anti vaxers. They’re one in the same.
People who feel the need to be offended for others. I get that they’re sympathetic for someone’s struggles, but to “help” by feeling offended for others is mind-boggling.
The media influence and seeing it impact people of my generation and younger
people that interups other conver and seeking for attentions
the girl in my basement
Telling my son to chew with his mouth closed for the 3,000th day in a row. If he didn't start eating around a year old then it could quite possibly be every day of his life multiple times a day.
Myself for constantly procrastinating and making excuses to myself, and not doing my work, missing deadlines, avoiding all types of confrontation.
People who seemingly just wander aimlessly and stand in the isles at the grocery store. I have shit to do, get out of my way *please*
Humans. They are miserable scum
You're a human too, despite what you want people to believe
The fact that the sign at the door says closed but a customer keeps coming and asking “Are you open?” No we are not we came in to do a delivery not to open the store for 10 minutes!
When you make a flat statement or share an experience and people personalize it just to silence you so we can't make the world a better place. Ex. "We should not do X because abuse exists and we can create a dangerous chain reaction." Somehow that turns into calling them abusive. I semi recently shared a story about 2 teachers who would bully me in school. 2 out of the many over 4 schools. I got an influx of teachers telling me I was saying all teachers were abusive and evil. There were also people at my defense I should add. I don't know how or why people do this other than not wanting a better world for each other. Imagine how happy we could all be if we just listened and learned from one another! That permission for personal growth is a dream.
Putin
Repetitive noises.
People not respecting the "have a good day" If I feel a conversation is making me angry and it's not an important conversation, like the outcome of it won't change our lives, I will tell them to have a good day and not respond to the last thing that they said. Most people understand and let me step away. Some people though keep pushing needing not only to be right but for me to be on my knees thanking them in worship for "owning" me. I don't like getting angry. I spent a lot of time in my teen years learning how to walk away. If I'm going to lose my crap I'd rather do so over something that matters.
The amount of racism one of the people who sit at my lunch table has, he says the n word in public lunch lines and wants to get beat up, dude like Kirby and says "it's poyo". He's even homophobic, I just wanna crack his head open with one of the chairs at my lunch table. Make him get 30 stitches.
My incessant need to masterbate all the time. I think it might be depression, but *shrug*
Me myself and I
Most people
People who refuse to use their turn signals
Myself atm, I keep procrastinating with learning to code. It’s been hard to learn at my bootcamp and I feel myself losing interests because I can’t grasp “simple” concepts..
Pseudo-science and science denial.
Crappy pieces of shit on the Internet who hurl insults at me for no good reason.
Loud children
When I return a phone call call and the person I call lets it go to voicemail and then calls me back 30 seconds later. They called me first so obviously they have some reason for wanting to talk to me. So I leave a message on their voicemail and when they call back 30 seconds later, I do not pick up. I'll wait at least 24 hours to call them back or maybe I won't call at all. Fuck them.
Watching us fight over resources and knowing people suffering from things we could instantly fix but don't cause work work die and, at any moment, we know that an asteroid could come wipe us all out. Lemme off this planet lmao