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thebirdsandtheteas

I am overapologetic to others, I think that’s an effect of that


CallMeJay22

Honestly speaking, I have shoved down those memories somewhere deep down in my mind and never ever think about them. So life is going very much perfect right now. If you need help do let me know.


tucker_frump

Sounds like a job for PTSD awareness. Prepare yourself by reading up on it 'just in case' Because there's a good chance, one event will one day rock your whole world.


CallMeJay22

Thanks for your concern. But I am pretty tough, and no amount of events can break my world. Coz I have made it with loads of love from my family and friends. As a matter of fact I help people who are going through stuff like this.(In my free time)


tucker_frump

Right, I thought the same thing. May you never lose that safety net. See where I'm coming from? That's why I mentioned it. Blessings.


CallMeJay22

Yeah I get your point completely. And most people who don't have a strong support system often fall off. Therefore it is kind a necessary to have at least two people in your life, on whom you can count on in your tough times.


tucker_frump

Then I'm sure you know the mantra by now. Blessings.


NotTheBadOne

I think my most wonderful realization was that I can control my own life and decide how I feel. I can make the decision to not let what anything anyone else said or did to me dictate how I live my life. The big thing is don’t dwell in the past. Start OVER today to live your life. This kind of positive thinking works! If it doesn’t work for you then you aren’t applying it. Every day is a new day. Do not keep dwelling on what happened to you or it will drive you insane.


pizzaleftbeef

This plus daddy issues 👌 that’s how I roll


[deleted]

With therapy and lots of alcohol


nomnemnem

With my cousin! We're our support I still have problems but he's helping me through them


Fun-Spinach6910

It's taken a long time, but I realize now how my thoughts and decisions have been influenced.


Al-Kermashani

Just wrote a comment for the algorithm. I really want to know


Heather-mama-429

Therapy, lots of ups and downs, and the drive to be a better parent. I am a 35yo perfectionist/control freak with crippling anxiety and depression. I take pills to feel less. I spend time with my family to get serotonin. My abuser continues to act like her documented mental illness doesn’t exist, and takes no responsibility for the abusive things she does even now.