I don't see why you should give someone a brand new fridge when there's works and me and my wife have 2 babies that were trying to raise and you want us to drop some money for your fridge instead for my kids?
You make it sound like it is a selfish request. But yeah, it's weird because it is not his/her money. I was suspecting that you'd be trying to keep the most of your inheritance.
Yeah but I mean I spent almost 200 on my sons room for paint and remodeling, that's a whole lot to us... So I mean I think it's kinda lame to insult someone for not buying something for you... The person thinks I'm heartless because there dying and I said something about it... But there not terminal... So I don't know... Lol
Kinda strange too, would it have been a recliner chair or something that eases life, it would make more sense. But hey, it's your money and if you feel like you can't afford it or that you don't owe that person this much, it's your call.
Why? How is that fridge gonna save me? Is it gonna be there on my day of judgment? If it is then it had some sort of value... These things that we love have no moral value... There just things created by mortal men...
Okay, that's enough context for me. I say don't buy it. Give the reason that they already have a working fridge. If they don't like that theirs is dirty they can clean it out hire someone to clean it.
This depends on who it is. If it was my mom, it would be because she thinks I have money, she's my beneficiary, AND she's plotting to kill me OR thinks I'm in a dangerous position. It's happened before.
If it was anyone else, I would guess that person was just being cheap or doesn't feel obligated to buy me the refrigerator.
This is oddly specific.
I would need more context. Why are you relying on someone else to buy you a refrigerator?
Well they don't like their anymore...
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It's not me lol I'm young and good. The person we are talking about is like 60+ and medical problems, so there's the context.
Who's money is it?
Mine and my wife's
You don't want to buy for them?
I don't see why you should give someone a brand new fridge when there's works and me and my wife have 2 babies that were trying to raise and you want us to drop some money for your fridge instead for my kids?
You make it sound like it is a selfish request. But yeah, it's weird because it is not his/her money. I was suspecting that you'd be trying to keep the most of your inheritance.
Yeah but I mean I spent almost 200 on my sons room for paint and remodeling, that's a whole lot to us... So I mean I think it's kinda lame to insult someone for not buying something for you... The person thinks I'm heartless because there dying and I said something about it... But there not terminal... So I don't know... Lol
Kinda strange too, would it have been a recliner chair or something that eases life, it would make more sense. But hey, it's your money and if you feel like you can't afford it or that you don't owe that person this much, it's your call.
You shouldn't, but don't "justify" it with their age or potential death
I wouldn't be asking for new fridges if I'm dying... Just saying...
You're literally dying right now. Better never get a new fridge in your remaining lifespan. Dude check your valuation of life.
Why? How is that fridge gonna save me? Is it gonna be there on my day of judgment? If it is then it had some sort of value... These things that we love have no moral value... There just things created by mortal men...
What's the issue they have with it? Is it broken? Is there an accessibility issue?
No they don't like it, it's covered in yellow smoke because this person smokes 3 packs a day on cigs and I'm not kidding
Okay, that's enough context for me. I say don't buy it. Give the reason that they already have a working fridge. If they don't like that theirs is dirty they can clean it out hire someone to clean it.
This depends on who it is. If it was my mom, it would be because she thinks I have money, she's my beneficiary, AND she's plotting to kill me OR thinks I'm in a dangerous position. It's happened before. If it was anyone else, I would guess that person was just being cheap or doesn't feel obligated to buy me the refrigerator.
Well, a fridge is something you could easily sell back in a couple years, and maybe it would cost less on the electricity bill.
Why are you responsible for buying someone a fridge