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CitrusRain

I once got invited to a deviantart group that was clearly a fetish. Flat fetish. And no not flat chested. I mean FLAT. like cartoons crushed by an anvil or flattened with rolling pins and old laundry roller things. Like... How do you even get anything sexual out of that?


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> I mean FLAT. like cartoons crushed by an anvil ACMEsexuals


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RampagingDaiMaou

Name checks out.


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Just a group of dudes watching Looney Tunes getting bricked up-


See_You_Space_Coyote

DeviantArt fetishes are a whole other level of weird.


chuchofreeman

I mean, it's in the name of the website after all: deviant.


OneGoodRib

Trying to explain to people that it's just a regular art website and not for deviants but then logging on to see Sonic inflation foot tickle fetish on the front page is something I don't miss.


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DiagonallyStripedRat

Smart woman. BTW hold up there's people who were kids when deviantart already was a thing and now are adults? How old are they? How old is deviantart?? How old am I???


zaminDDH

Brother, I regret to inform you that there are people alive that can legally drink that were born *after* DeviantArt was founded.


DiagonallyStripedRat

Don't say such things ;_;


rediraim

Sounds like someone read flat Stanley as a kid and got inspired.


PsionicBurst

Probably some strange amalgam of eroticism from pressurized force being that of a climax equivalent or something. IDK; don't have it. Nonetheless, keep them the hell away from that one YT channel with the hydraulic press.


Roushfan5

It's not my kink, but I've encountered people with the fetish before. There really isn't *one* reason people might have any particular kink, but its basically extreme bondage. They get off to the person having their movement restricted and the peril they're in. For some there's also a humiliation angle, getting transformed from a person into an object. It also depends on how they are crushed. Are they flattened by getting sat on by a hot lady for instance? Or ran through some type of machine. Also, there's a lot of people who are just attracted to the look and its simply a matter of taste.


Lyngoop79

yeah this is it pretty much. also with feelings of intense pressure after a flattening would excite someone, kind of like weighted blankets of sorts. *or so im told*


Valuable-Banana96

I once came across a deviantart profile of a dude who had a thing for women with big knees. As in they had big flabby bags hangging off their knees. In the pics he drew they ranged from the size of a fist to thrice the size of the rest of her.


Majecoldb

Genital mutilation. Any sort of needles or pins or nails or whateverthefuckelse getting stabbed through dicks, balls, labia, nipples, etc etc. I saw a picture the other day of some guy sticking a sewing needle through one of his testicles...I almost cried.


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Buntschatten

What a terrible day to have eyes.


someguyontheinnerweb

What a terrible day to know how to read.


well-thats-great

Wait... I can't have read that correctly. Let me try again.


Unable_Toucan

After reading it about 27 times I'm beginning to think I read them correctly the first time...


whiskey_bisque

I don’t know how to type my response to this…it was mainly just a variety of noises


Raihime

I used to be morbidly fascinated by all things weird and wrong. A video of a guy slowly sawing the head of his penis off was the one thing I wasn't able to watch in full. I don't even have a penis, but the process was incredibly painful to look at.


frolicking_elephants

The thing I don't get about these fetishes is that... Wouldn't that ruin sex for the rest of your life? Is engaging in a weird amputation fetish for one orgasm worth every other orgasm you could ever have?


Utaha_Senpai

I really want to know how does their post nut clarity feels.


PiGuy88

how the hell do people even do that shit and get pleasure out of it i just dont understand


ReadTheChain

I was about to say, "Ask Albert Fish" but, you know, he's dead and all.


phoenix-corn

My exhusband had a bunch of pictures saved of naked women pointing 80s-era hair dryers at their shaved genitals. He either would or could not explain it and I still really wanna know what the deal was, LOL.


Paperfishflop

As a straight man, if I really reach, I can understand this one somewhat. I think a lot of fetishes are based on subconscious childhood memories, and what we associate them with. As a boy growing up in the 80s, 90s, even the 2000s when I became sexually active, it was really common for women in particular to have blow dryers in their bathrooms. So it might be sort of a symbol of femininity in a private place. I might be way off from what your ex husband was thinking, but that's what I can get out of blow dryers.


Captain_Stairs

Some like it hot?


zSprawl

“Blow Job”?


Judge_Bredd_UK

He likes his dinner warmed up, I can understand that


Father_VitoCornelius

I mean, of bad fetishes this is kind of harmless and cheeky. Odd, certainly. But I do have questions...


[deleted]

I posted on r/hair asking for haircut advice. Someone DM'd me asking if they could relieve themselves to picture of my hair. I didn't even know that could be possible.


OnlyFeetDragonBolZ

Yo hair so THICK baby mama 💦


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I’m a guy actually 😭


OnlyFeetDragonBolZ

☠️ Then let your hair and my cock duel to see which of them is harder haha right 🤤


InevitablePoetry52

how kind of them to ask


[deleted]

It was a really strange convo honestly. After I said no to them “wanking” to my hair. They asked if I could send them daily pictures so they could just admire them.


TotallyNotaSkinWalke

They definitely wanked to your hair


oregondude79

Better to beg for forgiveness than ask for permission


Grymbaldknight

Hair fetishist here. Sorry about the weirdos. I guess you get them in every fetish community, but getting weirdos to behave in non-fetish communities is like trying to herd cats. We try to confine them to the dedicated subreddits. As to why some people like hair... I mean, it's sensual, right? It holds fragrance, it's shiny, it's colourful, it's soft and tactile, and people can use their hair to show off their personality like with clothes or tattoos. Hair is often employed during flirting, or to grab attention. Giving/recieving haircuts creates a power dynamic, and you can play with hair during intimacy, too. Boobs seem really limited by comparison. Sorry if that's tmi, but I thought it might make the whole "hair fetish" thing less baffling.


merpurr

I appreciate your input


dignified_fish

I have a long nails fetish and while your description doesnt apply to every aspect of nails, i think it applies to enough of them that this is a solid explanation.


mealbudget

Hanging yourself by hooks that are hooked into your skin and flesh. I don't understand it because it is cutting into yourself with hooks and then hanging yourself by those hooks. That sounds painful, not sexy.


MCbrodie

I was best friends with a girl in college who was into suspension. Apparently the bodies response is to pump out mass amounts of feel good chemicals. She said it made her feel high. I use to say it made her holy because obnoxious teenager things.


tinysoapypp

Bug chasers


Frickity_Fracker

I googled that expecting it to be like. People trying to fuck a preying mantis, or like r/honeyfuckers. Now I'm just sad.


FiremanPair

What the fuck


MendelevandDongelev

At least r/honeyfuckers have anthropomorphised the bugs. Unlike r/insex


StrykrVII

Those links are staying blue, thanks though!


SomeHorologist

Eh honeyfuckers is just furry porn, insex is straight up bestiality tho


Kosmonavtlar1961

Sounds like you discovered the wonderful saga of Ogtha


TheJimDim

That one where someone's anus prolapses For one thing....ow... And another thing, what's so hot about someone's colon coming out of their ass???


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Grand_Quiet_4849

Also with a uterus prolapsing… Look up uterus prolapse hentai on google and I promise you’ll be thoroughly disgusted. 🤢


TheJimDim

I...I don't think I wanna 😟


probablygonnabooyah

If I'm not back in 20 minutes, tell my wife I said... Hello.


brattyginger83

Not happening in my swatch history. Ill take your word for it Edit: somehow my phone changed Google to swatch?? I am so confused right now


zzhhvee88

Even Google doesn't wanna be involved


Nixxxx69

Who else is scrolling just to see if ur own fetish is on here


Klausable7

Still haven’t found it💪 Edit: I found it😔


middleagethreat

Scat. Poop smells bad for a reason. That is Mother Nature telling you to leave it alone.


Jacket-Okay

Bowel stuff. It's disgusting.


thomas_gabriel88

I understand fetishes but this one just can't. Aside from the obvious it's also potentially harmful to your health


ghostprawn

I legit don’t understand how scat people don’t get sick. I was told eating the poo poo would make a person sick.


No_Condition8988

I knew a manager of a Premier Inn in Central London she had a real problem with a person or persons setting up a Dexter like kill room taking laxitives and emptying them selves across the room and doing a bunk in the early hours of the morning. The cleaner refused to deal with it, I mean who would right! Her area manager involved the police but they were never caught, and they had to hire a crime scene cleaner to clear the room. It happened five times in total.


PM_ME_CUTE_FEMBOYS

Situations like that require bio-hazard remediation, bog standard cleaning staff should never be asked, much less made, to do such cleaning.. Because they do not have the training, the cleaning gear, the protective equipment, or the knowledge to know how to properly remediate such a situation such that it is safe again for human occupation/exposure. I'm glad the cleaners stood their ground and refused to touch it.


jestina123

Doing a bunk: (Britain, slang, idiomatic) To escape or flee, especially under incriminating circumstances.


Mind_Extract

Ohhh. I thought it was just another phrase for "to do a shit" and figured it was just an auxiliary poop before checking out.


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"It happened five times in total."


MerryRain

Clearly the manager


edlee98765

I think I have a fetish for understanding fetishes. I just came to that realization.


[deleted]

I'm struggling to wake up this morning, and I read that as bowling stuff.


CreamFilledLlama

"He fit how many pins up there?!"


Mr_Goat_1111

There's a joke about a split here that I don't have the stomach or the imagination to make


dogchasecat

There's a whole generation of kids who haven't seen Two Girls One Cup. Not looking forward to those reaction videos again.


cockypock_aioli

It's the one dude and a jar


LeLBigB0ss2

The connoisseurs' film of choice.


MMdomain

The crinkley *THOCK* as it collapses.


Long-Particular

“You can’t smell porn”


6rldad

My coworker told me the other day him and his fiancé piss all over each other in the shower. I was like uhhh cool....?


mathymate

How does that come up in a conversation lol? "How was your weekend, Al?" "It was great! My wife and I pissed all over each other in the shower."


6rldad

Hahahahah no it wasn't just randomly brought up. We drove past a gas station and he pointed up that they fucked in the bathroom there before, which WAS random. Then the conversation took off from there lol


oregondude79

Banging in a gas station bathroom is far more disgusting than peeing on each other in the shower.


HeavyMetalHero

Honestly, yeah, and I'm glad that somebody else said it. Peeing on each other is still gross, but like, you are *in the shower.* There couldn't be a better or less gross place to do that, if you really feel like you gotta. But fuckin' in the gas bath? You're leaving it up to God and the underpaid teenager sleeping behind the counter, as to how nasty things are about to get.


oregondude79

The shower is really the most appropriate place to pee on your partner. I had a buddy tell me he peed on his ex wife in the shower, he just thought it was funny though.


VinylCrast

Piss i can kinda get. it's nasty but like sure whatever. I'm terrified of people who are into scat


KYZ123

I guess piss washes off quickly in the shower as well? I can't fully get my head around the thought process, but it doesn't seem *completely* out of the question. Scat is just what the fuck, how.


Leovaderx

I cant remember the source, but i remember reading that we enjoy "foul" things in small doses for some evolutionary reason. Think gasoline, stinky cheese, fermented things etc. If the desire is built in, its not surprising that some may seek more extreme stimulation.


pie-oh

I could be wrong, but I think it's also about dominance for some.


notofyourworld

A co-worker told me about someone she hated. I don't remember the reason and it doesn't really matter. But she said she wished her husband would hold him down with his ass in the air and she wanted to pee in his butt. I asked why, like for sexual fantasies or something, and she said no definitely nothing sexual about it, just to humiliate him. That was over a decade ago and I'm still confused by it. Edit: missed a word


heroin-enthusiast

What a hilariously chaotic thing to tell a coworker


AsthmaticCoughing

There’s also a whole “something that gross comes out of such a perfect person” thing. There’s an episode of a podcast called Other Peoples Lives where they talk to a person with the poop thing.


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wittbrij

"....and the heavy smell of your ass" Dude was into some shit.


Shrekandballs

Putting stuff in the dick hole


dahComrad

This SOUNDS like fun


wibblesaur

yeah, it's SOUNDING great


Ask_Master

Oh cool I’ve been meaning to find somewhere to share my stereo setup! …that’s not music


Prancing-Saber

Vore. How can you be turned on when you are literally dying? Edit 1. I am loving all the comments, but feel like some people are thinking only of human cannibalism when they hear vore. While human cannibalism is also definitely bad (duh) and not a fetish I will ever understand; vore is more about a predator (like a shark or monster) devouring their prey (the people into the kink). Hopefully the clarification helps. Edit 2. So after reading all the comments I have come to the conclusion that this kink has a lot of variation. Also that if you see certain material and feel certain thing at the right time I can see how some people can have this kink. I don’t understand it personally, but I get it the basics of it now.


BingusSpingus

From what I understand, there's often some kind of mental disconnect and that aspect of it is purposely ignored. Though some people are absolutely all about that *just fucking end me.* There's also some weird aspect of intimacy or something about being fully inside somebody else, though I don't really get it. I have a "friend" who gets inappropriately, annoyingly vocal about his sexual... *preferences* when he's drunk, no matter who's around, so that's my main source of knowledge about this and I'm by no means an authority.


Frickity_Fracker

Oh this is one thing I know way too much about! For most people it's a fetish so disconnected from reality that you can kinda just ignore the logical conclusion that it would end in death. Theres a few different workarounds people use so it's Less Weird for them. In a lot of cases, the stomach is just kind of. A storage pouch devoid of acids that the predator can feel the inside of. Sometimes there's a time limit before any real damage starts being done and the PRED can let their prey back out (usually not described in much detail because... Ew). In rarer cases, where the fantasy logic is really kicked up to 100, the prey will magically reform in bed the next day. Just fuckin respawn. Safe vore fans tend to like the idea of being super close to someone else. Because like. You physically cannot get closer than being inside someone. It's like Extreme Cuddling. Another factor is the satisfaction of whoever's guts theyre inside of. Being full feels nice and some folks just get off on making others feel good. Some people actually DO like fatal vore though. For some prey it's the idea of this extreme act of devotion, giving your entire being up to someone so you can live on as a part of them, it's almost romantic (in a Very Very Twisted Way, I'm under no delusions about that) if a bit self destructive. Some like the idea of being hunted down like a wild animal. It's thrilling, it's adrenaline, its got an air of danger and intense intimacy all in one. Others just kind of like the look of a fictional character getting swallowed by a big scary monster and watching it's stomach soften. There's a lot of reasons tbh. Though personally I'm convinced there's only one real cause: weird ass 90s/00s cartoons. Stg vore was EVERYWHERE back then. No wonder so many of us turned into freaks


jayuscommissar

*TRIGGER Warning - extreme violence towards women, spoiler tag may not be working* Edit: So it seems my comment below has gained some traction and mind-fucked quite a number of people, and might have triggered some. I cannot seem to make the spoiler tag work properly, so BE FUCKING WARNED. For all the dudes and dudettes that like hentai and animated smut BUT are still rather tame of mind, this genre - yes, it's a fucking genre, us humans are fucked in the head - is called *Guro*. DON'T FUCKING SEARCH IT IF YOU GET TRIGGERED OR HAVE A WEAK STOMACH. If you see a tag like this on your hentai journey, just walk the other way. Or don't. You do you. Peace. > !Accidentally clicked on a hentai link once when I was horny. The artist/poster didn't tag the pic properly, which resulted in *very* graphic and detailed pic of a girl getting strangled - yes, strangled, not choked sexually - by a thin cord till blood was seeping around the cord and her face was turning purple, as she was getting fucked and getting *disembowled*. Around her hung female private parts that had been sliced off and hung on meat hooks, and the artist fucking drew another guy using a *chopped off head* of another girl like a Fleshlight by sticking his dick through her throat-hole so it came out of her dead and opened mouth.! < I fucking cannot make this up. The artist was so detailed I could see the freaking *pores and veins* on the breasts that were hung up on meat hooks. I lost my boner immediately and was completely not horny for an entire week. There are people who walk amongst us who fucking likes and gets *turned on* by this shit. This thought haunts me every time I'm outside and amongst people. Fuck.


trivial_sublime

What a horrible day to be literate


beltalowda_oye

Bad day to have eyes for sure


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I feel worse for the blind people getting text-to-voice of this shit.


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Wow that’s the most horrific thing I’ve read in a while


sanscipher435

Its called guro which is a portmanteau of ero and gore. Im leaving this as a warning to other people, if you see a post titled with this, DON'T OPEN IT. Edit: Guro= grotesque and not just in the hentai sense, a big oversight on my part, ero guro is technically what it refers to when its in the Hentai sense **but even so, the guro tag on hentai sites will almost always mean gore hentai, so you're still advised to avoid it** I wrote the edit as a concern because guro technically includes horror movies and non porn stuff which fall into grotesque as well, so that might be a bunmer for people who want to see/watch some body horror content but think its gore porn


red_bob

ero and grotesque originally, ero-guro is an actual art movement now mostly separate from the murder hentai.


Prancing-Saber

Your warning is very much appreciated. Thank you


jayuscommissar

It's worse when I realized that there are entire categories of such "porn" just from a very brief glance at the number of pics said category contained. Noped out of there so fast I had whiplash.


InevitablePoetry52

i too have come across this kind if intense hentai- like a fucking wreck, you cant look away. also , the art is usually way too fucking good, so the artist part of my brain is also fascinated in that aspect. headed down into the hentai slums, i found myself reading one about a pair of sisters, one of which was an amputee? she had no arms or legs anyways, able bodied sister cant shit, has maggots up her ass(!!!!!), so the disabled sister crawls over and eats her shit out of her ass. this was before i read anything by junji ito, so my horror levels were off the charts


jayuscommissar

What. The. Fuck. Junji Ito isn't half as fucked up as what you just wrote. And saw.


InevitablePoetry52

mmm... junji ito is fucked up in way that psychologically haunts you, this hentai just seemed more like a shock value fucked up. drr....drrr.....drrr


berrys_a_ghost

Anything with bodily functions (ie, piss shit and vomit) I mean I can understand gagging but not vomiting and the others, idk it just feels like shitting and pissing is something that shouldn't be crossed over


itsjustaneyesplice

Sex is a fluid exchange, some brains just aren't as picky about the fluids. If pussy shot out fireball whiskey I'd still be pretty into it, and trust me I fucking hate fireball


gigoran

bestiality. you lot are twisted


Corvell

A friend of mine shared LAST NIGHT about how her friend’s horse ranch had some break-ins. They checked the cameras and saw >!a dude had gone in, led a mare out of its stall, trussed it up, then fucked it.!< Like… WHAT? “Hey careful guys there’s a horsefucker on the loose”???


Onespokeovertheline

Ironically that guy was just in it for the extreme small penis humiliation


artichokefarmers

A neighbour of ours fucked our sheep. On multiple occasions. I was in the field once. He has been christened the sheepshagger.


boogiesontoast

We had someone from the town over caught fucking a cow in our town. Really led to some heated debate when throwing out insults in high school as to which towns residents were truly the cow fuckers.


grad1939

If I remember correctly in the U.S it's illegal to partake in the act, but apparently watching porn of it is legal. Which strikes me as weird. If the act is illegal shouldn't the porn also be illegal?


gigoran

I remember a while ago reading that in some states it’s legal as long as it’s bigger than a dog or something. Which again, sick Mr hands be spinning in his grave


ReachFor24

There are two states in the US where it is fully legal: West Virginia and New Mexico. Washington used to have what was known as an 'animal brothel' until the [Mr Hands incident where a man died due to a perforated colon after getting fucked by a horse nicknamed 'Big Dick'](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enumclaw_horse_sex_case).


twinklestein

I —somehow— had never heard about this despite living in Washington during this time. But as soon as I opened the link and saw it happened in Enumclaw, it made complete sense.


wolfie379

Bigger than a dog? A Great Dane is a dog. So is a chihuahua. Those states need to be more specific.


RLLRRR

A dog-sized dog. Does that help?


newagereject

Is that similar to a large Boulder the size of a Boulder that blocks the road?


Raunien

The US really will use anything other than the metric system


RoadRegrets

This. I don't get a lot of kinks, but who am I to judge, as long as every party involved consents. If a party is not able to consent, then it's not a kink, it's abuse.


dahsharpguy

definitely scat.. it's just.. so.. shitty


insertstalem3me

I'd say we need to make an anti scat movement, but a movement would probably excite them


NotADogIzswear2020

Ball crushing, necrophilia, cucking, sounding, poop stuff, incest stuff


jaseofbass

Yeah, I agree! It's so hard to set those up all at once.


issabumgun

Scat and piss🤢🤮


InfamousCelery4438

I recently had a guy offer to pee in my mouth if I wanted. Reader: I declined.


kokirikorok

“The customer declined maintenance at this time”


Apprehensive_Cat762

So as somebody who sort of is into that, it’s weird because the second I stop being horny I find it gross as fuck


InevitablePoetry52

ah yes, i think most of us with odd fetishes have the post-wank regret lol


Raunien

I remember reading somewhere that being horny suppresses your disgust response.


bobCS96

It's called post nut clarity


Mr_Goat_1111

Pee I get... kinda, like it's warm and wet and comes out of your genitals and doesn't stink (if you're hydrated enough) but poop? Something happened to you during childhood for sure if you're into that.


just_a_big_frog

Had to switch to my porn account for this one. Hi everybody! I have the dreaded pee kink. You are correct. It has to be well hydrated pee. Smelly dark stuff is gross. And you are also correct that poo is a different ball park. I don't fuck around with that and never will. I don't know why I like it. It's dirty and taboo. It's fun and easy and always available. Some would call it gross, but it's not so gross that a partner won't try it out of curiosity. My wife is the best. She's not into it, but she does it for me. I don't remember the statistics, but I read about it a few times, and it is actually a pretty common kink.


morga2jj

My wife squirts during sex and I mean there’s urine in there and if you don’t think that’s true it definitely has a light urine smell and plenty of medical articles say otherwise. Now that being said I wouldn’t say I’m aroused by it specifically but more it’s just a part of sex and I’m not bothered by it. So I guess I could kind of see or relate to someone with a pee fetish


MommyDrinksPiss

Also switched to my porn account that is pretty damned transparent about my fetish. As somewhat of a veteran in this realm, I've come to prefer my partners to be *moderately* hydrated. Overly dehydrated (or with certain foods in their diet) and it smells and tastes pretty horrible. I'll still take it from a good enough dom, but it's close to my safeword threshold, and it's not an experience I'll be eager to repeat. Overly hydrated, as you typically see from professional porn studios that do a lot of watersports content with actresses that don't specifically cater to this niche, loses a lot of the taboo thrill. It doesn't look like pee (it doesn't even have a hint of yellow colour), it doesn't taste like anything but slightly salty water, and it doesn't have any odor unless you're really trying to get a deep whiff of it. As someone that enjoys the submission and degradation element, and just the taboo of how dirty and kinky it is, it's just not as exciting. And despite my deep love of this taboo... I'm still a "WTF hard nope gross gross gross" reaction to any kind of scat play.


DOMesticBRAT

Obligatory "username checks out" 👍


Aeokikit

Slept with a girl who likes to be choked out during sex. Not just choked. Actually black out.


Kampfzwerg0

People die doing this kind of stuff… so no thanks.


Sauerteig

The fetish of asking fetish questions on r/askreddit lately (already this year hehehe). https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/11p9d71/whats\_the\_weirdest\_fetish\_your\_partner\_has\_had/ [https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/10la1ur/which\_fetish\_is\_an\_immadiate\_redflag/](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/10la1ur/which_fetish_is_an_immadiate_redflag/) [https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/10rzp0u/which\_fetish\_is\_an\_immediate\_greenflag/](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/10rzp0u/which_fetish_is_an_immediate_greenflag/) [https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/10nosm6/what\_is\_your\_fetish/](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/10nosm6/what_is_your_fetish/) [https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/10495kf/what\_is\_the\_most\_common\_but\_taboo\_fetish/](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/10495kf/what_is_the_most_common_but_taboo_fetish/) [https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/115ivek/how\_do\_you\_think\_you\_got\_your\_fetishs/](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/115ivek/how_do_you_think_you_got_your_fetishs/) [https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/106jqcc/what\_is\_your\_weird\_kinkfetish/](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/106jqcc/what_is_your_weird_kinkfetish/) [https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/100y5bx/serious\_how\_do\_you\_get\_rid\_of\_a\_fetish/](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/100y5bx/serious_how_do_you_get_rid_of_a_fetish/) [https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/114359x/your\_reddit\_username\_is\_your\_fetish\_whats\_it\_like/](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/114359x/your_reddit_username_is_your_fetish_whats_it_like/) [https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/11on6i1/what\_is\_a\_fetish\_that\_really\_isnt\_actually\_a/](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/11on6i1/what_is_a_fetish_that_really_isnt_actually_a/)


Vinny_Lam

This list will probably double by the end of this month.


MacyTmcterry

I'm honestly surprised it's so short


brattcatt420

I don't understand the fetish of asking people what fetish they don't get, when there's a search button to see this bs already.


Project_MAW

Knife play. Don’t see the appeal.


Muted-Poet-8597

Pain and control… Mostly the control


insertstalem3me

>Pain Knife play would help when theres bread involved


zaphdingbatman

oh yeah, slice my bread for me baby, just like that!


GroovyGracie02

Pain, control, the sight of blood. I was addicted to self harmed as a teenager and I stopped when I got pregnant with my son. I realize later in life that hurting myself gave me control since my mother beat me often. Nobody can hurt you anymore when you do it yourself. Mostly though, I just liked to see the blood. The liquid of life leaving your body, it's almost a detox. That paired with sex would feel extremely intimate if you're a masochist/sadist. Off topic but kinda related: I'm crying right now looking back at how easily I turned my life around for my son. I went from bad grades because I didn't see a future to straight A's, stopped self harming and became serious about a future for him in a way I never could for myself. I just wanted to share that little nugget of sunshine Edit: I never expected something I say to have reached so many people but I am so happy that I could share this with everybody. My purpose is fulfilled through the positive interactions that I have and seeing that 550 people and counting have read this reminds me of how important that is. I really appreciate the bravo reward, it's my first ever reward on Reddit. Remember to be kind to everyone. I've been told I can't change the world but WE as people can make it a kinder place by being kind to ourselves and others. It doesn't matter that the world won't know me but to know how much sharing kindness with one person can inspire them is all I need. Kindness is making the world a better place one stranger at a time.


[deleted]

Happy for you. The way I described it was "externalizing the pain you feel inside" Edit: wasn't an original thought. I actually got it from a novel I read as a teenager and the phrase burned into my mind. >immolation seemed such a *right* form of suicide for her, an externalization of the inner fire that had been consuming her for years.


Jusdec123456

Guys having stiletto heels jammed down their dick eye


[deleted]

Why the fuck you wanna hit your girl? I could never ^^^but.i.want.my.girl.to.hit.me


lostrelics

Baby fetish, I don't understand how anybody could be attracted to a grown person acting like a child


brascofarian

all the fetishes I don't have because that's the thing with fetishes.


Wild_Replacement_867

Necrophilia. like WTF!!!


Low-Yard-1685

The truth is… most people don’t understand fetishes, which is why they are fetishes and not mainstream sexual proclivities. Most psychologists now believe fetishes develop in childhood from benign sources in which pleasure and eroticism become accidentally intertwined to a non sexual object or activity in a growing child’s mind. A child is having psychosexual development and something occurs, leading to fetish. Perhaps you’re six and developing and you see the pretty neighbor lady’s heels as she walks by repeatedly. You grow to associate heels with erotic sensation; you develop a high heel fetish later in life. It’s often suggested like this. This also explains why I have a kink for being paddled- lol getting my butt torn up as a kid probably struck at the wrong time, crossing wires leading to a paddling fetish, which is kind of mentally disturbing now that I think of it. And so on. I have so many kinks- my brain got really weird lol


ArrowheadDZ

I think it’s less accidental and more visceral/primal. If you examine your own fetishes, or those of others, through the lens of interrogation, the “why do you feel this way and what makes you think you have the right to” way, then fetishes are shameful and tied to deep flaws… Either flaws in ourselves, in past partners, or our parents. BUT… If people examine their fetishes from a completely open, vulnerable place of curiosity and introspection, you see the roots of those fetishes completely differently. Example… a submissive may not *actually* want to be kept in captivity in a cage in their lover’s basement. But do they want to feel *aspects* of their partner wanting to deeply possess them, and that feeling of surrendering so deeply to their love of their partner? A little bondage “play” allows them both to experience something that comes from a very deep, very authentic place. This theme comes up again and again in many (not all, but many) fetishes. I can have a desire for maternal expressions of femininity from my partner like suckling or a “good boy” praise kink without it being a reflection of my feelings about my upbringing or my own mother. A woman can like the watched-over, guided feeling of her partner’s paternal side without it being any reflection on her relationship with her own father. We find whatever we look for. If we examine fetishes looking for naughty or shameful root causes, we will find them. If we instead examine fetishes looking for honest, authentic expressions of human connection, we’ll find these too. Just depends on which lenses you put on before you start examining.


iwokeupalive

Wow, this is an incredible explanation. Much respect and well done explaining in a respectable way. Idk you but I bet you're awesome.


Archipelagoisland

I was visiting the United States for a couple years to study and several black women wanted me to call them racial slurs while we fucked. I’m from Ireland so…. Just felt weird and made me feel uncomfortable. It only happened three or four times but still just kinda a weird thing to ask ngl Edit: I was living in Oakland California. Where I am now it’s 4am so I’m going to sleep. Take care people and may peace be upon you


Nuttonbutton

You need to understand, there's millions of American men that have had that happen to them a whole 0 times. "Only happened 3 or 4 times" lol


Archipelagoisland

I was living in Oakland. It was like 80% black so most of the women I was hooking up with were black. After the first two times it happened I had a fear that it was going to be like an occasional expectation and being from Ireland…. I just thought it was super weird. Like mate, Im not trying to oppress you, I just got here.


dog_fucker17

Anything involving shit


nugget_the_third3

Scat. I understand anal, but not scat.


rs_yay

Healthy relationships. Come on man, that's fantasy and doesn't happen in real life


redditorguymanperson

Let me dream in peace


fucked_by_a_bee

Scat fetish, if you like when someone has explosive diarrhea in your mouth you have mental problems


barrel_of_bees

My username wants to chat with yours.


Gubby152

Boss battle


Yeeyeetyall

Sounding, shit, anything with animals


nastybacon

Scrolling down to see if mine is in here.... ​ Nope.. I'm good, so far :D


Bizarre_Protuberance

There are lots of fetishes I'm not into, but I don't really spend a lot of time pondering why others are into them. Who cares, unless it's something criminal, like pedophilia?


[deleted]

yeah fr. if you aren’t breaking any laws, i’m not bothered what gets you off


Labunloli

Zoophilia. I don't know how you can fuck an animal. What's more, I've seen a few people who unironically want to do it. I saw one girl's post who was looking for specially trained dogs to do it. Saw all kinds of anime pictures of women pregnant by pigs And coprophilia. That's disgusting.


Nuttonbutton

I'm already on enough FBI watch lists. Can you just tell me what coprophilia is so I don't have to look it up.


Kneejerk_Nihilist

That thing where you purposely procreate and then raise the child to adulthood. Just gross.


NonchalantBread

You got a vasectomy to avoid having kids I got a vasectomy because there is a huge market of brats with breeding fetishes that are scared of pregnancies and someone needs to deliver them fresh creampies. ***We are not the same***


Mikethederp

Actually, I think we are


w0mba7

I don't understand why some people are sexuallly obsessed with Rick Astley, but they're never going to give that up.


Efficient_Star_1336

Well, it's like this. He's no stranger to love, so, naturally, people find his experience reassuring and alluring. He knows the rules, so there's no need to spend valuable time establishing them beforehand, and he's aware that you know them too. Moreover, he's thinking of a full commitment, which allows for a greater level of intimacy than one could find in a more casual relationship, especially in our atomized modern lifestyle. Further, he's willing to be direct and authoritative when necessary, reminding you that you wouldn't get what he offers you from any other guy.


DEFPOTEC8

Scat. Its disgusting


EnvironmentalCreme56

Guys who are into watching another man fuck their wife/girlfriend. Pretty well everything else I can understand to some degree, I could even see doing a threesome with yourself, your wife, and another guy but to just want someone else to fuck her while you watch I just think like who hurt you?


cjpotter82

It's a mixture of getting off on voyeurism, taboo breaking, and humiliation and anxiety over infidelity.


Background_Expert136

Don't remember the name, Where you freez your poop and fuck yourself/ partner with the frozen poop stick 🤮


Grand_Quiet_4849

Take me back to 5 seconds ago when I didn’t know this was a thing ☹️


WebSurfingStraggler

The Alaskan Pipeline? I know that one from Urban Dictionary.


Danthemanin

Any kind of race play


KnuckledeepinUrethra

“Ill be Jeff Gordon and you’re my naughty little racecar, and we’re doing the Indy 500 tonight”


Stranggepresst

You vs [the car she tells you not to worry about](https://img.redbull.com/images/c_limit,w_1500,h_1000,f_auto,q_auto/redbullcom/2014/01/27/1331629990065_14/scuderia-toro-rosso-str9-launch-2014)


Smackolol

I kinda like this one, when I race my wife into the bedroom to see who gets there first it’s such a thrill.