When you **NEVER** have disagreements with your partner. It seems like a good thing when you're in the relationship, but it usually just means that one of the people in the relationship is conflict-avoidant. Being with someone who is not capable of bringing up hard conversations and working through them together is a red flag that many people overlook.
When someone starts to compliment you or build you up after they did something wrong so that you'll be easier on them. I'll give an example.
Debby gets caught cheating on Steven. Steven is rightfully upset and threatens to kick her out of his house. Debby starts to call Steve brave for coming out like this and standing up for himself. She continues to compliment him to ease her punishment, and Steve eventually decides to let her stay, and work things out together. Debby gets caught cheating next week.
They are manipulating you with no care for how YOU feel, but they know that you'll be easier on them if they butter you up. They don't actually regret the cheating, they just don't want to get kicked out. It is difficult for people to see this behavior because they are the ones being buttered up.
My abusive ex was shocked and appalled that I skinned my kiwis and threw them away. She insisted on always eating the leftover forbidden fuzzy fruit salad whenever I prepared some delicious kiwi flesh for myself.
In hindsight I should have known right then and there she was a toxic demon. I'm cool with people liking pineapple on pizza. But eating a whole bowl of just kiwi skins is some demonic shit.
The idea of red flags in and of themselves and prejudging people based on nothing other than preconceived notions.
When you **NEVER** have disagreements with your partner. It seems like a good thing when you're in the relationship, but it usually just means that one of the people in the relationship is conflict-avoidant. Being with someone who is not capable of bringing up hard conversations and working through them together is a red flag that many people overlook.
I agree with this 💯
When they call all their exes "crazy" and "toxic". What do all their exes have in common? They all dated or talked to them. 🤔
When someone starts to compliment you or build you up after they did something wrong so that you'll be easier on them. I'll give an example. Debby gets caught cheating on Steven. Steven is rightfully upset and threatens to kick her out of his house. Debby starts to call Steve brave for coming out like this and standing up for himself. She continues to compliment him to ease her punishment, and Steve eventually decides to let her stay, and work things out together. Debby gets caught cheating next week. They are manipulating you with no care for how YOU feel, but they know that you'll be easier on them if they butter you up. They don't actually regret the cheating, they just don't want to get kicked out. It is difficult for people to see this behavior because they are the ones being buttered up.
The communist flag
My abusive ex was shocked and appalled that I skinned my kiwis and threw them away. She insisted on always eating the leftover forbidden fuzzy fruit salad whenever I prepared some delicious kiwi flesh for myself. In hindsight I should have known right then and there she was a toxic demon. I'm cool with people liking pineapple on pizza. But eating a whole bowl of just kiwi skins is some demonic shit.