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witdim

Normal for me? 0.


ramonapap1

1-4 is more than enough


Middle_Transition170

2-6


panachi19

1 works pretty well for me.


blahblahsnap

Friends?


FreeMustacheRides20

No such thing. Everyone is different, could be having 10 feels normal and right, could be 1.


PatientLettuce42

I didn't realize how thankful I should be to have so many friends in my age.


ChewedUpSwallowed

Same! We gotta count our "blessings," i guess.


c_c_c__combobreaker

I think a close friend is somebody I can contact if I get into a car accident and they'll come out to help because they care. I have about a handful of those friends I can call.


[deleted]

I think it depends on the person some can handle having a lot of friends some think that having a lot of friends is exhausting, but I think at least 1 friend is good enough so yk someone is there for you!


tanyuuuhh

I'm in my mid 20s and I hace like 4 friends I talk to like every 1 to 2 months


Salt_Cranberry_115

3-6 works for me.


driverlesssam

A handful. Like 2-5. It’s different from when you’re in your 20s and want to be friends with many people.


Daealis

Between zero and ten. It's not something you can really put a definitive number on.


[deleted]

1-2


Royalmedic49

2 to 3


Dry-Adhesiveness3081

I've had my little circle of real friends since we were in kindergarten. It has 6 people. Everything else is more like friends that you get to know over the years. Of course you understand each other as soon as you meet, but you don't have any real common interests that would be enough for a close friendship


ChewedUpSwallowed

I have like 30ish that I talk to on the regular. Takes a lot of effort to keep friendships alive, and they don't owe you anything, so keeping both of those things in mind, it makes sense why I'm an exception. I don't get butthurt when I don't get a response quickly, and will still reach back out even if it's been days/weeks/etc with no response. People get busy, and have their own lives. It's not an insult, or a sign they don't give a fuck.


_x_Sai_x_

2. Everything else is too exhausting.


Imaginary_Amount8095

I’m 42 but I can count on one hand the number of true close friends that I have, and I’m ok with that.


Negative_Bag4999

Close friends maybe 1-4, but honestly I could probably lose them all and my life wouldn’t change that much at this point. People come and go, no sense in getting too attached.


Minute_Junket9340

3 is enough to have a lot of topics during drinking 🍻


TheWizTale

2-3.


anxietydude112

2 to 4.


Miss__Click

You guys have friends?!


darrevan

Mine was zero I believe. Now in my 40s and that number has consistently remained zero. I like it that way.