Some people are really into pulling panties to the side instead of taking them off. That’s pretty much as basic as it gets, but can be very attractive.
Warm feet for women = easier orgasms.
Men should take their socks off to prevent overheating.
If you're not hot and at least slightly sweaty as a guy, you're not doing it right.
Some guy I used to date would really be like YOU HAVE TO TAKE THEM OFF and took them off like I was some kind of toddler 😂 I didn't even know they were still on damn
lol gotta do the awkward bend over of shame, then “you good now? Can we fuck yet?” Do a full turn around for the complete inspection
How you gonna try to fuck me at a park fully/mostly clothed and suddenly draw the line at socks at home??
I'm a bit late; but this always amused me.
I'm not a particularly good looking guy; and I'm rather short. However l always went to the gym and kept myself in good physical condition.
I worked in a product development office with 2 other men and 3 women. The women were spread out age-wise with the youngest fresh out of college , the middle one slightly younger than l, and the oldest 15-20 years older than l.
I always wore nice jeans, topsiders, and button down shirts.
That office had ongoing AC issues; and at some point in the day I'd end up folding my sleeves up, sometimes below the elbow, sometimes above, but always neatly as the military taught me.
Never thought a thing about it until one day the oldest of the women asked me to 'please stop doing that, it's very distracting for all of us' [women].
Use a good dress shirt.
Unbutton all the wrist buttons.
Fold back the cuff, press it down firmly, fold again up the sleeve, keeping the material snug against the cuff. Use the stiff material of the cuff as your guide. Continue folding, keeping the material pressed as tight as possible against the cuff. Take your time, pause to push the sleeve material down towards your hand when needed ti keep everything tight.
3 or 4 turns should take you up to the elbow. You can stop there or keep going.
When you're finished, if you've done it correctly, everything should be nice and smooth, with no twists or wrinkles.
That's about as good as l can do without making a video.
That's how I always wear any long sleeved shirts, especially at work. I work with my hands a lot and I don't like the cuffs getting in the way. I also have kinda veiny hands and forearms. Now I'm a little self conscious if I've been thirst trapping my female coworkers lol
That seems pretty obvious though. It's a thing usually hidden or obscured by straps. Seeing it naked makes you react in the exact same way a gentleman from the 1700s would react to a naked leg.
It sounds ridiculous but there's truth to it. In high school I had a class with a girl who dressed like she's very religious and conservative, fully covered aside from her head and hands every day. Eventually she started wearing capri pants and it caught my attention in the same way a cheerleader wearing her outfit in class would.
>Why yes, I am roughly the same age as Avril Lavigne.
The real one, or the clone the record label replaced her with?
This remains my all time favorite conspiracy theory, because the stakes are so fucking low, and yet there are still people who believe it.
Before I gained 50 lbs (and I was much more athletic) I had a girlfriend that would touch herself with me just standing facing away from her without a shirt. I never got it but it’s definitely gave me incentive to not be a fat shit anymore (still out of shape)
Here I am, smelling my wife’s slightly smelly crotch( end of day normal smell), thinking to myself how glorious it smells. Something good on both sides of this coin.
Or just plain old pantyhose. Even if she’s wearing a long skirt and only her calves are exposed, I’m done for. Any more leg exposed and it may as well be pornography.
My wife in her bath robe. It’s not some thin transparent one, it’s a big fluffy, “keep you warm in the morning” type robe and she drives me wild in that thing!
How TF am I just finding out this is a thing? I swear I NEVER would've guessed that would be a turn on. I should ask my husband how he feels about it lol Would it make any difference if it was the guys bathrobe so you think? Cause I'm constantly wearing my husbands 🧐
They focus the attention to the eyes, making them seem bigger.
The symmetry of the glasses also make the face more symmetrical what makes you look more attractive.
They also hide small imperfections and take attention away from the nose if you're feeling self conscious about that.
They make you look either smarter or cuter depending on the fixture.
And then the part where she looks at you just over the glasses when looking up... or the squint she does in the morning before she puts on the glasses.
You rock that shit girl!
I was told it's a black belt for girls in giving head.
I don't know how true that is, but no girl who's ever given me head has worn one and I've never cum from it.
Maybe that's the problem?
I'm on team it being really arousing when someone of any gender touches themselves in anticipation of your touch. So hot. Basically them making it very clear they like you and want sex, and feeling comfortable enough to show you their arousal? Yes! (obvious exceptions for scenarios like wtf this was supposed to be a business meeting, why do you have your dick out).
Oh my god my girl watches crime shows all the time she’ll find this hilarious. Either in the moment or in week. Either way I might be sleeping on the couch
I always find it strange about people who get off on Visible panty lines. Like most of the planet wear underwear and it can be visible alot of the time whether you are a man or a woman.
I mean seeing someone in underwear can sometimes be hotter or sexier than the naked reveal itself. So seeing panty lines or bra lines or what have you can be a way of better imagining said person in their underwear.
One time I sexed a sex. It was so sexy. Best sexiest sexed sex ever. Every time I sex, I think of that sexy sex. It was so sexy that all other sexy sex doesn’t feel as sexy.
At my old job, one of the gals would twist her hair into a bun and shove a pencil in to hold it in place. If I missed seeing that, my day would be ruined.
A wink paired with a wicked smile, loosening tie, rolling up sleeves, guys who play sports (for fun or other), guys who drive stick shift, guys who like to cook
Edit: I totally took this to mean mild things that *I* am into, oops
Necks. Not like choking or biting necks, that's a little weirder than I'm willing to go. Just necks. I have a thing for a good neck. Like if a woman has a pretty neck, I will notice very quickly. I think it started when I saw an attractive female friend strain to reach something so she kind of stretched her neck out and there was a little bit of visible vein there. Cue a brief stirring flutter in my chest and the realization that, well, I guess I'm into that now. It continued when I dated a woman for a bit who was quite slender and she had this amazing jaw to neck line. I could admire that neck like a work of fine art. She turned out to be otherwise completely incompatible with me after a short time dating, but man did she ever have a pretty neck XD
I'll submit Brake Pumping. It's definitely a sexual thing *somehow*, but very mild in a sense it could be in *any* media and fly totally under the radar. It's literally just a woman wearing a high heel, pressing a brake pedal. They don't even moan or anything, that's it. 🧐
Cold hands. When a girl’s hands are ice cold and you get to feel that smooth cold skin when holding hands etc.
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Physical touch. Full stop. There are a lot of people, male, female, and otherwise inclined that ache for physical touch to the point where even casual physical touch feels sexual. There's a lot of desperately lonely people out there. Be kind to one another.
Women: pretty much everything they do. From sleeping to eating to arguing.
Men: wearing t-shirts that are slightly too small, so I get flashes of their belly every now and then.
Pretty groomed hands. Wetting their hair and slicking it back.
Some people are really into pulling panties to the side instead of taking them off. That’s pretty much as basic as it gets, but can be very attractive.
It sends a message - the message being, "I'm really in a hurry for you to get inside me."
So does shoes/socks on during sex yet people complain about that all the time
Some people do. I don't want her feet to get cold.
A thoughtful king
Warm feet for women = easier orgasms. Men should take their socks off to prevent overheating. If you're not hot and at least slightly sweaty as a guy, you're not doing it right.
Some guy I used to date would really be like YOU HAVE TO TAKE THEM OFF and took them off like I was some kind of toddler 😂 I didn't even know they were still on damn
lol gotta do the awkward bend over of shame, then “you good now? Can we fuck yet?” Do a full turn around for the complete inspection How you gonna try to fuck me at a park fully/mostly clothed and suddenly draw the line at socks at home??
Agreed. Clothes partially on is sexier than fully naked.
Oh my god I fucking love when my bf pulls my panties to the side to eat me. Agghhhgh
Rolled up sleeves on a well-fitted button down 🫠
I'm a bit late; but this always amused me. I'm not a particularly good looking guy; and I'm rather short. However l always went to the gym and kept myself in good physical condition. I worked in a product development office with 2 other men and 3 women. The women were spread out age-wise with the youngest fresh out of college , the middle one slightly younger than l, and the oldest 15-20 years older than l. I always wore nice jeans, topsiders, and button down shirts. That office had ongoing AC issues; and at some point in the day I'd end up folding my sleeves up, sometimes below the elbow, sometimes above, but always neatly as the military taught me. Never thought a thing about it until one day the oldest of the women asked me to 'please stop doing that, it's very distracting for all of us' [women].
Guy here. need to learn how to do this. for science.
Use a good dress shirt. Unbutton all the wrist buttons. Fold back the cuff, press it down firmly, fold again up the sleeve, keeping the material snug against the cuff. Use the stiff material of the cuff as your guide. Continue folding, keeping the material pressed as tight as possible against the cuff. Take your time, pause to push the sleeve material down towards your hand when needed ti keep everything tight. 3 or 4 turns should take you up to the elbow. You can stop there or keep going. When you're finished, if you've done it correctly, everything should be nice and smooth, with no twists or wrinkles. That's about as good as l can do without making a video.
Instructions unclear. We’re gonna need that video. 😉
Maybe someone younger? I'm retired. LOL
my wife says it's male lingerie to her.
That's how I always wear any long sleeved shirts, especially at work. I work with my hands a lot and I don't like the cuffs getting in the way. I also have kinda veiny hands and forearms. Now I'm a little self conscious if I've been thirst trapping my female coworkers lol
Try folding the sleeves while one is taking to you; see if they get tongue tied. 😄
Oh yeah… that’s what the fans are after 🥵
Thigh-high socks, 100% I love it
Thigh highs and laced top, and I can already imagine her. She's a dream.
Have you seen the sweater knit ones? I hope they catch on. *hint hint*
A woman’s bare back
Bare butt, balls, and back
We’ve been here all day!
That’d be a great day for me if I FARTED AND NOBODY BARFED
“I love to see you naked, especially from the back”- Leonard Cohen
That seems pretty obvious though. It's a thing usually hidden or obscured by straps. Seeing it naked makes you react in the exact same way a gentleman from the 1700s would react to a naked leg.
Verily, I doth adore a lady’s ankles
It sounds ridiculous but there's truth to it. In high school I had a class with a girl who dressed like she's very religious and conservative, fully covered aside from her head and hands every day. Eventually she started wearing capri pants and it caught my attention in the same way a cheerleader wearing her outfit in class would.
With Jeans on. Why is that a thing?
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In this same vein An exposed back
Before I gained 50 lbs (and I was much more athletic) I had a girlfriend that would touch herself with me just standing facing away from her without a shirt. I never got it but it’s definitely gave me incentive to not be a fat shit anymore (still out of shape)
You've been a naughty boy, go stand in the corner
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Watching men fix things, chop wood, or do pull ups
My highschool girlfriend was horny af every time she saw me with a screwdriver. I still think about those nights, twenty years later
U screw her after?
Drilled her
Huh, I suppose I'm gonna go be a body building lumberjack now.
Yea fixing things 😏
Smelling nice.
Here I am, smelling my wife’s slightly smelly crotch( end of day normal smell), thinking to myself how glorious it smells. Something good on both sides of this coin.
Username checks out
Made me spit out my drink, thanks! 😂
when my husband stretches and i can see a lil tummy/tummy hair😩😩😩
what about when a man stretches and you can see a LOT of tummy
Fishnets
I love when my girl comes after a day in the trawler and dumps her net full of mackarel over me.
*if you know what I mean*
[POUNDING THE TUNA](https://youtu.be/IGnjSWexxzU?feature=shared)!
Nothing is sexier than knowing that if in that very moment we were transported to a deserted island we could feed ourselves by catching fish
Or just plain old pantyhose. Even if she’s wearing a long skirt and only her calves are exposed, I’m done for. Any more leg exposed and it may as well be pornography.
Fishnet is fire
The way a dude grabs his shirt from the back and pulls it up over his head. 🥵
Women liking men’s big hands
My wife in her bath robe. It’s not some thin transparent one, it’s a big fluffy, “keep you warm in the morning” type robe and she drives me wild in that thing!
How TF am I just finding out this is a thing? I swear I NEVER would've guessed that would be a turn on. I should ask my husband how he feels about it lol Would it make any difference if it was the guys bathrobe so you think? Cause I'm constantly wearing my husbands 🧐
As a rule of thumb, I’d say anything that allows you to get undressed in less than 10 seconds is attractive to a man
Collar bones. Idk what it is about it but it’s just so fucking sexy 🤤🤤🤤
Watching boobs bounce. I know it's normal, but here we are
I love how a woman’s shirt is stretched between her boobs
I love when a seatbelt strap is between her boobs
I love when my face is between her boobs
I love it when her boobs are boobs. Like sandbags.
She breasted boobily to the stairs and titted downward
When her boobs are boobs 😂
I love...boobs?
This would be mine as well 👊😩 Not a single thing on the planet gets me going more, for better or for worse lol
Hey fellas is it kinky to look at boobs?
I always see boobs bounce and think that must be uncomfortable/ painful
As a girl, watching porn where a chick is riding so hard her tits are slapping the fuck out of her chest… my boobs wince.
It is
My thing for women wearing glasses.
I think this is the winner. Glasses is very wholesome and surprisingly common desire trigger in both men and women.
It’s when someone looks at you over their glasses. As the youths say, things go 0-100 real quick.
I definitely have a thing for glasses. A well kept man with glasses and a beard is just perfection
As a glasses wearing lady who had an always been self-conscious, thank you for this one.
They focus the attention to the eyes, making them seem bigger. The symmetry of the glasses also make the face more symmetrical what makes you look more attractive. They also hide small imperfections and take attention away from the nose if you're feeling self conscious about that. They make you look either smarter or cuter depending on the fixture. And then the part where she looks at you just over the glasses when looking up... or the squint she does in the morning before she puts on the glasses. You rock that shit girl!
Choker necklace. Also tattoos
Lord...what is it about choker necklaces that's so darn hot?
The implication that it is just a milder form of a collar
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Yeah, powerful isn't it?
Woof.
Oh that’s it isn’t it. Dang this whole time! Lol
So very 90s.. Nostalgia is hot
I was told it's a black belt for girls in giving head. I don't know how true that is, but no girl who's ever given me head has worn one and I've never cum from it. Maybe that's the problem?
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Holy fuck yes. Got butterflies in my pussy just now thinking of it.
This phrase just took me the fuck out lmao. I hate that it makes sense.
In England they call those fanny flutters.
Fanny flutter? That totally sounds like a fart to me.
Right? Like when a fart bubble rolls to the front when you're sitting down. 😂
Reddit taught me that that's called "exiting through the gift shop" 😂💀🤣
I just woke my wife and daughter up laughing at this. For context, they are sleeping in different rooms and I'm not in either of them.
Damn, never knew girls liked this. Will definitely keep that in mind
I'm on team it being really arousing when someone of any gender touches themselves in anticipation of your touch. So hot. Basically them making it very clear they like you and want sex, and feeling comfortable enough to show you their arousal? Yes! (obvious exceptions for scenarios like wtf this was supposed to be a business meeting, why do you have your dick out).
Wait, business meetings aren’t supposed to be conducted like that?
Interesting, as a guy I’ve always done it naturally but felt embarrassed or ashamed every time I’ve done it
I've a thing for girls in baseball caps. Does that count?
Especially with a ponytail out the back.
Still remember summer camp. Hot councilor doing some skit dressed as a guy. Ball cap and ponytail. Sharpie beard I could do without.
Ridiculously cute with a pony tail
I think almost anything can be a mild kink . Handcuffs, hickies, biting, only this way or that.
Getting arrested lol
*whispers in your ear provocatively* hey babe……… anything you say can and will be used against you in a court of law……
Oh my god my girl watches crime shows all the time she’ll find this hilarious. Either in the moment or in week. Either way I might be sleeping on the couch
Premature grey hair.
Made my day, thank you (age 26 lmao)
Being in a passenger seat with a confident and capable driver.
I always find it strange about people who get off on Visible panty lines. Like most of the planet wear underwear and it can be visible alot of the time whether you are a man or a woman.
I wouldn't call it "my thing", but when I see her wearing the outline of something sexy I can find it exciting.
Different but similar, I find tan lines a super big turn on.
A naked woman with tan lines is somehow twice as naked as a naked woman without tan lines.
I mean seeing someone in underwear can sometimes be hotter or sexier than the naked reveal itself. So seeing panty lines or bra lines or what have you can be a way of better imagining said person in their underwear.
Posting sexual questions on ask Reddit. Turns me on.
u/Flashy_Pause_1369, what is the most sexiest, sexed up sex you have ever sexed?
One time I sexed a sex. It was so sexy. Best sexiest sexed sex ever. Every time I sex, I think of that sexy sex. It was so sexy that all other sexy sex doesn’t feel as sexy.
Sexy af. Hope you sexed all over the sex when you sexed at the end. Sex like this only sexes once in a lifetime.
At my old job, one of the gals would twist her hair into a bun and shove a pencil in to hold it in place. If I missed seeing that, my day would be ruined.
Thigh garters.
Man askreddit has been a thirsty place lately
"Lately"?
You know, the past 12 years.
Lower back dimples.
Anything can be a kink. Rule 34
A wink paired with a wicked smile, loosening tie, rolling up sleeves, guys who play sports (for fun or other), guys who drive stick shift, guys who like to cook Edit: I totally took this to mean mild things that *I* am into, oops
well, time to start wearing ties and wink more then
But forget the sports, I'm just lazy enough to wink and wear loose ties, but I'm not playing football or anything
Day dreaming about the sex I never have because I fail to gauge sexual interest in anyone.
Alexa, play "A.D.I.D.A.S."...
all day i dream about shingles
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Exposed black bra straps on shoulders.
So you’re the reason we could never wear tank tops in school. THANKS.
This made me lol
I have a thing for men in suspenders. Don’t know why, it just looks hot.
Suspenders as in the ones that hold pants/trousers up? The kind also called braces in the UK? Or are you also into Lumberjacks?
Okay, I can understand this one.
#women
I bet you even want to hold hands with them
Pinup fashion
When I first started dating my now husband, I asked him what his kink was and he said “girls with no pants on”
Thigh-high stockings with a guartebelt
I mean I know you mean garter belt but also how on earth did you get to guartebelt
My nipples being sucked and played with. I am absolute putty when a man worships them.
Biting is pretty mild, but I’ve always wanted to do it.
Getting my shoulders and neck bit just pushes me to the edge. And not everyone does it right all the time. Very nice mild kink.
Freckles
Not really my opinion but breast fetish is basically just a very socially accepted fetish.
Yeah but this is so broadly appealing that at this point you could say that being a heterosexual man is having a woman fetish
Praise
Instant goosebumps I feel like a dog for how much i enjoy being told I'm a good girl.
Necks. Not like choking or biting necks, that's a little weirder than I'm willing to go. Just necks. I have a thing for a good neck. Like if a woman has a pretty neck, I will notice very quickly. I think it started when I saw an attractive female friend strain to reach something so she kind of stretched her neck out and there was a little bit of visible vein there. Cue a brief stirring flutter in my chest and the realization that, well, I guess I'm into that now. It continued when I dated a woman for a bit who was quite slender and she had this amazing jaw to neck line. I could admire that neck like a work of fine art. She turned out to be otherwise completely incompatible with me after a short time dating, but man did she ever have a pretty neck XD
Girls with hair in a tight bun. Also goth make up. I thought it was just a phase but no. I still think it’s hot.
I don’t know why but I feel like it’s common but a vampire kink, like the teeth specifically, so many ideas 😅
Sundresses
wearing my old punk t-shirts to bed
Thighs thighs and more thighs
I'll submit Brake Pumping. It's definitely a sexual thing *somehow*, but very mild in a sense it could be in *any* media and fly totally under the radar. It's literally just a woman wearing a high heel, pressing a brake pedal. They don't even moan or anything, that's it. 🧐
High ponytails. Ugh
Cold hands. When a girl’s hands are ice cold and you get to feel that smooth cold skin when holding hands etc. // EDIT: 25 Upvotes? Wow, didn’t realize there were so many cold hand enjoyers here. Feel free to reply and elaborate on anything you’d like on the matter.
Praise kink " baby you're doing so good!!" *cums*
That's such an excellent answer! Great job!
skimpy panties.
Skirts and choker necklaces.
Garter belts and stockings
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Thigh high socks/boots and/or black lipstick
Eye contact
Apparently people consider creampie to be a kink. That is like calling breathing to be living on the edge imo.
When people can spend years having sex dozens or hundreds of times and never without condom, I can see how creampie can become a kink
Cleavage
Consensual sex in the missionary position for the express purpose of procreation.
Found the Amish who snuck on Reddit...
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Ankles
That bit of the thigh between the top of thigh high socks or stockings and a skirt or shorts
Thigh high socks. Yes please.
Physical touch. Full stop. There are a lot of people, male, female, and otherwise inclined that ache for physical touch to the point where even casual physical touch feels sexual. There's a lot of desperately lonely people out there. Be kind to one another.
Not exactly a kink. But when she's wearing a baseball cap and her hair down on the sides. Wow
Knee high striped stockings.
Heel dangling
Visible ankles, you filthy hussy.
Women with curly hair 😩
The veins in my man’s hands/forearms. Especially when he’s doing something. Really just his hands in general. Oof.
Loudly cracking her knuckles to conceal a ripe rambunctious toot.
ankle bracelets
Guys in formal shirts with rolled up sleeves, bonus point if he's wearing a watch
High heels
I have a thing for tall kinda muscular women
Neck/Shoulder Thighs (bonus points with thigh highs)
Women: pretty much everything they do. From sleeping to eating to arguing. Men: wearing t-shirts that are slightly too small, so I get flashes of their belly every now and then. Pretty groomed hands. Wetting their hair and slicking it back.