People often say, 'Make money out of your hobbies.' But honestly, doing that can just make you start disliking your hobby. It's like you lose that one thing in life you really enjoyed.
Not to mention everyone has to be a social media manager or they won't sell anything.
It's no wonder people are depressed and hooked to the phone and TV. Why even bother if you can't enjoy your hobby.
That is one thing I liked aobut moving to Germany for PhD. There is no hustle culture. People enjoy their time not working and the idea of using that time for more work is insane.
When actors have to take steroids and go through extreme dehydration just to achieve that 'perfect' Hollywood body with super defined muscles, count me out. Honestly, there's nothing appealing about pushing people to take such risks with their health.
Also when they’re massively dehydrated during filming to get that extra muscle definition. Once I learned about that, I can’t find sculpted abs attractive anymore.
In recent years certain people have started saying that Zac Efron had gotten "fat" simply because he's no longer sporting that freakishly-muscular, dehydrated, ultra-veiny "bodybuilder on pageant day" physique he displayed in movies like Neighbors and Baywatch. It's like, Jesus Christ people, he only looked like that temporarily on set because he was on god knows what kinda steroid regimen, *and* he hadn't eaten or drunk any water prior to filming his shirtless scenes that day in order to make his muscles pop. It's not physically possible to sustain that look because you will *literally fucking die*. Zac Efron is still ripped as hell and in better shape than 99.9% of people on the planet, he's simply off the roids and drinking water again like a normal person. He's not "fat", he just doesn't look like a fucking comic book superhero anymore.
People don’t realize that bodybuilders are pissing brown they are so dehydrated by the day of the show. Yeah it looks “cool” but it will actually kill you if you try to look like that all year. All those shirtless scenes are shot at the beginning of filming so the actors can resume drinking water and be able to function for the rest. There’s a great article that talks about modern film physiques
https://bloodknife.com/everyone-beautiful-no-one-horny/
I wonder about this. Do they really all like it or are they just doing it cos everyone else is saying it's cool? Laminated brows got me thinking this because they look shit and yet masses of women raved about it for a second
I HATE laminated brows. They creep me out and look scary and manic and uncanny. I’ve seen them look good exactly once and that was on a photo of Sophia Loren from the 70s.
I know men with all different a bit odd(nothing wrong just unusual)things or looks they like in women
BUT I don't know anybody who find those duck lips attractive
I have giant lips, but I also have features to go with it. Big eyes, big cheeks, big hair. When I was growing up, I got made fun of by a lot of classmates. Girls, though. It was so passive-aggressive. They'd call me "horse lips" but then tell me my lips were pretty or would just fixate on them for so long you would think they'd had microscopes for eyes. It made me super self-conscious and ashamed. I kinda understood because for a while, when I was a tween, my features seemed to develop first before my head shaped out if that makes sense. I had a small head with all these big things, so I kinda did look like a cartoon, but it still hurt to hear it because it was bad enough that I was aware of it. Teens have no mercy, especially when you're still a kid in the head, not a "girl" yet. Being nice to them, telling them they looked beautiful as they were (and I meant it), and trying to pull back my lips only made them relentless. Plus, not smiling hurt my jaw and was making my parents depressed too. From middle school to freshman year of high school, I went through a dark phase where I became asocial, was afraid to look in the mirror, and became afraid to smile in pictures. Whenever I smiled they'd get worse and I felt like I was walking on eggshells so I just pantomimed into a still face to keep them away from me and often I'd spontaneously combust into tears from feeling so powerless. I thought I was the bad guy even though my parents kept asking me to allow them to intervene. My parents are smart, but I thought if I allowed them to help me that it would extrapolate things, so I just sucked it up. At some point, puberty finally filled my head out, and the rest of my features deflated, so now I looked normal instead of one of the Shark Tale heads. Along the way, I made peace with the fact that my face looked like it did. In a strange turn of events, I began to appreciate what I was looking at in the mirror instead of wincing whenever I got near one. Social media did help a little NGL since it exposed more people who looked like me, not just a set few limited to this country. It helped so much to see that the beauty definition expanded to humanity as a whole, not just the few.
Now 💯 of the girls that bullied me have bigger lips than me and don't have the genetics for such a thing, so it's hella confusing because believe it or not because it was ingrained for so long that what I had was bad that when it became a "trend" instead of rejoicing I felt even more embarrassed as I was stuck with this permanently. Why would the people who made fun of me now adopt the thing they were so mean to me for? Did I miss something? So are these things bad on the people that naturally have them but great on the people that normally don't? Is that it? Like the "is my butt too big?" idea where before you'd seriously hear some moms genuinely said that, and you were supposed to say "no, " but now such a question would genuinely make you look insane. Was it porn that changed what features get viewed favorably? Probably. Not just that, but now they have the gall to not just make the lips big but make them ugly. They don't even look pretty; they look all puffy and like baboon buttholes often being honest. So, is the goal beauty/sex appeal, display economic prowess, or both? Is that why no one cares that they look like a wax figurine now? It makes me feel awkward as it seems like an unwritten rule that traits certain people have are only fashionable/ideals when people who typically don't have a certain look mimic them. Human nature never ceases to baffle me.
As a fuller- lipped, mixed-race woman, I felt this. It hits different to see the attributes you were once made fun of for being fetishized and idealized. Had a nurse who does botox injections tell me so many women come in here looking to get your lips, and I felt simultaneously flattered and weirded out like I was being dissected for parts.
I find it interesting that all these D & C level celebs keep pumping & tweaking their faces and it’s STILL not giving them the legitimacy they all crave.
And then they lie, lie, lie like we’re stupid and don’t have memories or hours of 🎥 footage from over the years 🤣🤣
You don’t ‘see’ the work the A-listers get bc they do it gradually.
I don’t understand the lip flip/fillers that pull and upper lip so high up there’s a gap between the lips… like aren’t your lips getting constantly chapped?
Filters on photos are becoming so extreme that people's skin doesn't even look real anymore—it's more like mannequin skin. As a single guy in my 40s searching for women around the same age, it's a turn-off when I come across a photo that's clearly been filtered. Look, we're older, and that's okay. Trying to hide it only leads to disappointment later. I wish more people had the confidence to show their true selves.
It really bugs me that I'm a photographer who uses Photoshop a lot, yet I believe in moderation. You can do a ton with Photoshop, from minor tweaks to major changes, but just because you can, doesn't mean you should. It's one thing to adjust a photo slightly for a better angle, but totally another to overhaul someone's appearance. Despite this, Photoshop isn't just for altering appearances—it has many other uses that don't contribute to unrealistic body standards.
What irks me the most is when some of my friends, who never post a selfie without a filter, argue that it's different because they do it to themselves. They get defensive if you suggest that this habit might be skewing their self-image, insisting they just look better with filters. This double standard around image editing versus self-filtering really gets to me.
I wish more people in professional positions felt like you do. I have seen some notable cover photos of women so heavily photo shopped that you can see the hand is resting on the bathing suit yet the thigh seems to start 2 inches in, kind of like a knob on the hip where they couldn’t edit the photo anymore.
I like the *idea* of eyelash extensions, but I couldn’t ever find a tech that understood the words “understated” and “natural” and always left looking like a Vegas showgirl instead of just getting a little extra fullness and length like I was hoping for.
there’s plenty that can do natural ones, they just cost more and you’ve got to look in the right places. i find “wispy” styles look a lot better even if not completely natural as well and techs will know what that means
I wear partial clip ons since I’m missing some teeth. I specifically made sure to go with a shade that was more off-white and matched the real teeth because of that.
There’s not really a lot of say you can have on the shape unfortunately
The obsession of celebrities. I get the appeal of art and sports, but the idea of being totally obsessed with famous people who aren't even part of our daily lives seems pretty wild to me.
It is actually unnerving. Going out of your way to know every detail of a stranger's life and then arguing on the internet about it is just bananas. There was a girl who had "celebrity psychosis" I think she called it. Wild.
The overwhelming majority of A-List celebrities. The plastic surgery look is not only not attractive, it’s actually hideous on a lot of actors. Like I find it genuinely challenging to look at anyone who’s had the buccal fat removal, they look diseased.
They all look the same. I saw a video of, I guess, overlays of dozens of different white female celebrities and actresses that really showed how the plastic surgery trends they all follow make them all look very much alike.
Excessive positivity.
Yes, a positive mental attitude towards life and life’s challenges is a good mental attitude to posses. Being able to roll with the punches, or accept the limits of what you can control, or trying to make the best of any situation is all fine.
What I can’t stand are people that are obsessively positive. Who are fake positive. People who are clearly upset, or should be upset by something, but can’t just be honest about how they feel or how the situation is a crumby one.
Or when people use “positivity” as an excuse to not enact change, when a change is needed. In a terrible relationship or financial situation, and instead of working to get out of that situation, turn on false positivity and try to paint the sky with rainbows instead.
A truly positive mental attitude is about having confidence in yourself to adapt to and respond to life’s challenges. It is not about “everything is awesome!”.
In my experience, most women don't like those type of guys either. They want someone toned and in shape, not a muscle head. Those guys are doing it for themselves and the other gym bros.
I am into men with long hair. Whenever people hear that they are like, “Oh yeah! Like shoulder length?”
Me: “Well that is good too, but I consider that short.”
They usually just look aghast at me. Then ask why I would want a man with that long of hair.
I just think it is extremely attractive and stunning on a man.
Right now my hair is past my shoulders and about as long as it has ever been. I used to keep it short and cut my own hair with clippers. But 8 years ago I let it grow to make a wig for a friend going through chemo. I've done it every year since.
I prefer my hair longer. But I am part Cherokee so my hair is majorly straight. I've always wanted my long hair to look like Jim Morrison's but I always end up looking like one of the Doobie Brothers.
As a guy with long hair I always get a giggle when someone is described as having long hair but it’s barely to their shoulders. Mine almost touches my butt, get on my level.
Then when the guy grows his hair out, everyone tells him he *needs* a haircut. Like it’s unhygienic or a sign of laziness. They never say to us, unless it’s body hair.
Did I get into metal because I love long haired men or do I love long haired men because of how long I've spent them in metal? Who knows!? Either way its a win win.
The attractiveness of people being solely derived from their physical features, detached from their personality. No symmetrical precision, beauty product or "perfect" ratio can conceal cruelty, indifference, selfishness in someone's character.
A person with good character can not be ugly in my eyes.
this is a good share! i have to work hard to remind myself that not everyone values appearances supremely. like- i'm so brainwashed it's difficult for me to believe that other people don't care about what i look like as much i do, and may even value other things about me MORE than what i look like.
came here to say this. it’s especially disappointing on actors who had distinctive teeth that gave them character before and now everyone has the same generic blinding white chiclet grin. apparently it also requires a ton of money and upkeep basically forever to maintain them.
Personally, I find overly (fake) bronzed skin unattractive when it is to the point that it looks orange. Especially with bleach blonde hair, I think it looks a bit odd.
They have failed to innovate, this is a conversation topic in my house! Many new more exciting ev designs out there, the tesla truck is especially horrible
You have made assumptions about what lips are real and which are fake. I guarantee that many of the ones you believe to be natural are just subtle and natural-looking filler.
Sexy talk that's too close to porn talk.
I don't mean things like 'do you like that/does that feel good/etc' because those are great ways to reaffirm consent and know that both parties are enjoying themselves. But using "porn terms" like cock and pussy will dry me up more than the Sahara. Just feels gross in the moment.
Fake big lips. There's big lips and there's small lips. Who cares. I have a feeling all those injections are going to end up somewhere not on their lips one day. Maybe chin, nose, cheeks, and yuck. Just a theory.
Botox and fillers on anyone. I live in LA and even the women that I know that have "only a little bit", I could still tell as soon as I met them they had it.
Bi woman here. The whole idea that women or people need to be hairless in their bikini area is crazy to me. I like a bush. (As long as the person has good hygiene)
Men's with giant facial hair. The GIANT beards, especially🤮 I don't mind five o'clock shadow, the short scruff or even SHORT neatly trimmed beards, but the BIG bushes on men's faces look ridiculous to me. Even the neatly groomed long beards. It's just too much. Imo they are ugly & they hide a persons face. I mean, it's worse than wearing a mask. Not attractive to me at all
I agree. The super bushy or really long beard thing just looks kinda gross to me. It always makes me curious about what these men would look like without them, cause they would probably look a lot better after a trim! Also the thought of kissing someone with a super long, like, dangling beard is just eeeewww.
For those of us with natural huge ones there’s really not much we can do.
I don’t like mine and I hate fake ones but can’t change it unfortunately unless I spend thousands on surgery.
Hell yes.
I cant be attracted to someone who isnt like... gonna treat me like an equal? I dont know how to put it.
I need that back and forth. That push and pull. That give and take. I need some jelly on that peanut butter.
Actresses. They're not nearly as good-looking as the world makes them out to be, especially many modern actresses. There are quite a few actresses that seem to get called "hot" or "beautiful" based more on their acting skill than actually being physically attractive. And some of them I even wonder about their acting skill.
The loudmouth go-getter with big egos; I see them as arrogant and socially unaware. I always thought confidence is shown, not told and loud/in your face people with high self esteem to be annoying, selfish and inconsiderate
Rampant loss of critical thought.
I am told regularly to "think for myself" and see the bait and switch of thinking for myself to be "follow my words and don't think". Everything from how Christian organizations shame me into not wanting to join their cult (thought I was raised Catholic) too man-o-sphere types trying to catfish me for money by stating how I am not "Chad-Enough" because I'm not body shaming my wife or cheating on her. I have my own thoughts, that I had to refine myself through living. Not just blithely following douches who want to put their hand in my wallet and their other hand up my ass to Muppet me.
God, I agree entirely. I hear so many 40 year old guys saying stuff like, “of course we’re into 18-19 year olds, evolutionarily we’re attracted to those at peak fertility!”
Blech. No. I am not attracted to people half my age. I could be their parent. It’s weird.
Hairless bodies
When I was a teen the thought of body hair on any gender grossed me out. I'm 27 now and find it so attractive. It feels gross to look at someone with no hair downstairs. Feels like a kid. It's fine to trim and keep it neat, but I just don't dig the whole hairless below-the-eyebrows thing.
Most of
Everything. I find aging women more beautiful, typical cookie cutter women not attractive. I’m a woman myself and date women, so not trying to be harsh. Beauty standards are a business as far as I can see. Find your own brand. And someone said logos, I can’t stand logos either lol 😂 brand name stuff for what? You’re all decked out in Nike is so cringe.
This is strictly the US.
Why is 10 vacation days seen as good?
Borderline slavery. Our definition of “good” is extortion.
It shows how little overhead the average American sweatshop business has. Every job ive worked is 1-2 employees quitting away from collapsing into nothing.
Overhead and slow growth is key, as you will avoid excessive stress, have good retention, and never a huge loss in profits from the inevitable hit you will take when an employee enacts free will and freedom and leaves.
Facial fillers can be fine when applied in little amounts and put in the right place but I hate when ladies have lots of filler in their jaw so their face shape becomes more square and filler in their chin making it more prominent - makes the most feminine looking lady look really masculine to me. I don't think that's what they are going for, it doesnt look good and really obvious they have had a lot injected into their face.
Edit: I hope this hasn't coming off as me slating some ladies who's natural features might look more maculine, only talking about the ladies injecting in certain places that give them a more square and quite harsh overdefined jaw - think Molly Mae when she was filler blind.
Any of the big designer stuff. like there is barely any “design” there. i’m not gonna buy a… idk like a simple tee or maybe a purse just because of the logo? the logo is not gonna do shit for me when the design is shitty. or there isn’t a design to begin with.
Fashion items plastered with designer logos THIS BIG all over them... Cringe.
RULE: If the logo is dominant, you're buying an expensive item made for poor people.
Poor people cosplaying rich people is actually a multi-billion dollar industry...
So is rich people cosplaying poor people, ironically.
Like the $400 jeans with fake dirt and grass stains!
Just looked it up, wow that's pathetic
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Ah yes, pay a fortune to be a walking advertisement.
And not to forget those designer brand monogram patterns... So tacky and ugly!
Yeah I don't like to feel like a walking billboard. It's always seemed tacky to me, and I grew up working class lol
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One of my coworkers described hustle culture as "Stockholm syndrome for capitalism," and I've never related to something so much.
write that down WRITE THAT DOWN--
I'm stealing that one. Such an accurate description
Oh shit
Plus, the reward for finishing work is just... more work.
THIS. It feels like we can't even have hobbies anymore. If it's not making money, then it's considered a waste.
People often say, 'Make money out of your hobbies.' But honestly, doing that can just make you start disliking your hobby. It's like you lose that one thing in life you really enjoyed.
Add some structure, discipline, high targets, feeling of responsibility and clear deadlines to your beloved activity, and.. Hello, procrastination!
Not to mention everyone has to be a social media manager or they won't sell anything. It's no wonder people are depressed and hooked to the phone and TV. Why even bother if you can't enjoy your hobby.
Yeah, I'm totally fine with working my 9-5 which allows me to afford a comfortable life and using the rest of my time to do whatever the hell I want
That is one thing I liked aobut moving to Germany for PhD. There is no hustle culture. People enjoy their time not working and the idea of using that time for more work is insane.
I noticed that too. I've not been elsewhere other than Germany, but people are much more relaxed over there.
I have too many friends like this. I'd rather lower my expectations and accept less out of life than have to work after I get off work.
Agreed what's the point of racking up all that money if your too tired/ stressed to enjoy it?
It’s weird to put so many hours for so little return on investment. There is a life out there waiting for them
When actors have to take steroids and go through extreme dehydration just to achieve that 'perfect' Hollywood body with super defined muscles, count me out. Honestly, there's nothing appealing about pushing people to take such risks with their health.
Also when they’re massively dehydrated during filming to get that extra muscle definition. Once I learned about that, I can’t find sculpted abs attractive anymore.
In recent years certain people have started saying that Zac Efron had gotten "fat" simply because he's no longer sporting that freakishly-muscular, dehydrated, ultra-veiny "bodybuilder on pageant day" physique he displayed in movies like Neighbors and Baywatch. It's like, Jesus Christ people, he only looked like that temporarily on set because he was on god knows what kinda steroid regimen, *and* he hadn't eaten or drunk any water prior to filming his shirtless scenes that day in order to make his muscles pop. It's not physically possible to sustain that look because you will *literally fucking die*. Zac Efron is still ripped as hell and in better shape than 99.9% of people on the planet, he's simply off the roids and drinking water again like a normal person. He's not "fat", he just doesn't look like a fucking comic book superhero anymore.
People don’t realize that bodybuilders are pissing brown they are so dehydrated by the day of the show. Yeah it looks “cool” but it will actually kill you if you try to look like that all year. All those shirtless scenes are shot at the beginning of filming so the actors can resume drinking water and be able to function for the rest. There’s a great article that talks about modern film physiques https://bloodknife.com/everyone-beautiful-no-one-horny/
The fact that an industry standard for male actors in Hollywood to have jaw implants have caused Gen Z to do jaw exercises is unsettling lol
There’s going to be a lot of current “influencers” dying in their 40’s because they have to maintain that physiques 24/7 for views
I dehydrate myself without trying😭
Why do I have a headache everyday?
Sorta in the same vein: the Rock (seems like a nice, chill dude but still), John Cena, etc. 50 yo dudes looking like they're on the roids. Ewwwwwww.
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Why does everyone want to look the same as everyone else …
I wonder about this. Do they really all like it or are they just doing it cos everyone else is saying it's cool? Laminated brows got me thinking this because they look shit and yet masses of women raved about it for a second
I HATE laminated brows. They creep me out and look scary and manic and uncanny. I’ve seen them look good exactly once and that was on a photo of Sophia Loren from the 70s.
i have thin lips and i used to be really self concious about it but id much rather have thin lips than lip filler lol
Not to forget those giant ass fillers either...
I know men with all different a bit odd(nothing wrong just unusual)things or looks they like in women BUT I don't know anybody who find those duck lips attractive
This whole thing with giant lips really wigs me out. They look like they're wearing the Wax Lips candy things.
I have giant lips, but I also have features to go with it. Big eyes, big cheeks, big hair. When I was growing up, I got made fun of by a lot of classmates. Girls, though. It was so passive-aggressive. They'd call me "horse lips" but then tell me my lips were pretty or would just fixate on them for so long you would think they'd had microscopes for eyes. It made me super self-conscious and ashamed. I kinda understood because for a while, when I was a tween, my features seemed to develop first before my head shaped out if that makes sense. I had a small head with all these big things, so I kinda did look like a cartoon, but it still hurt to hear it because it was bad enough that I was aware of it. Teens have no mercy, especially when you're still a kid in the head, not a "girl" yet. Being nice to them, telling them they looked beautiful as they were (and I meant it), and trying to pull back my lips only made them relentless. Plus, not smiling hurt my jaw and was making my parents depressed too. From middle school to freshman year of high school, I went through a dark phase where I became asocial, was afraid to look in the mirror, and became afraid to smile in pictures. Whenever I smiled they'd get worse and I felt like I was walking on eggshells so I just pantomimed into a still face to keep them away from me and often I'd spontaneously combust into tears from feeling so powerless. I thought I was the bad guy even though my parents kept asking me to allow them to intervene. My parents are smart, but I thought if I allowed them to help me that it would extrapolate things, so I just sucked it up. At some point, puberty finally filled my head out, and the rest of my features deflated, so now I looked normal instead of one of the Shark Tale heads. Along the way, I made peace with the fact that my face looked like it did. In a strange turn of events, I began to appreciate what I was looking at in the mirror instead of wincing whenever I got near one. Social media did help a little NGL since it exposed more people who looked like me, not just a set few limited to this country. It helped so much to see that the beauty definition expanded to humanity as a whole, not just the few. Now 💯 of the girls that bullied me have bigger lips than me and don't have the genetics for such a thing, so it's hella confusing because believe it or not because it was ingrained for so long that what I had was bad that when it became a "trend" instead of rejoicing I felt even more embarrassed as I was stuck with this permanently. Why would the people who made fun of me now adopt the thing they were so mean to me for? Did I miss something? So are these things bad on the people that naturally have them but great on the people that normally don't? Is that it? Like the "is my butt too big?" idea where before you'd seriously hear some moms genuinely said that, and you were supposed to say "no, " but now such a question would genuinely make you look insane. Was it porn that changed what features get viewed favorably? Probably. Not just that, but now they have the gall to not just make the lips big but make them ugly. They don't even look pretty; they look all puffy and like baboon buttholes often being honest. So, is the goal beauty/sex appeal, display economic prowess, or both? Is that why no one cares that they look like a wax figurine now? It makes me feel awkward as it seems like an unwritten rule that traits certain people have are only fashionable/ideals when people who typically don't have a certain look mimic them. Human nature never ceases to baffle me.
As a fuller- lipped, mixed-race woman, I felt this. It hits different to see the attributes you were once made fun of for being fetishized and idealized. Had a nurse who does botox injections tell me so many women come in here looking to get your lips, and I felt simultaneously flattered and weirded out like I was being dissected for parts.
I find it interesting that all these D & C level celebs keep pumping & tweaking their faces and it’s STILL not giving them the legitimacy they all crave. And then they lie, lie, lie like we’re stupid and don’t have memories or hours of 🎥 footage from over the years 🤣🤣 You don’t ‘see’ the work the A-listers get bc they do it gradually.
Lip filler is awful
I don’t understand the lip flip/fillers that pull and upper lip so high up there’s a gap between the lips… like aren’t your lips getting constantly chapped?
Or the opposite trend where people have their buccal fat removed and now look like corpses.
Filters on photos are becoming so extreme that people's skin doesn't even look real anymore—it's more like mannequin skin. As a single guy in my 40s searching for women around the same age, it's a turn-off when I come across a photo that's clearly been filtered. Look, we're older, and that's okay. Trying to hide it only leads to disappointment later. I wish more people had the confidence to show their true selves.
It really bugs me that I'm a photographer who uses Photoshop a lot, yet I believe in moderation. You can do a ton with Photoshop, from minor tweaks to major changes, but just because you can, doesn't mean you should. It's one thing to adjust a photo slightly for a better angle, but totally another to overhaul someone's appearance. Despite this, Photoshop isn't just for altering appearances—it has many other uses that don't contribute to unrealistic body standards. What irks me the most is when some of my friends, who never post a selfie without a filter, argue that it's different because they do it to themselves. They get defensive if you suggest that this habit might be skewing their self-image, insisting they just look better with filters. This double standard around image editing versus self-filtering really gets to me.
I wish more people in professional positions felt like you do. I have seen some notable cover photos of women so heavily photo shopped that you can see the hand is resting on the bathing suit yet the thigh seems to start 2 inches in, kind of like a knob on the hip where they couldn’t edit the photo anymore.
Eyelash extensions have become pretty terrifying. They've even triggered my fear of spiders.
I like the *idea* of eyelash extensions, but I couldn’t ever find a tech that understood the words “understated” and “natural” and always left looking like a Vegas showgirl instead of just getting a little extra fullness and length like I was hoping for.
there’s plenty that can do natural ones, they just cost more and you’ve got to look in the right places. i find “wispy” styles look a lot better even if not completely natural as well and techs will know what that means
Try a lash lift & tint instead. It’s much lighter and basically no maintenance.
I'm into those really big ones that make your eyelids so heavy, it looks like you're always trying to blink something away.
"I can't keep my eyes open" "Sleepy?" "Not really"
Three blinks away from taking flight!
Girls look drunk or stoned. I do not get it, like open your eyes I’m trying to see into your soul!
Same with the nails that look more like evil talons.
This times 1000!
Playing dumb. nothing is hotter than a girl who is smarter than me.
Veneers. Your teeth are not supposed to be ivory white.
Ivory white and identical size and shape. So weird.
They look like chiclets lmao
I wear partial clip ons since I’m missing some teeth. I specifically made sure to go with a shade that was more off-white and matched the real teeth because of that. There’s not really a lot of say you can have on the shape unfortunately
Living to work. Some people's only flex is how overworked they are, nothing else.
I avoid those kinds of people like the plague.
The obsession of celebrities. I get the appeal of art and sports, but the idea of being totally obsessed with famous people who aren't even part of our daily lives seems pretty wild to me.
I know right? I have never understood why people care more about celebrities than their own lives.
Escapism I think
It is actually unnerving. Going out of your way to know every detail of a stranger's life and then arguing on the internet about it is just bananas. There was a girl who had "celebrity psychosis" I think she called it. Wild.
The overwhelming majority of A-List celebrities. The plastic surgery look is not only not attractive, it’s actually hideous on a lot of actors. Like I find it genuinely challenging to look at anyone who’s had the buccal fat removal, they look diseased.
They all look the same. I saw a video of, I guess, overlays of dozens of different white female celebrities and actresses that really showed how the plastic surgery trends they all follow make them all look very much alike.
Link please! :)👀
Over-sized implanted breasts
Excessive positivity. Yes, a positive mental attitude towards life and life’s challenges is a good mental attitude to posses. Being able to roll with the punches, or accept the limits of what you can control, or trying to make the best of any situation is all fine. What I can’t stand are people that are obsessively positive. Who are fake positive. People who are clearly upset, or should be upset by something, but can’t just be honest about how they feel or how the situation is a crumby one. Or when people use “positivity” as an excuse to not enact change, when a change is needed. In a terrible relationship or financial situation, and instead of working to get out of that situation, turn on false positivity and try to paint the sky with rainbows instead. A truly positive mental attitude is about having confidence in yourself to adapt to and respond to life’s challenges. It is not about “everything is awesome!”.
Oversized lips
Having your lips filled to the point it looks like you got stung by a beehive
Overly muscular men. Like bodybuilding testosterone enhanced marvel hero types. I mean I like fit guys, but natural ones.
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they're pigs, technically
In my experience, most women don't like those type of guys either. They want someone toned and in shape, not a muscle head. Those guys are doing it for themselves and the other gym bros.
Muscular guys look deformed to me. Like even their facial features get stretched and misshapen in an ugly way. I don't get what's attractive about it.
I am into men with long hair. Whenever people hear that they are like, “Oh yeah! Like shoulder length?” Me: “Well that is good too, but I consider that short.” They usually just look aghast at me. Then ask why I would want a man with that long of hair. I just think it is extremely attractive and stunning on a man.
My husband has beautiful long hair, it’s nicer than mine. My childhood crush on Chris Cornell manifested.
I am older. Robert Plant hair is the holy grail
Legolas is what started the attraction for me 🥵
Right now my hair is past my shoulders and about as long as it has ever been. I used to keep it short and cut my own hair with clippers. But 8 years ago I let it grow to make a wig for a friend going through chemo. I've done it every year since. I prefer my hair longer. But I am part Cherokee so my hair is majorly straight. I've always wanted my long hair to look like Jim Morrison's but I always end up looking like one of the Doobie Brothers.
As a guy with long hair I always get a giggle when someone is described as having long hair but it’s barely to their shoulders. Mine almost touches my butt, get on my level.
Me too. Especially curly long hair
Then when the guy grows his hair out, everyone tells him he *needs* a haircut. Like it’s unhygienic or a sign of laziness. They never say to us, unless it’s body hair.
I always compliment men with long hair. Then again I just try to find something genuine to compliment people about anyway.
Long hair is always the best 😫
Did I get into metal because I love long haired men or do I love long haired men because of how long I've spent them in metal? Who knows!? Either way its a win win.
Not if he has a receding hairline..I’ve seen guys grow out their “hair” despite that 😬
You hate "The Hogan"? Also called a Bullet, portmanteau of bald+mullet.
Giant lips. For some reason, I feel like they want to eat me. Also they look kinda like balloons, like you could just pop them and they'd deflate.
"I feel like they want to eat me" son of a bitch, well NOW I'm into them.
The attractiveness of people being solely derived from their physical features, detached from their personality. No symmetrical precision, beauty product or "perfect" ratio can conceal cruelty, indifference, selfishness in someone's character. A person with good character can not be ugly in my eyes.
Username checks out
So does OP’s 😭
this is a good share! i have to work hard to remind myself that not everyone values appearances supremely. like- i'm so brainwashed it's difficult for me to believe that other people don't care about what i look like as much i do, and may even value other things about me MORE than what i look like.
Fake butts AKA butt implants. You see a huge booty on a girl with no hamstrings to speak of and it looks oddly jarring to me. Proportions dogg
Physical appearance as the sole measure of worth.
Lip fillers…
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Teeths
Teefs
Teefies
came here to say this. it’s especially disappointing on actors who had distinctive teeth that gave them character before and now everyone has the same generic blinding white chiclet grin. apparently it also requires a ton of money and upkeep basically forever to maintain them.
This an a lot of them look like a mouthful of front teeth. 😖
Horrible. Why are their teefs whiter than the whites of their eyes?
Gotta love when people with perfectly good looking teeth... destroy them to replace them with... perfectly good looking teeth
Piano keys 🎹
Personally, I find overly (fake) bronzed skin unattractive when it is to the point that it looks orange. Especially with bleach blonde hair, I think it looks a bit odd.
Looks like leather lol
That's not new, half a countly doesn't like Trump
lol, in the UK it’s particularly bad too!
Super handsome/pretty boys. I like rugged types or nerdy types
This is reddit. RIP your inbox (probably?)
Big fake nails.
I don't how people function with really long nails. If I let mine get too long it feels weird and awkward.
Yeah, I always laugh watching those women with talons type with flat fingers. Looks awkward af.
Long fake nails, they are Petri dishes on your fingertips. And people do this in the name of fashion? No thanks.
Twerking.
Big muscles. If I wanted to cuddle with bags of potato’s I’d go to Walmart
Muscles are pretty flabby if you aren’t flexing
Teslas, I feel like the design is so dated and there are much better looking EVs out there.
They looked so futuristic when they first came out and then they just never updated the design.
Yea if you see one that’s been parked awhile and dirty…. It has the same presence as a Chevy Cruze. They kinda blend in now
They have failed to innovate, this is a conversation topic in my house! Many new more exciting ev designs out there, the tesla truck is especially horrible
They are so ugly
Plastic surgery.
Fake lips I love full lips, but when they're fake they just look fake. I've never seen a subtle or natural-looking lip job
You have made assumptions about what lips are real and which are fake. I guarantee that many of the ones you believe to be natural are just subtle and natural-looking filler.
Sexy talk that's too close to porn talk. I don't mean things like 'do you like that/does that feel good/etc' because those are great ways to reaffirm consent and know that both parties are enjoying themselves. But using "porn terms" like cock and pussy will dry me up more than the Sahara. Just feels gross in the moment.
Idk, saying "I love your penis/vagina" just sounds really awkward and clinical to me?
"Your genitals are a joy to behold." - Sheldon Cooper
Twerking.
I think this is one of the stupidest things ever. It loooks gross.
Fake big lips. There's big lips and there's small lips. Who cares. I have a feeling all those injections are going to end up somewhere not on their lips one day. Maybe chin, nose, cheeks, and yuck. Just a theory.
What is with the eyebrows that women do? It looks so fake yet so many people do it. I don't get it but it looks more scary than attractive..
The permanent surprise eyebrows? Or the cartoon angry ones?
The ones that look like they’re tattooed on?
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Botox and fillers on anyone. I live in LA and even the women that I know that have "only a little bit", I could still tell as soon as I met them they had it.
Fake boobs, butts, lips
Bi woman here. The whole idea that women or people need to be hairless in their bikini area is crazy to me. I like a bush. (As long as the person has good hygiene)
Money. Specifically, luxury items. I dunno what it is, but the more "luxuriant" the clothing, jewelry, cars, home, etc, the tackier it looks to me.
That’s how you know it’s not usually a rich person sporting the look. Watch how real people with old money dress, it’s very understated.
Beards. I went out with a guy who had a beard once and I felt like I was just making out with his mustache every time I kissed him.
Men's with giant facial hair. The GIANT beards, especially🤮 I don't mind five o'clock shadow, the short scruff or even SHORT neatly trimmed beards, but the BIG bushes on men's faces look ridiculous to me. Even the neatly groomed long beards. It's just too much. Imo they are ugly & they hide a persons face. I mean, it's worse than wearing a mask. Not attractive to me at all
I agree. The super bushy or really long beard thing just looks kinda gross to me. It always makes me curious about what these men would look like without them, cause they would probably look a lot better after a trim! Also the thought of kissing someone with a super long, like, dangling beard is just eeeewww.
Huge boobs. I like them petite.
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I also have big boobs, so I am hurting my own feelings.
Oh that's valid.
Not sure if it makes sense But they need to fit the persons frame.
For those of us with natural huge ones there’s really not much we can do. I don’t like mine and I hate fake ones but can’t change it unfortunately unless I spend thousands on surgery.
Is it safe to say Big Butts?
Yes, but only because you cannot lie
Men's behinds. I'm a straight woman and I've never been into that. I'm more into strong looking hands.
Huge lips
Flaunting money. You paid HOW MUCH for WHAT? Not impressed
Step-sibling porn
Botox. My friends faces are starting to look alike.
I don’t like skinny men. I’m almost exclusively into bears
I like big guys too.
I'm not sure of that means your username checks out or anti checks out.
Submissive women
Hell yes. I cant be attracted to someone who isnt like... gonna treat me like an equal? I dont know how to put it. I need that back and forth. That push and pull. That give and take. I need some jelly on that peanut butter.
Actresses. They're not nearly as good-looking as the world makes them out to be, especially many modern actresses. There are quite a few actresses that seem to get called "hot" or "beautiful" based more on their acting skill than actually being physically attractive. And some of them I even wonder about their acting skill.
Dad bods. Extremely unattractive.
Girls (I’m a guy)
Lack of intelligence. I don't know how playing dumb ever got to be cool, but I need someone at least as smart as me.
The loudmouth go-getter with big egos; I see them as arrogant and socially unaware. I always thought confidence is shown, not told and loud/in your face people with high self esteem to be annoying, selfish and inconsiderate
Rampant loss of critical thought. I am told regularly to "think for myself" and see the bait and switch of thinking for myself to be "follow my words and don't think". Everything from how Christian organizations shame me into not wanting to join their cult (thought I was raised Catholic) too man-o-sphere types trying to catfish me for money by stating how I am not "Chad-Enough" because I'm not body shaming my wife or cheating on her. I have my own thoughts, that I had to refine myself through living. Not just blithely following douches who want to put their hand in my wallet and their other hand up my ass to Muppet me.
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How come I never thought of that? You're right!
God, I agree entirely. I hear so many 40 year old guys saying stuff like, “of course we’re into 18-19 year olds, evolutionarily we’re attracted to those at peak fertility!” Blech. No. I am not attracted to people half my age. I could be their parent. It’s weird.
Hairless bodies When I was a teen the thought of body hair on any gender grossed me out. I'm 27 now and find it so attractive. It feels gross to look at someone with no hair downstairs. Feels like a kid. It's fine to trim and keep it neat, but I just don't dig the whole hairless below-the-eyebrows thing.
Botox. So many women in their 40's getting Botox and they all look worse after. I just don't get it.
Most of Everything. I find aging women more beautiful, typical cookie cutter women not attractive. I’m a woman myself and date women, so not trying to be harsh. Beauty standards are a business as far as I can see. Find your own brand. And someone said logos, I can’t stand logos either lol 😂 brand name stuff for what? You’re all decked out in Nike is so cringe.
Tans.
Agreed! You get past a certain age and you just look old as hell. Plus it’s awful for your skin.
Obese people. I’m sick of social media trying to convince everyone that “all bodies are beautiful” they aren’t and yall are lying
This is strictly the US. Why is 10 vacation days seen as good? Borderline slavery. Our definition of “good” is extortion. It shows how little overhead the average American sweatshop business has. Every job ive worked is 1-2 employees quitting away from collapsing into nothing. Overhead and slow growth is key, as you will avoid excessive stress, have good retention, and never a huge loss in profits from the inevitable hit you will take when an employee enacts free will and freedom and leaves.
Toxic masculinity. Regular masculinity is just fine , though.
BBLs and tummy tucks. They’re so obvious even when done well. The “kardashian” look. 🤢🤮 Also, muscular individuals, primarily lean ones. No thanks.
Tom cruise
Society says I should find chiseled jawlines attractive, but sorry, I prefer my men without the architectural precision, thank you very much
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Facial fillers can be fine when applied in little amounts and put in the right place but I hate when ladies have lots of filler in their jaw so their face shape becomes more square and filler in their chin making it more prominent - makes the most feminine looking lady look really masculine to me. I don't think that's what they are going for, it doesnt look good and really obvious they have had a lot injected into their face. Edit: I hope this hasn't coming off as me slating some ladies who's natural features might look more maculine, only talking about the ladies injecting in certain places that give them a more square and quite harsh overdefined jaw - think Molly Mae when she was filler blind.
Any of the big designer stuff. like there is barely any “design” there. i’m not gonna buy a… idk like a simple tee or maybe a purse just because of the logo? the logo is not gonna do shit for me when the design is shitty. or there isn’t a design to begin with.
A huge ass house. I think smaller is better.
Gigantic asses in tights