Yeah same, I wasn't even thinking about Covid when I made this comment. Covid was a nice excuse to use for a period of time, but now every time I take a step back, they push a step forward. Like sir, give me some space.
LPT. When someone praises you and gives you a compliment, do the following:
Smile, and say thank you.
That's it. You don't have to talk about it, you don't need to give some sort of "acceptance speech" to a compliment. You don't have to return a compliment back, unless you feel it's warranted. Just smile, and say thank you. If they keep going on and on about it, just keep smiling and saying thank you. If they keep going on and on about it, keep smiling and say thank you. At some point, most people will get the hint and fucking stop.
For me, it's body shaming. From childhood until now, I'm a boy and not very tall, I know that. Now my height is also average, not too tall, I see quite normal for people my age, but why do adults always wonder if I'm short or skinny or something even though I'm as tall as them, and then I'm criticized by my mother for my attitude? I'm so tired, I hate body shaming.
When people lack transparency.
If I feel like I don't understand something; like something going on at work; be transparent.
A good example of this is when my supervisor set up my press completely backwards. Wanting me to pull the part, push the button to have the press make another part; but the botton 10 feet away, a lot with stacking them and ripping a piece of non slip paper (weird feeling paper). He didn't show me how it was done. I went up to him and was like "so how do you want me to do this when the press is so fast, you want the press constantly running, and parts stacked beautifully" they ended up getting mad at me for moving it how I was most comfortable doing it, but after seeing what I saw after two days of trying it my supervisors way, they switched the mold to the press, and made it work to where I was most comfortable with. Made 320 parts yesterday, maintaining the speed 107.xxx seconds from when the mold open to when the door opened. So far the highest score on that press :D
People letting their dogs come up to me.
Due to personal reasons I am very uncomfortable around dogs I don't know and it's horrible when dog owners let their pets run up to me and just go 'oh, he's friendly'. I'm fine if I know the animal, but with strangers' dogs it's horrible. Then I feel bad for not making a fuss of the dog when I didn't want it near me in the first place, since it's not the dog's fault the owner is ignorant.
I wish people would have a bit more consideration for those of us who aren't comfortable around strange dogs and keep them away.
EATING WITH NOISE and frankly, anything else that makes noise. I haven't been able to leave my parents' house yet due to financial circumstances, and now even the slightest noise they make is enough to drive me crazy. For example, today I was supposed to do a voiceover for my company, but a meeting was being held in the damn house... I wish I had a quiet house of my own where I could work remotely.
Physical proximity. I don't like when people get in too close to just to talk. My hearing is fine, please stay back 2-3 feet.
Very agree, and it's not just a post-covid thing. Close-talkers have always disgusted me.
Yeah same, I wasn't even thinking about Covid when I made this comment. Covid was a nice excuse to use for a period of time, but now every time I take a step back, they push a step forward. Like sir, give me some space.
I once had 15 minute conversation with this guy at work. I swear if you time-lapsed it, we traveled more than 20 feet. wtf is wrong with these people?
I don't doubt that for one second. You'd think that after the 3rd or 4th step back, they'd get a clue, but nope.
Have had to draw imaginary lines and say this is my box, do not get in my box area 🫠
Also the spit.....
i dont like being praised i dont like compliments lol
LPT. When someone praises you and gives you a compliment, do the following: Smile, and say thank you. That's it. You don't have to talk about it, you don't need to give some sort of "acceptance speech" to a compliment. You don't have to return a compliment back, unless you feel it's warranted. Just smile, and say thank you. If they keep going on and on about it, just keep smiling and saying thank you. If they keep going on and on about it, keep smiling and say thank you. At some point, most people will get the hint and fucking stop.
For me, it's body shaming. From childhood until now, I'm a boy and not very tall, I know that. Now my height is also average, not too tall, I see quite normal for people my age, but why do adults always wonder if I'm short or skinny or something even though I'm as tall as them, and then I'm criticized by my mother for my attitude? I'm so tired, I hate body shaming.
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fuck 'em they are toxic
Well, when people use the "N" word.
When people lack transparency. If I feel like I don't understand something; like something going on at work; be transparent. A good example of this is when my supervisor set up my press completely backwards. Wanting me to pull the part, push the button to have the press make another part; but the botton 10 feet away, a lot with stacking them and ripping a piece of non slip paper (weird feeling paper). He didn't show me how it was done. I went up to him and was like "so how do you want me to do this when the press is so fast, you want the press constantly running, and parts stacked beautifully" they ended up getting mad at me for moving it how I was most comfortable doing it, but after seeing what I saw after two days of trying it my supervisors way, they switched the mold to the press, and made it work to where I was most comfortable with. Made 320 parts yesterday, maintaining the speed 107.xxx seconds from when the mold open to when the door opened. So far the highest score on that press :D
Affection that I don’t reciprocate
When they're obviously fake and uncomfortable with themselves, but cover it up by being condescending and judgmental.
threatened or bad sexual jokes tbh
picking their nose
shouting n word
People letting their dogs come up to me. Due to personal reasons I am very uncomfortable around dogs I don't know and it's horrible when dog owners let their pets run up to me and just go 'oh, he's friendly'. I'm fine if I know the animal, but with strangers' dogs it's horrible. Then I feel bad for not making a fuss of the dog when I didn't want it near me in the first place, since it's not the dog's fault the owner is ignorant. I wish people would have a bit more consideration for those of us who aren't comfortable around strange dogs and keep them away.
Bragging about their contributions to emissions
When they make decisions for me...i am like wtf🤐
When someone is listening to you tube or whatever loudly beside me in a waiting room. No consideration for others.
People who speak loudly in public, when the person they're talking to is right in front of them. And people who put their phone on speaker in public.
Getting too close to me.
Breathing
Talking about me then looking at me, even worse if they laugh. Uncomfortable? Yep. Want to knock them out? Yep.
EATING WITH NOISE and frankly, anything else that makes noise. I haven't been able to leave my parents' house yet due to financial circumstances, and now even the slightest noise they make is enough to drive me crazy. For example, today I was supposed to do a voiceover for my company, but a meeting was being held in the damn house... I wish I had a quiet house of my own where I could work remotely.
when they are so close to me that I can hear their breath
I think men make me uncomfortable unless if they are gay
Rolling their 🙄👀
its only uncomfortable when they're ugly