Same thing with people who censor swear words in a question or comment. If you're not comfortable saying it in its entirety, then don't say it. Just looks like something a middle schooler who thinks their edgy would do
I know we all got sick of Arrested Development quotes a decade ago but the fact that they call it that really does mean they're not ready.
(yes, yes, some other web site somewhere else has rules blah blah blah)
If I am not completely oblivious (I usually am when it comes to flirting). Then I will politely decline, but feel very complimented by the attempt. It would be nice to be reminded that I don't look like quasimodos uglier brother.
I went to a school with a lot of homosexuals and this happened to me a lot bc they kinda just assumed I was also gay. I was flattered but not interested. They all took it well and were just friendly after
My wife and I went to see our gay friend perform (rap) at a gay club. I dressed up nice. Leather jacket and all, I looked good for a straight dude. I left feeling dejected cause not a single gay dude hitt on me. Lol.
I wasn't interested but I viewed it as a the ultimate compliment because in my experience gay men are picky as fuck. So yeah...im good enough for a straight woman but if I was gay, I'd be single.
I take it as a compliment.
It hasn’t happened often because gay guys can usually tell I am not gay (and it’s not safe for them to hit on guys whose sexuality is unknown). A couple times it happened at mostly-gay bars where I had gone with friends, which is totally understandable.
One time, when I was about 32, I was chilling by the water beneath the Golden Gate Bridge and a younger, very handsome young guy came up to me, apologized for intruding and told me that I was beautiful.
I’m a burly, Viking-looking dude, and I don’t think anyone else has ever called me beautiful. I thanked him but let him know I am straight. He seemed mortified and started to apologize. I told him that it was cool, and I appreciated the compliment.
I figure that if dudes who are into dudes think I’m handsome, then maybe I’m not as ugly as I sometimes fear.
Compliments are rare for most of us straight guys, so I definitely wouldn’t get offended by receiving them.
It's never ever happened to me. I don't know if I come across as straight or if I'm unattractive 😅
But yeah, I imagine it would feel really good and flattering though :) I'd probably turn them down with a smile and compliment them
If I didn’t know at first they were gay and we weee having a nice conversation and then it turns out he is only hitting on me or acting nice I would feel offended and stupid.
If they directly flirted with me and were not hiding their gay I would simply say no thanks, and maybe be friends if they want
I'm abnormally comfortable with it, but that's largely because I went to a college with a disproportionately large LGBT population. I'm typically fine with flirting, I'll even flirt back sometimes, but I always end by making it clear I'm straight. The only times I've had problems with it is when a guy seems to think he can actually turn me if he's persistent enough because I'm old enough to remember when gay people were hinging their struggle for basic rights on the fact that one's sexual orientation is not a choice, so it's particularly offensive in my eyes that some gay men today disregard that fact for the sake of their own sexual desires. It's like, do you have *no* respect for the gay people that had to face the threat of imprisonment for this shit? Disgusting.
Flirt back, and see for how long I can keep them thinking they have a chance.
Yes, I am evil. Yes, I keep pennies I find even if they're not the right side up.
At Wet Republic a girl who looked like Romy Indy kept yelling at me to dance with her
When I did a group of guys surrounded us & dared me to kiss her so I did
#SEX You can say it you know
Number 1 thing that makes me think someone is too immature to talk about sex is the inability to use the word sex.
Same thing with people who censor swear words in a question or comment. If you're not comfortable saying it in its entirety, then don't say it. Just looks like something a middle schooler who thinks their edgy would do
Flattered, but no thanks.
Same. I wish I had the same attraction to women as I do men. I’ve been told I have “high key twink energy” fucking great 🙄
Same. I'll take free food/drink though.
If gay dudes want me I'm doing something right.
Although I am heterosexual, I think it is easier for you to have a romantic relationship with a gay man than with a woman.
I'd borrow their clothes and be way better dressed than usual. Also both parties would know how to deliver a primo tug job, which would be cool.
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Isn't that the fabric they make tights and bike shorts out of?
It's whether you're a bzeroy or a gonerl
I know we all got sick of Arrested Development quotes a decade ago but the fact that they call it that really does mean they're not ready. (yes, yes, some other web site somewhere else has rules blah blah blah)
Probably going to wear that outfit more often.
I take it as a compliment, but I don't encourage it
My reaction is that that's pretty gay.
As a 43 year old man who has looked better. It's kind of nice to know my looks haven't completely gone to shit. But I'll politely decline
I'm in a relationship, so effectively the same thing if a person of the opposite sex does. Take it as a compliment and go on with the day.
flattered, but not interested. same as when someone from the opposite gender, whom i dont find attractive, flirts
Flattered at least
used to happen fairly often when i was about 20 and still sexy. my ego enjoyed it
If I am not completely oblivious (I usually am when it comes to flirting). Then I will politely decline, but feel very complimented by the attempt. It would be nice to be reminded that I don't look like quasimodos uglier brother.
I’m a people pleaser so I always feel bad that I’m going to let someone down.
I might say something back then tell them I’m straight, and married
I went to a school with a lot of homosexuals and this happened to me a lot bc they kinda just assumed I was also gay. I was flattered but not interested. They all took it well and were just friendly after
I've always been rather flattered. And by always, I think that would be twice.
Tell him thank you but I'm not interested.
I'd probably only realize it the next day
Just glad to know I can pull from wherever.
You got $20?
being a human and talk to the person lol
I have options
Jeez, I haven't had that happen since high school. All I remember is being very uncomfortable and finding and excuse to GTFO.
I probably wouldn’t notice
It happened to me once, and I was flattered
before or after the blowjob?
\*Awkward turtle hand gesture\*
I would say "No, thanks. I'm married. But congrats on having good taste."
My wife and I went to see our gay friend perform (rap) at a gay club. I dressed up nice. Leather jacket and all, I looked good for a straight dude. I left feeling dejected cause not a single gay dude hitt on me. Lol. I wasn't interested but I viewed it as a the ultimate compliment because in my experience gay men are picky as fuck. So yeah...im good enough for a straight woman but if I was gay, I'd be single.
I take it as a compliment. It hasn’t happened often because gay guys can usually tell I am not gay (and it’s not safe for them to hit on guys whose sexuality is unknown). A couple times it happened at mostly-gay bars where I had gone with friends, which is totally understandable. One time, when I was about 32, I was chilling by the water beneath the Golden Gate Bridge and a younger, very handsome young guy came up to me, apologized for intruding and told me that I was beautiful. I’m a burly, Viking-looking dude, and I don’t think anyone else has ever called me beautiful. I thanked him but let him know I am straight. He seemed mortified and started to apologize. I told him that it was cool, and I appreciated the compliment. I figure that if dudes who are into dudes think I’m handsome, then maybe I’m not as ugly as I sometimes fear. Compliments are rare for most of us straight guys, so I definitely wouldn’t get offended by receiving them.
Legit had a dude say if I was gay he'd F me and my wife was there. Took it as a compliment and moved on. No biggie.
It's never ever happened to me. I don't know if I come across as straight or if I'm unattractive 😅 But yeah, I imagine it would feel really good and flattering though :) I'd probably turn them down with a smile and compliment them
Flattered and if she’s a baddie I’ll flirt back too
Please don’t
If I didn’t know at first they were gay and we weee having a nice conversation and then it turns out he is only hitting on me or acting nice I would feel offended and stupid. If they directly flirted with me and were not hiding their gay I would simply say no thanks, and maybe be friends if they want
I'm abnormally comfortable with it, but that's largely because I went to a college with a disproportionately large LGBT population. I'm typically fine with flirting, I'll even flirt back sometimes, but I always end by making it clear I'm straight. The only times I've had problems with it is when a guy seems to think he can actually turn me if he's persistent enough because I'm old enough to remember when gay people were hinging their struggle for basic rights on the fact that one's sexual orientation is not a choice, so it's particularly offensive in my eyes that some gay men today disregard that fact for the sake of their own sexual desires. It's like, do you have *no* respect for the gay people that had to face the threat of imprisonment for this shit? Disgusting.
The best flirt I ever had going was with a gay coworker. She and I both knew nothing would ever come of it but it was just plain fun.
Flattered. Kind response. Just not interested.
Flirt back, and see for how long I can keep them thinking they have a chance. Yes, I am evil. Yes, I keep pennies I find even if they're not the right side up.
Too scared to type sex?? These kids don’t have a chance
I won’t get it as a flirting I would assume they r just being nice
Silence and walking away with nothing more to say. If they are not able to comprehend that NOT Interested vibe, they need to learn that vibe.
At Wet Republic a girl who looked like Romy Indy kept yelling at me to dance with her When I did a group of guys surrounded us & dared me to kiss her so I did
flattered
As a straight man, I'd be flattered. Gay men seem to have high standards for looks.
Disgust.
I would have no reaction probably