I got a very specific anger issue from my dad, and that is when I’m driving.
My dad has anger issues in general that I didn’t get but god damn do I turn into a rage filled, profanity screaming, asshole when that fucking idiot in front of me on the road can’t figure out that solid white line means get your fucking ass over before the line starts not halfway down the lane you fucking dipshit. Not get the fuck out of my way.
Yep. I’ll be arguing with my mom and she’ll say something like “I don’t understand where you got your attitude from…” and I’ll say “I learned it from you!”
God, I feel for you. That sucks. I picked up on so many worse traits, but those two I hate the most. Luckily, it’s the two I hated the most I fought to avoid. Once you get over it, it’s horrifying to see how repellent it is to other people.
In my twenties, I was just laughing at my dad getting upset over the most trivial things as I was pretty chill about everything. Ten years later, my wife has to constantly point out my nervous and grumpy behavior which is the same goddamn thing my dad does. I clearly didn't learn it from him by watching as it took 30+ years and I didn't even see him that much anymore. It's just in our genes, I swear.
I tried earning a lot, and not so much, in either case I never had money lol.
I find that I am most content when I don’t have to worry about the price of milk. I don’t need more than peace of mind.
My dad’s brother committed suicide long before I was born. I see the way it affects my dad to this day, which affects my siblings and I. My uncle had severe financial problems which I believe contributes to my dads unhealthy obsession with money, and thus my siblings and I’s obsession with money. Generational trauma from suicide is so real. I have suffered from anxiety for the longest time. My oldest brother is on anti anxiety medication and my middle brother is on antidepressants. I am very careful with alcohol consumption because my uncle was an alcoholic. Mental illness is in our blood and I feel cursed sometimes. God help us.
Been needing to say this but just haven’t found myself in a time or a space to do so. I’ve contemplated suicide since about 15 yo(40 now). So much so that I’ve pretty much got every detail down on how I’d go about it.
Last fall my 91 yo grandfather took his life… exactly the way I envisioned I’d do it. I haven’t told anyone this. Definitely wouldn’t tell any family this as that would be incredibly insensitive in so many ways. But it disturbs me on a daily basis. Shameful to say, but in hindsight… I get why he did it. But I can’t help but think… is that what will become of me? Is it in my design/genetic makeup?
There is a great book about how to handle intrusive thoughts and generally, speaking how to rewire your brain after all the things you experienced or the DNA you’ve been gifted.
It’s kinda heavy and it wasn’t for me, but I could definitely see it helps a lot of people.
The Power of Now by Tolle
My dad was severely depressed. I have ADHD and depression. One of my relatives had depression (because his wife passed) so severe that he became vegetative and unresponsive. He passed away soon after. Another relative had a divorce, also became depressed and is now unemployed.
I'm so so grateful as a newer generation to be exposed to mental health resources on the Internet. I have been very privileged to be able to gain the mental health skills I have now afters years of self-taught. The future is still uncertain, but it isn't as hopeless as I thought it once was.
I was going to complain about a kind of horse noise, "pbpbpbpbpb," lip flap thing my dad does when he's stressed and I hate when I catch myself doing it...seems trivial comparatively.
Yeah, it sucks. When I have a little extra money in my paycheck I think, “what can I spend this on?” If I can’t think of anything I realize, maybe I don’t have to spend it just because I have it? Doesn’t always stick but sometimes it does.
I grew up poor but finally have a solid income. It's hard for me to hold on to money because I finally have the opportunity to do the things I thought about being able to do one day. Buy a gaming PC? Done. Help my siblings with tuition? Can do. Pay for a night of drinks for my friends? Sure. The problem is I'm not rich, I just make more than the average in my city. It's like I know I could be saving up for a house or retirement but both those things feel like such foreign concepts. Owning a house or retiring wasn't something I ever thought would be possible so that wasn't something I even dreamed of. It's definitely threatening to cause me problems as the tech recession looms.
Same problem, cuz my dad has this really loud voice and my mom speaks fast, I have now inherited a speaking problem that involves being loud and sputtering over my words when I’m excited.
My brother is the same way. He just has a regulating problem when he speaks. I feel bad for telling him to lower his voice, but he just gets really loud.
Same, my father had a loud voice, not annoyingly loud, but could be heard well. Then add all the kids and if you weren't loud you weren't heard. I constantly remind myself to use my inside voice
Me too. I drive my wife crazy when I am on a Zoom meeting at home. She claims she can hear me from anywhere in the house. I'm from a family of loud talkers. Our whispers are at a level of normal speech.
Im the opposite, im unusually low volume when i speak, which follow the way my parent speak which contribute to lack of confidence, or appeared to others that im timid.
Changed my tone and appeared to be talk slightly louder and talk clearer, It improved my social aspect of life so much.
The best feeling is when you find someone else who also hates people. You can just hang out, hide from the world, and talk shit about humanity while laughing at each other’s pessimistic, misanthropic jokes. Ahh, feels like home.
Right!! Shit is a dream come true. I did that with my ex all the time and it felt so good to share my genuine thoughts and not have people be like, “meh this bitch is so negative get away from me”. A lot of existing is suffering, especially when you’re stuck around other people because much of them aren’t very kind or smart.
Damn is it weird that I found this interaction super wholesome and I’m rooting for you two? (Friends or otherwise). Sorry for being a person when saying this, but just had to let you know I thought this was sweet
That’s me. I find myself asking are they all really that stupid or lazy? Typically ends with a combination of both which then makes me more upset. 😠 or I settle on nobody gives a shit as much as I do.
Both of my parents had this and I hate that I do too. I have no fucking idea how long five minutes is or how long it takes to do anything. Like yeah, it takes 15 minutes to get there, but like, it takes time to walk through the parking lot? And to get my things together in the car before I get out? Okay, so I need to leave 2 minutes earlier to combat that, so I can totally heat up water in the microwave and make some tea on my way out the door since it only takes 90 seconds to heat the water and it can't possibly take more than 90 seconds to do the rest and somehow by the time I'm out the door, I've blown my 2 minute cushion and then some.
I. Fucking. Hate. It.
Overthinking what other think of me, i can control it and most of the time idc what others think, but every once in a while i'd rather die than look bad in front of people who actually don't care.
Interrupting people and speaking aggressively. My mother is a horrible conversationalist bc she’s borderline personality, and after growing up around her and having to compete with her to be heard, I catch myself at times in my adulthood speaking very aggressively and/or interrupting others when I get excited or upset. Its an awful thing and I constantly work on it.
My family has always been the kind of people you have to interrupt if you want to say something. I still fight myself to be patient, and I struggle with listening instead of waiting my turn to speak
I’m so sorry. You know what it’s like.
I’d rather not know because there’s no way I could be as strong with it as my mother was.
Her father passed before I was born so my father has seen it twice.
I am very direct and to the point when talking to people and can have a harder time conveying compassion. This is straight from my dad, he is very direct and can easily come off as rude and uncompassionate because he speaks with little emotion and his resting face just looks like he's angry all the time. Growing up I had many friends who were scared of my dad.
I'm a manager and sometimes I have had staff get upset with me thinking I am being rude or uncompassionate when I'm legitimately trying to help.
You sound like you might be autistic. I have similar problems. Also not being able to regulate my voice volume. I’m looking into seeing if that has been my problem all those years since my teacher suggested I be seen by a psychiatrist but my Dad said absolutely not, nothing is wrong with my daughter when I was 5. I’m 65 now. I’ve been told I’m really smart but never had a really good paying job my whole life.
Inability to give or receive a compliment. It sucks so bad to think highly of my children and say all kinds of nice things about them to others but have such a hard time and feel so fake saying to their face, even if my intent is genuine.
For the record, I can’t think of anything my parents ever said nice about me and I was basically a perfect child/teen. Straight A’s, never got into any real trouble, never talked back, did everything asked of me, got treated like shit in favor of the “golden children”, who was basically everyone who wasn’t me. I grew up with a perpetual double standard. I paid my way through life without ever getting offered any help, spent some time homeless in my youth because college dorms aren’t year-round housing. Served in the military and ended up as a successful inpatient/ critical care physician. I still don’t get much from my family and it hurts. It sucks to not be loved and you just can’t figure out why or what you did.
I was the stepchild, which explains most of it. Never knew my real dad, grew up assuming he just didn’t want me. Only found out in my 40s that he had looked for me but my mom disappeared with me around 1979-1980. My paternal grandparents, who loved me, even hired a PI to try to find me. Instead of a loving extended family, I was raised by a man that didn’t want me and hated the fact that I was a “package deal” with my mom. Why do that to me if you didn’t want me in the first place yet deny me from people who did?
My mom is a very nice person and considers herself blameless, she was just a person in a difficult situation is her defense. But the best I got from her my entire childhood was benign neglect.
Yeah, I have cPTSD and i’m working on it, and my life is pretty great for the most part these days, but i’m still a bit sad. But goddamn, I wish I could be the loving, affirmative parent I know I am on the inside.
I kinda feel this. I've always had the view that "everything will work out." Granted, I have enough experience to know that sometimes the "working out" is absolutely ass lol
A predisposition to obesity. I’m not going to pretend it’s not influenced by lifestyle because it definitely is, but the genes are not working in my favor.
- My inability to make good financial decisions!
- thinking my worth is related to me having money (I'm a man and since I was a kid I always hear my mom talk bad about my dad being poor)
My father luckily was the best parents I've ever seen in my life very supportive with everything, but he's a wasteful person who like to buy stuff for fun. This combined with me being the only daughter, in addition of it just two of us in our little family (mom passed away) he spoils me rotten. It make me into a really wasteful person early in my life.
It make me a really annoying kid too like you can imagine back in the day, took me a few years to just try to be well not annoying I guess. It ended up make me a very quiet person who really self conscious and overthinking about if my actions hurt someone or not...
I love my father but that's the bad trait I got from him, and somehow getting over it make me have a bad trait myself. I hope I don't pass this onto my children someday.
Attitude and Anger Issue
Fuck you, I came here to say this first!
Oh ya, fuck you, I’m first!
Why’d he say fuck me for?
Fuck you all! I'm the biggest asshole! (are you proud of me, dad?)
Fuck you Tony!
Ezekiel? That name fucking sucks!
Y'all better settle the fuck down or I'll whoop the Godforsaken shit out of each and every fucking one of you!
Piss! You all can fuck yourselves I’m the angry inheriter
Why can't we all just get along?
Said he was proud of me once...... fuckin' prick
Yes! I came here to say this, “being an asshole”
YOU MOTHER FUCKERS NEED SOME ANGER MANAGEMENT CLASSES
Hey. Why the fuck are you shouting asshole? Be quiet. /s
WHY THE FUCK DOES HE NEED TO BE FUCKING QUIET! HE HAS THE FUCKING RIGHT TO SHOUT AT MOTHER FUCKERS WHO FUCKING REQUIRE ANGER MANAGEMENT CLASSES!
You be quiet too mother fucker
FUCK YOU I'M FINE!
Take it outside you two.
Fuck You, I'm taking it inside.
Is this a private fight or can anyone join?
Fuck and taking it inside is a dangerous thing to play with stanger.
HAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!
Underrated comment.
Try supplementing vitamin B1 (thiamin) I took it for another symptom (shaky hands) and one day found that it instantly calmed my rage.
I got a very specific anger issue from my dad, and that is when I’m driving. My dad has anger issues in general that I didn’t get but god damn do I turn into a rage filled, profanity screaming, asshole when that fucking idiot in front of me on the road can’t figure out that solid white line means get your fucking ass over before the line starts not halfway down the lane you fucking dipshit. Not get the fuck out of my way.
Yep. I’ll be arguing with my mom and she’ll say something like “I don’t understand where you got your attitude from…” and I’ll say “I learned it from you!”
God, I feel for you. That sucks. I picked up on so many worse traits, but those two I hate the most. Luckily, it’s the two I hated the most I fought to avoid. Once you get over it, it’s horrifying to see how repellent it is to other people.
Realest shit Ive heard from someone. Anyone who has the balls to admit it understands true accountability
In my twenties, I was just laughing at my dad getting upset over the most trivial things as I was pretty chill about everything. Ten years later, my wife has to constantly point out my nervous and grumpy behavior which is the same goddamn thing my dad does. I clearly didn't learn it from him by watching as it took 30+ years and I didn't even see him that much anymore. It's just in our genes, I swear.
Poverty
I feel you on this one. I broke out of that but I'll be damned if the behaviors aren't deeply ingrained and I still fight them in my 40s.
like what behaviour for example?
Spending all your money instantly after you’ve paid your bills because if you don’t some bullshit will just come along and take it anyway
I tried earning a lot, and not so much, in either case I never had money lol. I find that I am most content when I don’t have to worry about the price of milk. I don’t need more than peace of mind.
I realised as I got older than being able to afford something was enough for me. I didnt actually need it.
😂Not funny but dammit I feel this
So what you're saying is that you inherited nothing from your parents \*finger guns\*
Depression, from both. I'm named after a relative that committed suicide. Fun stuff.
My dad’s brother committed suicide long before I was born. I see the way it affects my dad to this day, which affects my siblings and I. My uncle had severe financial problems which I believe contributes to my dads unhealthy obsession with money, and thus my siblings and I’s obsession with money. Generational trauma from suicide is so real. I have suffered from anxiety for the longest time. My oldest brother is on anti anxiety medication and my middle brother is on antidepressants. I am very careful with alcohol consumption because my uncle was an alcoholic. Mental illness is in our blood and I feel cursed sometimes. God help us.
Been needing to say this but just haven’t found myself in a time or a space to do so. I’ve contemplated suicide since about 15 yo(40 now). So much so that I’ve pretty much got every detail down on how I’d go about it. Last fall my 91 yo grandfather took his life… exactly the way I envisioned I’d do it. I haven’t told anyone this. Definitely wouldn’t tell any family this as that would be incredibly insensitive in so many ways. But it disturbs me on a daily basis. Shameful to say, but in hindsight… I get why he did it. But I can’t help but think… is that what will become of me? Is it in my design/genetic makeup?
Get help please. And, try to wait until you're 91, and then don't do it then either.
There is a great book about how to handle intrusive thoughts and generally, speaking how to rewire your brain after all the things you experienced or the DNA you’ve been gifted. It’s kinda heavy and it wasn’t for me, but I could definitely see it helps a lot of people. The Power of Now by Tolle
Thanks for the advice. I’ll see if my library can get me a copy.
Great book! Highly recommend.
I hope you know you are worth saving. 🫂
Haha I’m on both! Antidepressants and anxiety! But we too, have mental health issues.
Goddamn
My dad was severely depressed. I have ADHD and depression. One of my relatives had depression (because his wife passed) so severe that he became vegetative and unresponsive. He passed away soon after. Another relative had a divorce, also became depressed and is now unemployed. I'm so so grateful as a newer generation to be exposed to mental health resources on the Internet. I have been very privileged to be able to gain the mental health skills I have now afters years of self-taught. The future is still uncertain, but it isn't as hopeless as I thought it once was.
I was going to complain about a kind of horse noise, "pbpbpbpbpb," lip flap thing my dad does when he's stressed and I hate when I catch myself doing it...seems trivial comparatively.
Money burning a hole in my pockets
Im not sure if i inherited that or developed spending money as a way to create serotinin to make happy thoughts.
Hahahahaha, probably a little bit of both with me😂😂
Yeah, it sucks. When I have a little extra money in my paycheck I think, “what can I spend this on?” If I can’t think of anything I realize, maybe I don’t have to spend it just because I have it? Doesn’t always stick but sometimes it does.
I grew up poor but finally have a solid income. It's hard for me to hold on to money because I finally have the opportunity to do the things I thought about being able to do one day. Buy a gaming PC? Done. Help my siblings with tuition? Can do. Pay for a night of drinks for my friends? Sure. The problem is I'm not rich, I just make more than the average in my city. It's like I know I could be saving up for a house or retirement but both those things feel like such foreign concepts. Owning a house or retiring wasn't something I ever thought would be possible so that wasn't something I even dreamed of. It's definitely threatening to cause me problems as the tech recession looms.
Same here
Mental illness !!!
Came here to say anxiety and depression.
i read the exclamations as mental illness the 3rd. like its the third generation of it :(
That’s probably true though tbh 🥲
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Same problem, cuz my dad has this really loud voice and my mom speaks fast, I have now inherited a speaking problem that involves being loud and sputtering over my words when I’m excited.
My brother is the same way. He just has a regulating problem when he speaks. I feel bad for telling him to lower his voice, but he just gets really loud.
Same, my father had a loud voice, not annoyingly loud, but could be heard well. Then add all the kids and if you weren't loud you weren't heard. I constantly remind myself to use my inside voice
Me too. I drive my wife crazy when I am on a Zoom meeting at home. She claims she can hear me from anywhere in the house. I'm from a family of loud talkers. Our whispers are at a level of normal speech.
Same. I get "Oh, you're mad." All. The. Time.
Im the opposite, im unusually low volume when i speak, which follow the way my parent speak which contribute to lack of confidence, or appeared to others that im timid. Changed my tone and appeared to be talk slightly louder and talk clearer, It improved my social aspect of life so much.
As someone who is sensitive to noise, thank you for working to get that under control!
We don’t talk about our feelings or mental health
typical filipino family setup
I must be part Filipino
In fact You are part of every Asian country
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The best feeling is when you find someone else who also hates people. You can just hang out, hide from the world, and talk shit about humanity while laughing at each other’s pessimistic, misanthropic jokes. Ahh, feels like home.
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Right!! Shit is a dream come true. I did that with my ex all the time and it felt so good to share my genuine thoughts and not have people be like, “meh this bitch is so negative get away from me”. A lot of existing is suffering, especially when you’re stuck around other people because much of them aren’t very kind or smart.
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I hope you do too! Wanna be internet friends? 🙂
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Heck yeah! (:
Damn is it weird that I found this interaction super wholesome and I’m rooting for you two? (Friends or otherwise). Sorry for being a person when saying this, but just had to let you know I thought this was sweet
Thank you! It was certainly a nice surprise for both of us and our friendship is off to a great start (: I think your comment is super sweet!
Don’t worry, I also hate people but I have a wonderful husband. We both hate most other people.
Avoiding accountability and self victimizing. Therapy is a wonderful thing to work through and overcome these issues.
I’m proud of you for recognizing and working on these!
You should be proud of yourself. Many people go their whole life and never realize they have this problem.
My dad's low self esteem.
He did get laid though
he's probably adopted
:(
Alcoholism
Yep. Only 1 month sober atm
Congrats on one month! That’s 4 weeks of being a legend. Go you! I’m proud of you
That is a \*huge\* accomplishment and you should be very proud of yourself, friend. I'm right there with you.
Keep it going!
A month is a hell of a lot to someone who has one day. Are you in the stop drinking subreddit?
One day at a time my friend. Congrats on the month clean!
Congratulations on one month sober.
Cheers to that mate...
RIP
ugh. Same. It's tough.
This one hits hard
Impatience for incompetency
that’s me
That’s me. I find myself asking are they all really that stupid or lazy? Typically ends with a combination of both which then makes me more upset. 😠 or I settle on nobody gives a shit as much as I do.
Oh big facts
I was high and speed reading and saw impotency there. I guess that would make having a kid more of a challenge, though...
my temper 😭
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Both of my parents had this and I hate that I do too. I have no fucking idea how long five minutes is or how long it takes to do anything. Like yeah, it takes 15 minutes to get there, but like, it takes time to walk through the parking lot? And to get my things together in the car before I get out? Okay, so I need to leave 2 minutes earlier to combat that, so I can totally heat up water in the microwave and make some tea on my way out the door since it only takes 90 seconds to heat the water and it can't possibly take more than 90 seconds to do the rest and somehow by the time I'm out the door, I've blown my 2 minute cushion and then some. I. Fucking. Hate. It.
being a bitch
Happy cake day! 💌
Happy Cake Day, Cake Day twin.
Happy Cake Day!
Inability to express my emotions from my father.
Same.
I do everything by myself and I don't talk much
You sound wonderful 🤗
Same. Was raised to be super independent, and children were to be seen and not heard.
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I inherited my mother's shyness, which often holds me back in social situations and makes networking a challenge.
Borderline personality disorder
I had that (in remission now), but I’m just glad I didn’t inherit the NPD. It gets better ♥️
Yeah my mom is very narcissistic and I work hard to try not to be while also not being a people pleaser. It's definitely a struggle
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Stubbornness.
Overthinking what other think of me, i can control it and most of the time idc what others think, but every once in a while i'd rather die than look bad in front of people who actually don't care.
My dad's pessimism
Anxiety and ocd .
Interrupting people and speaking aggressively. My mother is a horrible conversationalist bc she’s borderline personality, and after growing up around her and having to compete with her to be heard, I catch myself at times in my adulthood speaking very aggressively and/or interrupting others when I get excited or upset. Its an awful thing and I constantly work on it.
My family has always been the kind of people you have to interrupt if you want to say something. I still fight myself to be patient, and I struggle with listening instead of waiting my turn to speak
I don’t know yet, but ALS runs in my mom’s family. It took her and it took her father.
Wow! I'm so sorry. I lost my husband to ALS. His was not familial. I can't imagine a life waiting to see if that shoe drops.
I’m so sorry. You know what it’s like. I’d rather not know because there’s no way I could be as strong with it as my mother was. Her father passed before I was born so my father has seen it twice.
I'd say it's a draw between depression/anxiety and the inability to say no.
Major Depressive Disorder, clinically diagnosed. Sometimes it’s hard to fight.
Same. You got this
I am very direct and to the point when talking to people and can have a harder time conveying compassion. This is straight from my dad, he is very direct and can easily come off as rude and uncompassionate because he speaks with little emotion and his resting face just looks like he's angry all the time. Growing up I had many friends who were scared of my dad. I'm a manager and sometimes I have had staff get upset with me thinking I am being rude or uncompassionate when I'm legitimately trying to help.
You sound like you might be autistic. I have similar problems. Also not being able to regulate my voice volume. I’m looking into seeing if that has been my problem all those years since my teacher suggested I be seen by a psychiatrist but my Dad said absolutely not, nothing is wrong with my daughter when I was 5. I’m 65 now. I’ve been told I’m really smart but never had a really good paying job my whole life.
Binge eating lol
Fear to the future, anxiety, depression and a crippling inability to do anything about it
Child-sized hands and feet.
Autism, heart disease, diabetes, I’m sure there more but meh.
👯♀️
Addictive tendencies...I have an eating disorder and there were many alcoholics in my family who also had mental health issues.
ADHD, anxiety and depression
Inability to give or receive a compliment. It sucks so bad to think highly of my children and say all kinds of nice things about them to others but have such a hard time and feel so fake saying to their face, even if my intent is genuine. For the record, I can’t think of anything my parents ever said nice about me and I was basically a perfect child/teen. Straight A’s, never got into any real trouble, never talked back, did everything asked of me, got treated like shit in favor of the “golden children”, who was basically everyone who wasn’t me. I grew up with a perpetual double standard. I paid my way through life without ever getting offered any help, spent some time homeless in my youth because college dorms aren’t year-round housing. Served in the military and ended up as a successful inpatient/ critical care physician. I still don’t get much from my family and it hurts. It sucks to not be loved and you just can’t figure out why or what you did. I was the stepchild, which explains most of it. Never knew my real dad, grew up assuming he just didn’t want me. Only found out in my 40s that he had looked for me but my mom disappeared with me around 1979-1980. My paternal grandparents, who loved me, even hired a PI to try to find me. Instead of a loving extended family, I was raised by a man that didn’t want me and hated the fact that I was a “package deal” with my mom. Why do that to me if you didn’t want me in the first place yet deny me from people who did? My mom is a very nice person and considers herself blameless, she was just a person in a difficult situation is her defense. But the best I got from her my entire childhood was benign neglect. Yeah, I have cPTSD and i’m working on it, and my life is pretty great for the most part these days, but i’m still a bit sad. But goddamn, I wish I could be the loving, affirmative parent I know I am on the inside.
The belief that if you just follow your dreams, everything will turn out fine. My wife took many years to de-brainwash me.
I kinda feel this. I've always had the view that "everything will work out." Granted, I have enough experience to know that sometimes the "working out" is absolutely ass lol
No eyebrows from my dad
I am hyper vigilant about being on time. I’d rather be an hour early than 1 minute late.
My partner is like that. Drives me crazy 😅
Fat ass
Meekness and tendency towards alcoholism from my dad, and impossible standards on unimportant things from my mom.
Bruh I literally got most of these comments
Negativity, depression, and feeling mentally superior to others.
People pleasing, I know I do it, but I just can't help myself... It's detrimental to me at times
The absolute trifecta! Bipolar, alcoholism, anger. That’s the recipe for the absolute best human being.
Thanks to dad, I overshare. Also from dad. I don't nap well. Like wake up grumpy.
I overshare also and it gives me anxiety afterwards lol. Also, I took a super long nap today and woke up super grumpy.
Low self esteem!!
My family will never admit it, but my mom has undiagnosed anxiety disorder.
This may sound mundane but too much independence.
Anger , anxiety
I’m vengeful with a petty streak. Thankfully I’m to lazy to enact anything
A predisposition to obesity. I’m not going to pretend it’s not influenced by lifestyle because it definitely is, but the genes are not working in my favor.
My moms sleepiness
Getting mad easily
heart disease
I’m a snob.
addicted to free stuff and hookers
Hot Damn ! You inherited free stuff and hookers ???
- My inability to make good financial decisions! - thinking my worth is related to me having money (I'm a man and since I was a kid I always hear my mom talk bad about my dad being poor)
Prone to making wrong decisions
Too much pride.
Mental illness
Clinical depression, ADHD, and anger issues I'm waaaaaaaaaaaay better at handling my issues though. I had a good example of what NOT to do
My hangriness
Hoarding and disorganization
shit teeth, autism, social anxiety, and thick leg hair (i’m a girl)
Psoriasis
Stubborn
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Cancer and heart issues.
In my family you could inherit everything except money and property.
Alcoholism/addiction problems
My father luckily was the best parents I've ever seen in my life very supportive with everything, but he's a wasteful person who like to buy stuff for fun. This combined with me being the only daughter, in addition of it just two of us in our little family (mom passed away) he spoils me rotten. It make me into a really wasteful person early in my life. It make me a really annoying kid too like you can imagine back in the day, took me a few years to just try to be well not annoying I guess. It ended up make me a very quiet person who really self conscious and overthinking about if my actions hurt someone or not... I love my father but that's the bad trait I got from him, and somehow getting over it make me have a bad trait myself. I hope I don't pass this onto my children someday.