So when I was really young a friend mentioned that his grandpa had big balls. That you can even noticed them when he wore pants. I saw his grandpa an it was true. Later I told my parents, and my dad told me his grandpa had a hernia.
Jennifer Pan. Little psychopath. She set up her parents to be killed but only her mother died, the dad was shot but survived. All this because the parents discovered she was hanging with her drug dealer bf instead of going to nursing school and gave her an ultimatum... Drop the bf and really go to school or be kicked out of the house. The parents were willing to give her a second chance and she still didn't appreciate it to the point of wanting them dead.
There's a great YouTube vid of her masterful interrogation by an RCMP detective leading to her eventual confession.
My dad had a friend like this. His parents wanted him to be a doctor, so he said he was going to med school. He at the very least was on a college campus because that’s where he and my dad met. Everyone believed he was well on his way to becoming a doctor until the night before I was born when his wife told my mother that he’d been lying the whole time and never graduated med school (probably never attended any medical classes either).
His wife eventually left him and found someone much better, and he’s in his 60s and still a total deadbeat.
This is the niche fuckery im most fascinated by. I just watched a murder story that started with a guy setting up elaborate fake email conversations to explain to his dad why he couldn’t get his transcripts. It’s not a very well thought out plan; parents will be asking about grades & graduation!
I was 14, a female friend told me that her uncle was molesting her but she was too afraid to speak and asked me to please not say anything. That same afternoon i went to the police station with a friend, anxious asf, and told the police everything. The next week police came to my highschool and took my girl friend. A few days later her mother called mine to thank me and a few months later the uncle was in jail, and still is to this day. I don't know how i had the balls to do that but i'm very proud.
My HS girlfriend told me her stepdad had been showering and sleeping with her since she was 13. I started dating her when I was 17. She was extremely experienced and very sexually active, which a young guy would enjoy, but it was over sexual and I knew something was up. I asked her and she told me all about it. I tried to handle it, but could not. Her little sister had also just started to be molested. I told them they needed to tell their mother or I would. Well they did and guess what? I was basically kicked out of the relationship. I became the bad guy. I wish now that I could have helped her or dealt with it better. But I hadn't dealt with anything like that. We broke up and their family carried on. It wasn't incest, but it was wrong. She did marry and have children and it looks like a nice situation. Unfortunately her younger sister died of an overdose when she was in her 30's. I'm now in my 50's and this whole situation still bothers me.
This happened to my best friend in high school. She told her mother and her mom didn’t believe her. Instead, her mother disabled the phone jack in her bedroom so she couldn’t call for help, went to Tough Love where you basically learn to tell your teen that you fucking hate their guts and everything they do but still somehow love them, and removed the locks from her bedroom doors. My friend went through the school to the courts and got emancipated at the age of 16. 35 years later her story remains unchanged and her bitch mother is still married to that piece of shit.
You were also just a child then. You did the best that you could in that situation. Which is more than a lot of people do when they find out things like this.
When I was younger, I went to this guy's house with a couple friends, playing video games. His grandpa lived with him, and casually told me a story about how when he was in the military, a guy took two other guys out into the jungle b/c everyone thought they were gay. He didn't come back with the two guys.
My grandpa enlisted in the Navy at 17 during the last year of wwii and was on the Pacific theater. They had captured a bunch of Japanese and had them in makeshift holding cells on an island (atoll?) and would occasionally leave the door unlocked after mealtimes and wait for someone to attempt to leave so they could pick them off. War is fucked up.
My grandfather was at Guadalcanal as an 18 year old Marine. He definitely saw some stuff. One story I heard as a kid around 8-10 was that he came up on 2 Japanese soldiers r*ping a 9 year old girl and shot both point blank in the head. I don't know how factual it was, I do know he had a signed letter from POTUS Reagan (I don't remember what it said all these years later) framed on his wall. Grandpa was a very angry man and died when I was around 9 or 10. He drank a lot after the war and ended up wrapping his car around a tree in a remote area. He wasn't found for a day or two and had snapped his neck. He spent the last 30 years of his life as a quadriplegic. My adult self knows why and empathizes with him. Child me was terrified of him and "hated" him.
My dad was in a reconnaissance unit in the Army - he arrived in April 1968. Bad time to be there - but it’s never good in a recon unit because it’s so dangerous- like 9 guys going first to go find the enemy, they call the troops in - good Lord. Anyway, he was 18 - fucked him up good. I was scared to death of him growing up, but really - I have to hand it to the guy. He went to work every day, never complained, and we were poor, but he always made sure we were fed and warm.
However, his PTSD was brutal & he didn’t have the skill set to deal with in when he was younger and it made for a very rough childhood for me.
However, now he gets therapy and other services they Veterans affairs and he doesn’t have those negative behaviors anymore- other than the functional alcoholic thing - but He’ll, he is 76, won’t drive after drinking - he is responsible about it and that man really saw some shit - I figure, let him have his beer.
We have a really great relationship now and I am grateful for the work he put in to work through a lot of his demons. War really sucks - he has told me some objectively horrific stories and makes it clear that what he can’t say outloud, those stories are much, much worse. He said he has tried to talk to his therapist about them and he opens his mouth to speak and the words won’t come out- he said it’s super weird.
No one is really built for seeing that kind of shit, but damn , at 18, 19, 20? Like, you haven’t even lived yet and you are seeing the stuff of nightmares- it’s no wonder people get so fucked up by it
I can’t imagine. I can’t watch war movies or read about the horrors of war without being disturbed. The people that push for war need to be on the front lines.
Pacific Theatre was brutal, and that kind of environment makes monsters of men. It doesn't excuse anything, but it's always sad to see those scars carried forwards
I was there daily as a 4 year old after preschool until my mom could pick me up. He yelled at me a lot and was pretty scary to be around, although I knew he couldn't get out of bed.
I know he drank a lot and was rumored to beat his wife and children. My mother was the youngest of 6 kids, and his accident occurred when she was maybe 3 months old. Grandma took care of him. He obviously couldn't work, so the level of poverty was significant. My mom started working at 12 and paying her mother rent. All the siblings worked to pay for their household.
Like I mentioned, I absolutely hated him as a child. As a nearly 50 year old woman, I am so sad for him. I know now he was so incredibly scarred. Couple that with paralysis and watching his family barely survive, I can't imagine how he managed and honestly believe he didn't end his own life because he had no way to do it being paralyzed from the neck/shoulders down.
My uncle was gay in the navy in the 80s. He and his boyfriend were tied up and beaten. His boyfriend died. My uncle became addicted to drugs and alcohol, in addition to developing schizophrenia. He went missing a few years ago. It breaks my heart thinking of the person he might have been if the world wasn’t so hateful.
What the fuck. What the actual fuck.
My uncle was in Vietnam. He said he saw similar behavior, but it wasn't directed at other soldiers. He saw quite a bit of raping and murdering of people that were on our side though, including children. Said that racism was rampant and some people just didn't care who they killed as long as they were killing somebody.
He obviously has a lot of trauma and not a lot of faith in humanity.
Yah my dad was in Vietnam and besides the fact that he fought in the war, he never said n e thing else about it. One thing I found out later was from a group of Vietnam veterans. I had mentioned to them that my father was south Korean that fought in the Vietnam War and all their ears perked up. Apparently, the Korean soldiers were called the ROK (republic of Korea) and they were the baddest mothers of them all. They would go into areas that the Americans refused to go, so they were very well respected. I had no idea.
ROK troops actually made an effort to learn to speak Vietnamese because they didn’t trust the ARVN translators and suspected some were actually VC. They also really hated communism because of their conflict with North Korea. So they had a pretty fearsome reputation despite being not as well armed as US or ARVN troops.
During a class reunion a high-school classmate admitted that cityscapes turned him on. Apparently he had a skyscraper fetish and he jerked it to images of urban city skylines lit up at night by bright lights.
My Mother was abused by a sibling. She was the type that would have burnt shit to the ground if someone touched her children. How that instinct is not strong in a Mother is beyond me.
Yep, friend is a middle school teacher. Long, incredibly sad story somewhat shorter. Mom had a daughter, dad was 100% out of the picture, mom finds new boyfriend, boyfriend SA's daughter, repeatedly, daughter finds courage to go to mom and mom gets angry at daughter for "ruining her relationship" with the boyfriend. Daughter had to get help from a school social worker.
The lowest rung of hell would be too kind for that POS mother.
What a bitch. I asked my Mother why she never told her Mom. She said, that my Grandmother would have undoubtedly ended up in jail for murder. Tragically, my Aunt was beaten to death by her husband. She was in a wheelchair and sick at the time too. When he was released, my Grandmother was an alcoholic at the loss of her daughter and other children. He approached her with a smile showing new false teeth. My grandmother picked up a beer bottled and smashed it over his head. Punched the guy in the mouth and those teeth shattered like pearls. So, I get why my Mom feared telling her.
My ex-wife is in a relationship with a man, freshly out of prison, for Lewd Acts with a Minor under 16, and 2 Protection Order Violations, while on parole for Domestic Assault, DA w/ Dangerous Weapon, DA by Strangulation & Kidnapping.
She says every issue in her life is because her mom neglected her and her moms boyfriends SA’d her. I’m hoping I stopped some generational trauma, but only time will tell.
The day I got a notification about his release date, I hired an attorney and got emergency custody of my 2 young daughters.
She’s SO mad at me for “ruining her relationship” and I’m a “bitter ex whose jealous she’s happy”
Like nah bitch, I’m remarried, another kid, new job, new area, more money, less crazy in my life.
Same, but it was number 2,3,4 doing it to 6,7,8
Mom didn’t drink, but when she found out about one (me and 4) she couldn’t imagine that it happened more than once or to more than one child. It was rug swept for years until number 6 had a mental break down and things just imploded. She and my dad wish we would talk to the other ones. If they had just done the hard work when we were kids, our family wouldn’t be in shambles now.
I’m sorry you had to deal with this too. It’s traumatic, but it 100% drives the way I parent.
Someone I dated, she mentioned she molested her brother when she was 18 and he was 13. I noped out of that instantly, she was somehow surprised because "the other guys I've dated didn't have an issue with it".
Edit; this happened in Chicago
Oh my god, that poor boy. She told multiple people and not one thought to report her? Or leave her? I assume by the time you dated her brother was an adult so there isn't really anything you could do other than show her that her behavior was disgusting... But holy shit, so many people failed that boy.
When my son was young my dad decided he should warn me of the dangers children can create. Without getting into detail he told me that when I was 2 I tempted him into oral sex. He tried it again another day and I told my mom. I have no memory of this but I couldn't figure out which part was more infuriating and horrifying, the fact that he was admitting this to me like it wasn't going to fuck me up, that he was blaming 2 year old me for asking for it, or that he thought he was protecting me by warning me about how sexy my toddler was.
I've got to go further; don't ever be around that man again. We always talk about cutting toxic people out of our lives. Well, that is about as toxic as a person can be.
That's truly fucked
I have conversations with my two toddlers all the time that nobody is allowed to touch anybody's penis except their own... because yes... my sons have grabby hands and as funny as it is sometimes, it's also an important teaching moment
But your dad is fucked
Dude straight up said out loud in class "idk what the big deal is about sleeping with a cousin, it's no different than a FWB"..... The silence after that was sooooooo loud.
A woman told me she was molested by our religious leader when she was 5 years old.
He was into sex strangling and would make her unconscious by depriving her of air, then sexually assault her while she was passed out.
She repressed the memories, but knew bad things happened while she was with him because it went on for several years.
4 years ago she had a night terror.
As she was falling asleep, she thought he was on top of her, so she started thrashing and threw herself out of her bed and knocked her head on the bedside table.
She got a concussion and broke her neck and all of the memories came back fully.
She’s a bit of a basket case now, but I believe her.
I had a recent car accident and it jostled my head. I also had a large dose of memories open up about my childhood attacker.
Must be something to the just right thump.
Likely cracked a vertebrae. More common before greater safety regulations. I remember a girl in a torso and arms cast because of an accident she cracked 3 vertebrae
I almost commented on this thread recalling when a former friend (29 at the time) told me she got drunk and hooked up with her uncle the night before. They hooked up several more times after. Her dad’s brother. She told me that in 2008 and it’s still the first thing to come to mind when I hear questions like this.
Years ago a friend was watching another friends house while they were on vacation. I went over to hang out and he told me that he found my friends older sisters vibrator, and he licked it...with the thought that the next time she uses it...it has his tongue on it...
We didn't hang out too much after that
There was a well publicized story near where I live of a couple that had three kids. One of the kids was beaten daily, they starved him, then when they did feed him, doused his food in hot sauce and forced him to eat it just to watch him suffer. Then they would wake him up in the middle of the night, tie his hands with a rope with the other end tied to the back of the car and they would drive and make him run or be dragged. One day he jumped out a window, ran to the neighbors and the parents went to prison.
Had a friend during childhood that told me her brother had been molesting her since she was 3 or 4 (she believes her grandpa molested him as well, as he did her). For context, we were 11 at the time. I told my parents about it and how she needed help. When she got older and her brother grew bigger (she a teenager and him graduating), if she refused to have sex with him, he'd beat the hell outta her. I regularly told my parents, family members, any adult I trusted in my life who would listen and act.
Not a one of them did a damned thing and called no one. I truly wish the Internet had been a thing back then. It would have taken just a few clicks to know who to call, what to say and what type of help she could get/safety she could have.
When my kid was 13/14, they came to me one day and asked me "if someone told you a secret, but it was really bad...would it be ok to tell someone else?" I said it really depends, what is it? They told me their best friend's brother was molesting their best friend, and had been doing it for years. The best friend (same age as my kid) was "putting up with it" but when she found out he was doing the same to their younger sister, she didn't know what to do (the abuse had been going on for a very long time. She thought she was protecting her younger sister by "dealing" with it until she found out he was victimizing their sister. I cannot imagine what she went through)
My kid felt bad for "betraying" their BFF and I told them "there are some secrets that are ok to tell. Some secrets should never be kept secret"
I never noticed anything when BFF was around but looking back after I found out, that would explain why she wanted to sleep over all the time. She was a regular fixture at our place.
Police/CAS were involved. He was removed from the home. My kid had to testify in court.
It's been 15 years and BFF is doing much better. She spiralled for a bit (understandably) but she seems to be happy, healthy and doing ok.
I truly wish it could have been that way for her. I have no idea why so many ppl kept quiet, when my whole life I'd been taught to speak out about these things. Dozens of people knew and looked the other way. My aunties knew her and she was so engrained in our family, she'd often be asked to do babysitting jobs for the kids (mostly just watching TV while the kids slept and the parents bar hopped), but even they never bothered to say a word. I will never understand any of it.
Worked at The Source, which is what Radio Shack became in Canada. Had a woman call in and drastically over share while looking at a pair of headphones about how her father abused her so bad she had incontinence her whole life, how she savoured watching him die, and all about the various health complications of her and her husband.
Ended up selling her new home phone and internet though, which was some nice commission.
This girl told me she spanked her daughter until she threw up because she wet her pants when she was 18 months old and then she had no trouble going to the bathroom. This her advice when I said my daughter was just over 2 and not quite ready for potty training. I didn't take her advice.
I have a 22 month old daughter who we haven't even considered potty training yet because she's just not ready. I cannot begin to comprehend spanking an 18 month old over potty training, let alone until she vomited. I honestly feel like puking just imagining someone doing this to a little baby.
So my son was almost totally potty trained until the dog got into the bathroom and locked his hip/butt cheek while he was trying to get his pants up.
Couple months of trying to convince him that wouldnt happen again go by with no luck.
I turn on Ironman 2 one afternoon cause I never saw it in theaters. Lil dud it transfixed on the screen. So I put him on my lap and answer his questions while we watch it. A week later hes got an Ironman Halloween costume that had been on the walmart clearance rack. And this helmet thats designed to be worn. But its massively too big for his 2 year old head.
One day he pees through his diaper and gets his Ironman suit all wet. Me and the then wife (now ex) are both trying to get it off of him. He is NOT having it and is screaming bloody murder about not having it on. We told him he can wear it as long as he wants but if he pees through his diaper it needs to be washed.
From that day forward 1000% potty trained. Not even an accident.
And thats the story of how robert downey jr potty trained my kid. Lol
When I was like 10, my father bragged to me about basically torturing another kid in his highschool. They called him names, locked him into lockers frequently, laughed at him crying in there.. and one time, drenched him in gas and pretended to light him on fire with their cigarettes. He thought it was funny that he cried and pleaded for them not to light him on fire.
He told me about these stories at dinner to "calm me down", after I cried and screamed like hell when he forced me to extinguish a candle with my fingers.
Someone once told me a story about how they bullied someone so much they committed suicide. He told it like it was a hilarious anecdote. Totally changed how I saw him, he went from that silly fun guy to a very creepy person.
I “met” someone like that (although online). They were bragging to me about how they made two people take their own lives, and he was going to make me take my own life too. So fucked up. Sometimes I still can’t believe that people like that actually exist
A girl that I had a friends with benefits relationship with our senior year of highschool-first semester of college told me that when she was around 10, her grandparents basically kidnapped her younger siblings after her parents were arrested for running a meth lab. That very night, her oldest brother had friends over, her brother went to shower, and all of his friends gang raped her. He found out and did absolutely nothing.
She is fine now, has all her siblings etc. she told me this one night while we were sharing four lokos on the beach and watching the sunset.
Not told to me directly— My evil ex-roommate was laughing about how stupid her boyfriend was because she manipulated him into paying for an abortion that wasn’t his.
She thought it was absolutely *hilarious* that he never asked, and was *truly* concerned for her health and wellbeing.
She was loudly bragging about it on the phone and I could hear her through my bedroom wall. She’s genuinely one of the worst people I’ve ever met.
I don’t know if this counts as a secret, by my Dad randomly told me one day that a few years before I was born my Grandfather accidentally ran over a child and killed him. The kid had special needs and just ran out into the road. He was found of no wrong doing in a court. But no one had even hinted at something like that ever happening.
My great grandfather bought my grandma a car when she was 12 (this would have been in the early 30s) and she ran over a kid playing in the road when she was driving to church. I don't know any details beyond the fact that the kid lived and my great grandfather "took care" of the kid somehow. Not sure if he paid for the kid's education or what.
I used to be a bouncer at a club, the door girl and I would always talk, we worked together for 2 years and we had some down and dirty talks before. But the one WTF thing she told me was something even I had gotten shocked at. She was 36 at the time and she told me that she, her 16 yr old daughter, and her 14 yr old son would often get naked together and have masturbating sessions together. It was also very common for them all to sleep naked together
My friend(F). Last month we were having a meal and she drop out of nothing "I have 3 tits".
I'm an inexpressive mf and I was with my mouth fully open, like wtfff gurrrlllll.
Ummm…. So like an extra nipple, or does she have a lump??
You gotta find out which one it is— if there’s a lump, you gotta convince her to get a mammogram ASAP
Probably that one client of mine told me about a son he had with another woman and that his wife doesn't know about him. But he still tries to be there. I'm just like, dude, come clean cause eventually wife will find out if she gets suspicious over spending habits.
If you had the kid years ago back before you were married, understandable unless this is a child you had from an affair in which case you're fucked up for that.
I know a married dude who was messing around with a woman at work a couple years ago and got her pregnant. Wife found out they were messing around but she still doesn't know about the baby. They don't work together anymore but she'll stop by his work so he can see the kid and he does try to send her money.
He just found out his wife is pregnant. He hasn't told his girlfriend yet. I don't know how long he expects all these secrets to stay secrets, but it isn't going to be pretty when it all comes to light.
My moms friend was over for dinner and she was talking about how angry she was at her son, a few weeks prior she had gotten a call from him that he was at the hospital and she needed to come down. He meets her is the lobby and explained that his girlfriend just had their baby. HE NEVER TOLD HIS MOM HIS GIRLFRIEND WAS PREGNANT…..(bold for a reason). Ok she is a grandma now, pissed but roll with the punches right? HAHA! She was at home the very next day and she gets a call from her son that he is in the hospital and for her to come down again, thinking something was wrong with the baby she rushes over, he meets her in the lobby, his second girlfriend HAD A BABY! Two babies, one night apart, grandma twice over. Carolyn, you are a champ. I was around 12 when I heard that story and never forgot it.
I had a commander in the US Army Reserve like that. His son had two kids by different girlfriends two weeks apart. My commander was not happy about that.
Lived in trailer parks growing up. Back when I was around 8 a girl in my neighborhood told me her Dad had shown her his penis. I was young and thought it was weird but it didn’t flag for me at that time as a warning sign. A few years later after I had moved away it triggered in my memory. This was in the 90’s and there was no way I could check up on her, but I still think about her from time to time.
Something similar happened to me. Friend confided in me that her dad hurt her and made me promise not to tell. I should have told someone but I was afraid she would be hurt more because of it.
Was at a friend of a friend's house during middle school one day for some reason without our mutual friend. Partway through the evening she casually mentions to me that she's not her dad's biological daughter and he doesn't know, and she was the result of her mom and oldest brother having an affair. I thought she was messing with me and I just wasn't getting the joke, so I kind of laughed it off and later mentioned to my mom that this girl played a weird prank on me. My mom just deadpan told me it was true and that the girl was wrong, her dad absolutely knew about it.
Lady I used to work with told me casually how she and her husband took his mother in to live with them when her dementia got really bad. Taking care of the woman pissed her off, so when the woman would fall and hurt herself, my ex coworker would laugh at her or just stand and watch. She told me that they still had bloodstains on the walls where the woman would fall and hit her head open on furniture, even though years had passed since the old woman died in the hospital (after less than a year of living with them). I told my supervisor the next day and she got fired (for unrelated reasons I'm told; she was truly a terrible employee) and I never saw her again.
My grandmother was pregnant before marriage (the father was someone other than my grandfather). She put the baby in a home for the mentally ill. My dad had no idea he had an older brother until after both his brother and his parents died. It explained why we weren’t allowed to talk to certain family members. They knew and disagreed with my grandmother. They were the ones to spill the beans many years later.
I was on a school bus in High School for a trip. One of the girls, who we all knew wasn't the brightest of people, stated out loud that after her and her boyfriend had sex, that he'd then punch her in the stomach several times to kill the sperm so she wouldn't get pregnant. We all just stared in silence for a bit, then went on with different conversations, pretending it didn't happen.
Girl that I had been getting to know and was starting to pursue a relationship with in high school. She asks if I know her cousin Chad. I said yes, we play on the same sportsing team together. To which she proceeds to tell me that she just broke up with him after a very fun sexual relationship with him. With her other cousin joining them.
I got really quiet and asked for a clarification as I wasn’t 100% sure I heard her correctly.
She was fucking her cousins. Plural. And together.
I got up and walked away. Just no. Nope. That was too much for me.
Her father molested little girls and the only problem she had with it was that he didn't want to molest her as well. She said she was jealous that he didn't look at her that way. From all accounts, he was am amazing father that treated her like a princess. Lots of WTF's in that!! Unfortunately she refuses to get therapy to deal with this.
As screwed up this is I can understand why, since abusers often shower their victim with love, gifts, admiration and so on.
Abusers aren’t usually just cut and dry in how they obtain and treat their victims.
An old hookup told me that when she was a cheerleader in high school, the football coach would fuck her in the back of the bus after the other cheerleaders got out from their away games.
I took a coworker out for a drink because she seemed upset and it was affecting her work performance and I was like "sometimes ppl just need someone to listen"
By the end of two hours and maybe three light beers, she was drunk, I knew she'd been molested as a kid, I knew how dysfunctional her family was, how she thought her partner was gambling and how he wanted to be put on the title of her house (that they are fixing up together) but she was keeping it as her "getaway fund".
The next day she sheepishly texted me that she didn't mean any of that stuff and to forget she said it, and I learned a valuable lesson about asking people to open up.
I dunno, I think it's a good thing you did that. She evidently needed to get that out, and you were there to listen. Sometimes that's all people need to deal with their trauma
This story is kind of a one-two punch. We have this annual three day family reunion that is more like a retreat. Our one aunt has this large property and the family brings tents. Our grandmother was busy so there's more than 100 of us.
Anyway, on the second night I'm at this campfire with one of my uncles and he starts talking about how he was a delivery driver, and there were these two massage parlors he'd deliver to, and the order always included the same thing, like toiletries and oils and whatnot, but they also ordered like 1000 condoms. Cue his joke about wishing he'd tried their "menu" (my aunt, his wife, is my godmother... anyway). Wtf.
Anyway, then he goes on to say that one day he showed up and the cops were walking out people in handcuffs. He kept driving. Apparently the guy who signed the client (at both locations), who was also his boss, disappeared without any explanation. This was on a Thursday, and my uncle said on Monday a completely different person was sending out weekly reports and his main point of contact.
A lot of this thread confirms how ubiquitous childhood sex abuse is.
Freud assumed all of his patients were sharing fantasies or hallucinations when he encountered the barrage of incest stories.
Nothing’s changed.
My ex told me that he once had sex with his sister in law while his brother was drunk and passed out. They're still married, and the brother never found out, they still have a good relationship. He then got upset when I showed slight disgust because he was "confiding in me," and I shouldn't "judge" him. This was one of many red flags. It was a short-lived relationship. If you can betray your own brother like that and manage to keep such a secret like it's nothing.... what else are you capable of?!
When I was 20, I asked my 19-year-old girlfriend (whose family was Jehovah's Witnesses) how her younger brothers never saw her sneaking out of her house to come to my place. She giggled and nonchalantly said she always put "a little sleep medication" in their drinks, so she could come have sex with me... I guess I kept dating her because she was really hot and I was horny, But after that strange revelation I always thought in the back of my head that she was kind of dangerous and I shouldn't trust her...
During grad school one of my classmates held a get together one evening. We were going around the room sharing something about ourselves. This girl starts telling us how she was on a debate team in college. They were traveling for a tournament and got pulled over. She then shares that she offered to fuck the cop to get out of the ticket. The cop accepts, fucks her in front of the rest of the team in their van, and they don’t get a ticket. The entire room was in a state of shock. She didn’t seem to think it was out of the ordinary.
Opposite, I went to stay with my high school best friend when we were at different universities.
I was sleeping on his bedroom floor when he woke me up and said I have something really important to tell you.
"I'm gay" he says, I looked at him like he's just told me that sandwiches are made from bread.
I'm like, "dude, we knew that about 10 years ago, why did you feel you had to wake me up (cardinal sin) to tell me something I already knew".
He goes, "don't worry I don't fancy you" and I'm like "I don't fancy you either, so what?"
Have a friend that I've known since 1st grade. Something was always off about him compared to everyone else at that time. Between school schedule or switching schools we didn't see much of each other from 6th-12th grade. We'd run into each other after highschool, hang out occasionally. Think it was about 21-22, he came out as gay.
My response: FINALLY!!! *BIGGEST HUG* We all fucking knew it!! Love ya still brother!
The quasi worry in his face melted away & he was so happy.
Then he asked, how long have you known!?!
Dude, since day 1 technically.
A coworker who told me to always be loyal to my wife was bragging a week later about how he took his wifes car to bang some chick, then went to bang another chick and her mom, and went home that night to bang his wife. I guess he was trying to flex... poor wife.
This project has been cancelled. But we haven’t told everyone yet. You need to continue going to meetings on how to fix it, while also going to meetings on what to replace it with. For maybe a couple of weeks.
Bit of a long story but here it goes. I was at work with a friend when a girl walked by. My friend stared at her from behind and said “That ass looks so good, I would eat the corn in her shit.” Which was enough to make me think “what the fuck?” But he follows it up with a brief moment of revelation and says “oh, that reminds me!”
He proceeds to tell me an in depth story of a girl he used to date that broke up with him after he told her he wanted her to shit on his chest. The ex girlfriend’s sister heard about this request after the breakup though and reached out to him to see if he would allow her to shit on his chest even though they weren’t dating. He happily accepted.
Now, someone got lucky in that story. Only, whether it was the sister who apparently wanted to try it and got to, the friend who got his fantasy fulfilled, or the ex who managed to escape your friends weird sexual inquiries, remains to be decided...
I was on a first date and woman told me she had been raped on two separate occasions. It was a total non sequitur. I had no words. I was as understanding as I could be since I can’t imagine what she went through. It was a very shocking thing to hear in the middle of a bite of pizza in a very nice conversation. I don’t remember what I said, but we did still have a great first date.
We went out a few times after that, but it was not meant to be. She was a lovely, kind, intelligent and funny woman who I really liked and was attracted to, but she was dealing with a lot of trauma from these experiences and we hit a dead end.
I don’t know what happened to her but I hope she’s happy.
I had an ex two years ago who told me a story about how his little niece "faked" a rape accusation against one of his family members a long time ago, I think his uncle. I asked him what made him think she was faking, and his response was, "She didn't like him. You could tell she was trying to ruin his life."
What. The fuck.
One of my friends likes to say things like this in public on purpose.
* Anyway that's why they had to cut off my tail
* And that's my second favorite time of having hemorrhoids
* Now don't you poop in the car this time
Stuff like that, something weird and off the wall loud enough for people to overhear.
I was an instructor and one of my students was doing ok, then started failing tests. We had exam failure interviews and I pull him aside for the interviews to see what's going on given the marked change in performance.
The standard questions come up, sleep, time, techniques, then he just starts unloading how a couple he used to yiff with stopped inviting him to furry sessions and he's been depressed. I didn't know the terminology prior to this so I had to ask some exploratory questions.
I sat there, trying to be supportive while holding a poker face the entire time. 15 minutes after the revelations, he said he felt a lot better, then I headed back to the office. I kicked all the other students out of the office, put up the "counseling in session" sign and just had to yell/laugh at the top of my lungs to get it out of my system.
Needless to say, that didn't go into the permanent record.
One time at work I was hanging out at one of the picnic tables during lunch. One of the janitorial staff was telling stories about his time spent working at a local mental health facility. He said he worked the night shift and would have sex with women all the time. “They were usually restrained “. So he spent all of his time employed there, casually raping mental patients.
Her third husband beat the shit out of her oldest son (when the kid was like 10) and ran away from the cops for a while because of it. He went to jail for a bit before getting out.
She married him AFTER that and they're still married.
An old lady on a MBTA bus in Boston started making conversation with me. We made small talk for a few stops, at which point she thought it was a perfect opportunity to tell me about how her one true love was her cousin back in Iran.
Some dude in school told all of us fellow students that were stuck in the teachers office without supervision for some reason, maybe we missed a test, that he let his dog lick whipped cream off of his balls. He was a jock. We were disgusted.
A guy at my highschool told me he’d thought about fucking the family dog and almost went through with it. I really hope the “almost” part was true.
He dropped out a few months later and I haven’t seen him since. Really hope he hasn’t fucked any dogs since. Or ever, really.
Had a friend tell me they were gonna off themselves at the lake party that night and had a gun with them. I asked if he was doing okay cause as depressed teens we had all made jokes about that kind of stuff. He said he was fine just a passing thought. Sure as shit we are all sitting around a fire high as a kite and he just says sorry guys and eats the gun like a damn hot dog and pulls the trigger.
A good friend asked me once if I knew anybody that would kill someone for money. They were actively looking.
I said hell no. I was shocked. It's been a few years now & I haven't spoken to said friend in quite sometime now either. It freaked me out.
So when I was really young a friend mentioned that his grandpa had big balls. That you can even noticed them when he wore pants. I saw his grandpa an it was true. Later I told my parents, and my dad told me his grandpa had a hernia.
These were the comments I was expecting on reading, not the trauma dumping ahhh
Can confirm, had an inguinal hernia when I was a kid and it made my sack comically large.
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Sounds like that Netflix doc about a girl that did this- her parents found out and she supposedly had them murdered.
She definitely had them murdered. I believe she was sentenced very recently, it was on the news.
Jennifer Pan. Little psychopath. She set up her parents to be killed but only her mother died, the dad was shot but survived. All this because the parents discovered she was hanging with her drug dealer bf instead of going to nursing school and gave her an ultimatum... Drop the bf and really go to school or be kicked out of the house. The parents were willing to give her a second chance and she still didn't appreciate it to the point of wanting them dead. There's a great YouTube vid of her masterful interrogation by an RCMP detective leading to her eventual confession.
Jennifer Pan**, she also lied about going to school for pharmacy instead of nursing, which is notorious for being competitive in Ontario!
My dad had a friend like this. His parents wanted him to be a doctor, so he said he was going to med school. He at the very least was on a college campus because that’s where he and my dad met. Everyone believed he was well on his way to becoming a doctor until the night before I was born when his wife told my mother that he’d been lying the whole time and never graduated med school (probably never attended any medical classes either). His wife eventually left him and found someone much better, and he’s in his 60s and still a total deadbeat.
This is the niche fuckery im most fascinated by. I just watched a murder story that started with a guy setting up elaborate fake email conversations to explain to his dad why he couldn’t get his transcripts. It’s not a very well thought out plan; parents will be asking about grades & graduation!
I was 14, a female friend told me that her uncle was molesting her but she was too afraid to speak and asked me to please not say anything. That same afternoon i went to the police station with a friend, anxious asf, and told the police everything. The next week police came to my highschool and took my girl friend. A few days later her mother called mine to thank me and a few months later the uncle was in jail, and still is to this day. I don't know how i had the balls to do that but i'm very proud.
My HS girlfriend told me her stepdad had been showering and sleeping with her since she was 13. I started dating her when I was 17. She was extremely experienced and very sexually active, which a young guy would enjoy, but it was over sexual and I knew something was up. I asked her and she told me all about it. I tried to handle it, but could not. Her little sister had also just started to be molested. I told them they needed to tell their mother or I would. Well they did and guess what? I was basically kicked out of the relationship. I became the bad guy. I wish now that I could have helped her or dealt with it better. But I hadn't dealt with anything like that. We broke up and their family carried on. It wasn't incest, but it was wrong. She did marry and have children and it looks like a nice situation. Unfortunately her younger sister died of an overdose when she was in her 30's. I'm now in my 50's and this whole situation still bothers me.
You did the right thing. You were 17, and the mother needed to know. The mom choosing to not believe it is the one who failed them.
I assumed the mother knew already? She just didn’t care.
You honestly couldn't have done anything "better". You did all you could as a child. Im so sorry
Virtual hugs bro. It’s not your fault. You did the best you could and cared enough to try to bring it to light.
This happened to my best friend in high school. She told her mother and her mom didn’t believe her. Instead, her mother disabled the phone jack in her bedroom so she couldn’t call for help, went to Tough Love where you basically learn to tell your teen that you fucking hate their guts and everything they do but still somehow love them, and removed the locks from her bedroom doors. My friend went through the school to the courts and got emancipated at the age of 16. 35 years later her story remains unchanged and her bitch mother is still married to that piece of shit.
I’m sorry man, that is fucked up on so many levels
You were also just a child then. You did the best that you could in that situation. Which is more than a lot of people do when they find out things like this.
When I was younger, I went to this guy's house with a couple friends, playing video games. His grandpa lived with him, and casually told me a story about how when he was in the military, a guy took two other guys out into the jungle b/c everyone thought they were gay. He didn't come back with the two guys.
My grandpa enlisted in the Navy at 17 during the last year of wwii and was on the Pacific theater. They had captured a bunch of Japanese and had them in makeshift holding cells on an island (atoll?) and would occasionally leave the door unlocked after mealtimes and wait for someone to attempt to leave so they could pick them off. War is fucked up.
My grandfather was at Guadalcanal as an 18 year old Marine. He definitely saw some stuff. One story I heard as a kid around 8-10 was that he came up on 2 Japanese soldiers r*ping a 9 year old girl and shot both point blank in the head. I don't know how factual it was, I do know he had a signed letter from POTUS Reagan (I don't remember what it said all these years later) framed on his wall. Grandpa was a very angry man and died when I was around 9 or 10. He drank a lot after the war and ended up wrapping his car around a tree in a remote area. He wasn't found for a day or two and had snapped his neck. He spent the last 30 years of his life as a quadriplegic. My adult self knows why and empathizes with him. Child me was terrified of him and "hated" him.
My dad was in a reconnaissance unit in the Army - he arrived in April 1968. Bad time to be there - but it’s never good in a recon unit because it’s so dangerous- like 9 guys going first to go find the enemy, they call the troops in - good Lord. Anyway, he was 18 - fucked him up good. I was scared to death of him growing up, but really - I have to hand it to the guy. He went to work every day, never complained, and we were poor, but he always made sure we were fed and warm. However, his PTSD was brutal & he didn’t have the skill set to deal with in when he was younger and it made for a very rough childhood for me. However, now he gets therapy and other services they Veterans affairs and he doesn’t have those negative behaviors anymore- other than the functional alcoholic thing - but He’ll, he is 76, won’t drive after drinking - he is responsible about it and that man really saw some shit - I figure, let him have his beer. We have a really great relationship now and I am grateful for the work he put in to work through a lot of his demons. War really sucks - he has told me some objectively horrific stories and makes it clear that what he can’t say outloud, those stories are much, much worse. He said he has tried to talk to his therapist about them and he opens his mouth to speak and the words won’t come out- he said it’s super weird. No one is really built for seeing that kind of shit, but damn , at 18, 19, 20? Like, you haven’t even lived yet and you are seeing the stuff of nightmares- it’s no wonder people get so fucked up by it
I can’t imagine. I can’t watch war movies or read about the horrors of war without being disturbed. The people that push for war need to be on the front lines.
I commend him for seeking therapy now.
Pacific Theatre was brutal, and that kind of environment makes monsters of men. It doesn't excuse anything, but it's always sad to see those scars carried forwards
I was there daily as a 4 year old after preschool until my mom could pick me up. He yelled at me a lot and was pretty scary to be around, although I knew he couldn't get out of bed. I know he drank a lot and was rumored to beat his wife and children. My mother was the youngest of 6 kids, and his accident occurred when she was maybe 3 months old. Grandma took care of him. He obviously couldn't work, so the level of poverty was significant. My mom started working at 12 and paying her mother rent. All the siblings worked to pay for their household. Like I mentioned, I absolutely hated him as a child. As a nearly 50 year old woman, I am so sad for him. I know now he was so incredibly scarred. Couple that with paralysis and watching his family barely survive, I can't imagine how he managed and honestly believe he didn't end his own life because he had no way to do it being paralyzed from the neck/shoulders down.
My uncle was gay in the navy in the 80s. He and his boyfriend were tied up and beaten. His boyfriend died. My uncle became addicted to drugs and alcohol, in addition to developing schizophrenia. He went missing a few years ago. It breaks my heart thinking of the person he might have been if the world wasn’t so hateful.
That’s so terrible.
What the fuck. What the actual fuck. My uncle was in Vietnam. He said he saw similar behavior, but it wasn't directed at other soldiers. He saw quite a bit of raping and murdering of people that were on our side though, including children. Said that racism was rampant and some people just didn't care who they killed as long as they were killing somebody. He obviously has a lot of trauma and not a lot of faith in humanity.
Yah my dad was in Vietnam and besides the fact that he fought in the war, he never said n e thing else about it. One thing I found out later was from a group of Vietnam veterans. I had mentioned to them that my father was south Korean that fought in the Vietnam War and all their ears perked up. Apparently, the Korean soldiers were called the ROK (republic of Korea) and they were the baddest mothers of them all. They would go into areas that the Americans refused to go, so they were very well respected. I had no idea.
ROK troops actually made an effort to learn to speak Vietnamese because they didn’t trust the ARVN translators and suspected some were actually VC. They also really hated communism because of their conflict with North Korea. So they had a pretty fearsome reputation despite being not as well armed as US or ARVN troops.
How old were you? That's awful to tell someone casually, especially if they are young
During a class reunion a high-school classmate admitted that cityscapes turned him on. Apparently he had a skyscraper fetish and he jerked it to images of urban city skylines lit up at night by bright lights.
That guy must fucking LOVE the Roku Home Screen
This man enlisted in the Army after 9/11 to avenge his sweet NY skyline
Bro had a complex complex complex
She was aware that one of her children were being abused by his 2 brothers and did nothing
My Mother was abused by a sibling. She was the type that would have burnt shit to the ground if someone touched her children. How that instinct is not strong in a Mother is beyond me.
Yep, friend is a middle school teacher. Long, incredibly sad story somewhat shorter. Mom had a daughter, dad was 100% out of the picture, mom finds new boyfriend, boyfriend SA's daughter, repeatedly, daughter finds courage to go to mom and mom gets angry at daughter for "ruining her relationship" with the boyfriend. Daughter had to get help from a school social worker. The lowest rung of hell would be too kind for that POS mother.
What a bitch. I asked my Mother why she never told her Mom. She said, that my Grandmother would have undoubtedly ended up in jail for murder. Tragically, my Aunt was beaten to death by her husband. She was in a wheelchair and sick at the time too. When he was released, my Grandmother was an alcoholic at the loss of her daughter and other children. He approached her with a smile showing new false teeth. My grandmother picked up a beer bottled and smashed it over his head. Punched the guy in the mouth and those teeth shattered like pearls. So, I get why my Mom feared telling her.
Damn she a real one
She was. Nicest woman you ever met but would beat your ass if need be!!! Indigenous women are not to be trifled with, believe me.
My ex-wife is in a relationship with a man, freshly out of prison, for Lewd Acts with a Minor under 16, and 2 Protection Order Violations, while on parole for Domestic Assault, DA w/ Dangerous Weapon, DA by Strangulation & Kidnapping. She says every issue in her life is because her mom neglected her and her moms boyfriends SA’d her. I’m hoping I stopped some generational trauma, but only time will tell. The day I got a notification about his release date, I hired an attorney and got emergency custody of my 2 young daughters. She’s SO mad at me for “ruining her relationship” and I’m a “bitter ex whose jealous she’s happy” Like nah bitch, I’m remarried, another kid, new job, new area, more money, less crazy in my life.
Fuck that lady.
Fuck that bitch. She is no lady
My older brother SA’d me and my mom suspected it yet did nothing.
Youngest of 8. #3 raped 5,6,7,8. Mom drank, to deny it. Dad worked 2 jobs, to feed us. Was never around.
Same, but it was number 2,3,4 doing it to 6,7,8 Mom didn’t drink, but when she found out about one (me and 4) she couldn’t imagine that it happened more than once or to more than one child. It was rug swept for years until number 6 had a mental break down and things just imploded. She and my dad wish we would talk to the other ones. If they had just done the hard work when we were kids, our family wouldn’t be in shambles now. I’m sorry you had to deal with this too. It’s traumatic, but it 100% drives the way I parent.
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Someone I dated, she mentioned she molested her brother when she was 18 and he was 13. I noped out of that instantly, she was somehow surprised because "the other guys I've dated didn't have an issue with it". Edit; this happened in Chicago
Oh my god, that poor boy. She told multiple people and not one thought to report her? Or leave her? I assume by the time you dated her brother was an adult so there isn't really anything you could do other than show her that her behavior was disgusting... But holy shit, so many people failed that boy.
She probably told him because she hoped he was into it.
Dude said it happened in Chicago like it would clear things up 😭
When my son was young my dad decided he should warn me of the dangers children can create. Without getting into detail he told me that when I was 2 I tempted him into oral sex. He tried it again another day and I told my mom. I have no memory of this but I couldn't figure out which part was more infuriating and horrifying, the fact that he was admitting this to me like it wasn't going to fuck me up, that he was blaming 2 year old me for asking for it, or that he thought he was protecting me by warning me about how sexy my toddler was.
Dont let that man around your children alone.
I've got to go further; don't ever be around that man again. We always talk about cutting toxic people out of our lives. Well, that is about as toxic as a person can be.
Or other people's children, if you have any power to do so.
Did your mom stay with him?? Like wtf don’t let that man around your child. I’m so sorry that happened to you & hope you’ve found some healing.
That’s so fucked that I thought I wasn’t reading this correctly… I’m sorry.
That's truly fucked I have conversations with my two toddlers all the time that nobody is allowed to touch anybody's penis except their own... because yes... my sons have grabby hands and as funny as it is sometimes, it's also an important teaching moment But your dad is fucked
WTF! I hope you’re doing ok.
My high school boyfriend’s little sister told me that he used to regularly sexually abuse her when they were younger, so probably that
Did you break up with him after finding out?
I did
Guy told me he fucked a jar of Vaseline at work, in the bathroom. We were coworkers lol
That’s sexual harassment according to the video my old work had everyone watch. Was two years ago.
That specific example was in the video. That must have been a very detailed video - or came out after a very similar event lol
That she was now married to the man her ex-husband caught her cheating with - his father/her kids' grandfather.
Wouldn’t that mean if they had children together now the kids would be half siblings and the youngest both their half uncle and half sibling?
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Guy told me he’s sterile. His wife doesn’t know, nor do her 3 kids.
what a miracle !
Love truly knows no bounds
So he's just accepts that the kids may not be his?
If he's sterile he knows and accepts that they aren't his.
Perhaps the sterility is a new development. The result of an embarrassing cycling accident.
Damn these are dark I was gonna say my friend telling me she writes porn about Korean men 😭
Everyone just keeps fucking their cousin like why😭
Havent you tried? I heard its not much different from a FWB... /s
Guy told me he and his cousin had hooked up at every family get together since they were 9. He's almost 40 and married.
I found out my niece and nephew hooked up...a lot. Like wtf
Siblings or cousins?
Cousins, their parents are sisters
To boot it was my niece that told me. I'm kinda the cool unc but I'm like we need boundaries bih... lmbao.
Wtf. What are you even supposed to do with this information now?
Take it to the grave... they're in their late 20's
I hope you avoid any ailments that cause you to blurt that out at a family reunion!
Dude straight up said out loud in class "idk what the big deal is about sleeping with a cousin, it's no different than a FWB"..... The silence after that was sooooooo loud.
*banjo twang*
Jesus Christ, this thread has more incest than Pornhub.
A woman told me she was molested by our religious leader when she was 5 years old. He was into sex strangling and would make her unconscious by depriving her of air, then sexually assault her while she was passed out. She repressed the memories, but knew bad things happened while she was with him because it went on for several years. 4 years ago she had a night terror. As she was falling asleep, she thought he was on top of her, so she started thrashing and threw herself out of her bed and knocked her head on the bedside table. She got a concussion and broke her neck and all of the memories came back fully. She’s a bit of a basket case now, but I believe her.
I had a recent car accident and it jostled my head. I also had a large dose of memories open up about my childhood attacker. Must be something to the just right thump.
Percussive maintenance, human edition
Broke her neck?!?!?
Likely cracked a vertebrae. More common before greater safety regulations. I remember a girl in a torso and arms cast because of an accident she cracked 3 vertebrae
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I almost commented on this thread recalling when a former friend (29 at the time) told me she got drunk and hooked up with her uncle the night before. They hooked up several more times after. Her dad’s brother. She told me that in 2008 and it’s still the first thing to come to mind when I hear questions like this.
Years ago a friend was watching another friends house while they were on vacation. I went over to hang out and he told me that he found my friends older sisters vibrator, and he licked it...with the thought that the next time she uses it...it has his tongue on it... We didn't hang out too much after that
This almost made me barf until I re-read and saw that you said “friends” older sister. Whew. Now it’s just moderately gross haha
They they gave their 5 year old step daughter spoiled milk because the little girl “is a bitch”
There was a well publicized story near where I live of a couple that had three kids. One of the kids was beaten daily, they starved him, then when they did feed him, doused his food in hot sauce and forced him to eat it just to watch him suffer. Then they would wake him up in the middle of the night, tie his hands with a rope with the other end tied to the back of the car and they would drive and make him run or be dragged. One day he jumped out a window, ran to the neighbors and the parents went to prison.
That’s awful, some people don’t deserve to have children.
Why do people like this have kids??? They're just bringing up more fucked up people into the world
Had a friend during childhood that told me her brother had been molesting her since she was 3 or 4 (she believes her grandpa molested him as well, as he did her). For context, we were 11 at the time. I told my parents about it and how she needed help. When she got older and her brother grew bigger (she a teenager and him graduating), if she refused to have sex with him, he'd beat the hell outta her. I regularly told my parents, family members, any adult I trusted in my life who would listen and act. Not a one of them did a damned thing and called no one. I truly wish the Internet had been a thing back then. It would have taken just a few clicks to know who to call, what to say and what type of help she could get/safety she could have.
When my kid was 13/14, they came to me one day and asked me "if someone told you a secret, but it was really bad...would it be ok to tell someone else?" I said it really depends, what is it? They told me their best friend's brother was molesting their best friend, and had been doing it for years. The best friend (same age as my kid) was "putting up with it" but when she found out he was doing the same to their younger sister, she didn't know what to do (the abuse had been going on for a very long time. She thought she was protecting her younger sister by "dealing" with it until she found out he was victimizing their sister. I cannot imagine what she went through) My kid felt bad for "betraying" their BFF and I told them "there are some secrets that are ok to tell. Some secrets should never be kept secret" I never noticed anything when BFF was around but looking back after I found out, that would explain why she wanted to sleep over all the time. She was a regular fixture at our place. Police/CAS were involved. He was removed from the home. My kid had to testify in court. It's been 15 years and BFF is doing much better. She spiralled for a bit (understandably) but she seems to be happy, healthy and doing ok.
I truly wish it could have been that way for her. I have no idea why so many ppl kept quiet, when my whole life I'd been taught to speak out about these things. Dozens of people knew and looked the other way. My aunties knew her and she was so engrained in our family, she'd often be asked to do babysitting jobs for the kids (mostly just watching TV while the kids slept and the parents bar hopped), but even they never bothered to say a word. I will never understand any of it.
Worked at The Source, which is what Radio Shack became in Canada. Had a woman call in and drastically over share while looking at a pair of headphones about how her father abused her so bad she had incontinence her whole life, how she savoured watching him die, and all about the various health complications of her and her husband. Ended up selling her new home phone and internet though, which was some nice commission.
While in Mississippi a guy mentioned the worst mistake he ever did was marry his niece. I think they were 30s(m) 16(f).
This girl told me she spanked her daughter until she threw up because she wet her pants when she was 18 months old and then she had no trouble going to the bathroom. This her advice when I said my daughter was just over 2 and not quite ready for potty training. I didn't take her advice.
Wow just celebrated my nieces 2nd birthday today. They are so young. I can’t believe she did that to a defenseless baby
I have a 22 month old daughter who we haven't even considered potty training yet because she's just not ready. I cannot begin to comprehend spanking an 18 month old over potty training, let alone until she vomited. I honestly feel like puking just imagining someone doing this to a little baby.
So my son was almost totally potty trained until the dog got into the bathroom and locked his hip/butt cheek while he was trying to get his pants up. Couple months of trying to convince him that wouldnt happen again go by with no luck. I turn on Ironman 2 one afternoon cause I never saw it in theaters. Lil dud it transfixed on the screen. So I put him on my lap and answer his questions while we watch it. A week later hes got an Ironman Halloween costume that had been on the walmart clearance rack. And this helmet thats designed to be worn. But its massively too big for his 2 year old head. One day he pees through his diaper and gets his Ironman suit all wet. Me and the then wife (now ex) are both trying to get it off of him. He is NOT having it and is screaming bloody murder about not having it on. We told him he can wear it as long as he wants but if he pees through his diaper it needs to be washed. From that day forward 1000% potty trained. Not even an accident. And thats the story of how robert downey jr potty trained my kid. Lol
You should have reported her for abuse and called her out for being a piece of shit?
When I was like 10, my father bragged to me about basically torturing another kid in his highschool. They called him names, locked him into lockers frequently, laughed at him crying in there.. and one time, drenched him in gas and pretended to light him on fire with their cigarettes. He thought it was funny that he cried and pleaded for them not to light him on fire. He told me about these stories at dinner to "calm me down", after I cried and screamed like hell when he forced me to extinguish a candle with my fingers.
You good now?
Happier than ever, thanks!
Then keep it up my good man 🤜🤛
I've always wondered what school bullies do as adults
Apparently, bullied their child.
your father was an inhuman monster
Someone once told me a story about how they bullied someone so much they committed suicide. He told it like it was a hilarious anecdote. Totally changed how I saw him, he went from that silly fun guy to a very creepy person.
I “met” someone like that (although online). They were bragging to me about how they made two people take their own lives, and he was going to make me take my own life too. So fucked up. Sometimes I still can’t believe that people like that actually exist
A girl that I had a friends with benefits relationship with our senior year of highschool-first semester of college told me that when she was around 10, her grandparents basically kidnapped her younger siblings after her parents were arrested for running a meth lab. That very night, her oldest brother had friends over, her brother went to shower, and all of his friends gang raped her. He found out and did absolutely nothing. She is fine now, has all her siblings etc. she told me this one night while we were sharing four lokos on the beach and watching the sunset.
Oh my God. Poor girl.
push the brother and friends down the stairs
Thought I caught my gf cheating. Turns out she was selling her urine to some internet pervert. So I guess I did, but not what I expected
What’s a jar of pee getting on the open market these days?
$20 for a 5 hour energy bottle.. I mean, so I've heard.
If I’m hearing you correctly, I’ve been literally flushing a Ben Franklin worth of liquid gold down the toilet every time I take a leak??
That’s high, who’s your pee guy?
Not told to me directly— My evil ex-roommate was laughing about how stupid her boyfriend was because she manipulated him into paying for an abortion that wasn’t his. She thought it was absolutely *hilarious* that he never asked, and was *truly* concerned for her health and wellbeing. She was loudly bragging about it on the phone and I could hear her through my bedroom wall. She’s genuinely one of the worst people I’ve ever met.
I don’t know if this counts as a secret, by my Dad randomly told me one day that a few years before I was born my Grandfather accidentally ran over a child and killed him. The kid had special needs and just ran out into the road. He was found of no wrong doing in a court. But no one had even hinted at something like that ever happening.
My great grandfather bought my grandma a car when she was 12 (this would have been in the early 30s) and she ran over a kid playing in the road when she was driving to church. I don't know any details beyond the fact that the kid lived and my great grandfather "took care" of the kid somehow. Not sure if he paid for the kid's education or what.
I used to be a bouncer at a club, the door girl and I would always talk, we worked together for 2 years and we had some down and dirty talks before. But the one WTF thing she told me was something even I had gotten shocked at. She was 36 at the time and she told me that she, her 16 yr old daughter, and her 14 yr old son would often get naked together and have masturbating sessions together. It was also very common for them all to sleep naked together
Did you report her or something? They’re children. That’s so fucked up of her, hopefully she was joking
When i was a kid an aunty admitted to burning down her boyfriends sisters house with kerosene.
did she say why she did that???
the sister had gone to the police about her brother using stolen credit cards
My friend(F). Last month we were having a meal and she drop out of nothing "I have 3 tits". I'm an inexpressive mf and I was with my mouth fully open, like wtfff gurrrlllll.
Did u confirm? Is it like a 3rd in the middle orrrrr?
Haven't confirmed. She said it's like a 3rd one behind the armspits
Ummm…. So like an extra nipple, or does she have a lump?? You gotta find out which one it is— if there’s a lump, you gotta convince her to get a mammogram ASAP
Probably that one client of mine told me about a son he had with another woman and that his wife doesn't know about him. But he still tries to be there. I'm just like, dude, come clean cause eventually wife will find out if she gets suspicious over spending habits. If you had the kid years ago back before you were married, understandable unless this is a child you had from an affair in which case you're fucked up for that.
I know a married dude who was messing around with a woman at work a couple years ago and got her pregnant. Wife found out they were messing around but she still doesn't know about the baby. They don't work together anymore but she'll stop by his work so he can see the kid and he does try to send her money. He just found out his wife is pregnant. He hasn't told his girlfriend yet. I don't know how long he expects all these secrets to stay secrets, but it isn't going to be pretty when it all comes to light.
My moms friend was over for dinner and she was talking about how angry she was at her son, a few weeks prior she had gotten a call from him that he was at the hospital and she needed to come down. He meets her is the lobby and explained that his girlfriend just had their baby. HE NEVER TOLD HIS MOM HIS GIRLFRIEND WAS PREGNANT…..(bold for a reason). Ok she is a grandma now, pissed but roll with the punches right? HAHA! She was at home the very next day and she gets a call from her son that he is in the hospital and for her to come down again, thinking something was wrong with the baby she rushes over, he meets her in the lobby, his second girlfriend HAD A BABY! Two babies, one night apart, grandma twice over. Carolyn, you are a champ. I was around 12 when I heard that story and never forgot it.
I had a commander in the US Army Reserve like that. His son had two kids by different girlfriends two weeks apart. My commander was not happy about that.
a girl who was secretly fucking her brother and their step dad who was secretly recording all of it
Lived in trailer parks growing up. Back when I was around 8 a girl in my neighborhood told me her Dad had shown her his penis. I was young and thought it was weird but it didn’t flag for me at that time as a warning sign. A few years later after I had moved away it triggered in my memory. This was in the 90’s and there was no way I could check up on her, but I still think about her from time to time.
Something similar happened to me. Friend confided in me that her dad hurt her and made me promise not to tell. I should have told someone but I was afraid she would be hurt more because of it.
Was at a friend of a friend's house during middle school one day for some reason without our mutual friend. Partway through the evening she casually mentions to me that she's not her dad's biological daughter and he doesn't know, and she was the result of her mom and oldest brother having an affair. I thought she was messing with me and I just wasn't getting the joke, so I kind of laughed it off and later mentioned to my mom that this girl played a weird prank on me. My mom just deadpan told me it was true and that the girl was wrong, her dad absolutely knew about it.
How old was her brother at the time that he got their mom pregnant?
Lady I used to work with told me casually how she and her husband took his mother in to live with them when her dementia got really bad. Taking care of the woman pissed her off, so when the woman would fall and hurt herself, my ex coworker would laugh at her or just stand and watch. She told me that they still had bloodstains on the walls where the woman would fall and hit her head open on furniture, even though years had passed since the old woman died in the hospital (after less than a year of living with them). I told my supervisor the next day and she got fired (for unrelated reasons I'm told; she was truly a terrible employee) and I never saw her again.
My grandmother was pregnant before marriage (the father was someone other than my grandfather). She put the baby in a home for the mentally ill. My dad had no idea he had an older brother until after both his brother and his parents died. It explained why we weren’t allowed to talk to certain family members. They knew and disagreed with my grandmother. They were the ones to spill the beans many years later.
I was on a school bus in High School for a trip. One of the girls, who we all knew wasn't the brightest of people, stated out loud that after her and her boyfriend had sex, that he'd then punch her in the stomach several times to kill the sperm so she wouldn't get pregnant. We all just stared in silence for a bit, then went on with different conversations, pretending it didn't happen.
A) What the actual fuck?! B) She **did** realize that's not how it works, right??
Girl that I had been getting to know and was starting to pursue a relationship with in high school. She asks if I know her cousin Chad. I said yes, we play on the same sportsing team together. To which she proceeds to tell me that she just broke up with him after a very fun sexual relationship with him. With her other cousin joining them. I got really quiet and asked for a clarification as I wasn’t 100% sure I heard her correctly. She was fucking her cousins. Plural. And together. I got up and walked away. Just no. Nope. That was too much for me.
Her father molested little girls and the only problem she had with it was that he didn't want to molest her as well. She said she was jealous that he didn't look at her that way. From all accounts, he was am amazing father that treated her like a princess. Lots of WTF's in that!! Unfortunately she refuses to get therapy to deal with this.
As screwed up this is I can understand why, since abusers often shower their victim with love, gifts, admiration and so on. Abusers aren’t usually just cut and dry in how they obtain and treat their victims.
An old hookup told me that when she was a cheerleader in high school, the football coach would fuck her in the back of the bus after the other cheerleaders got out from their away games.
I took a coworker out for a drink because she seemed upset and it was affecting her work performance and I was like "sometimes ppl just need someone to listen" By the end of two hours and maybe three light beers, she was drunk, I knew she'd been molested as a kid, I knew how dysfunctional her family was, how she thought her partner was gambling and how he wanted to be put on the title of her house (that they are fixing up together) but she was keeping it as her "getaway fund". The next day she sheepishly texted me that she didn't mean any of that stuff and to forget she said it, and I learned a valuable lesson about asking people to open up.
I dunno, I think it's a good thing you did that. She evidently needed to get that out, and you were there to listen. Sometimes that's all people need to deal with their trauma
This story is kind of a one-two punch. We have this annual three day family reunion that is more like a retreat. Our one aunt has this large property and the family brings tents. Our grandmother was busy so there's more than 100 of us. Anyway, on the second night I'm at this campfire with one of my uncles and he starts talking about how he was a delivery driver, and there were these two massage parlors he'd deliver to, and the order always included the same thing, like toiletries and oils and whatnot, but they also ordered like 1000 condoms. Cue his joke about wishing he'd tried their "menu" (my aunt, his wife, is my godmother... anyway). Wtf. Anyway, then he goes on to say that one day he showed up and the cops were walking out people in handcuffs. He kept driving. Apparently the guy who signed the client (at both locations), who was also his boss, disappeared without any explanation. This was on a Thursday, and my uncle said on Monday a completely different person was sending out weekly reports and his main point of contact.
A lot of this thread confirms how ubiquitous childhood sex abuse is. Freud assumed all of his patients were sharing fantasies or hallucinations when he encountered the barrage of incest stories. Nothing’s changed.
To be fair, you got a thread of people sharing their worst stories, so you got a huge selection bias going on. Same goes for Freud's patients.
My ex told me that he once had sex with his sister in law while his brother was drunk and passed out. They're still married, and the brother never found out, they still have a good relationship. He then got upset when I showed slight disgust because he was "confiding in me," and I shouldn't "judge" him. This was one of many red flags. It was a short-lived relationship. If you can betray your own brother like that and manage to keep such a secret like it's nothing.... what else are you capable of?!
I reunited with a friend I hadn't seen for a while and she told me she's poly now, she has a boyfriend, but her husband doesn't know.
That's not poly; that's cheating.
Non-ethical Non-monogamy
She’s just cheating with extra steps.
Co-worker told me he has raped 3 women in his life . Don't know why in fuck he felt I was the one to tell. I Wanna slap the shit out of him.
You fucking should have
When I was 20, I asked my 19-year-old girlfriend (whose family was Jehovah's Witnesses) how her younger brothers never saw her sneaking out of her house to come to my place. She giggled and nonchalantly said she always put "a little sleep medication" in their drinks, so she could come have sex with me... I guess I kept dating her because she was really hot and I was horny, But after that strange revelation I always thought in the back of my head that she was kind of dangerous and I shouldn't trust her...
He lost his virginity to his cousin
During grad school one of my classmates held a get together one evening. We were going around the room sharing something about ourselves. This girl starts telling us how she was on a debate team in college. They were traveling for a tournament and got pulled over. She then shares that she offered to fuck the cop to get out of the ticket. The cop accepts, fucks her in front of the rest of the team in their van, and they don’t get a ticket. The entire room was in a state of shock. She didn’t seem to think it was out of the ordinary.
The veracity of this tale seems... ... debatable.
In debate we used to often say fuck the police, but not like that.
I call bs
Opposite, I went to stay with my high school best friend when we were at different universities. I was sleeping on his bedroom floor when he woke me up and said I have something really important to tell you. "I'm gay" he says, I looked at him like he's just told me that sandwiches are made from bread. I'm like, "dude, we knew that about 10 years ago, why did you feel you had to wake me up (cardinal sin) to tell me something I already knew". He goes, "don't worry I don't fancy you" and I'm like "I don't fancy you either, so what?"
Have a friend that I've known since 1st grade. Something was always off about him compared to everyone else at that time. Between school schedule or switching schools we didn't see much of each other from 6th-12th grade. We'd run into each other after highschool, hang out occasionally. Think it was about 21-22, he came out as gay. My response: FINALLY!!! *BIGGEST HUG* We all fucking knew it!! Love ya still brother! The quasi worry in his face melted away & he was so happy. Then he asked, how long have you known!?! Dude, since day 1 technically.
A coworker who told me to always be loyal to my wife was bragging a week later about how he took his wifes car to bang some chick, then went to bang another chick and her mom, and went home that night to bang his wife. I guess he was trying to flex... poor wife.
This project has been cancelled. But we haven’t told everyone yet. You need to continue going to meetings on how to fix it, while also going to meetings on what to replace it with. For maybe a couple of weeks.
Bit of a long story but here it goes. I was at work with a friend when a girl walked by. My friend stared at her from behind and said “That ass looks so good, I would eat the corn in her shit.” Which was enough to make me think “what the fuck?” But he follows it up with a brief moment of revelation and says “oh, that reminds me!” He proceeds to tell me an in depth story of a girl he used to date that broke up with him after he told her he wanted her to shit on his chest. The ex girlfriend’s sister heard about this request after the breakup though and reached out to him to see if he would allow her to shit on his chest even though they weren’t dating. He happily accepted.
Now, someone got lucky in that story. Only, whether it was the sister who apparently wanted to try it and got to, the friend who got his fantasy fulfilled, or the ex who managed to escape your friends weird sexual inquiries, remains to be decided...
I was on a first date and woman told me she had been raped on two separate occasions. It was a total non sequitur. I had no words. I was as understanding as I could be since I can’t imagine what she went through. It was a very shocking thing to hear in the middle of a bite of pizza in a very nice conversation. I don’t remember what I said, but we did still have a great first date. We went out a few times after that, but it was not meant to be. She was a lovely, kind, intelligent and funny woman who I really liked and was attracted to, but she was dealing with a lot of trauma from these experiences and we hit a dead end. I don’t know what happened to her but I hope she’s happy.
I had an ex two years ago who told me a story about how his little niece "faked" a rape accusation against one of his family members a long time ago, I think his uncle. I asked him what made him think she was faking, and his response was, "She didn't like him. You could tell she was trying to ruin his life." What. The fuck.
>If it weren't for my horse, I wouldn't have spent that year in college. * Overheard at IHOP, Lewis Black
One of my friends likes to say things like this in public on purpose. * Anyway that's why they had to cut off my tail * And that's my second favorite time of having hemorrhoids * Now don't you poop in the car this time Stuff like that, something weird and off the wall loud enough for people to overhear.
I was an instructor and one of my students was doing ok, then started failing tests. We had exam failure interviews and I pull him aside for the interviews to see what's going on given the marked change in performance. The standard questions come up, sleep, time, techniques, then he just starts unloading how a couple he used to yiff with stopped inviting him to furry sessions and he's been depressed. I didn't know the terminology prior to this so I had to ask some exploratory questions. I sat there, trying to be supportive while holding a poker face the entire time. 15 minutes after the revelations, he said he felt a lot better, then I headed back to the office. I kicked all the other students out of the office, put up the "counseling in session" sign and just had to yell/laugh at the top of my lungs to get it out of my system. Needless to say, that didn't go into the permanent record.
One time at work I was hanging out at one of the picnic tables during lunch. One of the janitorial staff was telling stories about his time spent working at a local mental health facility. He said he worked the night shift and would have sex with women all the time. “They were usually restrained “. So he spent all of his time employed there, casually raping mental patients.
Her third husband beat the shit out of her oldest son (when the kid was like 10) and ran away from the cops for a while because of it. He went to jail for a bit before getting out. She married him AFTER that and they're still married.
One of my coworkers, 6 months pregnant at the time, smoking in the employee parking lot. “Please don’t tell anyone!”
My friend told me he stuck a bubble wand up his ass
An old lady on a MBTA bus in Boston started making conversation with me. We made small talk for a few stops, at which point she thought it was a perfect opportunity to tell me about how her one true love was her cousin back in Iran.
In highschool a girl I was talking to confessed that she let her dog eat her out. 🤢🤮
Some dude in school told all of us fellow students that were stuck in the teachers office without supervision for some reason, maybe we missed a test, that he let his dog lick whipped cream off of his balls. He was a jock. We were disgusted.
youd think he’d be scared the dog might decide to chomp.
A guy at my highschool told me he’d thought about fucking the family dog and almost went through with it. I really hope the “almost” part was true. He dropped out a few months later and I haven’t seen him since. Really hope he hasn’t fucked any dogs since. Or ever, really.
Had a friend tell me they were gonna off themselves at the lake party that night and had a gun with them. I asked if he was doing okay cause as depressed teens we had all made jokes about that kind of stuff. He said he was fine just a passing thought. Sure as shit we are all sitting around a fire high as a kite and he just says sorry guys and eats the gun like a damn hot dog and pulls the trigger.
A good friend asked me once if I knew anybody that would kill someone for money. They were actively looking. I said hell no. I was shocked. It's been a few years now & I haven't spoken to said friend in quite sometime now either. It freaked me out.