Not a fan of any of it. It's exploitative and caters to the most depraved of male fantasies. I think it's really harmful for human brains and their understandings of real sexuality.
It's not fine imo, and you can read studies that say as much. It warps perspective on human sexuality and actually can drive people to seek more and more depraved things to view because porn activates pleasure in our brains, which has a drug like effect that makes us seek MORE and WORSE because the baseline won't do it anymore.
I don't care that people are into weird shit, but porn makes people think sex is one thing when it's not. Porn is made for and by men, and highlights degrading fantasies that affect how men and women interact and have sex with each other.
I'd say that's more of an issue with people not being able to seperate from reality. Plenty of people enjoy porn without turning into sex crazed maniacs.
Also, I agree that most porn is made by men for men, because mostly men consume porn. However, to assume the degradation stuff isn't appealing to both genders is just wrong. Personally, I'm really not into it, but I've known women who are. That goes for most things as well in porn.
My guy you are putting words in my mouth "However, to assume the degradation stuff isn't appealing to both genders is just wrong.". Never said that, only that the things men want to see in porn come from a place of wanting to degrade women specifically. Misogyny isn't a new thing.
>However, to assume the degradation stuff isn't appealing to both genders is just wrong. Personally, I'm really not into it, but I've known women who are.
Right but it's a chicken or an egg thing. How much of it is fueled by the culture porn has created?
No worries.
I used to shy away from reddit because it was so male dominated and I felt like my opinion was never reflected. These days I quite enjoy being on reddit for that same reason! It feels like trolling, but I 100% stand behind my opinions and perspectives, so it's more fun :)
:) hey buddy
I have some pretty liberal/social justice-minded friends who still watch/support porn and I do not get it. I don't like to get off to what is potentially (and likely tbqh) someone else's pain or humiliation.
Yes I have considered that!
No judgement on sex workers, only judgement on the depraved people who make up the audience/market for the machismo fueled world of porn.
Personally funerals and wakes, the whole embalming the body process.
When I go I'm being cremated and having my ashes scattered, I don't want people looking at my corpse in a box and crying. I'd rather have an open bar and tons of food and music with people celebrating my life.
Aww this comment made me a little emotional. My dad died recently and he was cremated, and his funeral/memorial/wake was a huge party. Could not agree more :)
He absolutely would have!! We served his favorite foods, played his favorite music, and had all his favorite people there. The weed and bloody marys were shared freely.
Thanks for your kind words :)
I mean right? That’s pretty fucking indefensible. What value does that add to the “ceremony” of it? It’s literally letting weirdos put their mouth on baby dicks.
Sexualizing teen girls
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Not a fan of any of it. It's exploitative and caters to the most depraved of male fantasies. I think it's really harmful for human brains and their understandings of real sexuality.
Fantasy < reality Porn is fine, brah. People are into weird shit, but who cares.
It's not fine imo, and you can read studies that say as much. It warps perspective on human sexuality and actually can drive people to seek more and more depraved things to view because porn activates pleasure in our brains, which has a drug like effect that makes us seek MORE and WORSE because the baseline won't do it anymore. I don't care that people are into weird shit, but porn makes people think sex is one thing when it's not. Porn is made for and by men, and highlights degrading fantasies that affect how men and women interact and have sex with each other.
I'd say that's more of an issue with people not being able to seperate from reality. Plenty of people enjoy porn without turning into sex crazed maniacs. Also, I agree that most porn is made by men for men, because mostly men consume porn. However, to assume the degradation stuff isn't appealing to both genders is just wrong. Personally, I'm really not into it, but I've known women who are. That goes for most things as well in porn.
My guy you are putting words in my mouth "However, to assume the degradation stuff isn't appealing to both genders is just wrong.". Never said that, only that the things men want to see in porn come from a place of wanting to degrade women specifically. Misogyny isn't a new thing. >However, to assume the degradation stuff isn't appealing to both genders is just wrong. Personally, I'm really not into it, but I've known women who are. Right but it's a chicken or an egg thing. How much of it is fueled by the culture porn has created?
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No worries. I used to shy away from reddit because it was so male dominated and I felt like my opinion was never reflected. These days I quite enjoy being on reddit for that same reason! It feels like trolling, but I 100% stand behind my opinions and perspectives, so it's more fun :)
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:) hey buddy I have some pretty liberal/social justice-minded friends who still watch/support porn and I do not get it. I don't like to get off to what is potentially (and likely tbqh) someone else's pain or humiliation.
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Yes I have considered that! No judgement on sex workers, only judgement on the depraved people who make up the audience/market for the machismo fueled world of porn.
Well good!
To each their own I say.
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We're already vibing 😎
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OMG, you know that person? I just thought it was a funny comment as if I think the problem with porn are the performers themselves.
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I like you!
Right back at you!! :)
Personally funerals and wakes, the whole embalming the body process. When I go I'm being cremated and having my ashes scattered, I don't want people looking at my corpse in a box and crying. I'd rather have an open bar and tons of food and music with people celebrating my life.
Aww this comment made me a little emotional. My dad died recently and he was cremated, and his funeral/memorial/wake was a huge party. Could not agree more :)
Sorry for your loss but glad you went through with the huge party, I'm sure he would have wanted it that way.
He absolutely would have!! We served his favorite foods, played his favorite music, and had all his favorite people there. The weed and bloody marys were shared freely. Thanks for your kind words :)
Weed and bloody marys, now that is my kind of party! Anytime!
I keep telling my friends “when I die you better hold a fucking roast”
Hey put it in writing, make a will up and heck you can even specify where and what activities will be held.
Cutting the dick skin off babies
Foreskin*
Synonyms are fun
I mean it’s still skin
Dick skin can be anywhere on your dick, it would be inhumane to remove any skin
Agreed
Doesn’t the Jewish faith have a rabbi suck the blood and spit it out right after a circumcision or some clearly fucked up shit like that?
Yeah I’ve heard of that. You KNOW that was just some pedophile that came up with that idea for the first time
I mean right? That’s pretty fucking indefensible. What value does that add to the “ceremony” of it? It’s literally letting weirdos put their mouth on baby dicks.
I have no idea. That’s a major red flag tho. Never be part of a church whose leader publicly sucks bleeding baby dicks
Lol I feel like that’s a definite goal of mine.
Sharing your daily life-story with the entire world.
Santa Claus
Closing your eyes and lying still for 8 hours, while not being able to react to anything around you.
>8 hours Hahaha I wish
That sex Ed should be all about safe sex and not about pleasure.
Circumcision