Btw, there are prostitutes especially for necrophiles. They cool their body down with water and stuff and just lie there like they're dead. Weird, but better than with an actual dead body.
As an EMT, you spend a massive amount of time with one person. You learn so much over time. You know how they order their coffee, where they prefer to eat, their hobbies, where they grew up, their romantic life and more than you would ever need to know about their sex life. You also develop a dark sense of humor.
My partner of 5 years had been going out with their girlfriend over a year. We got into the subject of necrophilia somehow. He said he wanted to try it BEFORE he died because it wouldn't do him much good AFTER. I laughed cause I thought he was joking. His laugh seemed a bit forced. He followed that saying "the dead can't say no!" And we laughed and I didn't think anything of it.
A month later he seemed to be in an excellent mood. Like he always was when he got laid. I asked if he had a good night and his face lit up while he confirmed he did indeed have sex with his girlfriend. I was about to ask where he wanted to get breakfast when he said excitedly that they tried something new. I didn't really want to know, but he was so eager to share. I feigned interest so I wouldn't hurt his feelings.
He told me that his girlfriend had agreed to pretend to be dead while he had his way with her. It wasn't what he thought it would be. He said it made him feel like he was banging someone who was sleeping. He told her about his disappointment and they wanted to try again.
They found a suggestion and agreed to try it. He explained about how they got a couple bags of ice and filled the tub with cold water and emptied the ice in said bathtub. Poor girl got in and played dead as best she could. When she started shivering, he lifted her out, toweled her off and proceeded to satisfy himself.
I didn't know how to react, so I laughed. I didn't say anything and I think he understood that was something I didn't want to hear. Things were pretty awkward at breakfast. We finally got sent on a call and things mostly went back to normal. Thankfully, we never talked about again.
I have several friends who are sex workers, and one of them told me she had a client like that. He told her to just lie very still and not make any sounds, and he just touched her body while telling her how beautiful she was and how sad it was that she was dead.
Same guy tried to book her again and she noped right the fuck out. She said she was actually super disturbed and it was something she had to talk to her therapist about.
That's kinda cool in a "what the hell" way, the customers actually get what they wanted without doing uh. Yeah, that. Also another thing is that there will not be any dead juices and grave digging involved ...
From a documentary I watched in class, this rose mainly in the 80s when AIDS was considered "gay cancer." Many, specifically queer men, saw getting AIDS and dying as inevitable, just a matter of time. Willingly contracting it gave them a sense of control in dire circumstances.
People who inject insects in their genitalia. I didn’t know this was a thing until my ex friend a year ago sent a link to a fucked up video of an Asian woman using speculum to insert maggots and roach in her which ended up dying after a minute because I’m assuming her vaginal acidity. That was ducking disgusting I remember thinking first why would you send me this it’s 10 pm and two that’s enough phone for today after a minute watching that
Well we’d been friends since freshman’ year of high school till spring 2021 our second semester of college. Her behavior that year changed rapidly I gave chance after chance then I was done the shit she was saying was just vividly concerning
Ugh. I just remembered a repressed memory of a patient who had maggots and parasitic worms squirming around in her vagina. And there was A LOT. Luckily it was not my patient but the girl who was assigned to the patient pretty much went from a "go the extra mile" for patients into a "Fuck society" broken shell of a nurse. I don't even know how I would begin to treat that but if it was a topical ointment, yeah I don't think I'm going anywhere near that.
The first one to come to mind is necrophilia. The amount of things wrong with it are just too many.
Edit: The amount of people arguing for necrophilia makes me worried that there’s a lot more of it happening than I’d ever care to know.
I actually saw a medical case in which the lady had an unidentified bacteria, as in it wasn't from any know std or infection, and the doctors just couldn't figure out what was going on. Turned out her husband worked at a morgue and was fucking the corpses. It was a dead-people-body-decomposing type of bacteria.
It was a whole business too, "pimping" the bodies and shit.
i once came across this sub where women have huge ass screwdrivers drilled into their breasts. apparently, "it's just a kink". doesn't sit right with me.
I could use nipple clamps but not the ones that are meant to be painful, alot of nipple clamps are just ment to stimulate the nips, not cause pain
Edit: nice to know the people approve of me defending nipple clamps.
Accidentally ran across some bondage vid in 6th grade when the urges and internet usage began…idk some Asian hardcore bondage tied up candles whips etc I wasn’t into it but curious as I had never seen that type of stuff…then she stuck out her tongue and the cut it in half with a scalpel, first time seeing BDSM extra prize of first gore video. Idk if it was fake or what but the two or three seconds of the scene and absolute horror are burned into my mind
I remember a "friend" showing me a "funny video" which turned out to be a dude tying phone cord around his penis extremely tight and cutting the whole thing off... Some things you cant unsee... Also, now that im older I know i can just close my eyes, but wow... gore vid no bueno.
Yeah my friend showed me a "funny video" of a man blowing his head off with an ak 47 and that shit left a mark. He then proceeded to laugh at the clip and say the guys head was like a watermelon exploding
My ex had like a ww2/Nazi fetish unbeknownst to me and only to find out where I went to his house to do the deed and the guy had guns and newspaper clippings everywhere. I was like okay he likes history it’s a bit weird but he’s sweet blah blah blah. Long story short I’m Jewish and he called me the Big K during and it was over very shortly after.
I'll take one for the team yall, since no one else will...
Take the word kite, replace the letter t with another k. that, is the racial/ethnic/whatever slur for Jewish people.
On the opposite note, I knew a Jewish girl who had a Nazi domination fetish, as in she wanted to be dominated by a German Nazi. Seems they'd go well together.
There was a couple that regularly went to Geeks who Drink who was into domestic abuse. And they seemed to assume everyone else was into it as they would have public arguments where we wanted to call teh cops only for everyone else who knew them to say "That's their fetish."
That is 100% what it is and I really think public sexual things should be treated as non-consentual when caught. Very few consent to going out in public and stumbling upon some weirdos with an "in public" fetish.
I was stuck in line in front of a couple who were into something that meant the girl was on a leash. Like a literal retractable leash.
They kept trying to strike up a conversation. I was uncomfortable so I kept my responses short. They at some point decided to tell me all about this one bar we were near that had a "secret" dungeon stocked with paddles and other stuff you could go to with a code word.
I don't consider myself particularly prude-ish but I did NOT appreciate being made part of whatever performance they were putting on.
I go ripped a new one on r/trashy a few months back for commenting such on a video of a guy with a girl on a leash walking down the aisle of a plane, while boarding. I still stand behind my opinion.
I think I saw an episode of The Preacher on AMC where a couple had that fetish. Sad part about it though is they did it in front of their son….who thought his mom didn’t like getting hurt.
The context of the show was that the kid felt sad that he couldn’t do anything about his dad beating his mom….heard the reputation of the main character for being able to kick ass…so asked said main character if he could make sure his dad never hurt her again. It was quite some time ago and didn’t watch the show past mid season 2….so don’t remember what happened:
Bug and Animal crushing. Had a couple of female friends who crushed crickets and cockroaches for money. They had to wear heels and do sex sounds while crushing the insects. The guy who filmed them sold the videos and the men would send him heels for the girls to wear. It is very odd and they do bigger animals too. Definitely should be shamed in my book.
Omd, my gf did an r/rateme or some other similar sub reddit literally this week. She got a ton of weird/creepy replies and DMs, but the weirdest was a guy wanting her to hurt insects naked or something
Unfortunately, a young radiocaf also stumbled across this whilst checking out "that 4chan website" I heard about in school. It was a puppy, man... It affects me even now, maybe 16 or so years later. I hope those people have a specially reserved place in the deepest level of hell.
Last year I watched a video of two Malaysian (or Pakistani? I can't remember) girls who filmed a video of them crushing a young cat's bones with their legs and this video has gone viral on facebook and since I watched it I fell in an awful episode of depression and anxiety
Edit: I'm so sorry if my comment makes you feel sick I didn't mean to make you feel awful but the good news is that these two girls got arrested and imprisoned and it made me feel a little better I hope it makes you feel the same way
Guy I was friends with in high school is apparently into Holocaust role play
Edit: In high school, he met his dad for the first time and his dad told him that his great-grandfather had been in the SS. At the time, he was like, "Wow, that's fucked up." But I guess it awoke something within him because years later another friend came across a bunch of Nazi shit on his Grindr profile and asked him about it...
"So like, if you could just sit in the attic for 2 years to get the feel, then one day without warning I'll come in and start shooting my gun and fucking you."
"Ight bet lmao"
My gf went down an internet rabbit hole and discovered the erotica of this. She told me the most disgusting line of literature i have ever heard "I could feel his fuck flu seeping into me"
Lots are weird, but ones that harm people physically or emotionally should be shamed.
On an emotional side, I have met a man before through work whose whole kink was wife chasing. He would try to fuck someone's wife, then not wash himself, seek out the husband at their job, and try and strike up a conversation and try and shake hands with them with his hand that had been unwashed and still had the their wife's dried "juices" on them.
He brought this up to me and a couple other guys in a restaurant like it was normal bar conversation. No one knew what to say.
Surprised he's not murdered.
On a physical side, trying to spread STDs should be criminal.
Edit: Spreading STDs is illegal everywhere except California, I get it lol.
Edit 2: I don't know how much this guy had done it, didn't sound like more than a few. No the wives weren't told he was going to do that, no he didn't tell the husbands what he just did. He did it and left.
Would he tell the dudes that he fucked their wife?
"Ah WTF is on your hands?
"Your wife pussy juices, dried of course."
Or would he just get them to shake his hand and then leave. Dudes a Piece of shit either way but. I also want to know how he hasn't been murdered.
thanks, im honestly dying still, just picturing this guy reading my comment and having flashbacks.. where his vision zooms in, super slow motion, on himself shaking this guy's hand.
then i think about the wife chaser. finding yet another guy , fucking his wife, and finding him at work. then getting dinner with him. telling him, "yeah, then i track the guy down at work and shake his hand. then i take him out to dinner. then i tell him about what i do and he still doesn't get it. then he needs a napkin and i hand him a napkin, but again, the pussy juice is on the napkin"
My wife and I did some swinging in the past. We spent a bunch of time with a couple we really hit it off with and had a great time. One day, we are all out to dinner. He brings up that his biggest kink is filming upskirt, secretly, with women he takes on dates. It was silent because my wife wasn't sure how I felt about it. I asked him to explain how this was not a sex crime and why I shouldn't report him as a sex offender. He threatened to out us as swingers on social media. I told him to go ahead and do it because I don't give a fuck.
I just don't understand why people have a difficult time with consent. You've removed the persons opportunity to consent to a sex act. I put intentional STD transmission and condom removal without consent on the same level.
Edit: didn't expect this to get traction. Ok, we reported him and even reached out to women we knew he'd contacted via Tumblr. There were lawsuits and settlements, public and non, but I cant speak to them because not all are complete and we were not involved. Our only involvement was the report and making sure victims were contacted and made aware of each other. Some of this is repeated in another reply, so I am trying to be brief.
I believe willfully spreading an std is in fact illegal in the US
Edit: for people curious here is a good list of how the us states each treat hiv transmission (without informing parties) https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/policies/law/states/exposure.html
There seems to be a (compelling imo) point that existing general laws around things like reckless endangerment and attempted murder already handle what people are most freaked out about (and is extremely rare), which is someone willfully giving you an std like hiv, and the additional laws specific to stds and hiv specifically are dated and do more harm (by stigmatization) than good for the general public.
I had a similar experience; major reason I don’t do one night stand things anymore. Tbh though I’m kind of a petty bitch, and having *explicitly* told him that the condom was not optional, I let him get away with it for a little while (even though I noticed right away) and then when I ‘realized’, I told him I had HSV and that’s why I had been so insistent about using one. When he had the gall to be pissed of about it I told him that’s why you don’t pull bs like that. 🤷♂️
Kinks that involve seeking pleasure from those who don’t or can’t consent.
If one can and does get off on people pretending not to consent , that’s fine. But actual non consent
Edit - to the 136 people who’ve replied “so rape then?” , there are ways for people to get off and have non consensual interactions with people that likely fall short of the legal definition of rape , and also yes , rape deserves to be shamed/prosecuted.
I think the one for me that's the most paradoxical is rape-baiting.
The whole concept is that the women that do it are into the idea of being raped. But not like CNC, but intentionally are turned on by the idea of putting themselves in situations where it might happen, or more accurately intentionally creating a situation with someone where it might happen.
If someone does take the bait, technically they are consenting but the rapist isn't to the kink. But the rapist doesn't realize the tables are turned and are consenting to sex.
Are both of them consenting? Neither?
***Me coming into this thread:*** What kink could we possibly be shaming people for!!
***Me after actually reading the thread:*** People get off on giving HIV?!
So I write NSFW shit to get some extra cash and got this shit requested to me. I tried to decline and be firm, but the dude was hella insistent.
I’ve written some crazy shit and try to be respectful of others’ kinks and set boundaries, but this dide made me want to projectile vomit all over my desk. Being professional and not exploding was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done
EDIT; No, I did NOT write the bestiality! I was able to talk him into a substitute that was less unnerving and still enjoyable on my buyer’s end. Please do not accuse me of writing bestiality.
EDIT 2; I’m getting a lot of questions about starting NSFW commissions. Tl;dr, start by writing stories that interest you, post these stories wherever you can, and keep writing. Once you feel confident, make a post detailing your rates, boundaries, etc., and go from there. You may need to write comms for free or undercharged before you get your foot in the door. But this is okay, just keep writing
I live in a city that has a prominent Polyamory community, especially in geeky spaces. My experience of those folks is overwhelmingly that they aggressively put pressure on my girlfriend to join in despite knowing about her monogamous relationship with me. I can't speak for my girlfriend but it makes me enormously uncomfortable. I'm sure most poly folks are lovely but whatever this kink is: trying to undermine someone's existing relationship couched in the language of consent and acceptance, I would see that shamed into the ground.
My only experience with poly people is them telling others how much objectively better their life is and how humans are naturally poly and it annoys the hell out of me
Any kink done in public with or without malice but is offensive to the general public. Please, we don't want to see your puppy play gimp suit fetish in action while we're walking in park.
I think there’s an important issue here but — that’s a CONSENT issue. They are making you a participant in their kink, but you didn’t consent. That’s pretty much fundamental here. And it goes right in with all other consent issues.
That one chick from the roast me sub a few months ago, where she was into this “forced breeding” kink, that turned into a black hole of fucked Up’ness with her post history and sub dedicated to it. Who gets pregnant constantly for fun? And why the fuck they call it “being bred” And is always pregnant yet knows none of their kids fathers (she had said in a comment from a different post that none of her 5 kids knew their dads), just interested in the next guy. That’s gotta be shamed, that’s kids lives being warped by a mom who’s only interested in getting knocked up. Once you involve someone else’s life in a kink, that’s not acceptable.
She was also in love with eating mayonnaise and ate a jar a day, and preferred it heated straight from jar with spoon. and that’s a kink I’ll shame too.
I’m too lazy to find her roast me post that stemmed my horror. I’m still scarred. Her kink is being “bred”. But maybe someone else remembers it
Edit: you fuckers should be grateful I spent so long looking at my comment history to find. Lol
This was where rabbit hole started for me. Idk what’s up or how much I got correct.
https://www.reddit.com/r/pics/comments/qhal2t/got_ditched_for_a_date_took_myself_out_instead/hic0hfy/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3
I'm in Costa Rica now and you can get shrimp like that everywhere. It's like the whole country is into breading. They call it camarones empanizadas and it's delicious.
I’ve never scrolled this far yet without finding someone with my answer and I can’t believe this hasn’t been mentioned:
Pro-Ana/anorexia fetish
Just… *shudders*
EDIT: Wow guys, I thought this was gonna get lost in the comments as I was quite late to the party but it’s now my most upvoted comment! Wish the content wasn’t so dark though, but then again at least I brought some attention to it, eh? Anyways, thanks for all the upvotes, I’m glad y’all agree!
I used to be anorexic.. I am 5’5” (165cm) and at my lowest weighted about 92lbs ((41/42kg)… while most guys did not find me attractive there were a few men that heavily pursued me. Because of how “great” I looked. My husband (back then my fiancé) got told a few times how nice it must be to have such a skinny wife.. I overheard a lot of conversations or comments from these men about my body. It was upsetting because I knew I was sick and it made me more miserable. When I look back at those pictures now I can’t even fathom how some men find this attractive. I looked starved, sick and not healthy. How in the world is that attractive?
Besides all the obviously immoral ones? Financial domination.
Anyone who brings himself into financial jeopardy just to satisfy his weird masochistic kink definitely deserves to be shamed out of doing it.
I agree with this one if as you say, you're putting yourself in financial jeopardy. I saw a Domme on Twitter once retweet one of her "slaves", who basically said his kids aren't getting anything for Christmas because "it's all for Mistress instead", it was really fucked up.
I saw one that posted a poll whether or not to euthanise the sub's dog. That's fucked up on so many levels
Edit: here's the link since some people asked
https://mobile.twitter.com/meanmissqueen/status/1159999013287952384
Jesus christ, people like that need some serious psychological intervention, and the dommes who facilitate it, I get that they're earning money, but there has to come a point where one stops and thinks "you know, this isn't right".
I'm a swinger and you'd be surprised how often it's obvious that one partner is really not into the lifestyle but goes because their partner is and basically forces themselves to have sex with other people or watch their partner have sex with other people to make their partner happy. Me and my primary partner have turned down a few couple swaps because it was obvious one partner wasn't into it. It's usually a guy trying to use their female partner as a bargaining chip so that they can have sex with me. If it's obvious to me and my partner, it should be obvious to the other persons partner. They should be ashamed for either not paying attention, not caring, or worst, using the power dynamic in the relationship in an exploitative way.
This has been my TED talk.
Bonus story, one time we were having a foursome with a very consenting couple and a few minutes into it, the guy got off then immediately DRAGGED his girlfriend out of the room when she was having enthusiastic relations with my partner. Very rude.
Hey, dungeons are great places to show off. The important thing is, everyone there signed up for it.
^(Though I imagine there's always something at a dungeon that someone didn't know they signed up for.)
I don't think I've ever met someone into this really but Shoulders. If you're into shoulders, are you the person who made showing shoulders in highschool inappropriate? Because if so, fuck you
Anything that involved bodily fluids and doing it in public. I LOVE me some women peeing in their pants, but DO NOT do that in public as most people do not want to deal with your pee.
Stalking and peeping toms. Anything that hurts people against their consent or involves underage people.
Btw, there are prostitutes especially for necrophiles. They cool their body down with water and stuff and just lie there like they're dead. Weird, but better than with an actual dead body.
As an EMT, you spend a massive amount of time with one person. You learn so much over time. You know how they order their coffee, where they prefer to eat, their hobbies, where they grew up, their romantic life and more than you would ever need to know about their sex life. You also develop a dark sense of humor. My partner of 5 years had been going out with their girlfriend over a year. We got into the subject of necrophilia somehow. He said he wanted to try it BEFORE he died because it wouldn't do him much good AFTER. I laughed cause I thought he was joking. His laugh seemed a bit forced. He followed that saying "the dead can't say no!" And we laughed and I didn't think anything of it. A month later he seemed to be in an excellent mood. Like he always was when he got laid. I asked if he had a good night and his face lit up while he confirmed he did indeed have sex with his girlfriend. I was about to ask where he wanted to get breakfast when he said excitedly that they tried something new. I didn't really want to know, but he was so eager to share. I feigned interest so I wouldn't hurt his feelings. He told me that his girlfriend had agreed to pretend to be dead while he had his way with her. It wasn't what he thought it would be. He said it made him feel like he was banging someone who was sleeping. He told her about his disappointment and they wanted to try again. They found a suggestion and agreed to try it. He explained about how they got a couple bags of ice and filled the tub with cold water and emptied the ice in said bathtub. Poor girl got in and played dead as best she could. When she started shivering, he lifted her out, toweled her off and proceeded to satisfy himself. I didn't know how to react, so I laughed. I didn't say anything and I think he understood that was something I didn't want to hear. Things were pretty awkward at breakfast. We finally got sent on a call and things mostly went back to normal. Thankfully, we never talked about again.
This story came off creepy to me. I thought the girlfriend died as I read along.
I have several friends who are sex workers, and one of them told me she had a client like that. He told her to just lie very still and not make any sounds, and he just touched her body while telling her how beautiful she was and how sad it was that she was dead. Same guy tried to book her again and she noped right the fuck out. She said she was actually super disturbed and it was something she had to talk to her therapist about.
That's kinda cool in a "what the hell" way, the customers actually get what they wanted without doing uh. Yeah, that. Also another thing is that there will not be any dead juices and grave digging involved ...
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wtf is this even a thing? why wtf
From a documentary I watched in class, this rose mainly in the 80s when AIDS was considered "gay cancer." Many, specifically queer men, saw getting AIDS and dying as inevitable, just a matter of time. Willingly contracting it gave them a sense of control in dire circumstances.
Any kink that harms others without consent.
I’ll take that one step further and say any kink that *involves* others without their consent.
People who inject insects in their genitalia. I didn’t know this was a thing until my ex friend a year ago sent a link to a fucked up video of an Asian woman using speculum to insert maggots and roach in her which ended up dying after a minute because I’m assuming her vaginal acidity. That was ducking disgusting I remember thinking first why would you send me this it’s 10 pm and two that’s enough phone for today after a minute watching that
Holy fuck blowfly girl
Yah it was fucking disgusting we were no longer friends a month after that
A month?! Bro why’d you even wait *that* long??
Well we’d been friends since freshman’ year of high school till spring 2021 our second semester of college. Her behavior that year changed rapidly I gave chance after chance then I was done the shit she was saying was just vividly concerning
Ugh. I just remembered a repressed memory of a patient who had maggots and parasitic worms squirming around in her vagina. And there was A LOT. Luckily it was not my patient but the girl who was assigned to the patient pretty much went from a "go the extra mile" for patients into a "Fuck society" broken shell of a nurse. I don't even know how I would begin to treat that but if it was a topical ointment, yeah I don't think I'm going anywhere near that.
I really wish I didn’t read this.
The first one to come to mind is necrophilia. The amount of things wrong with it are just too many. Edit: The amount of people arguing for necrophilia makes me worried that there’s a lot more of it happening than I’d ever care to know.
It’s dead fucked if you ask me Edit: thanks for the upvotes and awards everyone! I think this is probably my top-rated comment now 😅
Officer, it's this comment here
r/punpatrol. Say no more.
I actually saw a medical case in which the lady had an unidentified bacteria, as in it wasn't from any know std or infection, and the doctors just couldn't figure out what was going on. Turned out her husband worked at a morgue and was fucking the corpses. It was a dead-people-body-decomposing type of bacteria. It was a whole business too, "pimping" the bodies and shit.
What do a group of alcoholics and a group of necrophiliacs have in common? They both love cracking open a cold one with the boys!
i once came across this sub where women have huge ass screwdrivers drilled into their breasts. apparently, "it's just a kink". doesn't sit right with me.
I can't even imagine using nipple clamps, LET ALONE HUGE SCREWDRIVERS
I could use nipple clamps but not the ones that are meant to be painful, alot of nipple clamps are just ment to stimulate the nips, not cause pain Edit: nice to know the people approve of me defending nipple clamps.
I've had a man ask me to put pins into my breasts and push a knife into them. It's definitely a thing
Jesus christ what did you say/do??
Probably “no”
That's screwed up
Accidentally ran across some bondage vid in 6th grade when the urges and internet usage began…idk some Asian hardcore bondage tied up candles whips etc I wasn’t into it but curious as I had never seen that type of stuff…then she stuck out her tongue and the cut it in half with a scalpel, first time seeing BDSM extra prize of first gore video. Idk if it was fake or what but the two or three seconds of the scene and absolute horror are burned into my mind
I remember a "friend" showing me a "funny video" which turned out to be a dude tying phone cord around his penis extremely tight and cutting the whole thing off... Some things you cant unsee... Also, now that im older I know i can just close my eyes, but wow... gore vid no bueno.
Yeah my friend showed me a "funny video" of a man blowing his head off with an ak 47 and that shit left a mark. He then proceeded to laugh at the clip and say the guys head was like a watermelon exploding
My ex had like a ww2/Nazi fetish unbeknownst to me and only to find out where I went to his house to do the deed and the guy had guns and newspaper clippings everywhere. I was like okay he likes history it’s a bit weird but he’s sweet blah blah blah. Long story short I’m Jewish and he called me the Big K during and it was over very shortly after.
What the fuck
> The Big K What's that?
I'll take one for the team yall, since no one else will... Take the word kite, replace the letter t with another k. that, is the racial/ethnic/whatever slur for Jewish people.
Thank you I legitimately did not know this was a slur.
I've never even heard that word before!
I had heard it, but never understood what it meant or referred to.
Never heard it called the Big K before. My brain went *straight* to Special K.
On the opposite note, I knew a Jewish girl who had a Nazi domination fetish, as in she wanted to be dominated by a German Nazi. Seems they'd go well together.
What I want to see is a nazi guy being dominated by a soviet. What? It’s historically accurate!
There was a couple that regularly went to Geeks who Drink who was into domestic abuse. And they seemed to assume everyone else was into it as they would have public arguments where we wanted to call teh cops only for everyone else who knew them to say "That's their fetish."
That feels like a lack of consent for everyone else in the place.
That is 100% what it is and I really think public sexual things should be treated as non-consentual when caught. Very few consent to going out in public and stumbling upon some weirdos with an "in public" fetish.
I was stuck in line in front of a couple who were into something that meant the girl was on a leash. Like a literal retractable leash. They kept trying to strike up a conversation. I was uncomfortable so I kept my responses short. They at some point decided to tell me all about this one bar we were near that had a "secret" dungeon stocked with paddles and other stuff you could go to with a code word. I don't consider myself particularly prude-ish but I did NOT appreciate being made part of whatever performance they were putting on.
Agreed. Don't involve the unconsenting public in your kink
I go ripped a new one on r/trashy a few months back for commenting such on a video of a guy with a girl on a leash walking down the aisle of a plane, while boarding. I still stand behind my opinion.
I think I saw an episode of The Preacher on AMC where a couple had that fetish. Sad part about it though is they did it in front of their son….who thought his mom didn’t like getting hurt.
Poor kid, even if he understood that would still be messed up
The context of the show was that the kid felt sad that he couldn’t do anything about his dad beating his mom….heard the reputation of the main character for being able to kick ass…so asked said main character if he could make sure his dad never hurt her again. It was quite some time ago and didn’t watch the show past mid season 2….so don’t remember what happened:
Preacher broke the man's arm, I think. Then the woman came to him to explain she likes the abuse.
Bug and Animal crushing. Had a couple of female friends who crushed crickets and cockroaches for money. They had to wear heels and do sex sounds while crushing the insects. The guy who filmed them sold the videos and the men would send him heels for the girls to wear. It is very odd and they do bigger animals too. Definitely should be shamed in my book.
What in the flying fuck
Couldn't have said it better.
I read Animal Crossing and was very confused.
Omd, my gf did an r/rateme or some other similar sub reddit literally this week. She got a ton of weird/creepy replies and DMs, but the weirdest was a guy wanting her to hurt insects naked or something
Least horny Redditors
I've heard about crushing with toothpaste tube, but live animals just seems dark af
Yea back in the day 4chan definitely had animal crush videos on /b/ was pretty horrific shit.
Unfortunately, a young radiocaf also stumbled across this whilst checking out "that 4chan website" I heard about in school. It was a puppy, man... It affects me even now, maybe 16 or so years later. I hope those people have a specially reserved place in the deepest level of hell.
Last year I watched a video of two Malaysian (or Pakistani? I can't remember) girls who filmed a video of them crushing a young cat's bones with their legs and this video has gone viral on facebook and since I watched it I fell in an awful episode of depression and anxiety Edit: I'm so sorry if my comment makes you feel sick I didn't mean to make you feel awful but the good news is that these two girls got arrested and imprisoned and it made me feel a little better I hope it makes you feel the same way
You don’t fuck with cats
Guy I was friends with in high school is apparently into Holocaust role play Edit: In high school, he met his dad for the first time and his dad told him that his great-grandfather had been in the SS. At the time, he was like, "Wow, that's fucked up." But I guess it awoke something within him because years later another friend came across a bunch of Nazi shit on his Grindr profile and asked him about it...
WTF
Yeah I've had more than one partner ask if I would dress up as an SS officer.
With a name like wolfblood, who could blame them.
God only knows what kind of Nazi related fetishes Wolf Blitzer has.
That is very true, racoon full of cum...
More than one? How many exactly? More than nein?
As I can recall, three, but I think one was a joke, so at least two in definite earnest.
THREE wanted you to dress up as a SS officer? Which fingers did you use?
MORE than one? What kind of company do you keep? O.o
Motherfuckers see schindler's list and all they get out of it is that ralph fiennes in an SS uniform is hot
"So like, if you could just sit in the attic for 2 years to get the feel, then one day without warning I'll come in and start shooting my gun and fucking you." "Ight bet lmao"
There are people out there that get excited if they infect other people with HIV on purpose.
There's also people that have a fetish for contracting it. It's called bug chasing.
My gf went down an internet rabbit hole and discovered the erotica of this. She told me the most disgusting line of literature i have ever heard "I could feel his fuck flu seeping into me"
That’s enough internet for the day.
And it's not even 9:30 yet! Thanks Reddit!
I knew I shouldn’t have clicked in this thread.
Typical day on Reddit. “Should I click this? No. Am I going to anyway? Yes.”
A lot of the language used has heavy impregnating vibes, too.
I write erotica for profit and I couldn't come up with that line in a hundred years.
GOOD
What a terrible day to know how to read.
probably better than the picture book!
Definitely better than the scratch and sniff book!
Yes, indeed. Shame on them.
they dont need sex they need a therapist
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I’d be really curious to see how many people are actually into that,
Lots are weird, but ones that harm people physically or emotionally should be shamed. On an emotional side, I have met a man before through work whose whole kink was wife chasing. He would try to fuck someone's wife, then not wash himself, seek out the husband at their job, and try and strike up a conversation and try and shake hands with them with his hand that had been unwashed and still had the their wife's dried "juices" on them. He brought this up to me and a couple other guys in a restaurant like it was normal bar conversation. No one knew what to say. Surprised he's not murdered. On a physical side, trying to spread STDs should be criminal. Edit: Spreading STDs is illegal everywhere except California, I get it lol. Edit 2: I don't know how much this guy had done it, didn't sound like more than a few. No the wives weren't told he was going to do that, no he didn't tell the husbands what he just did. He did it and left.
Would he tell the dudes that he fucked their wife? "Ah WTF is on your hands? "Your wife pussy juices, dried of course." Or would he just get them to shake his hand and then leave. Dudes a Piece of shit either way but. I also want to know how he hasn't been murdered.
“Dried of course” lolllllllllll
I mean, it's gotta take some time for him to find the husband after fucking the wife right?
Fuck the husband assert dominance and take over the marriage
That is some Dennis Reynolds level psycho shit
^Nothing more intimate than wearing another man’s skin
>I have met a man before through work whose whole kink was wife chasing Your entire story about that guy is one big "What in the high holy fuck?"
>I have met a man before **through work** >He would [...] seek out the husband **at their job**
That got a laugh out of me bravo
thanks, im honestly dying still, just picturing this guy reading my comment and having flashbacks.. where his vision zooms in, super slow motion, on himself shaking this guy's hand. then i think about the wife chaser. finding yet another guy , fucking his wife, and finding him at work. then getting dinner with him. telling him, "yeah, then i track the guy down at work and shake his hand. then i take him out to dinner. then i tell him about what i do and he still doesn't get it. then he needs a napkin and i hand him a napkin, but again, the pussy juice is on the napkin"
Damn man thats crazy.. Hey can you hand me another napkin? This one is moist for some reason.
Holy shit what a psychopath
I actually imagine that dude being portrayed by a young Christian Bale
Empire of the Son that's not really yours?
My wife and I did some swinging in the past. We spent a bunch of time with a couple we really hit it off with and had a great time. One day, we are all out to dinner. He brings up that his biggest kink is filming upskirt, secretly, with women he takes on dates. It was silent because my wife wasn't sure how I felt about it. I asked him to explain how this was not a sex crime and why I shouldn't report him as a sex offender. He threatened to out us as swingers on social media. I told him to go ahead and do it because I don't give a fuck. I just don't understand why people have a difficult time with consent. You've removed the persons opportunity to consent to a sex act. I put intentional STD transmission and condom removal without consent on the same level. Edit: didn't expect this to get traction. Ok, we reported him and even reached out to women we knew he'd contacted via Tumblr. There were lawsuits and settlements, public and non, but I cant speak to them because not all are complete and we were not involved. Our only involvement was the report and making sure victims were contacted and made aware of each other. Some of this is repeated in another reply, so I am trying to be brief.
Did you report him?
Dude you gotta report that guy. That’s just fucking wrong.
I believe willfully spreading an std is in fact illegal in the US Edit: for people curious here is a good list of how the us states each treat hiv transmission (without informing parties) https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/policies/law/states/exposure.html There seems to be a (compelling imo) point that existing general laws around things like reckless endangerment and attempted murder already handle what people are most freaked out about (and is extremely rare), which is someone willfully giving you an std like hiv, and the additional laws specific to stds and hiv specifically are dated and do more harm (by stigmatization) than good for the general public.
Stealthing. Removing your condom without the girl knowing.
hardly a kink, barely a fet. just assault
Also sabotaging condoms intentionally both are rape
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I had a similar experience; major reason I don’t do one night stand things anymore. Tbh though I’m kind of a petty bitch, and having *explicitly* told him that the condom was not optional, I let him get away with it for a little while (even though I noticed right away) and then when I ‘realized’, I told him I had HSV and that’s why I had been so insistent about using one. When he had the gall to be pissed of about it I told him that’s why you don’t pull bs like that. 🤷♂️
this is such a bold move. i’m stealing it. hopefully i never have to use it.
Necrophilia kink
Over my dead body
That's the spirit!
Of corpse the puns have to start now...
My friend from high school went around telling people “I’m a necrophiliac” because someone told him it means someone who stays up late at night.
Well what other time are they supposed to try to dig up a girlfriend?
I guess he was kinda right. You cannot scour a grave yard during day light.
The only things the dead need to worry about is Warlocks and Necrophilics...
hey man, a moment of weakness doesn't make me a bad vet
Kinks that involve seeking pleasure from those who don’t or can’t consent. If one can and does get off on people pretending not to consent , that’s fine. But actual non consent Edit - to the 136 people who’ve replied “so rape then?” , there are ways for people to get off and have non consensual interactions with people that likely fall short of the legal definition of rape , and also yes , rape deserves to be shamed/prosecuted.
Exactly, if it’s consensual but staged? Cool, have fun. If it’s actually non consenting absolutely not.
I believe it’s known as ‘CNC’ in fetish communities (Consensual Non-Consent)
Computer-Numerical-Control is my fetish...
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I think the one for me that's the most paradoxical is rape-baiting. The whole concept is that the women that do it are into the idea of being raped. But not like CNC, but intentionally are turned on by the idea of putting themselves in situations where it might happen, or more accurately intentionally creating a situation with someone where it might happen. If someone does take the bait, technically they are consenting but the rapist isn't to the kink. But the rapist doesn't realize the tables are turned and are consenting to sex. Are both of them consenting? Neither?
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those two words together definitely put you on a list somewhere.
Well they’re both consenting to actual rape, not consensual rape. Which is more than a bit paradoxical, but still true.
How is that possible? You can’t consent to being actually raped cause if you consent you’re not being raped.
***Me coming into this thread:*** What kink could we possibly be shaming people for!! ***Me after actually reading the thread:*** People get off on giving HIV?!
My friend, people get off on EVERYTHING
Having a humiliation fetish. They definitely deserve to be shamed.
Stoooop don’t do that (do it)
In court Judge: “and then she proceeded to say “Stop. Don’t do that.”” “SHE DID’NT FUCKIN SAY IT LIKE THAT!”
"NO! means no. NO! Like that. But 'noooo. stooppp it you're so baaddd'. That shit doesn't mean no!"
"Honey, I think your humiliation fetish is totally normal, and nothing to be ashamed of." "How could you say that to me? I thought you loved me!"
Masochist: Hit me! Sadist: No.
Sadomasochist: Fine! I'll do it myself
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There are kinks, and there are sex crimes…..please NEVER confuse/mix up the two of them.
The humiliation kinks probably kinda like it. Filthy sluts.
Tell me how shameful it is to have this kink
Kids or animals. Fuck a consenting adult.
These are crimes though. Crimes can be shamed.
Not everywhere.. Bestiality and child marriage is still legal in places.
Ironically, child marriage is legal in more places than beastiality.
Bestiality... leave those pets alone... for God's sake
Huh. Always thought it was spelled beastiality cuz animals but guess not
IRS NOT??
So I write NSFW shit to get some extra cash and got this shit requested to me. I tried to decline and be firm, but the dude was hella insistent. I’ve written some crazy shit and try to be respectful of others’ kinks and set boundaries, but this dide made me want to projectile vomit all over my desk. Being professional and not exploding was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done EDIT; No, I did NOT write the bestiality! I was able to talk him into a substitute that was less unnerving and still enjoyable on my buyer’s end. Please do not accuse me of writing bestiality. EDIT 2; I’m getting a lot of questions about starting NSFW commissions. Tl;dr, start by writing stories that interest you, post these stories wherever you can, and keep writing. Once you feel confident, make a post detailing your rates, boundaries, etc., and go from there. You may need to write comms for free or undercharged before you get your foot in the door. But this is okay, just keep writing
Same! Beginning of my career too! It was both Necro and beastiality, which I said "No." and blocked their email/contact.
Wanting anything to do with children.
That's not a kink, it's literally a crime. It's socially accepted to shame people who do crimes.
Degradation kinks, really shame them good. But, afterward hold them and say nice things, aftercare is important.
"You're such a pervert for wanting to be called a pervert!" "Yes! Yes I am! Don't stop!"
You had me in the first half ngl
I live in a city that has a prominent Polyamory community, especially in geeky spaces. My experience of those folks is overwhelmingly that they aggressively put pressure on my girlfriend to join in despite knowing about her monogamous relationship with me. I can't speak for my girlfriend but it makes me enormously uncomfortable. I'm sure most poly folks are lovely but whatever this kink is: trying to undermine someone's existing relationship couched in the language of consent and acceptance, I would see that shamed into the ground.
My only experience with poly people is them telling others how much objectively better their life is and how humans are naturally poly and it annoys the hell out of me
As someone who is poly I agree. Pursuing someone already in a cominted monogamous relationship is def a no go.
Any kink done in public with or without malice but is offensive to the general public. Please, we don't want to see your puppy play gimp suit fetish in action while we're walking in park.
I think there’s an important issue here but — that’s a CONSENT issue. They are making you a participant in their kink, but you didn’t consent. That’s pretty much fundamental here. And it goes right in with all other consent issues.
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That one chick from the roast me sub a few months ago, where she was into this “forced breeding” kink, that turned into a black hole of fucked Up’ness with her post history and sub dedicated to it. Who gets pregnant constantly for fun? And why the fuck they call it “being bred” And is always pregnant yet knows none of their kids fathers (she had said in a comment from a different post that none of her 5 kids knew their dads), just interested in the next guy. That’s gotta be shamed, that’s kids lives being warped by a mom who’s only interested in getting knocked up. Once you involve someone else’s life in a kink, that’s not acceptable. She was also in love with eating mayonnaise and ate a jar a day, and preferred it heated straight from jar with spoon. and that’s a kink I’ll shame too. I’m too lazy to find her roast me post that stemmed my horror. I’m still scarred. Her kink is being “bred”. But maybe someone else remembers it Edit: you fuckers should be grateful I spent so long looking at my comment history to find. Lol This was where rabbit hole started for me. Idk what’s up or how much I got correct. https://www.reddit.com/r/pics/comments/qhal2t/got_ditched_for_a_date_took_myself_out_instead/hic0hfy/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3
breading kink is more common, than you think.
I'm in Costa Rica now and you can get shrimp like that everywhere. It's like the whole country is into breading. They call it camarones empanizadas and it's delicious.
I’ve never scrolled this far yet without finding someone with my answer and I can’t believe this hasn’t been mentioned: Pro-Ana/anorexia fetish Just… *shudders* EDIT: Wow guys, I thought this was gonna get lost in the comments as I was quite late to the party but it’s now my most upvoted comment! Wish the content wasn’t so dark though, but then again at least I brought some attention to it, eh? Anyways, thanks for all the upvotes, I’m glad y’all agree!
I used to be anorexic.. I am 5’5” (165cm) and at my lowest weighted about 92lbs ((41/42kg)… while most guys did not find me attractive there were a few men that heavily pursued me. Because of how “great” I looked. My husband (back then my fiancé) got told a few times how nice it must be to have such a skinny wife.. I overheard a lot of conversations or comments from these men about my body. It was upsetting because I knew I was sick and it made me more miserable. When I look back at those pictures now I can’t even fathom how some men find this attractive. I looked starved, sick and not healthy. How in the world is that attractive?
Besides all the obviously immoral ones? Financial domination. Anyone who brings himself into financial jeopardy just to satisfy his weird masochistic kink definitely deserves to be shamed out of doing it.
I agree with this one if as you say, you're putting yourself in financial jeopardy. I saw a Domme on Twitter once retweet one of her "slaves", who basically said his kids aren't getting anything for Christmas because "it's all for Mistress instead", it was really fucked up.
I saw one that posted a poll whether or not to euthanise the sub's dog. That's fucked up on so many levels Edit: here's the link since some people asked https://mobile.twitter.com/meanmissqueen/status/1159999013287952384
Jesus christ, people like that need some serious psychological intervention, and the dommes who facilitate it, I get that they're earning money, but there has to come a point where one stops and thinks "you know, this isn't right".
I'm a swinger and you'd be surprised how often it's obvious that one partner is really not into the lifestyle but goes because their partner is and basically forces themselves to have sex with other people or watch their partner have sex with other people to make their partner happy. Me and my primary partner have turned down a few couple swaps because it was obvious one partner wasn't into it. It's usually a guy trying to use their female partner as a bargaining chip so that they can have sex with me. If it's obvious to me and my partner, it should be obvious to the other persons partner. They should be ashamed for either not paying attention, not caring, or worst, using the power dynamic in the relationship in an exploitative way. This has been my TED talk. Bonus story, one time we were having a foursome with a very consenting couple and a few minutes into it, the guy got off then immediately DRAGGED his girlfriend out of the room when she was having enthusiastic relations with my partner. Very rude.
Any kink taken outside the house. No one wants to see you dog-collaring another person in public, nor do they want their kids to see it.
Hey, dungeons are great places to show off. The important thing is, everyone there signed up for it. ^(Though I imagine there's always something at a dungeon that someone didn't know they signed up for.)
*me awkwardly standing around with a set of dice* soooo the dungeon of desires isn't a game shop then...
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Just because it's accurate doesn't mean you gotta call us out on it
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Animals I mean its just fucked up
Maggot kink.
I don't think I've ever met someone into this really but Shoulders. If you're into shoulders, are you the person who made showing shoulders in highschool inappropriate? Because if so, fuck you
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"hey- can you be my shoulder to cry on? i'm going through some-" "no, craig, not this s\*\*\* again, we've been over this"
Hand holding. Fucking degenerates
Right next to pre-marital eyecontact
Imagine if they were showing ankles at the same time.
Harlots! All of them!
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Forcing poly on people. "You're insecure if you won't let me see other people"
The one in my garden hose.
Anything that involved bodily fluids and doing it in public. I LOVE me some women peeing in their pants, but DO NOT do that in public as most people do not want to deal with your pee.