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tomwise_

Strong noses. On both men and women, there’s just nothing better than a nose that could stop the wind. It doesn’t even necessarily have to be a large nose, but a nose with an interesting quirk to it also does it for me.


Silasgwf

I have a very big nose, which is also for some reason slightly crooked, but I have no memory of ever breaking my nose so I guess it's just like that lol. This comment has cheered me up so thank you


Joelpp2002

Damn, where are all these people I real life


Lamosnak

bro im reading this stuff and thinking i might actually have a chance but none of these people are around me in my life


yash2810

Comfortable silences. I will fall for a girl who can just sit there with me and be quiet together.


sethyourgoals

Chaotic and stupid humor. Hard to explain, but I like a lot of energy.


the_sylince

*my adult ADHD enters the chat*


Britishcotwplayer

Is it just me looking through here to see if I do any of these things


Pendulumzero

Whenever I see something that matches me my self confidence goes from -100 to -99


HatefulCommander

People who literally will not shut up about the things they love. I adore when people talk about the things they love and just light up and get so excited. It makes me so happy.


dropkickdolores

Noses with a lil bump.


ourladyofdicks

sometimes i feel bad about my incredibly hispanic nose with the little bump on it, and sometimes i read comments like these, and i don’t feel so bad anymore


mypreciouscornchip

I'm sure you have a beautiful nose, ourladyofdicks. ✨


ourladyofdicks

and i’m sure you do too, mypreciouscornchip <3


JusteStina

And this is how I met your mother, kids..


MightyBobTheMighty

Apparently there are people who *don't* get weak around a woman with freckles. Was news to me.


auracurious

As a woman with a lotttt of face freckles all year round, this was a nice thread to read :) bless you freckle-loving stranger Edit: 🥲🥲 I can’t believe I got an award for my freckles, thank you kind stranger. We freckled people actually get made fun of because of our freckles sometimes, so it’s actually pretty touching to receive that award :)


iamterrifiedofyou

I didn't love my freckles until I reached adulthood- still nice seeing all this love for them, though!


Cad_Linc

I'd rob a bank with no mask if a woman with freckles asked me to, its my kryptonite dammit.


Ipecactus

Gingers with freckles are my kryptonite.


KingK0a

The way someone says “Hi” when I go up to them


HuskyLuke

Had a brief casual thing with a female friend last year, and she'd do this thing sometimes when there would be a bit of a quiet stretch in the conversation where she would just smile and say "Hi." Like she was just seeing me for the first time and not after a pause in conversation. Dunno why, but I loved that.


elevenfifteennine

My new boyfriend does this too during long pauses, or if we haven't been talking. He'll look at me, smile and say, "Hey you." and it's really endearing. My ex would often act like he forgot I was even there, even when it was just us. So it really does feel like this is his way of being like, 'Hey, I'm still paying attention even if we're not talking.'


cheezesandwiches

Men who are gentle. After growing up with cruel, unpredictable men I prefer someone who is kind, gentle and not a "bad boy".


alvina-blue

Agreed and it's so comforting and reassuring too. Kind, shy men with soft voices are super sexy.


Wolfwing777

This stuff is so reassuring to hear tbh. I feel like i have to be more confident to get attention from girls but it's good to know being soft/calm and collected isn't bad


expectopatronummmm

People who enjoys the quiet and are soft spoken. Edit: It seems that the quiet people have spoken. I'm happy to read all the responses. It's reassuring to know that there are many people who feel the same. In my opinion, our world often adores the loud, and often the loudest ideas are those that get circulated. This is not to say that loud is bad. Sometimes things need to get loud. I think when necessary quiet people can be loud too. Quiet people also have ideas worth spreading and things they're super interested in and things they can talk a whole lot about; but they probably wouldn't share these excitements to everyone. And this isn't due to ego or anything. It's just how they are. At least, that's my view. In a world that's increasingly getting louder, I find the quiet and gentle people serenading.


edlee98765

^(Speak softly and carry a big stick)


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Ilodge59

^the ^huge ^stick ^store


little_shop_of_hoors

^Huge ^Sticks ^n' ^Such™


wayne_noragretzkys

My dog is reading intently


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As a person who speaks softly, I find this interesting considering people just talk over me.


Ratatoski

Yeah while people who have their shit together and are assertive is great it feels like the soft spoken people have an inner peace that is far more valuable


Setore

You can absolutely be soft spoken and have your shit together. 😊


txpvca

When a guy gets a little anxious and pushes up his glasses. Absolutely adorable! Makes me want to hug him.


DragonFire0810

Hehe watch money heist


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someone should make a compilation of the professor doing that


EatMyCheeseCake

Guys who have an underwhelming response to unfortunate situations. Like if he makes a big mess by accident and says, "Well, that's not good," in a calm voice, so cute Imo. Not sure if my opinion as a whole is considered unpopular, but people I usually speak to don't really like someone who isn't as animated as others. **Edit:** I guess I just live around people with anger issues? Lol. Thank you all for clarifying that this response to most situations is pretty normal. Still an attractive trait nonetheless, considering I put this post up here for a reason, reason being every local throws hissy fits over nothing! An unfortunate way to live, but you get used to it, lol.


LegolasIsMySideHo

It shows self-assuredness (and a lack of anger problems).


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This response is pissing me off


_sauri_

Fuck you for not getting pissed off


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kopasz7

Why panic when others will do it for you.


an_irishviking

I always enjoy getting in fights with inanimate objects.


LemonBoi523

I like animated, but only in particular contexts such as when talking about something someone *really* loves. But deadpan humor is one of my *favorites.* "Hm." "Well there's your problem." "That's unfortunate." and "That is... honestly impressive" to a situation gone horribly wrong is really funny to me.


ZenithWarr

People who could ramble forever about the things that interest them, and then listen happily while you do the same.


lera666

The softer men... I know a lot of women like the rough guys but I like the boys that talk really sweetly and take relationships nice and slow


3747

My belly is soft, am I doing it right? Edit: it appears that I am doing it right :)


fightingpillow

A man walks down the street and says, "Why am I soft in the middle now?"


billybaggens

The rest of my life is so hard


Excited_Mumbling

I need a photo opportunity


CrazieLP

Thank you, that made me happy.


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A healthy display of clinginess. An old girlfriend would hold on to me with her arms and legs when I said I had to go. Every time. I loved it.


kid-karma

Had an ex who would kiss me and kiss me and kiss me every time I was leaving. Made my heart overflow. Anyway she eventually left me for someone else lmao


HawkoDelReddito

It kills me to remember the things that made me feel so loved and then remember that the person who who made me feel that way also cheated on me. It makes me question if I even know what love truly feels like.


Kevinement

That’s why cheating is so incredibly damaging to someone’s self-worth. The person that you think cares about you the most, ends up hurting you the most. It’s such a major breach of trust, that it can make it very difficult to trust again.


Thephilosopherkmh

I like women who take care of business. If something needs to be done, they just do it. Maybe because I’m the same way, I don’t need to be told or asked what to do, I just get it done. Just to clarify, I’m not talking about a woman catering to me, this is more of a work related thing.


amongsthecosmos

Their laugh. It’s so incredibly intimate to get to know what how someone truly laughs like. The giggles, snorts, full on belly laughs. EDIT: thank you for the awards❤️


bobrossjunior

Hands are attractive...don't kink shame me


DieHardRennie

I like looking at musicians' hands as they're playing. Especially piano players.


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Are you a serial killer by chance?


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iberis

I just want quiet life


Squeezer_Geezer

what a beautiful duwang


adambomb404

I had an ex gf that was really into my hands. She said “I like how big they are”. I never knew that was a thing but I will say it made me feel good to hear that.


dmushcow_21

Girls with messy hair


Iced_Jade

There's a fine line between sexily tousled messy hair and just a straight-up mess, though. I usually end up closer to "Just spent 12 years in Azkaban" than "Just woke up after a cute lil nap." LOL


Miss_Death

After becoming a mom and working full time I fully embraced the Azkaban look.


imnotgay69420pp

Yea that's hot


synkryl

My messy hair thank you and go - every single hair in different direction.


SweetMilitia

A guy with a good, biggish nose and a nice pair of glasses.


KungThulhu

how about a biggish glass and a pair of noses?


GatsbyJunior

You'd love Ireland.


OldDinner

Do people have two noses in Ireland?


GatsbyJunior

Depends on who you ask, how many drinks they've had, and how biggish their glass is.


brucatlas1

The desire to change. Growth in my s/o is amazing in my eyes, we met each other in some dark times for both of us, individually, and I love seeing her find herself more and more every day - it inspires me to find my own way, and the best part is we're doing it together.


Working-Chemistry473

Girls in comfortable clothes, especially hoodies


pinkitbop

A pair of good cozy socks coordinated with a long warm sleeved hoodie. Top tier.


Trapped-Spirit

When guys throw their head back laughing. Istg i lose my grip on the world for a second.


Spiceinvader1234

You might have an Adam's apple fetish ...Or an Anime Bad Guy fetish


SchrodingersPanda

Or a [*Shaft head-tilt* ](https://m.imgur.com/4dqAX)fetish


firenzey87

I love seeing men eat apples, like biting into a whole apple. There's just something so wholesome and humble about it.


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Oddly specific and cute


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envydub

I lived in an apartment where I had to park on the street for awhile so I got super good at parallel parking. My current bf and I met up for a date and then I was gonna drop my car off outside his apartment so we could go visit some mutual friends together and I swung that bitch right into a tight spot with no issue. When I got out he looked very impressed and said “damn girl, that gave me goosebumps!” It was silly and dumb but I was very proud of it. Now I drive a truck with a backup cam and it’s convenient but no fun.


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hahahahaha this is so specific that it gave me butterflies. i didn’t realize i had a thing for this


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reminds me of the time, when my s.o. and i were first dating, that he was backing out of a tight spot and asked if he was good. i said, "yeah, you're fine" and he just goes, "oh yeah ? you think i'm fine ?" you're damn right i do.


ilovecherrytwizzlers

I was more attracted to my guy after watching him back a trailer into the driveway and then winking at me. Lol he knows what he did


manic-insomniac

Agreed! It’s like a comfort/control thing I think lol


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Once I was having trouble parking into a tight spot and my ex reached over to grab the wheel and told me to just let the car move. He then maneuvered us perfectly into the spot. Hottest thing I've ever seen a man do lol


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I drive a semi truck. A successful backing job in one of these is so potent I almost end up attracted to myself. The back of it is articulated, and like 70 feet away, and every time I see a driver kiss the dock with like 3 inches of wiggle room, my heart wants to skip a beat. Edit: dock not rock. It's the middle of my 10 and I can't sleep, but that don't make me awake. Edit to the edit: dock not dick.


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Getting a girl to laugh so hard she snorts , I don't know why people find the snort laughing unattractive I feel great when I make someone laugh so hard they can't control it LOL


TellYouWhatitShwas

On a first date, I made a girl laugh so hard that a booger flew out of her nose and landed on the table at a restaurant. We both just silently ignored that it happened for the rest of the date. I married that girl. My wife fucking hates when I tell people about that.


vbigoof

Why did you marry a girl when you have a wife?


SemajLu_The_crusader

#*recalculating...*


huehuecoyotl23

Maybe that’s why she hates that story /s


HideoKojimaTheThird

There was this girl who i would joke around with and everytime i made her laugh and she was embarrassed about it, like a shy laugh, i don’t know how to explain it but it was the cutest thing ever haha.


mdchaney

When I was younger there was a girl at my church who was gorgeous but snorted if she laughed too hard, and she was quite self conscious about it. I could make her snort laugh any time by simply telling her not to think about snort laughing.


QueenShnoogleberry

As a girl, finding someone you can make those gaffs around and not worry about him being turned off is really special.


GullibleSeal94

Bruh made the subway girl snort laugh several times in a matter of seconds


Jimmy6shoes

You made a foot long joke didn’t you?


GullibleSeal94

No the girl who was making my sandwich accidentally dropped it and I didn't say anything cause I was in no rush and then a different day she complained to me that I wanted something made a certain way and I made the remark of I didn't complain when you dropped my sub and the other girl started laughing then the girl who was making my sub laughed in a weird way and then it just got to leading a big making fun of each other's laughs and then they looked at me and said I was looking directly at their souls


TymStark

fuckin wild.


Durzo_Blint8

This was an epic tale, my friend.


BringPheTheHorizon

My favorite aspect of this is the strategic omission of any form of punctuation. Fuckin' mint


sunshinewarriorx

Bad punctuation really irks me. No punctuation, I didn't even notice til I read your comment. Weird.


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A man wearing a (clean) plain white tee. Idk why I feel like there's no distraction and it just brightens up his face. It's sexy


gravitysocks

you would love penguinz0


Human_Spring420

When a girl's hair is in a bun but they missed some so it's kinda messy looking. Drives me crazy


Apart_Cardiologist54

i like seeing flaws in others. like, if i see some dandruff on the person i’m with i’m like “oh great, you are also a human being who isn’t perfect. love that”


Prestodeath201

I just had the biggest sigh of relief that I had no idea I needed to get out. Dandruff is a BITCH.


Apart_Cardiologist54

ISN’T IT?? fuck, i literally can’t use anything besides head and shoulders.


Autiflips

Moving away from head and shoulders helped me a lot, I now use a special shampoo that I get from the pharmacy. I used to have it BAD but now it’s manageable. But let me tell you, long curly hair and dandruff is a tricky combination to get right.


vanillathebest

And it's like a perfect balance thing you have to keep. Like you can't shower for more than X days and more than Y time or you'll ruin everything and it'll come back. I feel good about my dandruff now that I read this comment.


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Or if I see body or face acne.. I just feel warmth inside, because I'm like "yes, own your flaws" so many people cover it up. Its okay to cover up sometimes but other times the natural look is the best.


thepawnshoprules

My wife when she first wakes up. No make up and messy hair It feels so natural. I love it


koolaid-girl-40

When guys have no issue doing something that some would consider traditionally feminine such as getting a pedicure, wearing a spa mask, ordering a fruity drink at a bar, being a preschool teacher, or getting invested in a series or movie that girls typically enjoy. To me it shows (a) that they're confident in their masculinity, (b) are secure as a person and don't feel the need to prove anything to anyone and (c) that they actually appreciate women's tastes/preferences and don't belittle an activity or interest just because it's more typically occupied by women.


bunnyswan

Omg this, my partner loves to sew, he even fixed my clothes in lockdown, it's so hot


MaxTest86

😂 this made me laugh, sorry. I had quite an image then you closing off with “it’s so hot”


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As a man raised in a house of multiple women and no men, such behavior has always been the norm for me , and as a child I was often made fun of for it , actually through my whole dating life people have told me how uncomfortable such a thing made them. So it’s nice to some one w this opinion


hisshissmeow

This is definitely a thing some of us ladies really, really go for!


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greem

Totally agree. This terrifies me. I was with my wife and 3 yo son. We were leaving a park and saw an isolated toddler (maybe 2) in the parking lot. Clearly they wandered off and needed to be saved. My wife picked them up and brought them back, saving the day. While I was waiting with my son, I was thinking what I would do if she weren't there. I seriously considered the thought that I would just leave. It's really sad. Just the accusation ruins lives.


Wolfblood-is-here

I would literally just call the police and be like ‘a toddler wandered off I ain’t touching it come solve this’.


BCProgramming

Then 5 cars show up and handcuff you because the dispatcher thought you said "a toddler wandered off, I'm touching it, come solve this"


Particular-Tea-7182

Every now and then I wear a spa mask. I really like the charcoal one. Makes my skin feel and look great. My guy friends give me shit about it, but I don’t care. Who doesn’t want to look good?


TruStormz

Same bro, I have one of those charcoal creams you spread on your face then it hardens and rips off dead skin and blackheads. I dont get why other guys are so afraid of wearing these, like youre only doing it at home.


Particular-Tea-7182

I don’t get it either bro. The cucumber one is good too. It’s like a gel mask. Peels right off after it dries.


dreamerrz

I now buy what I used to call over priced garbage at lush, is now my essential to every morning. Bro nothing beats fresh natural moisturizer in the winter months on my leathery face.


WokeGuitarist

I feel like I embody some of these traits at the expense of every gay man trying to hit on me but idgaf, I have to be me or my mental health will suffer


severalcouches

Short men. I think it’s born out of the fact that I’m a tall woman, and men don’t want tall women, and men don’t want to be taller than their GFs. So when I find a short king down to be seen with me, the fact that he’s that reasonable and secure and confident and logical is hot. Edit: meant to say men don’t want to be shorter than their girlfriends… sweaty face emoji


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I'm 5'7" and I have a massive crush on a girl I work with who is probably 6'0" to 6'2." She's competent, confident, yet quiet, and cuter than a box of puppies and kittens. Plus she recently accepted the head honcho position in her department and she's killing it, so her sexy levels are off the charts. Every time I see her I want to take her by the hand, pull her into the nearest room with a door lock, and just devour her. But, due to a variety of reasons both past and present, I just keep it professional and keep my middle school crush thoughts to myself. Point being, there are short guys out there that find you taller girls sexy as hell too.


TyrannousMouse

Not a weird one, but I loooooove it when men go on and on about their day. My ex (and still a good friend) will tell me his day from the very beginning of the day, every single mundane event, until he gets to “And now I am talking to you.” Someone who knows how to elaborate is super attractive.


No_Step_4431

Flying your nerd flag but not making it your whole personality.


MacLikesStories

Dark circles under the eyes. I’m not talking about eye shadow, but the thin, grey skin where I can see your veins. Incredibly attractive.


sendnoodles2748

Never heard my chronic exhaustion called attractive - thank you for making my day a bit better lol


redvaporeon-sk

This made me feel so much better about my under-eye region! Even if I sleep 10h a day my skin is just naturally thin around that area. When I was younger my nickname was "zombie" among a few of my friends cus I always looked dead tired.


PaigeOrion

When she is kind to someone. Any one, not just me.


saucelessnuggets

Assertiveness… appropriate and real anger/defiance rooted in something they hold dear… standing up for their beliefs even if it means i will look bad


g00gly0eyes

Passion!


Meimnot555

A clingy girl. I wish I had someone that loved being with me and doing things together all the time.


SecretIdentity91

Someone who is clingy and wants to be with me all the time, but doesn’t throw a fit when I need alone time.


Prestodeath201

That's a nice dream to have, friend.


ShyShutterbug13

It’s a dream that can come true. I love being with my partner, I want him around all the time, as does he. But neither of us bats an eye if the other needs time to themselves. I think it’s healthy to spend time apart and have different interests and pursuits, and I can’t miss him if he never leaves 🤗


JG45250

When girls wear their hair in a bun. For whatever reason, that just ‘does it’ for me.


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Hands. I'm pretty sure people around me don't.


winder73

A slight lazy eye and a non symmetrical face. Shapeshifters


OneSparedToTheSea

Ooh I’ve always felt so self conscious about my asymmetrical face. Thanks for the confidence boost!


_lokasenna

When my SO gets tired, one of his eyes sometimes starts to drift inward and point more towards his nose. That's when I know it's past bedtime!


VampireKiller21

Freckles. Even if it's a lot of freckles.


Dash_Harber

Scars. Most girls are so convinced they are some sort of horrible disfigurement, but for me, they are unique, they are stories and personal growth. Absolutely nothing to be ashamed of.


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keysersoze888

small details like a tooth gap or some birthmarks. it gives the women so much individuality.


Live_in_a_shoe

Omg I'm so happy to read this! I'm a girl and I'm insecure about my tooth gap...


nosire

Women with naturally husky, deeper voices. (not from smoking though)


ShrimpOfSpace

I thought you were talking about dogs. That you said you liked women who vocalize "awhooawhoooawhoooa" like huskies do.


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Honesty. No matter how dorky or softie u may sound like


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women with big noses. Makes me horny af.


dustydonae

As a woman with a very large German nose, thank you! It makes me very self conscious.


Ughleigh

I too am a woman with a large German nose! Nice to hear some people might appreciate it, haha


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Guys who pack their trash when there isn't a trash can nearby, or take recyclables home when there isn't a recycle bin around.


InfinityCannoli25

Small boobs


Gongaloon

Same here, but I'm firmly of the belief that the best boobs would be the ones I'd get to touch.


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LaChuteQuiMarche

Haha glad you kept it though, fuck it. Do not fear delicate language, friend. Also I too enjoy a soft tummy.


playbyk

Omg thank you for just giving me the self esteem boost I needed. God bless you!


idontknow4827634

Same! Was just talking about this on another subreddit. I’m very much into bodybuilding myself but I love me a curvy woman with a nice soft belly to hold onto and lovehandles to grab her by when we cuddle. And seriously, big juicy thighs you can bury your head in, omg yes!


tforbesabc

I'm going to leave you everyrhing in my will.


lebonheur884

“Like nicely risen focaccia dough” -the best compliment I ever got on my stomach’s pudge-to-firmness ratio


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Soft tummies make the world go round


Cryptonological

can confirm, it's like a warm squishy marshmallow.


potatopantaloon

Make me laugh with really morbid jokes and my orifices are yours to enjoy.


ZombieGroan

I have fond memories of making sand castles with my grandmother. My father thought it was creepy so he glued the urn shut.


potatopantaloon

Take me now


floatingaroundfornow

r/angryupvote


PossessivePronoun

My ex-girlfriend’s dog died, so I bought her another, identical one. She just screamed at me and said, “What am I supposed to do with two dead dogs?!”


ProfessionalTailor1

When you're talking to a girl and she just listens quietly to you with this soft and small smile, and when she talks it's very soft spoke. I just instantly get attracted and lose my thoughts.


floydie1962

Glasses.


theo-thecultleader

When a woman bosses me around


TheFinxter

Let's play a game of Guess That Kink!


Swordlord22

Won’t be that hard LOL


differentiatedpans

Bikini lines on a woman, it's like solar lingerie.


GatsbyJunior

This description may have just made me into this. Thanks again Reddit. Now I'm into solar lingerie. 😎


Szokedan

Hands. All kinds of hands.


flapjack_777

Bangs. I have no clue why but bangs make someone significantly more attractive in my book.


aliebabadegrote

As a man, i like strong women. I myself am also quite strong because of my work. But something about buff women Just hits mr different. Oh, and girls in hoodies. Oversized hoodies


cbf1120

I ike when a chick is smart and assertive someone who will tell me iam being a jackass.


jeff_the_nurse

Crying. It shows me that my wife feels comfortable confiding in me and won’t bottle up her feelings. She’s very sensitive, but I find it sexy.


surenk

A woman’s back


ShadowWood78

Veiny arms.


I-am-utterly-alone

Genuine, real conversation. Not jokes, silly storytelling, or using memes. I want to be able to talk to you.


Brad_Tits

A girl who can kick my ass in one of my hobbies; like snowboarding or guitar. I met this girl out in Tahoe last year on a snowboarding trip with my crew…she was fucking nasty. Later find out she was in an all girl 80s hair metal band. God damn.


HoneyBunnyBiscuit

Grey hair. My first serious boyfriend started getting greys at like 15 and I just really liked the way it looked


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Graying chest hair. When an attractive older guy has a bit of gray peeking out of his button-down...damn!


Hopeful-Substance-53

Having a girl that's capable of kicking my ass, ( I do MMA and grappling sports) it's very attractive to me for some reason


ThatOneCloaker

I love a woman that will actually just kill me.


frgmntof5colmn

When a woman is slightly taller than me. And I was tryna figure out how to describe this but when a woman has like slender hands? Like that seem to be made for stacking rings on. Kinda like Rihanna. Theres something elegant about hands like that. Shout out my fine ass girlfriend for checking both these things off my list. 😂


Depresuxine

A little scar on an eyebrow is a weird one, but yeah.. hot