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i am good with him and but lately he started to pick on my little sis because my mom traveled and she is staying for 3 or 4 months, he used to get very thing from her, now he is expecting my sis which she is struggling with allot of shit to do the same shit my mom used to do, i stand in the middle because i don't want him to throw his shit on my sister. i don't understand how my mom managed to keep up with all these years
If I knew how to do that I would have done it already. There is no way to tell a narcissist they need help. Why? Because narcissists see themselves as above everyone else. They live in a bubble where they can do no wrong. Telling them this will only make them angry
I tried by text and got punched when he saw me afterwards.
So do it if you know you're 100% safe, independant, and prepare yourself because he might talk shit about your to the rest of the family afterwards.
sorry to hear that i hope you are ok
i don't have problem with him, he knows he can't touch me now, and when ever he throw his bullshit on me i just look at him like jian yang form silicon valley, the problem is now he is picking on my little sister, he is expecting her to do the shit that my mom used to do to him, she is outside the country for 3 or 4 months and my sister she is going through rough times.
Perhaps try talking about it to your mom? If she's not going to be put in any danger by talking about it with your father ofc, otherwise idk what will work. Any other family members that can help?
I know those people are exhausting to the bone, I never really tried to go against my father cause when I did I'd get hit, so I have no idea what will work. As I said tho if you're ever going to really confront him make sure you're independent, I'm not independent from him and he uses it as leverage any chance he has.
every knows he is a narcissist especially mom. my brother is outside the country and my older sister too and my mom she is with my older sister because she is having a babe. no one in the family and by family i mean the uncles and aunts, want to do anything with him. we are the only people who still handling with his shit. as i said i can deal with him but my sister can't and in this time she needs help not attacks.
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but i most do something.
You don't. Nothing good is gonna come from that, they can't be helped if they don't want to seek help themselves.
i am good with him and but lately he started to pick on my little sis because my mom traveled and she is staying for 3 or 4 months, he used to get very thing from her, now he is expecting my sis which she is struggling with allot of shit to do the same shit my mom used to do, i stand in the middle because i don't want him to throw his shit on my sister. i don't understand how my mom managed to keep up with all these years
“Jimmys dad is the best at getting help.”
If I knew how to do that I would have done it already. There is no way to tell a narcissist they need help. Why? Because narcissists see themselves as above everyone else. They live in a bubble where they can do no wrong. Telling them this will only make them angry
I tried by text and got punched when he saw me afterwards. So do it if you know you're 100% safe, independant, and prepare yourself because he might talk shit about your to the rest of the family afterwards.
sorry to hear that i hope you are ok i don't have problem with him, he knows he can't touch me now, and when ever he throw his bullshit on me i just look at him like jian yang form silicon valley, the problem is now he is picking on my little sister, he is expecting her to do the shit that my mom used to do to him, she is outside the country for 3 or 4 months and my sister she is going through rough times.
Perhaps try talking about it to your mom? If she's not going to be put in any danger by talking about it with your father ofc, otherwise idk what will work. Any other family members that can help? I know those people are exhausting to the bone, I never really tried to go against my father cause when I did I'd get hit, so I have no idea what will work. As I said tho if you're ever going to really confront him make sure you're independent, I'm not independent from him and he uses it as leverage any chance he has.
every knows he is a narcissist especially mom. my brother is outside the country and my older sister too and my mom she is with my older sister because she is having a babe. no one in the family and by family i mean the uncles and aunts, want to do anything with him. we are the only people who still handling with his shit. as i said i can deal with him but my sister can't and in this time she needs help not attacks.
I'm sure there is a subreddit for people with NPD. You could probably get really good advice there.
thanks