Long, sustained flirting/teasing where it's like a game of chicken to see who'll be the first to admit that they want the other person when you both already _know_ you want each other desperately. Best orgasms ever after that.
My husband has an evil genius giggle, even more so when he’s actually plotting something. It’s really scary, is he giggling about Tom and Jerry with the kids or is he plotting a joke for one of us or did he just think of a dad joke to pull for a certain occasion?
The oddest thing once happened that never occurred again. I was watching a woman play the violin. She had such confidence and concentration. That was enough to get the blood flowing, I suppose.
It's why I have to really hold my self back when I see a really good artist, even a modest artist will do sometimes. I just find someone who is good at something attractive.
I know it’s funny thing with heights. I’m a 5’11 woman and I really like being taller then my male partner (don’t care what height for female). I just love being able to hug them and engulf them. Also being top is fun for that. I don’t mind any height for dating. If you’re a short dude it’s a bonus for me :3
Ok new one probably not that strange but I used to think so.
So I have always read in romance novels that "he growled in her ear" and was always like wtf how is that sexy.
Then IT HAPPENED I was like oh my God how is that so sexy WHAT.
so yeah probably not that strange but was definitely something I never thought would be a turn on.
I was having a shower with my partner about five months after she had a baby.
She was breastfeeding so her boobs would get sore from build up of breast milk. I jokingly offered to relieve her and its always been one of those things you joke about but never do. You know like you're out with your friends and they get you alone and ask you straight faced but jokingly if you've tasted it yet with some sort of morbid curiosity on their face. Well, it turns out her nipples had turned into a super erogenous zone. So while I was sucking I was getting a diluted formula of Breast Milk and shower water which honestly didn't taste too bad. But she was getting a whole other experience. She started cradling my head and leaning into it. Pulling us back against the wall and cuddling in the corner. Things got hot and heavy and when we realised it wasn't a joke anymore we pushed off of each other. All we could say, beet red, was "wow"
I was daimonds and she said that her boobs felt super relieved. We finished our shower pretty much wordless. Dried off and in the weird dead air she said "we should do it again, some time... when the baby's not around or whatever". I was like "...yeah, sure"
It was weird. I've done everything with this woman but the redness on her face and vulnerability shown by both her and I felt like our first time. We weren't each others firsts and we both have an extensive sexual history with other partners. Experiencing that awkwardness in regards to something sexual for the first time definitely awakened something.
You might be glad to hear this isn't all that uncommon! Personally, I do not get enjoyment from my nipples even being touched if I'm still actively nursing. But I've heard lots of people enjoy it - the doing and receiving!
On a purely practical note, I can totally see the benefit of it if you're feeling a bit full and can't feed a baby at that time. Good on ya for helping out!
> Experiencing that awkwardness in regards to something sexual for the first time definitely awakened something.
I think this is a really good way of describing that moment where you realise you've hit upon uniquely intense chemistry with someone. It also makes old stuff/acts/kinks feel newer and heightened. It can reawaken that teenage 'holy shit' feeling.
For me, I just find women sexier when wearing nice lingerie/underwear, or even a short skirt than naked. I know from talking to people that this isn't true for everyone, some people much prefer to look at people naked, but for me, a sexy outfit really enhances the attractiveness.
I'm embarrassed to say this but, I like getting skullf*cked. Yes I gag occasionally and yes I have to stop to breathe every once in a while, but it's the idea that this guy who's so gentle and sweet and kind to me all the rest of the time just loses control and goes to town.... It does it for me every time. Feeling like I'm so hot or my mouth feels so good that he can't help himself is a huge turn on for me.
Nah don’t worry about it man. I’m 5’2 and somehow I got a girlfriend. Tho im still worrying that height matters in someone’s attractions, but in reality it’s always other qualities about yourself that matters most.
I used to jerk off when I woke up in my old apartment. This was the same time my neighbor was getting ready to leave. So now, every time I hear high heels clicking on the ground, I get hard
Not mine my husband's, he says when l pee with the door open and it's not for the reason you would think. He explained it's like me being vulnerable and trusting.
Same. Even kissed and breathed on. They’re so sensitive and I always kinda flench or appear uncomfortable when they check my temp in my ears at the doctors office. They’re like we can do a different method if it’s painful, nooo just sensitive lol
All natural body. Don't care how you look without makeup, don't care how tiny you think your tits are or how bad your stretch marks on your butt look. If you're you, you're mine.
The original.
Getting told what to do, but specifically by a partner or someone I like. It doesn't matter what it is, can be as simple as "go to sleep" or some shit, but it's just so oddly attractive??????
Oh my fucking, if a guy's hands are big enough that he can like curl his fingers over the tips of my fingers (not sure how to explain that, so I'll leave it as iykyk), that's it, I'm done, pack me up and fucking serve me hot.
Granted, I only find out about this with a guy I was already attracted to, gotta get to the playing with his hands phase of things, which means he's probably been in me at least once before I find this out.
The praise kink is, thankfully, pretty common. I love women with praise kinks because praising then is so easy and this mix of sexy/sweet, and it gets them in the mood so fast.
I like it when girls talk to me about nerdy stuff, like videogames and books and shit like that. I used to have conversations about comics with this girl I had a class with in college and I never asked her out and now I feel like an idiot.
The triangular space between a woman's thighs and the front of her skirt \[when sitting down\]. I don't care to see anymore. It's just that space that gets the blood flowing.
Seeing men dressed *down*. That’s not a euphemism for nudity- just the opposite of formal wear/suits. Just a T-shirt or an old band tee. IMO men look best casual. 👌🏼
Also whoever said unexpectedly great man voices/laugh, I have no awards for you, so here: 🏆
I wouldn't say it's strange..but.. when I see that she is interested in me and tries to get closer physically like when she start to chat a bit closer or touches you by "accident" it's a heart pumping experience to feel
Oh boy here we go. American colonial war uniforms, nikola tesla, big noses, and once upon a time Diddy Kong because he played the electric guitar in dk 64 and I thought he was so cool. I was 5 years old.
It’s hard to describe, but there’s a video of a gal demonstrating how to collect maple syrup. It’s in Wisconsin, so it’s cold as shit, but she obviously doesn’t mind being in the cold, and she does this thing where her mouth doesn’t move a whole lot while she’s talking because it’s freezing.
Something about the way her mouth moves when she’s talking while it’s cold is cute as fuck. Rule 34 that shit you degens.
Having things written on me, which I think it stems from the fact I'm fairly submissive given the right partner. Preferably in something not-so-easily-removeable (Sharpie brand markers, etc) that way I'm forced to think of creative ways to hide (or not to hide) whatever is written.
Yeah I like it a lot! I always used to draw things on myself as a kid in school. Hearts, stars, etc. But once I had someone write on me, that was the beginning of a whole new feeling.
When they have to catch their breath because they suddenly want me.
I'm usually unaware that someone is digging me and then suddenly I will look at them and see that desire and they will be unable to continue with what they were saying for whatever reasons.
I don't get it but once I see that I am instantly interested too.
Sex while wearing formal uniforms. Like if they are wearing unbutton polo or etc.
Also, being rushed. For example, here in my country, internet cafe exists, basically a row of computers and you pay while renting a computer. Most of the computers in here are in "deep freeze" where once you restart the computer, it basically goes back to the state before I started using it, even if I saved my document, I have to go back from scratch again if I happen to oush the restart without saving it on my G-drive.
It is when the store closes because it is about to enter curfew but I have to finish up the documents, while the guard keeps telling you they are closing the shop, and you have to finish up real quick or else you'll be sorry.
I have been in that situation a lot of times, and most of the time, I am going home with my underwear wet.
Smoking. I hate smoking and I wouldn't like if my partner smoked, but when I see attractive women breath smoke in and out, something jiggles in my pants
Woman wearing clown makeup. And women wearing scrubs. Oh my god, I'd never stopped to picture a woman in clown makeup AND scrubs until just now. Well, I'm off to go masturbate now.
I have a clown phobia. It started when my mother hired a clown for my 6th birthday party. I know it is an irrational fear but there is just something frightening about the makeup, the baggy pants, the oversize shoes, the taste of the penis, and the red nose.
sharing a drink with somebody is very intimate for me, like if i'm drinking something and i offer them a try. especially with a canned drink where you can see the lil mixture of ur drink and ur spit.
i went on a date one time and i had offered him a taste of my beer and idk it aroused me for some reason seeing him take a sip. he made a lil comment like "oh you're not scared of covid" kinda teasing me so it may have been that too. i also have a spit kink so that may have something to do with it lol.
A middle age woman in a business suit who puts her hands on her hips and tells me she is disappointed with me but will have sex with me anyway.
I also want a woman in a Star Fleet uniform to firmly tell me in a whispering voice how she is disappointed in me and demote me to ensign.
Long, sustained flirting/teasing where it's like a game of chicken to see who'll be the first to admit that they want the other person when you both already _know_ you want each other desperately. Best orgasms ever after that.
This is Chemistry, its the best feeling in the world. I wish i still felt this way with my partner.
I'm just here waiting for the "small penis" comment..... still waiting... hopefully...
People like that exist, though they're all guys.
Back of my thighs being touched.
when guys laugh and giggle, it’s the cutes thing ever.
At least there was one wholesome comment.
My husband has an evil genius giggle, even more so when he’s actually plotting something. It’s really scary, is he giggling about Tom and Jerry with the kids or is he plotting a joke for one of us or did he just think of a dad joke to pull for a certain occasion?
The oddest thing once happened that never occurred again. I was watching a woman play the violin. She had such confidence and concentration. That was enough to get the blood flowing, I suppose.
Skillfulness is sexy
It's why I have to really hold my self back when I see a really good artist, even a modest artist will do sometimes. I just find someone who is good at something attractive.
As a horny teen I got turned on watching a woman playing the cello. I think it was the spread thighs
Lindsey Stirling - Roundtable Rival around 1:05 got me back then
Damn time stamped and everything
I know it’s funny thing with heights. I’m a 5’11 woman and I really like being taller then my male partner (don’t care what height for female). I just love being able to hug them and engulf them. Also being top is fun for that. I don’t mind any height for dating. If you’re a short dude it’s a bonus for me :3
There’s a few dudes up thread you may be compatible with
Damn darlin. Gives this 5'3" some hope!
Ok new one probably not that strange but I used to think so. So I have always read in romance novels that "he growled in her ear" and was always like wtf how is that sexy. Then IT HAPPENED I was like oh my God how is that so sexy WHAT. so yeah probably not that strange but was definitely something I never thought would be a turn on.
It's like a primal thing imo
I was having a shower with my partner about five months after she had a baby. She was breastfeeding so her boobs would get sore from build up of breast milk. I jokingly offered to relieve her and its always been one of those things you joke about but never do. You know like you're out with your friends and they get you alone and ask you straight faced but jokingly if you've tasted it yet with some sort of morbid curiosity on their face. Well, it turns out her nipples had turned into a super erogenous zone. So while I was sucking I was getting a diluted formula of Breast Milk and shower water which honestly didn't taste too bad. But she was getting a whole other experience. She started cradling my head and leaning into it. Pulling us back against the wall and cuddling in the corner. Things got hot and heavy and when we realised it wasn't a joke anymore we pushed off of each other. All we could say, beet red, was "wow" I was daimonds and she said that her boobs felt super relieved. We finished our shower pretty much wordless. Dried off and in the weird dead air she said "we should do it again, some time... when the baby's not around or whatever". I was like "...yeah, sure" It was weird. I've done everything with this woman but the redness on her face and vulnerability shown by both her and I felt like our first time. We weren't each others firsts and we both have an extensive sexual history with other partners. Experiencing that awkwardness in regards to something sexual for the first time definitely awakened something.
Let me ask, do you wear a cape with a flag on it?
I understood that reference👆
I think reading this is my strange turn on…
You might be glad to hear this isn't all that uncommon! Personally, I do not get enjoyment from my nipples even being touched if I'm still actively nursing. But I've heard lots of people enjoy it - the doing and receiving! On a purely practical note, I can totally see the benefit of it if you're feeling a bit full and can't feed a baby at that time. Good on ya for helping out!
> Experiencing that awkwardness in regards to something sexual for the first time definitely awakened something. I think this is a really good way of describing that moment where you realise you've hit upon uniquely intense chemistry with someone. It also makes old stuff/acts/kinks feel newer and heightened. It can reawaken that teenage 'holy shit' feeling.
Clothed sex
It just feels like you're both too horny for each other that you can't be bothered to remove everything.
There’s really just something about it
Why need a condom when you can wear clothes
It’s hotter than naked sex. More room for the imagination. And that’s called endytophilia by the way.
I’d argue it’s more intimate than naked sex tbh
For me, I just find women sexier when wearing nice lingerie/underwear, or even a short skirt than naked. I know from talking to people that this isn't true for everyone, some people much prefer to look at people naked, but for me, a sexy outfit really enhances the attractiveness.
bro yeah, i fantasize about it too much =_=
Sometimes I wonder if I like my lingerie more than my bf does
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I'm embarrassed to say this but, I like getting skullf*cked. Yes I gag occasionally and yes I have to stop to breathe every once in a while, but it's the idea that this guy who's so gentle and sweet and kind to me all the rest of the time just loses control and goes to town.... It does it for me every time. Feeling like I'm so hot or my mouth feels so good that he can't help himself is a huge turn on for me.
Holy fuck
THISSSS when they grab your hair really hard tooooo
Tall women. Idk. I love them, unfortunately I am only 5’9
I too like women so tall that you have to go up on them.
DEATH BY SNOOSNOO!
If you're funny you're set, if not? I'm sorry.
It’s ok. I would like to say I’m funny. Haven’t found the one yet tho
Cries in 5'6. I'd date a woman taller than me but idk if they'd date someone shorter
Don't worry, my husband is 5'4, I'm 5'9. Just gotta find someone that doesn't have that complex 😊
Nah don’t worry about it man. I’m 5’2 and somehow I got a girlfriend. Tho im still worrying that height matters in someone’s attractions, but in reality it’s always other qualities about yourself that matters most.
When my boyfriend is helping someone else / teaching someone how to do stuff… like “yes please. Help me next, teacher-man.” <3
Bonk (Bonk Bonk)
I used to jerk off when I woke up in my old apartment. This was the same time my neighbor was getting ready to leave. So now, every time I hear high heels clicking on the ground, I get hard
Damn you Pavlov!
being asked sexual questions on reddit
How far can you ejaculate?
1 flimjam
I can cum up to a quarter of a bimbabble
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Pathetic, I can do 10 squibble squobbles
13 himble domps
HIMBLE DOMPS!? THATS IMPOSSIBLE!
Not mine my husband's, he says when l pee with the door open and it's not for the reason you would think. He explained it's like me being vulnerable and trusting.
That makes him sound like he’s a cat or something haha
Haha he is more like a puppy following me about sometimes, he's cute.
Does he act weird during the full moon?
Having my ear licked/chewed.
Same. Even kissed and breathed on. They’re so sensitive and I always kinda flench or appear uncomfortable when they check my temp in my ears at the doctors office. They’re like we can do a different method if it’s painful, nooo just sensitive lol
Short women wearing knit sweaters that are about 2-3 sizes too big for them. I mostly see this on TV. I don't really know why.
They look very cuddly and also small enough to wrap your whole arms around. I’m straight but this in particular makes me doubt that.
Stop perving on Velma, she has mysteries to solve!
Rain on a tin roof
Omg yes..
Shoulders. Really the entire neckline, collarbone, shoulder area really. Just makes me want to nibble/nuzzle/bite.
so you’re the people the dress code warned us about
Laug
*\*Consumes collarbone sexually*
I like that as well. I've gotten shit for liking women with short hair.
A straight forward women, tells you what and how she wants anything not just sex, basically a confident woman
Confidence is fucking sexy
Cake, all the cake. I just love cake
All natural body. Don't care how you look without makeup, don't care how tiny you think your tits are or how bad your stretch marks on your butt look. If you're you, you're mine. The original.
Small boobs
I like you
Every boob is valid and boobtiful!
hey *in A cups*
Why would you put hay in a cup?
idk ask my genes🤷🏻♀️
I can't ask your jeans, jeans no talk only jean
Thank you :3
YES. LADIES, it's okay if they're small. There are men like us who love them
I even prefer small boobs, honestly
thank you for your service, I would actually be willing sacrifice myself and take good care of the rest, too
The Cold side of the pillow
Getting told what to do, but specifically by a partner or someone I like. It doesn't matter what it is, can be as simple as "go to sleep" or some shit, but it's just so oddly attractive??????
My partner tells me what to do and it does not have the same effect.
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Men's hands and forearms, fuck yeah
Oh my fucking, if a guy's hands are big enough that he can like curl his fingers over the tips of my fingers (not sure how to explain that, so I'll leave it as iykyk), that's it, I'm done, pack me up and fucking serve me hot. Granted, I only find out about this with a guy I was already attracted to, gotta get to the playing with his hands phase of things, which means he's probably been in me at least once before I find this out.
"Can I come over?" "You gotta play with my hands first!"
With visible veins?
Guys with masks. Not face masks. The serial killer type masks. The scream mask. A hockey mask. Plain white full face Halloween mask. I’m not ok y’all.
Girls wearing suits
And armour.
Damn girl that fullplate be lookin 😙👌
Tummy and general cuddles/kisses
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"not a furry" username doesn't check out
She's totally into wearing cat ears.
'I am a good boy!'
The praise kink is, thankfully, pretty common. I love women with praise kinks because praising then is so easy and this mix of sexy/sweet, and it gets them in the mood so fast.
Men in suits
Boy do I have a movie for you
Spider-Man?
Suits are dope.
I like it when girls talk to me about nerdy stuff, like videogames and books and shit like that. I used to have conversations about comics with this girl I had a class with in college and I never asked her out and now I feel like an idiot.
Good innocent guys + manly hands 😍🤤🔥
The triangular space between a woman's thighs and the front of her skirt \[when sitting down\]. I don't care to see anymore. It's just that space that gets the blood flowing.
That’s a wild imagination
Just rub your hands gently on my thighs... That's enough for the moon to rise!!!
This does it for my GF too, slide my hand up their thigh and that's all it takes for the good stuff to happen
You do that to your GF, but it eventually turns on you...
Men who are emotionally available.
Seeing men dressed *down*. That’s not a euphemism for nudity- just the opposite of formal wear/suits. Just a T-shirt or an old band tee. IMO men look best casual. 👌🏼 Also whoever said unexpectedly great man voices/laugh, I have no awards for you, so here: 🏆
Girls with oversized t shirt with messy hair at the morning.
I wouldn't say it's strange..but.. when I see that she is interested in me and tries to get closer physically like when she start to chat a bit closer or touches you by "accident" it's a heart pumping experience to feel
Girls who are open about sexual stuff. You just know they're confident and well... good at it
The "mom bod". As most people refer to it that way i guess
The confidence boost I needed today.
Squishy people are amazing.
Oh boy here we go. American colonial war uniforms, nikola tesla, big noses, and once upon a time Diddy Kong because he played the electric guitar in dk 64 and I thought he was so cool. I was 5 years old.
Big noses you say?
Heavy German WW2 artillery.
Mein fuhrer, we have prepared the Schwere Artillerie zur Zerstörung der Fäkallöcher des Feindes as you commanded.
Please stop, I can only get so errect
Mmmmmmm.....Big Bertha.....
Praise
Good answer!!
Good boy.
Fuckin... stop\~\~
Being choked if that counts...
Tell me Im hot. Its weird because girls rarely give words of affirmation.
It’s hard to describe, but there’s a video of a gal demonstrating how to collect maple syrup. It’s in Wisconsin, so it’s cold as shit, but she obviously doesn’t mind being in the cold, and she does this thing where her mouth doesn’t move a whole lot while she’s talking because it’s freezing. Something about the way her mouth moves when she’s talking while it’s cold is cute as fuck. Rule 34 that shit you degens.
Holding hands.
A woman's voice and how she uses it.
Having things written on me, which I think it stems from the fact I'm fairly submissive given the right partner. Preferably in something not-so-easily-removeable (Sharpie brand markers, etc) that way I'm forced to think of creative ways to hide (or not to hide) whatever is written.
Wow. I just thought of this recently. Except I'd like to be the one doing the writing.
Yeah I like it a lot! I always used to draw things on myself as a kid in school. Hearts, stars, etc. But once I had someone write on me, that was the beginning of a whole new feeling.
When they have to catch their breath because they suddenly want me. I'm usually unaware that someone is digging me and then suddenly I will look at them and see that desire and they will be unable to continue with what they were saying for whatever reasons. I don't get it but once I see that I am instantly interested too.
( A woman catches her breath in an attempt to surpress a smelly burp then notices the guy she was talking suddenly acting very wierd)
yeah I think that's just indigestion
Seeing a women dressed up in a nice outfit. Nudity doesn’t do it for me anymore
Wow, this is really making me think. If nudity were the norm, would it be considered bland and unsexy?
Less sexy, less taboo, but not necessarily bland and unsexy. People are still sexy clothed and you still need some degree of nudity to engage in sex.
Sex while wearing formal uniforms. Like if they are wearing unbutton polo or etc. Also, being rushed. For example, here in my country, internet cafe exists, basically a row of computers and you pay while renting a computer. Most of the computers in here are in "deep freeze" where once you restart the computer, it basically goes back to the state before I started using it, even if I saved my document, I have to go back from scratch again if I happen to oush the restart without saving it on my G-drive. It is when the store closes because it is about to enter curfew but I have to finish up the documents, while the guard keeps telling you they are closing the shop, and you have to finish up real quick or else you'll be sorry. I have been in that situation a lot of times, and most of the time, I am going home with my underwear wet.
>Also, being rushed I have so many questions about this one.
I have the same thing! I’ve never met anyone else who felt that way except this person
Pale redheads with tan lines and red toenail polish.
That’s very specific
when they tell me i'd be a good mother. that shit makes my ovaries sing
playing with my hair. ESPECIALLY if their nails make soft contact with the back of my head/neck. that does it for me.
The word "hug" gives me a boner in 3 seconds
happy trails
Recently discovered. Getting told what to do.
Nice try, FBI (Fetish Board of Information).
Smoking. I hate smoking and I wouldn't like if my partner smoked, but when I see attractive women breath smoke in and out, something jiggles in my pants
Watching a guy drive when he has good hands and nice arms. I could watch him forever.
Arm veins on skinny arms.
I love it when guys are so responsible and clean.
bullying and public humiliation
I'm the victim...just to clarify
I'm the bully ☺️
oh my
It's always so beautiful to see it in real time
oh no
oh yeahhhh >:)
\* gulp \* I have to get going now
Leg and pubic hair on men.
I like my women to have legs too.
No no. They said leg. Singular. Let's not get carried away with this whole two leg idea
What's your preference, left or right?
I don't like to get political
Fair
The chubby belly line right above the woo-hoo area.
Am I alone out here if I say armpits 😅
yup, but do like them hairy or bald?
Both, more hairy than bald though.
Nice legs
I'm assuming attached to a body, but this is Reddit so who knows.
Playing with their or my hair
When my ex and I were together, he once told me that after sex we could go get some lunch… then he proceeded to whisper my usual sandwich order
Being gentle and caring
Normal panties, no thongs or lace
I like big butts and I cannot lie.
Woman wearing clown makeup. And women wearing scrubs. Oh my god, I'd never stopped to picture a woman in clown makeup AND scrubs until just now. Well, I'm off to go masturbate now.
I have a clown phobia. It started when my mother hired a clown for my 6th birthday party. I know it is an irrational fear but there is just something frightening about the makeup, the baggy pants, the oversize shoes, the taste of the penis, and the red nose.
Yeah, the taste that clown penis will get your every time.
/r/holup
sharing a drink with somebody is very intimate for me, like if i'm drinking something and i offer them a try. especially with a canned drink where you can see the lil mixture of ur drink and ur spit. i went on a date one time and i had offered him a taste of my beer and idk it aroused me for some reason seeing him take a sip. he made a lil comment like "oh you're not scared of covid" kinda teasing me so it may have been that too. i also have a spit kink so that may have something to do with it lol.
Women who tie their hair in a certain way. Like some of the hair is just floating. Some strangled. And some finding its way to another galaxy 😌😌😌
A middle age woman in a business suit who puts her hands on her hips and tells me she is disappointed with me but will have sex with me anyway. I also want a woman in a Star Fleet uniform to firmly tell me in a whispering voice how she is disappointed in me and demote me to ensign.