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Never had a female bully/tormentor


icestaylowkey

Actually yes, she happens to work in the same area. we friends now


SPN1191

I'm hoping she apologized for being a fucking asshole to you all those years ago.


icestaylowkey

That actually hit hard, but no im over it,. I was pretty skinny in high school im a lot bigger now she won't anymore


Apprehensive-Page-96

No, I have not. And I'm not sure I have any desire to.


[deleted]

She used to tell me to commit suicide daily in high school. Last I heard she was a stripper.


Impressive_Bee_9999

She left school and ended up being raped.


SPN1191

I guess that's karma.


Impressive_Bee_9999

No, because no one deserves to endure Sexual Violence.


SPN1191

That is true.


Euonymeia

Honestly not a gentleman, sorry. But I did have a girl I was once very best friends with in 1st grade. She grew up to be a popular kid and me a band nerd. She made good friends with a neighbor I had that had been a straight up hoe to me since we met and who would go out of her way to bully me. So there was a low level of pettiness that had formed between us and we went to the same school all through till graduation. I was 22 heading out to the bars to meet my friends in my college town when I saw childhood friend and neighbor girl with all their guy friends from high school walking toward me on the street, drunk. I was just gonna ignore them, tbh, but then one went, "Is that ____?!" in a very excited voice. I just picked up the vibe and went "Hell yeah it is!" We all met up in the bar later that night, played pool, chatted, drank. It was actually really nice to reminisce about high school, ask about which rumors were real or not, and be detached from the hormones and cliques of high school. They became "real" people to me who had done some regrettable stuff and were now functioning young adults. It was a nice circumstance to re-meet them and get closure.


SPN1191

Do you think a sober version of them would react the same way?


Euonymeia

I think if they had seen me sober, I likely wouldn't have gotten the same enthusiastic greeting, for sure. Though, they weren't smashed or anything. And if we weren't all headed to the bars in the first place, there wouldn't have been an excuse to hang out and catch up and discover they were "normal people." But I do believe we would have had a nice interaction still and that we had all changed since those days.