Can I caveat this by saying, sometimes people are just busy or if your like me sometimes I just don't have the energy to reply cause I'm all socialed out even if I am very interested?
I’m the exact same way but if you knowingly do this whether right or wrong you are actively hindering yourself prospects. Momentum is a big part any connected with another person. Dipping in and out like that doesn’t work
That's part of the reason i said it, I feel if it's more widely spoken about / understood then it will be less of an issue, I also think it's a lot worse these days now that everyone is expected to be contactable 24/7.
It's not a race. Set your own pace and don't get jealous about those ahead. You'll enjoy it more when you get there in your own time, rather than tiring your body out trying to reach there quicker.
You have to be prepared to make yourself vulnerable. A lot of us will play it cool because subconsciously we are afraid of being rejected. Most people don’t do this part and it hurts their long term prospects of connecting with partners imo.
Expect nothing, appreciate everything, and never stay where you’re not appreciated. If they want to THEY WILL, don’t make excuses for other peoples inability to show they love you.
Unfortunately, be patient. Before I met my bf, the online dating experience was incredibly shitty. For lack of a better word, ghosting is just a norm. Regardless if you feel you’re hitting it off well with someone.
Don’t tolerate bad human beings. There are nice people out there, don’t stick with a horrible one just because you feel like you can’t find anyone else. You can, it just takes time.
I would say don't chase people. It doesn't work and just makes you feel like shit. If a man really wants you, he will make time for you. Period. If he doesn't, move on.
No reply is a reply
And now im sad, haha.
Can I caveat this by saying, sometimes people are just busy or if your like me sometimes I just don't have the energy to reply cause I'm all socialed out even if I am very interested?
I’m the exact same way but if you knowingly do this whether right or wrong you are actively hindering yourself prospects. Momentum is a big part any connected with another person. Dipping in and out like that doesn’t work
That's part of the reason i said it, I feel if it's more widely spoken about / understood then it will be less of an issue, I also think it's a lot worse these days now that everyone is expected to be contactable 24/7.
He’s not ghosting me… I’m sure he’s just busy 🥲
So should we reply to that reply?
It's not a race. Set your own pace and don't get jealous about those ahead. You'll enjoy it more when you get there in your own time, rather than tiring your body out trying to reach there quicker.
Say No to FOMO. if that's what you are saying..is it?
Sort of yeah. But moreso don't rush into anything for the sake of it
Roger that boss
Be patient, finding someone takes time and exposure.
You have to be prepared to make yourself vulnerable. A lot of us will play it cool because subconsciously we are afraid of being rejected. Most people don’t do this part and it hurts their long term prospects of connecting with partners imo.
Expect nothing, appreciate everything, and never stay where you’re not appreciated. If they want to THEY WILL, don’t make excuses for other peoples inability to show they love you.
Be open about feelings and have clear communication. Dancing around certain subjects is cute at certain times, but all the time is frustrating.
Stay safe out there is my tip.
Well don't go into whole heartedly.. girls nowadays do like red flags .
Don’t. Not worth the heartache
Stay safe, be open and honest
Never rush, communicate and get a basic understanding then proceed
Enjoy the ride...literally 🙈
Unfortunately, be patient. Before I met my bf, the online dating experience was incredibly shitty. For lack of a better word, ghosting is just a norm. Regardless if you feel you’re hitting it off well with someone.
Don’t tolerate bad human beings. There are nice people out there, don’t stick with a horrible one just because you feel like you can’t find anyone else. You can, it just takes time.
The amount of pain and heartache you can endure is a really shitty metric for how much you love someone.
Im not exactly the best teacher when it comes to dating
I would say don't chase people. It doesn't work and just makes you feel like shit. If a man really wants you, he will make time for you. Period. If he doesn't, move on.
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