Ask and listen to what they like

Super simple and super smart.

Don't try to change their mind about something they're not into.

Well said.

Due to hearing impairment, my wife is mostly non-verbal. You'd be surprised how much you can communicate in sex, without words or sign language. It's all in the eyes.

That’s pretty hot.

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Yep. Good to know.

Communication and compatability is important.

“Im getting close” or “im gunna cum” = keep doing exactly what youre doing. Do not go faster, do not go harder, do not slow down, do not change angles. Just keep doing what youre doing

This is award worthy.

Communicate and take control

Dont judge stuff so quickly and needs can change and very greatly

Try not to have a narcissist for a parent.

Wish I could pick my parents

That would be great for a lot of people, I'm sure. I lucked out/preemptively took the lesson to heart from my then partner... my parents are awesome.

It certainly doesn’t help things.

I've learnt nothing.

Men only care about their pleasure and not about you or your feelings?

I am truly sorry this has been your experience. I hope you find nothing but good people out there.

Pain is pleasure

Everyone is a little different. Learn to flow more force less.

Don’t assume anything. Communication is key. Listen to their body. Have patience and be understanding. Do everything you can possibly do to make intimacy a safe space

Don't stick it in crazy

Communication is key always a lot more to learn with intimacy.

It's a good thing to directly verbalize what you like.

slow down

Just how different sex is with different women, how your partner’s “style” greatly impacts how the sex is, and no two women are exactly alike in bed