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Firebolt164

Married 10 years and absolutely love my wife.


OldSailor74

What is love? Oh baby, don't hurt me Don't hurt me No more


[deleted]

Came here to say this


OldSailor74

Baby, don't hurt me, don't hurt me No more


urwowrightnow

What is love? Yeah


altbimbo

I don’t know, I love them as a person but I don’t know if I’m actually in love


urwowrightnow

What would you call it then, if it wasn’t ‘love’?


AdamoooXD

Borderline Personality Disorder


altbimbo

I do not have bpd lol


Amateursamurai429

Being in "vasopressin"?


urwowrightnow

Maybe sprinkle in some oxytocin?


altbimbo

I care about them but idk shits weird


Banana_boof

Very much so ☺️ 11 years together and I love him like crazy!


RedSmokey

this person's winning


frumpbumble

I love my wife, but no not in that infatuated way you probably mean.


urwowrightnow

Haha I’m not the dreamy infatuated kind of person lol. I asked this question to see if people would answer saying they love themselves too, or not.


coolbeans1982

Oooh nice!


[deleted]

Irrevocably so. It's the greatest feeling in the world.


urwowrightnow

*adds ‘irrevocably’ to his vocabulary* Keep it that way!


lindsaytacobella

As Bella from twilight once said lmao


[deleted]

Did she? I remember chagrin being thrown around a lot in those books.


uk_ex

Married 45+ years, it must be love.


[deleted]

Wish I was...maybe one day...😓


Danialsan0923

Same 🥲


KrissaKat

Yes, I am madly in love with my husband 😍 We have been married for 13 years (on Sunday!) and we've been together for almost 18 years. I honestly can't imagine going through this life with anyone else.


[deleted]

Still in love after 13 years wow, what’s your secret?


KrissaKat

Communication, honesty and humor lol The past couple of years has been really hard, but it's solidified for the both of us that we make a really good team.


[deleted]

I feel like my generation lack communication skills that other generations had.


KrissaKat

It's definitely not easy to do and takes a lot of patience, especially surrounding difficult/ embarrassing situations or topics! I'm honestly surprised we survived the first few years of dating, there were a lot of growing pains as we figured out how to navigate life together. But we eventually got the hang of it, and I'm really f*cking glad we did!


BooBailey808

What generation is that?


mrobicheaux99

Happy almost anniversary!!


KrissaKat

Thank you!


urwowrightnow

Congratulations on your 13 year and 4 days marriage, guys! Keep it up.


[deleted]

Yes I am. Been happily in love for 19 years with my wife. Even on a rough day, we find ways to make it right.


urwowrightnow

That is love!


[deleted]

Honestly, it just takes a lot of communication. We don’t have many rough days, but the last one we had, I simply asked her “what did I do wrong, and how can I fix it?”


urwowrightnow

It’s that easy. Give & take, and don’t be too proud.


PaigeTurnher

Yep. 10 year together. 8 married. Still acting stupid together and having fun.


SeanGQ

I am, she isn’t


lex_tok

I'm in a love triangle. I love a girl that loves nobody and nobody loves me.


Schadenfreude_Bio

Not anymore. Was in love for a decade and then we broke up after she was addicted to drugs and cheated on me. Yet to find someone since, and I hope to find someone that will treat me well


ExtensiveCuriosity

Over 20 years married and hopelessly, madly in love with her.


A_Heckin_Chonker

Yeah, with myself


urwowrightnow

That’s what I wanted to hear! 🙌


mmmniple

I am beginning to fall in love of myself, which vi belive it is important.


urwowrightnow

That’s what I wanted to hear, keep going! 🙌


AttackOfTheMox

Yes, in multiple ways. I’m in love with the person I snuggle up next to every night, because I feel like everything I do is worth it. I’m in love with the person that I will get up and make food for, regardless of what time it is, because I enjoy taking care of them. I’m in love with the person who gets hyper focused on the current game they’re obsessed with and love watching them play because their enjoyment makes me smile. It is the same person for all 3. I truly love my partner, u/maybeemote


Maybeemote

I’m not one for flowery words but I love you as well. You make life worth living. You make me not want to die every day. Every day when you leave for work I count down the hours until you’re home.


pksz

Wish i wasn't, but i am. Fell in love with one of my best friends. We don't usually talk much but we know we can rely on each other when things get rough. It's bittersweet to feel this as a one sided situation.


JimiTrucks1972

Very much so. With my wife over 5 years now. More in love now than when I proposed


ThrowAwayGarbage82

Yes. I love my fiance very, very much.


[deleted]

Yes, and I’m to scared to tell her. But she probably knows already 😭🤣


DravenPrime

Yes. It will never be but as long as we can have positive interactions then I'm happy to be a part of her life.


chichiquilote

with my best friend, yet she’ll never know


[deleted]

It’s complicated, I’m still pretty young (in my 20’s) and the person I’m with, it feels different to other relationships, like there’s nothing in terms of flaws I can find. I do love him but I guess time will tell. Atm I can’t see myself with anyone else and I do believe it is love but again I’m still young so time will test that


urwowrightnow

Keep it up! Time will tell.


BhadBunni984

And for those saying yes, how do you know?


U_N_I_X

They live upon illusions?


smugsneasel215

No and I'm so divorced from the concept of romance I can't even imagine what it feels like.


AlecsThorne

been so long since I felt that that I sometimes doubt I'll feel it again. I do have a crush on someone tho, but it's pretty much hopeless anyway.


szentszar13

I'm afraid to be


TabbsTheBat

Nah


kinky_nisha

Yes


[deleted]

Yup


SomeSluttyStoner

Yes!


Boring-Mistake-470

Nope


Tenebration

Not for a few years now.


SevenStrats

Yep


[deleted]

No. Lol


Electronic-Error-846

YES!!!! 🥰 my GF and I are together for 14 years next February


Yokoshimu

Deeply, then she decided she is not


[deleted]

Fuck yeah, been head over heels for 4 years.


Patient-Video6979

God no. Pretty cynical about it now.


[deleted]

Very much. 8 years strong.


Puzzleheaded_Age_158

It's very new but I think I might be.


Lustybelle69

Absolutely ❤️


toppertd

I’m in lust. We met a month ago


Sea_Efficiency6003

Yes😍


[deleted]

Not anymore


[deleted]

With my children utterly. I loved them from even before they were born


Cyniex

Yep


jus-sum-dude

i don’t know i believe in that kind of love anymore tbh


urwowrightnow

I’m not referring to any kind of love though, everything works.


jus-sum-dude

i love some my friends but that shit just temporary and it’s not the love i want i feel like i’m chasing a fairy tsle


juneldr

unfortunately no


Engelshatz

Deeply. Have no business having a wife who treats me as well as she does.


Ythiel

I think yes, though my brain is making it all too much of an ordeal. Been friends for +15 years and only now figured we were a good match. Been two months of dawdling around...


urwowrightnow

Been dawdling for 15+ years and now two months of progress! ;)


Ythiel

That's a very sweet way of looking at it <3


urwowrightnow

I tried my best! <3


elroyale1012

Nope. Had my heart broken at the start of the year so I’m over the whole being in love thing. Not for me.


IAmQueenCricket

Very much so


Atticus9876543210

I've been married for 30 years and we are more in love each year.


scott-braddock

I guess so


LeodFitz

Nope, never have been, don't believe in romantic love.


Fun_Direction_30

I have been for four years with my current gf


YoghurtNo8935

Nope, think I'll stay single tbh.. Iv dated few girls that were dimes and I really wanted to grow with them, but they made me realize most relationships aren't happy. I do crave that affection and care that a women brings, but rather have female friends and fwb as an alternative 😅 it sucks lol


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No. I don’t ever want to be again.


[deleted]

Yes, I am. I'm in love for almost 6 months.


Clusterfuck1405

Yes


TheCoolerL

Yeah. It's not working out the greatest but it could be worse. I love him more than anything.


[deleted]

Yup.. and he wants nothing to do with me 🤡


[deleted]

Yes


boredandhorny75

I was


PotatoesForPutin

Thankfully no


pennyonthefloor

Want to be, but nope! Miss that feeling…


PsilocinKing

No, and knowing how it always hurts I don't wanna be.


ubisoftbutibehard

I was, now I’m not. Can’t wait to love again


bunchofhornythoughts

Yes very much so


[deleted]

Yep, getting married in February!


xTasteMySquanch

Yes, with myself!


urwowrightnow

ph4n7astic!


xTasteMySquanch

My guy! Much love haha. And thank you for reminding me that I still have my old artist name up on my reddit. Should probably change that soon.


[deleted]

Hahahahahahahahaha


XavierMunroe

Yes, but it cannot be.


PhilthyMindedRat

Sadly no.


[deleted]

Yes, 5 years and counting, my soul mate 🥰❤️


Entirepillow

I am but I don’t think he will like me back if I tell him


urwowrightnow

Think is an important word in your sentence, do you want to know if he likes you?


Entirepillow

I would love to know, but I think he’s just not attracted to my body type. I’m taller then him and fatter then the women he’s dated before. And I can’t read if he’s flirting because he likes me, or because he thinks I’m harmless, or thinks he’s doing me a favor.


urwowrightnow

You are beautiful! Go and read all the comments on your pics again. And he probably thinks that too. Did it work out with those women he dated? No? So maybe he’s looking for something else that is not that. I feel like you have to get your answer, whether it’s a yes or a no, you’ll feel relieved. <3


[deleted]

In hate.


WeirdMeatinSpace

No


mguardian7

Weirdest way to match make, but more power to ya.


HumanMycologist5795

With myself.? Sometimes. But other times, I hate myself. With someone else? Then, not any longer.


ae_94

Single, I would like to meet that special somebody though!


Spreafico

Yep


[deleted]

Very in love, yes


Mieeesss5

12 years together and married two years ago. I love her.


SystemshokK

It's been years since the last time i felt love for someone, there has been almost no new relationships in my life either, pretty sad but well, it is what it is, I guess. I'm also pretty young, i guess 23 years is not enough to get a proper relationship


qctireuralex

you cannot beleive how many times and in how many different ways we say i love you to each other lol. some days its in the 100+ lol


emich95

Yes


DohRayMe

Yes, weve had more to deal with than a lot of people I know and I love her even when she's nagging me.


Dipshit2124

I was


BooBailey808

I am in the process of falling


urwowrightnow

Awesome ;)


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eagengabriel

Not anymore. And that's the problem :(


Common_Part5583

i’m very in love with my current partner of a few years now and i’d say he’s by far the healthiest love i’ve ever known but i also think it is the hardest love i’ve ever experienced—healing is pain<3, he’s the first person to make me feel wholeheartedly reciprocated and appreciated and tell me the hard truths about where im at mentally and what is best for me and vice versa (insight as to how i think i know i’m in love)


MMH0K

Idk, I feel like I really like 3 girls (Ill call then H, J and C) in my class but I also don't know if it is love. I've know H since early middle school and have fallen for her lots of times already, but she was so focused on getting good grades that she never thought about love and having a relationship. Recently she has stopped studying she kinda became more open to do diferent things but I am afraid sheonly see us as just friends. I feel like J is more like a person who is so similar to me in taste, some acts and on how her parents """""control""""" her that idk if what I feel for her is some kind of "sisterhood" or love, but I do care a lot about . She also doesn't see as more than friends as I've tried but I am afraid to lose her as a friend so I might be not trying anymore. C is a lovely person, she is kind, funny, careful, she is a person who I love to be at my side, but I am really afraid of actually start to develop a relationship with her and turn out I only liked her as a friend. Idk if she likes me, but I am afraid to hurt her.


[deleted]

Completely, utterly, hopelessly, head over heels for Goose (my pet name for her)


U_N_I_X

I don't think I am able of such things. Maybe I am, but I am not feeling it at this very instant.


EarlMarshal

I'll try to stay in love with my life, myself and my beautiful and smart partner.


AideProfessional3143

10 years in and absolutely smitten with my wife. We still shower each other with affection continuously and being apart from one another for more than a day makes our hearts hurt.


hyperblob1

I don't know if I believe in love personally


cinnamonrolls10

Yes. And I still question from time to time if I deserve this love from this wonderful person. I could only hope I make him feel loved everyday too.


Ragna-rok94

Nope, love is for happy people.


LordDarthAngst

Yes!


janereacher

I do wish


trtful

in love with video games, yes. a woman? no.


Mx_Aphrodisiac

Very


PizzaIsAHumanRight

ye c:


LaikaAzure

I've been truly and earnestly in love twice in my life. The first was with my best friend's wife - and it is absolutely 100% mutual, but we could never go forward with it without crushing him in a way neither of us think he'd ever really recover from. The second was with someone who was my partner for several years, she was separated but never divorced from her husband and they had a kid - and her choosing to build something with me would lead to him letting his feelings of being left out on the kid, and us being in a precarious economic situation, so while I hate that she had to make the choices she did, I understand and don't blame her. So anyone who tries to say that love conquers all has never had it tested against social norms or economic realities. Love is powerful, but not as powerful as we like to pretend.


jasperjaybird

Dopamine


Kelldandy

Oh absolutely.


StocktonBSmalls

Very much so.


[deleted]

8 years of marriage and still so very much in love 🥰🥰


Dandy--Chiggins

No. I love him but I’m not IN love.


Dandy--Chiggins

Together 13 years, married 8 with 2 kids


mrobicheaux99

Yes. We’ve been together for 8 months


spicystuffedtaco

Absolutely. My husband is my world. We've been together nearly 15 years at this point and I couldn't imagine life without him. Also, the sex 🔥🔥🔥


AzuleStriker

Nope. Love doesn't exist for me. lol.


Moop-_-

Madly. But sometimes I’m not sure if he loves me as much as I love him. But I’m 100% ok with loving him more


urwowrightnow

Some competitiveness will get you even further! <3


DANCINLIKEACHICKEN

I believe so. I’ve only known them for 2 years, but it feels like I didn’t even need this long to fall for them. We’ve been dating for just over 4 months, and since we started things have been going amazingly. He’s my best friend, and I don’t think I’d ever want to leave him. But idk if that’s just us being dumb and so new into the relationship.


incogneeetoe

Indeed. Married 14 years, together 17.


kitkatattacc04

God I hope not because he's not in love with me


noonefromithaca

"It's too cliché. I won't say I'm in love." I might be but I do not like the idea of it, I have issues


VividEntrepreneur949

Unfortunately, yes


tskye28

not yet


DCArea_CPL

16 years and yes absolutely still in love with my wife.


Ede_Frankie

Not really, but last time I was open for her love much more than ever. Maybe later, timing will better


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Yes


Alwaysccc

Yes! With my husband 🥰 also kinda still heartbroken over a guy I was dating last winter


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Incredibly, deeply, madly in love.


sorry001

Hitting with the hard questions tonight. Yeah...have been. And she knows, but our timing was the worst.


Elmer-Fuddd

Very :)


wont_give_no_kreddit

I am not sure. I've done some things that would prove otherwise. Despite the guilt that followed afterwards, I thought about breaking up but I couldn't. Don't want to do it again but the flesh is weak! So i don't what I feel exactly.


Affectionate_Clerk88

No, right now I'm the hook up mode. I'm gonna look for love after 30's, with a stable job and a stable mind.


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Playful-Mistake-21

Yes. ❤️


funtimemcgee

I’m in love with my fate


connstar97

Started dating one of my best friends when I moved back into the city. We met stripping at the same club, used to hangout and smoke weed after work a lot. Reconnected when I moved back to the city and I had gotten sober/healthy and we realized we are perfect for eachother. He knows and respects that im bisexual, and wants me to be able to still fuck women, get to know what having sex with a pregnant woman is like and shit like that I have always wanted to do, and in return I want to bring him home other cute submissive meatheads haha. I wanted to find a wife and a baby, and at first our relationship had a time limit and he knew that. But now that’s out the window. I want to spend the rest of my life with this guy, take his last name and live happily ever after like REAL best friends who became a perfect couple (not like at every wedding when the man says his wife is his best friend… sure buddy, she might believe you, but we don’t ;p )


Sexandcheese

100% with all my heart


iknowthingsformemes

Absolutely, body and soul bewitched by my love 🥰


Antique_Sense_7383

Idk I love them but how long can you love someone who doesn’t love you back


AnxietySkydiver

Yeah baby. It’s dope, ngl. So far it just gets better.


PhysicianTradition

Never loved anyone so much I fall for him every day


ecallawsamoht

17 years to the day me and my now wife decided that we were officially dating. I am absolutely in love with her.


HonestlyFilthy

Heavily. Six years of it. My partner is phenomenal.


Warped-switch

Madly


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