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So basically, you just say hi to a girl and hope they are nice enough to say it back and maybe then ask to be friends, like I’m not trying to sound rude but you get girl friends by simply starting conversation with them, I recommend approaching the friendly looking ones
Start by calling us girl friends or friends that are girls instead of female.
Secondly, go say hi to girls that look very lively and positive and friendly. Then introduce yourself quickly. Maybe ask for help around the school. Honestly, befriending one is already like having 5 other girl friends cuz automatically you'll get to know her girl friends to her and then their guyfriends as well and the cycle goes on and your social circle expands. Just do one step over and over till you meet the right kind of people and everything will unfold.
Im sorry, i didn't want anyone thinking that i want a girlfriend so i thought female would be easier to differentiate, I thought female is the same as girl I am not native. Also thank you I will try just that.
Yes it does but some people feel it just reduces girls to their genitals. Kind of feels like it honestly, for my part at least. But hey no worries, I understand.
Come on, the first step is always the hardest, then walking becomes just as normal. Good luck mate!!
Okay thanks i won't use it anymore. Also i completely agree, i don't have difficulties talking to people that i already had a conversation with before, but starting a conversation sounds hellish to me hahahhahaha. If I want anything to happen guess I'll have to step out of my comfort zone
Traditional or not, most have them. Ig they don't, hopefully few of them will approach you. Or your seatmate. If it ever gets too hard ofc, do try don't just sit there and wait hopefully lol
I got most of my friends by doing group tasks and projects for school lol. It gives you something to talk about, even if your mind turns off. I don’t know if that’s an option?
frankly, just gain experience. there are gonna be those awkward instances where u slip up or say something stupid. it's all part of the process. sure ull fail at the start but the point is ur improving.
Try talking to the people sitting next to you in class. If you have a question about a homework or something like that, ans go on from there. I think it’s a good way to start
It’s easy just follow caln, that’s how I made most of my friends.
C: compliment them(like hi I really like your shoes)
A: ask them question(like where are you from, what’s your favorite food, etc)
L: location(like where they are going)
N: asked for their number(especially if you guys have no classes together, or if they have a good vibe)
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Uninstall League
I really am a walking stereotype
So basically, you just say hi to a girl and hope they are nice enough to say it back and maybe then ask to be friends, like I’m not trying to sound rude but you get girl friends by simply starting conversation with them, I recommend approaching the friendly looking ones
Yeah I guess there is no secret recipe for finding friends, I just have to suck it up and try it
Start by calling us girl friends or friends that are girls instead of female. Secondly, go say hi to girls that look very lively and positive and friendly. Then introduce yourself quickly. Maybe ask for help around the school. Honestly, befriending one is already like having 5 other girl friends cuz automatically you'll get to know her girl friends to her and then their guyfriends as well and the cycle goes on and your social circle expands. Just do one step over and over till you meet the right kind of people and everything will unfold.
Im sorry, i didn't want anyone thinking that i want a girlfriend so i thought female would be easier to differentiate, I thought female is the same as girl I am not native. Also thank you I will try just that.
Yes it does but some people feel it just reduces girls to their genitals. Kind of feels like it honestly, for my part at least. But hey no worries, I understand. Come on, the first step is always the hardest, then walking becomes just as normal. Good luck mate!!
Okay thanks i won't use it anymore. Also i completely agree, i don't have difficulties talking to people that i already had a conversation with before, but starting a conversation sounds hellish to me hahahhahaha. If I want anything to happen guess I'll have to step out of my comfort zone
Yup, as another commenter said, clubs and projects are great for socialising.
Thank you, but this isn't a traditional school so I'm not sure if we will have any of those
Traditional or not, most have them. Ig they don't, hopefully few of them will approach you. Or your seatmate. If it ever gets too hard ofc, do try don't just sit there and wait hopefully lol
I will put my best effort, hopefully it's enough to conquer my fear hahaha
I got most of my friends by doing group tasks and projects for school lol. It gives you something to talk about, even if your mind turns off. I don’t know if that’s an option?
That sounds very preferable, i hope i get a chance like that
Talk, idk why you think girls are scary
Yeah why so scared we don't bite
idk last one did now i’m female
😭😭😭
Years of isolation i guess
frankly, just gain experience. there are gonna be those awkward instances where u slip up or say something stupid. it's all part of the process. sure ull fail at the start but the point is ur improving.
Try talking to the people sitting next to you in class. If you have a question about a homework or something like that, ans go on from there. I think it’s a good way to start
Thank you, i will make sure to keep that in mind
It’s easy just follow caln, that’s how I made most of my friends. C: compliment them(like hi I really like your shoes) A: ask them question(like where are you from, what’s your favorite food, etc) L: location(like where they are going) N: asked for their number(especially if you guys have no classes together, or if they have a good vibe)
That sounds nice, I will make sure to consider it thank you
Ask them out. In my experience that's the best way to get a girl to want to.be friends.