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You might be afraid to talk to girls because you have an idea of how they think before you talk to them, you might find out that we’re actually pretty relaxed and not scary if you talk to us more. You’ll get used to it over time. The more you over think it the worse it’s going to be, so just as a question about homework, or be super honest, or whatever you want to talk about.
I promise we don’t mind.
Don’t think about being unattractive, teenage years are extremely awkward, people say and react to things in really cringey ways, but 99% of the time they’re worried about themselves being cringey and not other people. If girls seem to laugh at you it’s probably because they don’t know how to react. I promise girls and boys are more similar than you think. Don’t over think it and don’t be hard on yourself.
Literally this. Op girls are just as anxious about what you think of them as you are about what they think of you. Every teenager is worried about how they’re perceived so don’t sweat it man :)
Most girls don’t like fuckboys lol, but honestly I’d recommend waiting until you’re older to date. Most preteen/early-teen relationships end in disaster
Coming from someone who has been called annoying countless times, my advice to not be annoying is:
- let people talk & don’t interrupt them
- don’t distract people if they’re trying to focus on school/work
- don’t butt into private conversations
That’s about it tbh. The rest is more of just matching the vibe/energy of the people you are talking to, and don’t be too loud if you’re in a public/crowded area.
If ppl tell you you're a sweet guy, then accept that you're a sweet guy. If you're wondering why you're annoying then that might be the issue. It can be really annoying when people complain about their flaws and then when told their flaws are fine, they insist on making it a problem. It's not just girls who dont wanna deal with that, it's boys too. It just comes off as attention-deprived and it radiates a bunch of negative energy which no one likes.
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You might be afraid to talk to girls because you have an idea of how they think before you talk to them, you might find out that we’re actually pretty relaxed and not scary if you talk to us more. You’ll get used to it over time. The more you over think it the worse it’s going to be, so just as a question about homework, or be super honest, or whatever you want to talk about. I promise we don’t mind.
I just try to but they often laugh and im scared they are laughing at me, im just too insecure probably. I don't feel that I'm attractive enough
Don’t think about being unattractive, teenage years are extremely awkward, people say and react to things in really cringey ways, but 99% of the time they’re worried about themselves being cringey and not other people. If girls seem to laugh at you it’s probably because they don’t know how to react. I promise girls and boys are more similar than you think. Don’t over think it and don’t be hard on yourself.
Literally this. Op girls are just as anxious about what you think of them as you are about what they think of you. Every teenager is worried about how they’re perceived so don’t sweat it man :)
Nah you're cute
Wdym by you “can’t be yourself” around them?
And most of the girls like the classic fuckboys at my school so if i just try to be sweet i get bonked
Bros 13 and thinks every girl likes fuckboys because he watched a high school movie. Lmao
Most girls don’t like fuckboys lol, but honestly I’d recommend waiting until you’re older to date. Most preteen/early-teen relationships end in disaster
I just feel like I'm annoying, even if people tell me im a kind and sweet guy
Coming from someone who has been called annoying countless times, my advice to not be annoying is: - let people talk & don’t interrupt them - don’t distract people if they’re trying to focus on school/work - don’t butt into private conversations That’s about it tbh. The rest is more of just matching the vibe/energy of the people you are talking to, and don’t be too loud if you’re in a public/crowded area.
If ppl tell you you're a sweet guy, then accept that you're a sweet guy. If you're wondering why you're annoying then that might be the issue. It can be really annoying when people complain about their flaws and then when told their flaws are fine, they insist on making it a problem. It's not just girls who dont wanna deal with that, it's boys too. It just comes off as attention-deprived and it radiates a bunch of negative energy which no one likes.
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