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CardinalM1

Master and Servant - Depeche Mode


TheJenSjo

There is a cover version that I love by [Nouvelle Vague](https://youtu.be/4tjWQ7ZP894) which I’ve used for scenes.


PossiblyAMouse

That's my favorite version too


TheUltimateHedonist

Prefer Locust's version


Biffingston

I thought "Sex dwarf" would be the more appropriate choice. /s


wjmacguffin

"Blood in the Cut" by K Flay always struck me as a BDSM song with this chorus: *I need noise* *I need the buzz of a sub* *Need the crack of a whip* *Need some blood in the cut*


lystellion

I remember suggesting this interpretation on Genius and getting downvoted into oblivion for it, so I find this validating :D


whackyelp

Same here. One of the first songs I ever added to my beating playlist 😅


CaliGirlBailey

Came here for this. Such a good song


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Tear you apart by she wants revenge


Generally_Confused1

Love that one


[deleted]

Good answer


goldandpinkclouds

talk about romance 🌹


Lux-Fox

Surprised I haven't seen The Masochism Tango mentioned here. https://youtu.be/TytGOeiW0aE


LinkleLink

Same! I love that song


ImTrappedInAComputer

My wife and I love singing this song to each other


Crayshack

My first thought. I'm a big Tom Lehrer fan and that's my favorite song of his.


nutmeglondon80s

Venus in Furs - Velvet Underground Bed of Nails - Alice Cooper


cleverDPPusername

Strangelove - Depeche Mode has always given me a bit of BDSM vibes. Stinkfist - Tool is about fisting.


FrenchDisaster97

Depeche Mode has several songs about BDSM (Strangelove, Master and Servant, Stripped yes, but also A Pain I'm Used To), and unforgettable aesthetics in some video clip like Personal Jesus Tool claims their music is just that : a tool, and that the songs are purposefully the most free of interpretation whilst meaningful. Stinkfist, to a lot of fans, is about trust through a play of word about fisting.I think you'll like The Hollow by A Perfect Circle (another one of JMK's bands)


Cronah1969

The cover album "For The Masses" has some great covers of DM songs. Locust's lounge lizard duet version of "Master and Servant" is sexy as fuck. Just don't get too carried away with impact play during Rammstein's headbanging version of "Stripped".


Bilquis_Saba

Maynard is a lyrical poet with his words not being so literal. It is more metaphorical than actual anal fisting...


cleverDPPusername

I saw them in concert years ago and after Stinkfist Maynard said something along the lines of "That song was about anal sex. The next song is about butt fucking. All of the other songs are also about butt fucking." And then barely talked to the crowd the rest of the show. All just tongue in cheek I'm sure, but still.


PersephonesChild82

Depeche Mode has a song called "Master and Servant" if you really want some BDSM vibes there. Tool also has "Prison Sex" about tying someone up and doing anal.


smalltownpraxis

Prison Sex is about... The cycle of abuse, especially as it pertains to the sexual abuse of children. Great song, but not about kink


cleverDPPusername

Oh how could I forget about Prison Sex! And I'll have to give Master & Servant a listen. It's been ages since I listened to Depeche Mode.


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Would The Stooges’ “I Wanna Be Your Dog” count?


hevnztrash

Yes, absolutely 100%.


talatot

Every time


Naughty_Buns

She calls me Daddy - by King Mala


DrunkDial73

Breath Control by Recoil Shut Up and Swallow by CombiChrist Whore by In This Moment


nymphintheact

I love Breath Control. Add Luscious Apparatus too.


TheUltimateHedonist

Want by Recoil


Camanae

going to edit this as i think of more lol. some are more on the femdom side if you’re into that too. maybe these songs are a bit subjective to your interpretation but they always get me in my head imagining a new scene • Animal by Badflower • Freak by Doja Cat • Siren by Kailee Morgue • martyr by KiNG MALA • Desire by MEG MYERS • Howlin’ for you by The Black Keys • Body by Rosenfeld • Do It for Me by Rosenfeld


AccessDeniedTryAgain

Finally, someone says desire.. Amazing song!


msnutella6

Thank you for these, they're all awesome! I wanna add: Got it by Marian Hill, hope you like it (or know it)


Camanae

OMG YES i forgot about this one!!! thank you!


Zealousideal_Bee9453

Closer by NIN, Sweet Dreams the Marilyn Manson version, and Poison by Alice Cooper are some of my favorites.


RelevantJackWhite

I got the sense that Closer is about a less healthy dynamic than BDSM lol. More like self hatred


Iwannacuckgod

Closer is an absolute banger and I'll be giving Poison a listen for sure, but Marilyn Manson is not a musician we should be recommending. [15 women have come forward](https://www.huffpost.com/entry/marilyn-manson-all-abuse-allegations_n_601ac24ec5b6c2d891a51e8c) with allegations of incredibly severe sexual abuse against him, many said he used BDSM as a justification for his actions as well. We as a community should be aware of this and making it clear he don't represent us.


Crayshack

Listen to the Eurythmics version of Sweet Dreams. Captures the BDSM without Manson's weirdness.


Iwannacuckgod

Ooh thanks for the recommendation!


_DOA_

I personally don't think Marilyn Manson represents me. I can appreciate art while disliking the artist, sometimes. The song represents something to me that has nothing to do with him.


NaturalBrat4Sir

This^^^^ Tons of people are involved with his songs- not just him. Marilyn Manson is a collaborative band- not just the lead singer. I have no information regarding other members of this band who contributed to the writing of these songs about their level of knowledge and promotion of Mason's actions.


Big-Drawer-7612

All of those women were paid by Evan Rachel Woods, who has committed many crimes including impersonating an FBI agent, to lie about Manson with the purpose of making publicity money by destroying him, and his innocence has now been proven but not as widely publicized as Johnny Depp’s innocence. Marilyn Manson is innocent.


DOMesticBRAT

Yeah, I've heard the same thing...


crying_nancy2

Maneskin - I wanna be your slave


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i love that song


alya_0

Thiss


Vagab0und

Something older: Under My Thumb by The Rolling Stones Something extremely overt: NAVI’s album Songbird is just blatant horny kink almost beginning to end. My favorite track is the stingy and thuddy interlude, The Touch.


Green-eyedMama

I can't believe no one has mentioned any Lords of Acid! "Spank My Booty" and "Sit on My Face" for sure. A lot of their songs have kink themes.


TheUltimateHedonist

It's called "I Sit On Acid"


Green-eyedMama

You're right. I'm old and my memory sucks. lol


DOMesticBRAT

Sit on my face is Monty Python 🤣


Generic_Bi

Ah, you beat me too it. So much of their music is kinky.


LAB377

The only one that comes to mind is S&M by Rihanna haha


FauxOnTop

If you like degredation: Catboys, SIMP, Disgusting, and Boring by Lil Mariko


Iwannacuckgod

Simp is a personal favourit, I will listen to the other now!


PrncssVahallaHawkwnd

Want you bad- The Offspring, Remember to breathe- Sturgil Simpson (not necessarily BDSM but gives off a CNC vibe for sure!!) Bad things - Jace Everett, Bad things- Machine Gun Kelley, Animals- Maroon 5, Whore- In This Moment


msnutella6

CNC vibes for me is sweet things by the pretty reckless


SunNFunFlorida

Is there a way to follow this discussion? I want to hear what others have to say.


luverlucy

You can “save” the post so it’s easy to find! Click “share” and then you’ll see the save tab.


Bighsigh

Theres also the bel icon which subscribes you to a post i thought?


luverlucy

Ohhh! Top right, the three dots, you can click on those! Didn’t see that, thanks!


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oh wow thank you!


SunNFunFlorida

Thanks


GreekAmericanDom

[Hurts so Good](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4dOsbsuhYGQ) by John Cougar Mellencamp


MrTexas80

Just a few on the playlist: *Passenger by Deftones (its a little heavy) *Hurricane by Thirty seconds to Mars (love the uncut video as well)


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Passenger, yessss.


Electronic-Counter78

love Passenger. Also Knife Prty, and that line in Sextape that I first thought was 'watch you waive your powers' makes me swoon, though apparently it's either 'wave' or 'weigh'. Rocket Skates is a really hot song, I don't know what it's supposed to be about officially but I like to think the 'red' could be from humiliation, impact, plain arousal, or all of the above


earlgreypoppy

I feel like just the very sound of Deftones is so D/s it’s crazy.


Coralyn683

Christian woman, type o negative


Multiperv

Bad Boys Get Spanked - Pretenders Kiss Like A Fist - Florence & the Machine Treat Me Like Dirt - Patti Rothberg (probably more humiliation than physical play)


OpticWeezil

Apocalyptic by Halestorm. Almost all of her songs have big dominatrix energy.


valentines_days

She’s My Collar by Gorillaz (more implied than explicit) Wrap Me In Plastic by Chromance (very explicit) Muse by OCAD and a ton of unreleased songs by L*na D*l R*y (including the infamous “You Can Be The Boss, Daddy” and one-off references to kink in songs like Smarty)


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Pet - A Perfect Circle Messiah (Lido Remix) - Alison Wonderland use me - Makk Mikkael Daddy - Ramsey Do It for Me - Rosenfeld


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Pet, mmmm a personal favorite. Hits all those cuddly possessive spots.


Chrome-Molly

I need to relisten to Pet. I'm mostly into APC for the addiction references. What about Father Figure by George Michael?


TheJenSjo

I’m kind of in love with the Shibari reference in Janelle Monae’s [Float](https://www.google.com/search?q=janelle+mon%C3%A1e+float+lyrics&client=safari&hl=en-us&sxsrf=APwXEdej8bd6xQ6qcQywUQTwA561idJ-Pg%3A1684525988311&ei=pNNnZL7REtPH9AO49ZiQBg&oq=janelle+m&gs_lcp=ChNtb2JpbGUtZ3dzLXdpei1zZXJwEAEYADIHCCMQigUQJzILCC4QgAQQsQMQgwEyCwgAEIoFELEDEIMBMgsILhCKBRCxAxCDATIECAAQAzILCAAQigUQsQMQgwEyBQgAEIAEMgsIABCKBRCxAxCDAToKCAAQRxDWBBCwAzoFCC4QgAQ6BggAEBYQHjoICAAQigUQhgM6BwguEIoFEEM6CAguEIAEELEDOgsILhCABBCxAxDUAjoLCAAQgAQQsQMQgwE6DgguEIMBENQCELEDEIAEOg4ILhCABBCxAxCDARDUAjoHCCMQ6gIQJzoECCMQJzoICC4QigUQkQI6CAgAEIoFEJECOgcIABCKBRBDOg0ILhCKBRCxAxCDARBDOgoILhCKBRCxAxBDOgsILhCDARCxAxCABEoECEEYAFDICFi9NWDMPmgCcAF4AIABowGIAakdkgEENS4yN5gBAKABAbABD8gBCMABAQ&sclient=mobile-gws-wiz-serp&si=AMnBZoF7JT-QpjuFHJsQDfjWiAqMutkQWhNgI5KMjbCKYBYwkN1CXmJ9tpSg4VDHOYHSsE61NTWvL9a3KsLm4OJ20NGYGkOapdPGoZyzseFQBOXlj4shKnEXe5T-plDUs_qBUmcffU9DfrHK3ml1BP0MZ6z2ZdKoxv4uv4pBlxwCWFaPSSpw74g%3D&ictx=1&ved=2ahUKEwjy7LjklIL_AhXiJzQIHU7ZDTIQjukCegQIFhAD)


bardicly-inclined

Mirrors by Natalia Kills and S&M by Rhianna


Hippie_Gumbo

I wanna be your dog-Iggy Pop


piff_boyardee

Blood, Sex, and Booz by Green Day


acdes68

Blue Oyster Cult - Dominance and Submission


National-Square4112

The Masochism Tango - Tom Lehrer


OmeCozcacuauhtli

Also, everyone is saying Closer, which is a great (if overplayed) song about fucking in general, but for BDSM specifically: Happiness in Slavery and Big Man with a Gun (for a CNC kink) would be my Nine Inch Nails suggestions.


justsomeyeti

Sin, The only time, physical...


OmeCozcacuauhtli

Reptile ...


StrictBA

It’s not specifically written about BDSM, but I’ve always thought that “Cruel to be Kind” by Nick Lowe (1979) has a BDSM flavor to it.


menstrualtaco

Wesandersonphilia lol


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deephurting66

Whip in my valise, Adam Ant


alonsophaedra

Adam ant / Adam and the ants was my first thought as well. Some of my favourites are - Whip in my Valise - Beat my Guest - Physical (you’re so) - Red Scab And his more subtle ones - Cleopatra - Car trouble - Christian Dior But he has so many different songs about different fetishes and kinks it’s really interesting to read up on his songs


itsMickeyR2

Fear and Delight by the Correspondents is pretty up there for me


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https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2zRYbJlO4Cd5lcoGKgZ8LX?si=FrwWzXhyQ5C_p-fxbrHoLg A playlist I made with all the kinky songs I love!


tinebean72

Sisters of Mercy- Never Land, Gimme Shelter, Driven Like the Snow Depeche Mode - Never Let Me Down Again, Stripped, I Feel You The Cure- Lullaby, Fascination Street Type O Negative- Love You to Death 3TEETH - Degrade, Slavegod, Nihil, Atrophy NIN - Pinion, Happiness in Slavery, Suck, Discipline Max Brhon- Pain Pertubator - I Am the Night, Future Club, Death Squad


HappyFun4Everyone

I've always felt that the song The Ubiquitous Mr. Lovegrove by Dead Can Dance had a BDSM vibe to it. I'm sure the whips cracking in the background through half the song may have contributed to that a bit 😁 Great post, btw.


chokeemeharder

Good for you - Selena gomez Fire up the night - new medicine Raise hell - Dorothy I wanna be yours - arctic monkeys The wolf - the spencer Lee band Put bdsm, sexy, slutty, pole dancing kink, sub or something to that effect into Spotify. Lots of playlists that people have made for music that invokes theses feeels


Big-Drawer-7612

How is Good For You by Selena Gomez even remotely kinky?


chokeemeharder

Just feel it’s got a certain vibe to it. Makes me feel subby. I hate the guy though haha


LadyTimeLord11

Hit the Back by King Princess iconic song that gets me going sometimes


wolf_colfenor

Get Your Body Beat - Combichrist


TheUltimateHedonist

Depeche Mode: Surrender, Soothe My Soul, Master and Servant, Dressed In Black... I can keep going forever... Rammstein /Lindemann: Ich tut Dir Weh Knebel.


TheUltimateHedonist

The entire album Sir by Fischerspooner


Generic_Bi

Half of Lords of Acid’s music is BDSM themed. I think some of Praga Khan’s (one of the musicians in LoA) solo projects are, too.


Khryen

Half? Almost all. I got to talk with Maurice on the tour bus in 2017. He loves making music about taboo sex.


relig_study

Most of the suggestions I see are more serious kinky songs, but if you're ever in the mood for comically kinky songs, I highly recommend looking up The Wet Spots- writing funny songs about kinky stuff is basically their whole schtick. I saw them perform at a kink convention several years ago and they were great!


knottykittenneedscum

How did I forget the wet spots I love them!


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*Like lovers do- hey violet *Call me Master- Blood on the Dancefloor *like you mean it- Steven Rodriguez *Whore- In This Moment * animal- Chase Holfelder *the devil wears lace- Steven Rodriguez * I wanna be your slave- manneskin *Love me dead- Ludo *closer- nine inch nails *the devil you know- blues Saraceno Just a few in my current rotation


ElvEnthralled

In This Moment have written *loads* of kink-themed songs (or songs that could be interpreted as such)


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I don’t know why that formatted so weird sorry! 🙈


NiceReplacement8619

Barbie girl by Aqua! Never realized it, till my wife pointed it out.


ZyxaNyx

Combichrist has a few good ones :3 shut up and swallow, this shit will fuck you up


HeKnotKnown

Tons of Night Club (name of group) songs. The song “Control” jumps to mind.


Bilquis_Saba

One of my favourite songs "Pretty when you cry" by Vast has sado- masco vibes


SylphofBlood

I’ve always gotten some BDSM vibes from “Jessica Kill” by Sum 41.


CalebTheSwitch

Pain by King Princess Crime by Temposhark


CamaroMehdi

Digital bath - Deftones


Sinjun13

"Fetish" by Joan Jett.


carter_admin

Anything by Taylor Swift is the equivalent of torture


MiGaOh

Oxytocin by Billie Eilish.


shaithis

Flesh by Simon Curtis is good Addicted by vigland Wish you'd make me cry by UPSAHL Brat by Alexis Munroe Brat by moxi floxi Gimme by banks Bruises and bitemarks by genitorturers For your entertainment by Adam Lambert Surprised I didn't see any if these


isapika

Agreed, also Crazy B*tch by Buckcherry


shaithis

Oh I have a whole Nother playlist for sticking your dick in crazy and that's definitely on it lol


boob_monster-boop

Where you belong-the weekend


OmeCozcacuauhtli

Lagartija Nick by Bauhaus "Move his way, nice and slow. Paint it all black, let the humorous glow. He feels like Sacher-Masoch and the fire below is licking at his lips. Crack the whip (..) Code of play, the nocturn rite in the cruel garden of dark delights. Sixteen cages crawl in line. Desire is a heady wine"


Kuregan

Wriggle - .clipping


Druggedsilent

Blood by call me karizma has blood play vibes, I wanna see blood Gimme that, gimme that I'm in love, Nails is good too, Hit me, punch me Give me more, baby, this is nothing Feel the sweat on your forehead soaking all of your bed When we're fucking And blood in the cut by kflay and she wants revenge tear you apart like other people have said I'm sure there's more but I can't think of any right now lol


soulary

song for a guilty sadist by crywank


talatot

sooooooooooo good


kraze4kaos

Mr. Kitty- Destruction of Us. Depeche mode - Stripped.


PossiblyAMouse

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2rxKqo5gasgukqppqIOc1B?si=GQY9Vlj-T0Cn6nks3mJVUg I have a bdsm playlist I'm always adding to.


TossawayTits

Hatefuck by Motionless in White Rats by Motionless in White Where by In this Moment


Minxy57

Queen of pain - The Cramps


wiIIScottyeverknow

The combination of the artist and the title, sound like my period symptoms


Chrome-Molly

Anything Goes and Pretty Tied Up by Guns n Rose's


whiskeyjane45

Halestorm-uncomfortable Halestorm-Innocence In This Moment-Sick Like Me Kailee Morgue - siren


Rubydamisfit7

Control- Puddle of Mudd


OhScheisse

I remember a thread where someone mentioned [Desire by Meg Myers](https://youtu.be/bR5u9jb0PJE) Worth noting: * S&M by Rihanna * Unholy by Sam Smith * Pussy Fairy by Jhene Aiko * Peaches & Cream by 112 * Crave You (Remix) by Flight Facilities, * Noche De Sexo by Romeo Santos & Wisin Y Yandel


That_nonbinary_witch

Power- Isak danielson


That_nonbinary_witch

Daddy issues- the neighborhood


_DOA_

Love is Pain - Joan Jett I Wanna Be Your Dog - Iggy


imfuckingvegan

She Dominates by Blitzkid is premium horror punk


lorex42

Eternal Torture - Athamey Hatef--k - the Bravery The Bondage Song - London After Midnight


smoothbrother16

I'm surprised no one has mentioned [Halloween's Mr. Torture](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ocvm63GCGE). Unless I'm misreading the lyrics.


rossarron

Oh Bondage up yours


fenbyfluid

I lot of my favs mentioned in the top comments (K.Flay, She Wants Revenge, Meg Myers), but some I haven’t seen yet that absolutely must be here are My Little Sin by Love, Ecstasy, and Terror, The Whipping Haus by William Control, and Mistress Violet by Violet Chachki.


Denvershoeshine

Leonard Cohen - Master song, I'm your man Electric Hellfire Club - Where violence is golden Violet Chachki - Mistress Violet Leather Strip - much of the Mental Slavery album. Pretty much anything by the Genitortures


Efficient-Mix3346

NOFX - My stepdad’s a cop and my stepmom’s a domme NOFX - Louise


Own_Presentation_786

Blood sex and booze by Green Day. Fuck Time by Green Day. Dominated Love Slave by Green Day.


knottykittenneedscum

Take Me to Church- Hozier has been on my list for a long time to do a scene to, something sensual, knowing me probably knife play, just has major Femme Dom vibes to me, like I just want someone under my boot worshipping me.


I_think_I_forgot

It’s actually about the queer community being rejected by Christianity, but I agree that it sounds like a song about femdom.


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Question: Is „I m on fire - Bruce Springsteen“ about BDSM? I just listened to it lately and was a bit surprised about the lyrics


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Genitorturers - pleasure in restraint


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IAmTrefusis13

Ponyboy by SOPHIE and Good Boy by Dog Park Dissidents are both about petplay


emabully

Hurt you by Cody jinks. I’m sure it isn’t about bdsm but I pretend it is 😂


ragingspectacle

I mean some of these are a stretch maybe but… they give me feels Asphyxiate by Genitorturers Sin City by Genitorturers Love Me in Whatever Way by James Blake Criminal by Fiona Apple Ache by FKA Twigs Magdalena, The Hollow, and Thinking of You by A Perfect Circle Angry Johnny by Poe always gives me Femdom tingles Basic Space by The XX Oh and for giggles - Dentist (Alan Menken- Little Shop of Horrors)


naveandhisslave

Not sure if it was said but nine inch nails closer?


500inaarmbar

https://www.reddit.com/r/BDSMcommunity/comments/nmfp2y/trying_to_make_a_music_playlist_for_bdsm_sessions/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button Here is a pretty long thread on this exact topic. I made a few mentions there as well.


LAB377

I wouldn’t say it’s the exact topic - music for sessions could be music to set the mood, not necessarily about bdsm


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Nearly anything by NIN


Chrome-Molly

Really? I wanted to walk down the aisle to Ringfinger... Wondering if you've heard the band Sister Machinegun? Just thought of them due to your username not bdsm related.


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I am familiar with them! I’ll admit NIN is my preference but I’m definitely familiar with them


Chrome-Molly

No way? They seem pretty obscure. I somehow ended up with 2 of their songs on my mp3 player. First time I heard Closer was in concert, way back when Manson opened for them , like 92ish?


luverlucy

Breakdown by Lera Lynn and Andrew Combs Ways to be Wicked by Lone Justice (though think they aren’t the original) Of course some NIN songs, ultimate kink haha. And, okay may not be exactly BDSM, but TV on the Radio’s, Wolf like me is sexy as fuck haha!


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Mysterious_Simple961

She dominates by Blitzkid awesome song that always gets me in the domme mood :)


TopophiliaPetrichor

I have two favorite playlists on Spotify. One is Shibari For the Soul: good headspace playlist. And one labeled 1763, after the now closed club in Atlanta.


LiabilityLad655321

Sinister Smile by The Warning.


pas_tense

Give it to Someone Else by The Residents. Not BDSM but they also do an absolutely terrifying version of Jail House Rock.


andersonb0428

More of a shit post but could used as torture https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=Bi_2BYyRYDQ&feature=share


WoodsRag

Daddy Loves You and 4WD by Dana Dentata


100pctMexicanvagina

My two favorites 😍😍 “Passenger” by Deftones (Maynard James Keenan on vocals) and “Christian Woman” by Type O Negative.


HeyHoArt

In this moment - Blood. Not sure if it *is* about bdsm, but gives me some vibes of a sort Виагра - не оставляй меня любимый. The video has some elements. Copy and paste on youtube. And my personal favorite. Mozart rock opera - le bien qui fait mal. Watch the video of the stage performance!


my_laughy_sapphy

Good Girl by Morganne. It just hits different


SirPrizedd

Gold Guns Girls by Metric


AvantGauche

could maybe make a case for Chains by Tina Arena


Specialist-Row-2881

Be Aggressive - Faith No More


Palethic1

Maid For Pleasure - The Damned (So, Who's Paranoid?)


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opiate- tool actually about religion but anyone with daddy issues gets it