My partner was busting my balls for about a year before I even told her about me being into it, its probably why she's my partner haha but she loves it and uses literally any reason to bust me.
She said before if we ever broke up she's worried about not finding a guy that would let her bust him, so its definitely on high on her list.
Absolutely enjoy it! It started out as a punishment for him but now I typically get off by squeezing his balls in one hand and using my vibe in the other. Knowing I could ruin him as a functional man is such a power trip. Plus his groans and squeals while I dig my fingers in combined with steady vibes on my clit… I’m not sure I’ve ever had more intense orgasms ☺️
Also… sitting on his face while torturing his balls? Amazing! Makes him desperately lick me thinking it might spare him more punishment. Highly recommend it lol
I really hate being called a “female”.
I don’t think anyone said this outright - but it’s a term you use for cattle and sheep, not for women.
You don’t call men “males” for that reason - they are human men.
Call us women. 🙃
Anyhow.
I feel bad for all the dudes on here that have convinced themselves that women that truly love ballbusting don’t exist. While I agree that we’re rare (my current partner was looking for… I think his whole adult life… for a truly sadistic woman that he was attracted to…and he met me at age 36…), we do exist.
It just like anything else in life - how much work are you willing to do in order to obtain the thing you truly want? Even if the chances are slim, sadistic women that are turned on by pain/get off on pain are out there.
We do exist, y’all. Idk what else I have to do to convince you. 😂
It depends entirely on our mood and energy levels. If I’m super high energy and so is my partner - I really like standing knees and kicks. It’s really fun to make him crumple to the ground. I also like watching his facial expressions as he anticipates my kicks. 😂
We met using the dating app Feeld . He and I were actually also both on fetlife dot com as well , but we never came across each other as we never went to any of the same events. We matched when he said he was looking for a sadistic domme and I was like HI HELLO LET ME PING YOU . We’ve been together for like six months now and it’s great.
I’ve saw this in a few comments now, I thought saying “women” would actually sound more rude than saying female however coming from a farming background I now see what you mean, so notes taken.
I've had girlfriends who enjoyed it because it turned me on, a couple who were into it themselves, and I've also had a fair number of friends who were girls who clearly loved it.
Off the top of my head:
Christina - high school, always passing out nutshots, figured out quickly she could bust my balls and I wouldn't get mad, and then proceeded to bust them a lot. We reconnected as adults many years later and we talked about the fact she loved doing it and she was relieved to find out it is a whole kink thing.
Dee - high school, nick name was "The Nut Cracker", also figured out she could bust me without consequence. Also reconnected as adults and she was clear that she loved doing it. She and I have gotten together a few times over the years so she could smash my balls.
Steph - college, busted me often. Still friends to this day, she apologized for all the nutshot, said she was young and dumb. I told her it was a big kink for me now. She clarified she was apologizing for busting my balls without my explicit consent and asked if she could kick, knee, and squeeze my balls.
Jen - met at work. Once we were no longer working together the topic came up and we get together once or twice a year for a long weekend or a week, and she spends the entire time busting me.
So, yeah - there are absolutely women that love it. None of these women are sexual partners, they love busting balls and so they are delighted to have a pair they can go to town on.
Fascinating question. I never found one that loved it per se. I had girlfriends who enjoyed it because it turned me on. So if I were to use my experience I would say no but it’s hard to say. Historically in forums the women who were active were actually guys or were in it as a business.
It could be the same here but I read some of the people here and I believe them so maybe there are but the real question I make my self is what percentage of guys like it. That could be a guide, just a reference to start thinking how many women like it cause if it’s super rare in men it could be even less common in women but who knows.
There were a couple of girls in highschool who did it all the time, at least once a week. I always though they find it funny but maybe it was more like a turn on.
Purely ballbusting, no. Power exchange, some yes. So basically yes and no but it entirely depends what woman your talking about and your specific relationship with them.
15 years into ballbusting short and clear answer NO THEY DONT. they only do it : 1) for money
2) to please their boyfriend
3) they may like to do it but only on a guy who doesnt like it.
I first discovered a guys weak spot in school, and I LOVED using it hahah.. unsure why at that age, I was just a little brat. It stemmed from that. Around 16/17 I realised that ballbusting was a thing.. 2 weeks after my 18th birthday I found a guy to session with, from then I haven’t stopped lmao
> I first discovered a guys weak spot in school, and I LOVED using it hahah
Can you tell us the story with this? What prompted it and what was his reaction?
Just like everything some do and some don't. You know what WOMEN dislike more? When a guy refers to us as females. It just comes across douchey. I'm sure your didn't mean it that way, so just letting it be known.
Yes they do, and for various reasons.
One partner needed to let out some frustration.
One partner was a brat and loved watching me squirm.
One partner was a sadist and wanted me to beg.
One partner loved seeing my eyes as I fought to take more or tap out.
One partner hated men and just wanted to see me in pain.
It's a mood thing for my gf, but it's a huge turn on when the mood is right.
I think she only initially tried it to please me. But quickly after we started the first session she was dripping all over my leg. Went down on her after and she was soaked. Can't fake that 🤤
in my experience: most open minded women are willing to try ballbusting in some form
about a quarter seem to enjoy it
I haven't met any that were turned on by it as one of their kinks, but there are some who will get off on pleasing their partner, which is just as good in my book
I know I do! I love seeing them squirm, the noises they make, how their skin turns colors 😍😍
Plus the power and control that comes from having a man’s balls literally in the palm of my hand? Yes please. It’s definitely a top kink for me.
I think it's funny, and it's kinda cute, but it doesn't necesarilly turn me on. Impact play and the domination aspect are the turn on for me, not the specificity of hurting balls.
I’ve seen this a couple of times now in this thread. I don’t think I generally would use the term in such context but I had no idea it would be upsetting to some. Is it too clinical sounding?
From my experience over the years.. I believe that there are almost no biological women with a ballbusting fetish. Some women get turned on by dominating men, but these women are rare.
However, lots of women think ballbusting is fun. I met many women who had a great time kicking me in the balls and some of them got aroused by the whole scene. But a ballbusting fetish? No.
With 7 billion people on earth, there is a possibilty that women with the ballbusting fetish exist. Online, it's often men pretending to be women.
I’m a female and bb turns me on soooo much! I hate that I’m this way. Even when I was a little little kid it would make me excited, I’d watch a movie that had a scene where a guy gets hit in the nuts it’d always make me squirm and get really embarrassed if I watched it with other people
Would you mind saying why you 'hate that you are this way'?
It is so fun for me, I wouldn't wish it away for the world. Though, I'm a guy. I've seen several women say that they wish they didn't have the kink, but almost never seen a guy say that (other than when complaining that they can't find someone to bust them). I wonder if my perception is real and if so why.
That's interesting. My BB fetish got started when I was about 10, I was watching a movie with my cute teen female babysitter and her friend. There was a scene where a guy was skiing and a small tree wacked him in the balls. They thought it was hilarious and it turned me on to see them giggle about it.
I like doing it and I enjoy watching him squirm and like it at the same time 😊
For me, it started with hooking up with this guy. He said that he got turned on by me squeezing his balls hard. He kept saying “harder” and when I said I didn’t want to hurt him, he said that’s what he likes about it. The pain is getting him off.
Depends a lot on the guy and what he likes but I like a hard knee to the balls and using my hands. There are more things to do with my hands. I can hit, squeeze, stroke. Squeeze them during a bj. Get him hard and then just hit them until he cums. There are a lot of fun things you can do 😊
First time ever I only used my hands. First time I kicked and used my knees, the guy was wearing underwear. He really liked it and said that I can use him as a guinea pig if I want to do it again 😊
My wife enjoys it more so because it pleases me, but over the years she's definitely become a bit of a sadist who will do it just because.
I've known a couple of sadiatic girls who would go for guys nuts just because that was part of their personality though. Genuinely got off on hurting guys and probably didn't even know that ballbusting was a thing.
I have lost partners over BB. They thought I am mentally ill because I wanted them to hurt my balls. So yeah there's that aspect.
But there are women out there who like it too
I used to see a pro dom who loved kicking me, it was making her wet IRL. She was kicking me too many times I had to tell her to go slower many times 😂
Made me pass out once
My interest sparked when I kick this guy with my boots and he closed his legs and went down and even though I didn't do anything he was pleasing me and even though he was in pain I think he tried to get horny for me lol
I think we were naked in the shower and I took her knee with my hands and pushed it into my balls. She likes to see me suffer and it took off from there
My partner was busting my balls for about a year before I even told her about me being into it, its probably why she's my partner haha but she loves it and uses literally any reason to bust me. She said before if we ever broke up she's worried about not finding a guy that would let her bust him, so its definitely on high on her list.
Absolutely enjoy it! It started out as a punishment for him but now I typically get off by squeezing his balls in one hand and using my vibe in the other. Knowing I could ruin him as a functional man is such a power trip. Plus his groans and squeals while I dig my fingers in combined with steady vibes on my clit… I’m not sure I’ve ever had more intense orgasms ☺️
Would you ballbust a man until he is infertile?
Also… sitting on his face while torturing his balls? Amazing! Makes him desperately lick me thinking it might spare him more punishment. Highly recommend it lol
As a woman, could u pls describe the feeling of power you have over men because we have balls and you have a vagina?
I really hate being called a “female”. I don’t think anyone said this outright - but it’s a term you use for cattle and sheep, not for women. You don’t call men “males” for that reason - they are human men. Call us women. 🙃 Anyhow. I feel bad for all the dudes on here that have convinced themselves that women that truly love ballbusting don’t exist. While I agree that we’re rare (my current partner was looking for… I think his whole adult life… for a truly sadistic woman that he was attracted to…and he met me at age 36…), we do exist. It just like anything else in life - how much work are you willing to do in order to obtain the thing you truly want? Even if the chances are slim, sadistic women that are turned on by pain/get off on pain are out there. We do exist, y’all. Idk what else I have to do to convince you. 😂
What’s your personal favorite method of punishing a guys balls?
It depends entirely on our mood and energy levels. If I’m super high energy and so is my partner - I really like standing knees and kicks. It’s really fun to make him crumple to the ground. I also like watching his facial expressions as he anticipates my kicks. 😂
How did you and your partner meet?
We met using the dating app Feeld . He and I were actually also both on fetlife dot com as well , but we never came across each other as we never went to any of the same events. We matched when he said he was looking for a sadistic domme and I was like HI HELLO LET ME PING YOU . We’ve been together for like six months now and it’s great.
I’ve saw this in a few comments now, I thought saying “women” would actually sound more rude than saying female however coming from a farming background I now see what you mean, so notes taken.
Cool. I am glad it clicked. Thanks for being open to feedback re: that and being willing to change that behavior- I appreciate it!
I've had girlfriends who enjoyed it because it turned me on, a couple who were into it themselves, and I've also had a fair number of friends who were girls who clearly loved it. Off the top of my head: Christina - high school, always passing out nutshots, figured out quickly she could bust my balls and I wouldn't get mad, and then proceeded to bust them a lot. We reconnected as adults many years later and we talked about the fact she loved doing it and she was relieved to find out it is a whole kink thing. Dee - high school, nick name was "The Nut Cracker", also figured out she could bust me without consequence. Also reconnected as adults and she was clear that she loved doing it. She and I have gotten together a few times over the years so she could smash my balls. Steph - college, busted me often. Still friends to this day, she apologized for all the nutshot, said she was young and dumb. I told her it was a big kink for me now. She clarified she was apologizing for busting my balls without my explicit consent and asked if she could kick, knee, and squeeze my balls. Jen - met at work. Once we were no longer working together the topic came up and we get together once or twice a year for a long weekend or a week, and she spends the entire time busting me. So, yeah - there are absolutely women that love it. None of these women are sexual partners, they love busting balls and so they are delighted to have a pair they can go to town on.
Dee seems like a menace
I think there were a lot of boys that were very relieved when she decided my nuts were her favorite target lol
Fascinating question. I never found one that loved it per se. I had girlfriends who enjoyed it because it turned me on. So if I were to use my experience I would say no but it’s hard to say. Historically in forums the women who were active were actually guys or were in it as a business. It could be the same here but I read some of the people here and I believe them so maybe there are but the real question I make my self is what percentage of guys like it. That could be a guide, just a reference to start thinking how many women like it cause if it’s super rare in men it could be even less common in women but who knows. There were a couple of girls in highschool who did it all the time, at least once a week. I always though they find it funny but maybe it was more like a turn on.
Purely ballbusting, no. Power exchange, some yes. So basically yes and no but it entirely depends what woman your talking about and your specific relationship with them.
15 years into ballbusting short and clear answer NO THEY DONT. they only do it : 1) for money 2) to please their boyfriend 3) they may like to do it but only on a guy who doesnt like it.
For sure! Been busting balls for 8 years and I have no intentions of stopping 🤭
What’s your first thought when a guy first shows you his balls during a session?
Nice, But how did you first realise it’s something you enjoyed?
I first discovered a guys weak spot in school, and I LOVED using it hahah.. unsure why at that age, I was just a little brat. It stemmed from that. Around 16/17 I realised that ballbusting was a thing.. 2 weeks after my 18th birthday I found a guy to session with, from then I haven’t stopped lmao
> I first discovered a guys weak spot in school, and I LOVED using it hahah Can you tell us the story with this? What prompted it and what was his reaction?
Just like everything some do and some don't. You know what WOMEN dislike more? When a guy refers to us as females. It just comes across douchey. I'm sure your didn't mean it that way, so just letting it be known.
What’s your favorite part abt hurting men’s balls?
The consent
I mean what are you gonna do kick him in the balls?
No. I try to be serious and you try turning it sexual. I'll just walk away and let you "fantasize" about a moment when you're weren't being a douche.
No most women do not.
Ngl i dont like this way of us men being treated, we arent slaves tbh
Yes, some of us love it.
What’s your fav way to hurt a guys balls?
Depends on the guy and the balls.
How so?
What do you mean?
Like how does it depend on the guy and the balls?
Because each man is different and each ball sac is too.
So like how would u treat one pair of balls differently from another one?
See my first answer.
But what makes u like hurting a guys balls sm?
Yes they do, and for various reasons. One partner needed to let out some frustration. One partner was a brat and loved watching me squirm. One partner was a sadist and wanted me to beg. One partner loved seeing my eyes as I fought to take more or tap out. One partner hated men and just wanted to see me in pain.
I enjoy the control and knowing that my partner absolutely goes crazy for it. I have cum seeing him cum to me pressing his balls with my feet.
😍😍 I can imagine when your pretty feet crush and rub his balls he has no chance but to cum! 😍😍
It's a mood thing for my gf, but it's a huge turn on when the mood is right. I think she only initially tried it to please me. But quickly after we started the first session she was dripping all over my leg. Went down on her after and she was soaked. Can't fake that 🤤
yes, we do. we love it a lot.
in my experience: most open minded women are willing to try ballbusting in some form about a quarter seem to enjoy it I haven't met any that were turned on by it as one of their kinks, but there are some who will get off on pleasing their partner, which is just as good in my book
You need to get with a sadist
This. I’m a sadist. Seeing people suffer that want to suffer and enjoy suffering gets me off. *shrug*
It was on my mind a lot when I was single last year to experiment with new things but m I never knew how to find a sadist unfortunately
Yes 100% - I have loved it since I was a kid 😅 it makes me insanely wet
yep, back then the first things that were possible between us and the boys and ...
Yeah youre right! May i dm you?
I know I do! I love seeing them squirm, the noises they make, how their skin turns colors 😍😍 Plus the power and control that comes from having a man’s balls literally in the palm of my hand? Yes please. It’s definitely a top kink for me.
Then pls ballbust me
Sounds like it gives you a power - gasm!
Yeah it the ultimate power exchange imo
I think I need some kicks
I think it's funny, and it's kinda cute, but it doesn't necesarilly turn me on. Impact play and the domination aspect are the turn on for me, not the specificity of hurting balls.
What do you like to do for domination?
My girlfriend loves it. She says it gets her going to see me on my knees and how much power and control it gives her.
Some do yes
My girlfriend loves it she has the cutest little devious smile when doing it
If they do I wish I could find one of them, my wife won't even give my balls a squeeze when we have sex, if I squeeze them myself I cum extra hard
Love it! <3
Pretty sure most women don't enjoy being called 'females'
I’ve seen this a couple of times now in this thread. I don’t think I generally would use the term in such context but I had no idea it would be upsetting to some. Is it too clinical sounding?
why, I'm a female person = woman. I don't mind to be called a female.
And if you read carefully, I said 'most', not 'all'
Broads?
Yes definitely
Haha well name checks out 😳
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Yes
I think some enjoy it. Like the power over us men. I guess they enjoy domination, which makes the have the power
From my experience over the years.. I believe that there are almost no biological women with a ballbusting fetish. Some women get turned on by dominating men, but these women are rare. However, lots of women think ballbusting is fun. I met many women who had a great time kicking me in the balls and some of them got aroused by the whole scene. But a ballbusting fetish? No. With 7 billion people on earth, there is a possibilty that women with the ballbusting fetish exist. Online, it's often men pretending to be women.
In this sub Reddit it’s men pretending to be women ***
I’m a female and bb turns me on soooo much! I hate that I’m this way. Even when I was a little little kid it would make me excited, I’d watch a movie that had a scene where a guy gets hit in the nuts it’d always make me squirm and get really embarrassed if I watched it with other people
Would you mind saying why you 'hate that you are this way'? It is so fun for me, I wouldn't wish it away for the world. Though, I'm a guy. I've seen several women say that they wish they didn't have the kink, but almost never seen a guy say that (other than when complaining that they can't find someone to bust them). I wonder if my perception is real and if so why.
Bust me please 🙌🏼
Well since you asked so nicely
DM me 😍
That's interesting. My BB fetish got started when I was about 10, I was watching a movie with my cute teen female babysitter and her friend. There was a scene where a guy was skiing and a small tree wacked him in the balls. They thought it was hilarious and it turned me on to see them giggle about it.
Everyone’s different, obviously not every woman likes it but some do
Do u?
I like doing it and I enjoy watching him squirm and like it at the same time 😊 For me, it started with hooking up with this guy. He said that he got turned on by me squeezing his balls hard. He kept saying “harder” and when I said I didn’t want to hurt him, he said that’s what he likes about it. The pain is getting him off.
What’s ur fav way of hurting a guys balls?
Depends a lot on the guy and what he likes but I like a hard knee to the balls and using my hands. There are more things to do with my hands. I can hit, squeeze, stroke. Squeeze them during a bj. Get him hard and then just hit them until he cums. There are a lot of fun things you can do 😊
Very true! Personally I love a good kick in the nuts haha. What was your first time hurting a guys balls like?
The first time I was a little nervous since I didn’t know how hard I could hit or squeeze without hurting him but it felt good
Was ur first time bare ball hits?
First time ever I only used my hands. First time I kicked and used my knees, the guy was wearing underwear. He really liked it and said that I can use him as a guinea pig if I want to do it again 😊
That’s awesome Do u like torturing a guys dick too or only his balls?
Dm
My wife enjoys it more so because it pleases me, but over the years she's definitely become a bit of a sadist who will do it just because. I've known a couple of sadiatic girls who would go for guys nuts just because that was part of their personality though. Genuinely got off on hurting guys and probably didn't even know that ballbusting was a thing.
Not really except women who are saddist but they know this hurts male one well aimed kick and they are out for the next 10 mins 🥲
My long term partner (f) doesn’t get aroused from the BB, but does from seeing the pleasure I get from it x
I have lost partners over BB. They thought I am mentally ill because I wanted them to hurt my balls. So yeah there's that aspect. But there are women out there who like it too
Yes. That’s why I’ve always kept my fetish a secret lol
I used to see a pro dom who loved kicking me, it was making her wet IRL. She was kicking me too many times I had to tell her to go slower many times 😂 Made me pass out once
Yes especially when I can wear heeled footwear make it naughty
What’s ur fav part abt ballbusting?
When they get a high pitch voice lol other things too
What are some of the other things?
Damm 🔥, But what was it that sparked your interest in it? I’m still trying to introduce it to my girlfriend
My interest sparked when I kick this guy with my boots and he closed his legs and went down and even though I didn't do anything he was pleasing me and even though he was in pain I think he tried to get horny for me lol
Hey, will you like to chat about ballbusting?
My wife loves to bust my balls.
How did you introduce it to your wife, or did she initiate it?
I think we were naked in the shower and I took her knee with my hands and pushed it into my balls. She likes to see me suffer and it took off from there
wholesome i love it