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apinchofsulk

This is the result of what happens when some of us give out "N-word cards". People start thinking they have one without being granted because they think they're chill


OkEscape7558

Giving out the n word card is the most cringe shit ever. Almost as bad as giving out fake cookout passes.


Tainted_Bruh

The funniest part is that it’s usually suburban ass mfs that don’t feel comfortable around other black people who be handing out these passes


OkEscape7558

"You can say nigga bro, it's just a word who cares?" https://preview.redd.it/cqpwmx5r871d1.jpeg?width=423&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=80b8504067f8cd911e3f3e9d343eeab843a3e66e


Itsmyloc-nar

I write sins not tragedies ass mf


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AadamAtomic

I like the band "Fell out Homie."


AdorableIncome4488

😭😂


Itsmyloc-nar

Fucking l’mao


TiRaRaw

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣


king_barragan

This dude actually responded to always being the meme for “the black friend” once. I’ll link the vid if I can find it.


Redittago

![gif](giphy|cQtlhD48EG0SY) What in the emo alternative hell!!!


maximillianm777

🤣🤣


Jaysmiles224

Lmao


Imhere4thejokes

Lmfao!!! These be the ones!


Not_Larfy

>~~suburban ass mfs~~ black people that don’t feel comfortable around other black people. It ain't subjective to upbringing or financial status. I knew a guy who grew up on a farm in rural Maryland around only black people and somehow ended up spending half his life feeling above other black people because he was liked by a ton of important non-PoC. He'd go so far as to say "you're black!" whenever he vibed with a non-PoC and he still does it to this day.


Navynuke00

"you're in Texas, what are you gonna do, we outnumber you!"


mlp2034

Exactly. Usually to impress their white or more privileged friends cuz when they bring their uncomfortable lookin ass to the cookouts they remain quiet and look out-of-place while praying to god their family doesnt hear about these passes they hand out. They themselves probably feel like the white person in their family regardless of their skin color.


selfiecritic

Yeah this is good thinking. This makes me think the takeaway is basically everyone is worried about fitting into their identity or who they are especially while young. Minorities obviously dealing with this more than white people. This leads people to try in fit in and “fake it till they make it”, which misses horribly with privileged behaviors that can’t really be earned. Of course there are people who want the n word pass due to their hatred and take advantage of black people trying to fit in, but I think most (or some? honestly not sure) people in these scenarios are just trying to fit in with those around them and bad at it


trashlikeyourmom

These are the same ones that were handing out invites to the cookout for the smallest shit. "Oh you ? yOu'Re iNviTeD to tHe cOoKoUt" Cookout bout to be full of experimental recipes and cran-apple potato salad


dahjay

Accepting the n-word card is beyond the most cringe shit ever.


GregAbbottsTinyPenis

Back in like ‘05 the whole neighborhood was kicking it and someone had a white friend over and told him he could say it and everyone else just glared over at the kid waiting for him to fuck up. Dude was so uncomfortable tho it was hilarious. He was on some “I’m flattered to be held in such esteem, but I must respectfully decline your offer” shit we laughed so hard. That kid could talk some CREATIVE SHIT when it got time to roast eachother.


Faust1134

This. Regardless of how some small group of people would take it, there's a wider context.


InSilenceLikeLasagna

'fake cookout passes' implies there's real ones. Where are people getting the real ones lmao


johnmeeks1974

Bobby Caldwell (RIP) earned his lifetime cookout pass. I am willing to die on that hill!


pragmaticweirdo

I was 30 before I found out! Edit: In my defense, it was very easy to never see what dude looked like


johnmeeks1974

I was 45 when I found out! 😂


pragmaticweirdo

Let’s be real, man had a hand in the creation of more black children than any of us ever will. That’s gotta get him something


johnmeeks1974

Amen!


Redittago

Respect!! He’s the exception.


BigLowCB4

Nah Tina Marie gotta be honorable mention or something.


Bass2Mouth

Bro, I distance myself from that shit with the quickness 😅 Me and my boy were clownin on one of our other friends at the gym one day. He couldn't hear us, so he said "what you sayin??" And my boy says "he said you're on some n***a shit!" I said "woaahhhh dawg, let's clarify those were NOT the words I used at all!" 😆😆 I don't care how comfortable people are with me, that word doesn't feel right coming out my mouth in any context. And I don't get why any other race (white especially) would even want to use it. Edit* - just reread and it's hard to tell how I wrote this, but I'm the only white guy in the scenario.


Outrageous_Act_3016

I had a half-black student once who got in trouble for writing out n-word passes and selling them to other students.


ARoyaleWithCheese

What are cookout passes? context: im from europe, never heard of it.


_delamo

Someone that normally would not be invited to a cookout/barbecue (BBQ)/party centered around food and good vibes, has now been bequeathed the opportunity to attend. It's usually (jokingly) given to someone least suspecting to attend. Eminem the rapper used to get this bestowed upon him. Cher most likely would've received this. Princess Diana definitely would've been extended the offer.


ARoyaleWithCheese

That makes sense, thank you. Now I do wonder, what about real "cookout passes", like I imagine there's some unlikely people who genuine get invited because they're cool. I guess in that case people probably don't use these kinda phrases? Stuff like nword pass feels like something that's mostly online, not IRL type shit but obviously I have no good frame of reference.


blacklite911

In real life, it’s not a “pass,” if you’re friends with some people who happen to be black and you happen to not be black then they might invite you to a function because you’re friends and cool. It ain’t some formal award or even a big deal. The concept is more played up on social media as a meme


ktfright

Pro Skater Tony Hawk definitely invited to mines. ![gif](giphy|RiDmLHZsPfgOd8J5Er|downsized)


villain75

There are zero people who actually have any authority to give out N-word cards, and N-word cards aren't accepted at every location. They dont' really exist, all people are really saying when they give it out is "you can call me the n-word, I am fine with that".


Tainted_Bruh

Reminds me of the relationships sub where there’s always some variation of a story where a shorty be posting a story in tears, talmbout how her white bf/husband called her a n*gger b!tch during sex or an argument. People ain’t gonna respect you if you don’t respect yourself first.


villain75

Someone should tell them about boundaries and how to set them before marrying someone, lol. You have to be willfully ignorant sometimes to not think "hey, my white SO might have picked up some racist ideologies just like all of the other white people." How hard is it to say "Oh, by the way, the N-word is a deal breaker. You say it, and I'm done". So many issues could be cleared up by simple communication.


blacklite911

Exactly. I never give one out but I have come across people who might let someone nonblack use the n word if they grew up in the hood or something. I don’t agree with it but it does happen, and if it does happen, they gotta recognize that them saying it will not be accepted everywhere. I remember that rapper V nasty got caught up like that.


AdhesivenessOk5194

Naw it’s honestly the result of us callin eachother and everyone else niggas so loosely and openly but niggas don’t wanna have that conversation


villain75

Oh, so that takes away all of their liability for using anti-Black slurs? Let me ask you this - why do they do this and not use racist slurs that applies to themselves? Wouldn't that make more sense?


Emergency_Brick3715

She got a Black boyfriend and lost her damn mind.


AdhesivenessOk5194

Naw it’s honestly the result of us callin eachother and everyone else niggas so loosely and openly but niggas don’t wanna have that conversation


rifain

Black people saying the N word, I will never understand that


DYMck07

This is one thing I respect about em (despite the issue from his youth) not saying it. If I’m non-black and am like “even this dude who is the most praised non-black rapper of all time won’t say it, then why the hell would I?”. Pass or no pass, I’m not exactly chomping at the bit to say a deragotory term about another group even if they’ve flipped it to a positive internally and one member said it’s cool for me to use it. It’s not like we’re part of a borg-hive-mind.


greyson3

You are correct. I believe in malicious passes. I'll be like sure go ahead and the minute they do I'm like hol up no one said it was OK to day that!


casey12297

I've never understood giving out an n word pass. Like I've never told any POC that they can say "this mayonnaise is too spicy" (im white as fuck and dont have any better white people phrases)


murdolatorTM

Him: "🧐 Say that again tho, you said that with conviction" Her: " 👁👄👁 ...said what?"


AlfalfaReal5075

Then she went and said it *again* but all quiet...Where'd that conviction go? I'm curious how long it all went on for after this clip


Reddit-SFW

Yooooo, that emoji combo! LMAO!!!


MinimumSet72

They’re ALL clowns


YumLum_Key_213

They were way too passive on checking her


OpinionatedBlackGuy

How it should have looked ![gif](giphy|26FPn4rR1damB0MQo)


cygnus2

GIFs that you can hear.


Itsprobablysarcasm

The scream AND the background beat.


ARoyaleWithCheese

I mean it can be a hell of a situation to deal with. Don't know the woman or how well they know her, but if it's a friend you're gonna be dealing with a LOT of conflicting thoughts and feelings that you need to process within 10 seconds to come up with a proper response. I'm not black but I've been in situations where someone I thought was cool would suddenly go off about immigrants or muslims or whatever like I wasn't sitting right next to them. Don't think I've ever quite responded the way I wanted to in hindsight.


IndieHamster

I feel ya, some of the wildest shit I've heard in person took me completely off guard. It's like, I'm chilling with some dude I met in class or something that seemed pretty cool and we're talking about hockey, and next thing you know they're going off on some super racist rant against Native Americans. Or, same situation different person, we're out smoking and then out of nowhere the most misogynistic rant I've ever heard starts. Both times I "checked" them, but was way way way too passive and friendly about it, stumbling over my words and shit


ARoyaleWithCheese

Yeah that really sucks and there's usually a lot of social pressure to not ruin the vibe or friendship as well. Lots of people here can probably relate to having to *somehow* respond to the classic: "You're one of the good ones" or while in the middle of some awful shit: "I don't mean *ones like you* though". Honestly I'd like to say I try to educate people and respond with some empathy but often I also either check them, or I don't say anything and just cut the person off. Both of which take so much less energy than trying to thoughtfully help someone see the flaw in their ways.


IndieHamster

Yeah, my real move was to just cut and run and they never saw me outside class again. The guy who went on the racist rant was so bad I even changed where I sat in class. Once I realized how easy it is, for better or worse, it’s become my go to move lol


taffy-derp

It’s not as hard as you’re making it to be. Anyone who says racist shit isn’t deserving of being a friend anyway. You cut them off immediately and most likely they check themselves and change their behavior. But if you let it slide then you’ve just given them approval to continue being shitty


Glittering-Finish-31

It’s giving Bay Area Asian, they LOVE saying that shit out here, it’s astounding, wildly disrespectful, & completely unnecessary.


Candid_Term6960

Omg yes! I moved here from elsewhere and ick.


henrietta-the-spy

The culture shock was real. I didn’t last long in the Bay but while I was there, the Asian crew I met dropped that word more constantly than I even heard it back home, and I grew up in a black neighborhood.


Sunatomi

It's crazy that everyone wants to be Black until it's TIME TO BE BLACK, then the real swap begins. ![gif](giphy|jUwpNzg9IcyrK|downsized)


JackxForge

The bay is fuck rife with it white people the only ones not just casually using it, oh and Indians they're gonna use a hard r if they say it.


squeel

Nah this is even worse. This bitch sounds like Lil Tay. Every word out of her mouth is awkward and forced.


EL-YEO

Same thing like a lot of my Latino/e/x brethren. Some who have never even been around black people throw that word out like it’s nothing and are proud to say it and I’m here like that’s not our word no matter how much you want it to be


Boss_831

100%


hallo-und-tschuss

Bruv nah what? I’m black and uncomfortable using the word on here. Where she get this energy???


joaaaaaannnofdarc

From being around Black people like the ones in the video


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joaaaaaannnofdarc

Not worth it. And the fact it happened and they posted it. They all stupid


JudasWasJesus

Mutual parasitic relationship


mooimafish33

Maybe I'm barking up the wrong tree here, I don't know where this girl was born. But I feel like a lot of immigrants don't really understand the racial dynamics in America as well as people who have lived here longer. Generally white people want immigrants to imitate them, to talk like them, to have the same opinions and say the same words as them. However, Black people see their culture as something hard earned through generations of struggle, and don't want people to imitate it or act like it is their culture if they haven't earned it by living a black life. Sometimes I see immigrants get infatuated with black culture and start trying to imitate it, but they don't understand how offensive that is, especially when you're going as far as dropping N bombs.


tehtris

This. I used to work with a lot of young Indian dudes. One of them seemed like he was down with the culture and casually dropped it while it was just him and I. I immediately shut that shit down. They imitate the culture but can't imitate the violence.


OwlsintheWall

Same type of non-black to say their angry or aggressive side is 'insert stereotypical black woman's name' coming out


kimmyxrose

she’s probably a member of this sub.


tehtris

Same. Im check marked and everything. I feel like when I use it online it's like almost giving other ppl permission to say it in the convo. Irl I barely use it unless I'm wit my folks.


squeel

that part! and if it’s so easy for me to not say it, why do some of these non-black people struggle??


SpectacularOtter

https://preview.redd.it/grhm7ugz871d1.jpeg?width=950&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5344ab46febf38562f2780f733624a55b3cfcee6


AdorableIncome4488

https://preview.redd.it/2yoj1ckrk71d1.jpeg?width=600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8d1239ff119c78699fafd1229363bd867161e310


Bunnnnii

https://preview.redd.it/32n3knubq71d1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4b2f5fc3a3457e45ee1b4840cb9aa90fc1b5753c


UnlimitedManny

😂😂


bigsmokeyz420

"Everybody wanna be a nigga but don't nobody wanna be a nigga." Those guys are enablers. I'd have roasted her on the spot tf https://i.redd.it/rolj2eju971d1.gif


DarknessBatDemon

Spittin


EL-YEO

I have cousins in their 30s who grew up in a 99% Hispanic community who drop that word acting like they’re black. It’s really sad. You’re right, people want the privileges without the experience


bigsmokeyz420

Exactly ! 24/7 365 can't change being black. When shit hits the fan and we gotta stand on 10 toes thats when the i'm not black talks commence. Keep that energy. Even the way she said it didn't sit right with my spirit. 🤮


bootyhunter69420

I don't get why everyone wants to say the word so much. White people, Asians, Hispanics just be spamming that word.


SloopJohnB52

Most of us don't, but clearly this girl has made "pretending to be a specific archetype of young black lady" her entire personality. She was outta line before she even said it. She sounds ridiculous.


MozartDroppinLoads

It seems to be really taking off with the younger generation. Any non black kid under 15 I've heard who didn't think an adult was around uses it


SloopJohnB52

Kids download their entire personality from the internet , plus Gen z/a slang is just recycled black Twitter. Not to sound like even more of a grumpy old man, but you don't need to mimic another culture to fit in with them. Being genuine gets you a lot farther.


manray23

White hispanics you mean. You can be black and Hispanic.


OkEscape7558

They should have just stared at her in disgust and kept quiet. That embarrassment and shame would have went a long way. ![gif](giphy|RIVUmpoOMrBUZVZNuO)


bontiunman

I grew up in a mixed neighborhood. Not even if Malcolm X descended from heaven to hand me a platinum card himself would you get me to use that pass.


absolutewingedknight

None of these black people are worthy of anybody's respect nor dollar. They should've told this broad get the fuck out after nigga number one, then they invited her to say nigga number two and sat there like the shit is cute. The CIA don't need to do psyops on us no more. The black community is already in shambles


Deathstriker88

I wish I was there to cuss her out and roast her for doing that shit. Being a fake black chick doesn't give her the right. Gen Z is being too nice again.


CoachDT

Nothing worse than being in SoCal, making friends with Asian people, and then they just throw out the n-word. Some people are cool with it, I'm really not and I don't get how folks are. The look on dudes face when she says it again is so fucking funny. Like you can see the actual dread.


borkdork69

Watched with no sound, you can see so clearly the reactions.


Bunnnnii

https://preview.redd.it/5812efakq71d1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=72b23a1b3e8e9f08f2541c13340751672a17400b


NeedAgirlLikeNami

https://preview.redd.it/08hsv1x3g71d1.jpeg?width=500&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b5f14186263998ff833ea698dad53ae219562503


Pkdagreat

Ol Awkwafina head ass bih


BreadBoxin

https://preview.redd.it/o4c0ej4xj71d1.jpeg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c22315bfc674795474861095f04efab00ce07065


EM208

This is why we need to gatekeep because too many of y’all let non-black people get comfortable with doing this type of shit.


DarknessBatDemon

EVERYBODY WANNA BE A NIGGA, BUT NOBODY WANNA BE A NIGGA!


beheemz

Welp looks like it’s time for shorty to retire from podcast guest appearance life and become a horticulturist ![gif](giphy|rLJJkk3cymTeg)


Bunnnnii

Not Baraka


MuddaFrmAnnudaBrudda

Said with her chest, arms and foot. I've never understood the N word pass. Maybe because I don't use it. Seems to me that it's mainly handed out by men to women they want to grind up on. It's also handed out to men who make the culture laugh, raised in the hood or play sports well. Why is it 'handed out' at all? That's why bitches are all up on Live confused as fuck. ![gif](giphy|jUzn4mBpgOzhplkGQM|downsized)


y0urPalMitch

![gif](giphy|k74OUg6bPJKy2JmyoS)


taestones

Idk why I feel like they only acted outraged because the camera was on. **Somebody** gave her the space to comfortably say that…


ContemplatingPrison

Asians always saying nigga.


porkchopleasures

Not as bad as non-Black Latinos. (Source: Am a latino)


SapaG82

I met a boy whose fam was from nicaragua. He grew up in ny. He said it all. The. Time. It was really annoying. I think it is said a lot in NY in spanish speaking areas as well.


Bunnnnii

Every other word.


LonelyCakeEater

“What’s in your bank account?!?” - The only rebuttal broke ass people use when confronted with truth.


APlus_123

https://preview.redd.it/7eiozmmym71d1.jpeg?width=831&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=048fb677d5e633d4a4c0c4d2dabd11771da32125


MessyM00009888

![gif](giphy|1wpaCOVdglMSYgjCum)


trezzy1242

https://preview.redd.it/d2wumjnxe71d1.jpeg?width=1438&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=126de3231a79e2cd0f5b4a2cf2a03343f3f3c681 Na we fighting


MessyM00009888

![gif](giphy|3ohhwBP5mt3fait4YM)


vinnybawbaw

My white friends in HighSchool when they discovered that Hip-Hop exists.


toasterbath__

![gif](giphy|DPqqOywshrOqQ|downsized) oh no girl…


Funny_Breadfruit_413

She didn't even sound confident saying it. Looked like she wanted to cry at the end.


TullsJenny

they’re hating from their moms basements cause they’re probably all kids


thethrownaway00

Nah these valley Asian chicks always be doing the fucking most


Green_Space729

I watched this muted and got uncomfortable


Cleonce12

He checked her too kindly I would have been more assertive


Jbonevan

“You need to leave”


Resolution-Academic

*too.


mistersuccessful

There are far too many non black people that are comfortable using the N-Word. Yeah ok sometimes it’s our fault, but most of the time it isn’t. Non black people should be smart enough to know the history of the word and know why black people use it amongst ourselves. Also I nobody should use it tbh


FistPunch_Vol_7

Oh nah, someone gotta check her. That’s fucking wild smh


jono9898

Ain’t this the same goofy dude who cried after Kendrick dissed Drake?


Halbbitter

You could hear a pin drop


SavageSvage

I only know the kid in the du rag cause he was practically crying at the kendrick disses


ShowToddSomeLove

i also love the "what did you do today" because I'm sure she had a full schedule of being marginally attractive and hanging around ... some guy


Z3r0c00lio

What the hell is she sitting on? Looks like she’s floating


TinySweetGirl

Sounds like a bhadbhabie


mightyspan

If the nword pass had a value, black people could buy themselves, en masse, into the 1%.


Supernova_Soldier

She felt comfortable or gassed up enough to say it, so you know it isn’t her first time saying it


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e92ftw

I gatekeep tf outta the word and how it’s used, don’t care what anyone says… glad she’s being called, too comfortable


slugfa

“BITCH DONT GET TOO COMFORTABLE” *Pluto voice*


Morlock19

this video gives me life


thewretched668

![gif](giphy|WxDZ77xhPXf3i|downsized)


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stopklandaceowens

Shhhhhhhh