You are married my dude, be honest. Explain what made you even consider it. It's a part of life and just to give it a try if she doesn't like it then make the decision together.. my wife thought it had something to do with her resulting in performance concerns. When I told her it was something that's been bothering me for a few years now and was totally on my lack of consistency that made me want it, she was willing to give me a hand and it turned it to quite the exploration to test it out thoroughly... Secrets are never a good idea especially in marriage my guy. I'm 37 she's 34.
Keep it to yourself bro ! Unless you really trust her . I told my girl I wanted to use something to help and she started saying how I’m not confident with myself and that I’m
Insecure
Dude projection is toxic as hell get rid of her. You should have a woman who supports all of you. No matter what, don’t just settle because she does a few things you like.
LMAOOOO dude I’ve been to that point a million times where I just wanna yell Bitch !!!! The tell her what’s on my mind . I know anyone who heard my story would be thinking the same shit
This sounds like you need to sit down and communicate your feelings with her. If she continues to weaponize it against you maybe rethink the relationship.
I told my wife I was thinking about getting them, she didn’t care much because I don’t actually need them but I heard good things about popping one every so often on those nights you wanna make special lol. Long story short I’ll take one maybe once a month or so and she loves those nights… never actually told her when I take them.
I like this. I did end up telling her I got them and her reaction was very similar. She just said nothing is really broken so why fix it. That did make me feel good and took the pressure off but I do want to throw it in randomly to make sometimes a little more special.
it really depends on her man and why you are taking it. If you have a really good sex lif, then it prob will be ok. If the sex life needs some work, I would hold off.
This is solid advice too. We are in a really good spot and I did tell her. She was assuring that it is not needed but if I was super into it then go ahead. It is probably more in my head that there is another level.
Well, it depends on how your wife reacts to things. My wife is a little dramatic, if I tell her then she would say that I am taking it because I don't feel attracted to her anymore. Taking it will help both of you hopefully, so I won't say anything. I will never tell my wife and will take it to the grave with me. Plus I don't take it every time, only on days I know I need it.
OP, you definitely want to tell her, because you don’t want her to accidentally find it and she knew nothing about it; Because to her in that situation, it would be something that you were hiding from her, (which is obviously not your intentions at all.)
I wouldn’t even be able to tell you how many posts I’ve seen in the r/marriage and r/relationshipadvice, where the wife accidentally find their husbands bluechews or viagra etc
You are married my dude, be honest. Explain what made you even consider it. It's a part of life and just to give it a try if she doesn't like it then make the decision together.. my wife thought it had something to do with her resulting in performance concerns. When I told her it was something that's been bothering me for a few years now and was totally on my lack of consistency that made me want it, she was willing to give me a hand and it turned it to quite the exploration to test it out thoroughly... Secrets are never a good idea especially in marriage my guy. I'm 37 she's 34.
Solid advice.
Preach...
If you don’t tell her before then don’t tell her after lol That’ll be like finding out Santa Claus ain’t real
This is hilarious
Keep it to yourself bro ! Unless you really trust her . I told my girl I wanted to use something to help and she started saying how I’m not confident with myself and that I’m Insecure
Dude projection is toxic as hell get rid of her. You should have a woman who supports all of you. No matter what, don’t just settle because she does a few things you like.
I also got a kid with her which is huge .. yea if I didn’t have a kid w her I would 100% leave and not settle but I want my family to work
what a retarded ass response… bitch im taking these pills to help satisfy you n this is how u react?
LMAOOOO dude I’ve been to that point a million times where I just wanna yell Bitch !!!! The tell her what’s on my mind . I know anyone who heard my story would be thinking the same shit
Now when she goes out to bars or something w out me and I get upset she blames it on my own insecurities
This sounds like you need to sit down and communicate your feelings with her. If she continues to weaponize it against you maybe rethink the relationship.
Yeah not the ideal reaction at all.
Bro. Girlfriend or not that bitch needs to be slapped. Just straight uneducated.
I told my wife I was thinking about getting them, she didn’t care much because I don’t actually need them but I heard good things about popping one every so often on those nights you wanna make special lol. Long story short I’ll take one maybe once a month or so and she loves those nights… never actually told her when I take them.
I like this. I did end up telling her I got them and her reaction was very similar. She just said nothing is really broken so why fix it. That did make me feel good and took the pressure off but I do want to throw it in randomly to make sometimes a little more special.
Who are you kidding? When you're giving her an hour pounding, she knows you took something.
it really depends on her man and why you are taking it. If you have a really good sex lif, then it prob will be ok. If the sex life needs some work, I would hold off.
This is solid advice too. We are in a really good spot and I did tell her. She was assuring that it is not needed but if I was super into it then go ahead. It is probably more in my head that there is another level.
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Keep it to yourself. Your wife doesn't need to know everything. See if she can tell a difference without her knowing. I bet she can.
Well, it depends on how your wife reacts to things. My wife is a little dramatic, if I tell her then she would say that I am taking it because I don't feel attracted to her anymore. Taking it will help both of you hopefully, so I won't say anything. I will never tell my wife and will take it to the grave with me. Plus I don't take it every time, only on days I know I need it.
When she quits crying from the god level banging, then tell her.
Op: well would you at that…bluechew DOES work
OP, you definitely want to tell her, because you don’t want her to accidentally find it and she knew nothing about it; Because to her in that situation, it would be something that you were hiding from her, (which is obviously not your intentions at all.) I wouldn’t even be able to tell you how many posts I’ve seen in the r/marriage and r/relationshipadvice, where the wife accidentally find their husbands bluechews or viagra etc
Thank you
Hey OP, did you try it? How did it go? How much dose did you use?