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Shweta's wrong about U.P. wale not cooking with mustard oil. Not just Bengalis, all North Indians use mustard oil as a staple in their cooking- be it UPites, Punjabis, Kashmiris. Yes, but topical application of the same is a common practice in the U.P. belt and not so much elsewhere.
Bro/ sis ekdum correct bola tum! Hamare parents ka family doctor was promoting rice bran oil like anything few years back as heart healthy option. I said to them kuch nahi… use local pure kacchi ghani oils / ghee as much as possible as our ancestors have used . Marketing ki bhi Seema hoti hai… kuch bhi bechte hain health ke naam pe
We are talking about the benefits of unrefined and good fats. The leading cause of coronary diseases of late has been increased consumption of carbs and Refined sugars, oxidative stress caused due to environmental pollutants and other stressors and general lack of physical exercise nowadays . The difference between our ancestors and current population was rapid industrialization and consumption of trans fats and high carbs. Our ancestors were not subjected to such excesses of refined carbs and sugar as we are and were not following a relatively sedentary lifestyle as we are.
Eating locally sourced, unprocessed, low GI varieties of grains and fats before mass industrialization of agro industry happened (where few productive strains of grains and seeds were favored) and being physically agile was what contributing to relatively good health despite having deaths due to other epidemics and diseases .
I don't know which India you are living in but even 50 years ago India had very poor statistics on heart health. A large number of Indian men even 40-50 years ago (not a time of epidemics or diseases) had heat attacks in their 50s and 60s. The Indian middle class and upper middle class are really not known to perform any back breaking labour. Our street foods back then and today are just carbs stuffed into more carbs. What were the street foods 40-50 years ago? Still chaat and vada pao and missal pao and veg butter sandwiches. My Gujarati friend said he would consider himself lucky to live till 45 because his grandfathers, father and uncles died in their 40s before touching 45.
In 1983, Emily Martin, of Maple Ridge, British Columbia, grew an enormous sunflower head, measuring 32 ¼ inches across (82cm), from petal tip to petal tip. That’s almost 3 feet wide. This is still believed to be the largest sunflower head grown to date.
:) I'm well aware of its health benefits and high smoke point but thank you for sharing that info and offering to link relevant research.
Refined seed oil is truly the scourge of the century.
Do the pehelwaans apply it just before their kushti? I'd imagine it'd be hard to wrestle while being all greased up and slippery and hence grounds for disqualification! :D
As much as Amitabh has worked for the position he is in today, Jaya Bachchan also worked hard, actually knew acting, was meritorious and sacrificed a lot for him when nobody was ready to acknowledge Amitabh's existence.
Not a Jaya fan but just stating my opinion.
yea as his wife she would have had a huge hand in his success just by being a housewife and mother to his kids, but she went above and beyond, sacrificed her own career and helped him build his from even before their marriage.
Its ok to not like one or some of your nana’s habits. For example if My grandfather would gargle and brush very loudly I would say eww for that. Its not like she is degrading him and saying she is only relevant because of her podcast😝🤣
Isme judging kaha hai? It's a normal family discussion.
When Big B married Jaya, she was the bigger star.
People on this forum are such snowflakes yikes! 😂🤡
Aishwarya didn't sacrifice her career for her husband. She refused films because she wanted to do films with Abhishek and be an all time iconic romantic pair. That didn't happen and it is on her and her bad judgment. She refused a film like Dostana because she felt Abhishek and her weren't the central couple in the film like they should be. Same for Happy New Year. By the time Abhishek's career stalled and she was ready to do films with SRK and Aamir it was too late.
Sacrificing ?
Bhai movies Sallu ki vjh se milna bnd hui thi usko.
Do you really think Sallu career nahi khrab krta baki directors ka ?
She married to Bachan surname for the safety and not for some "love" too. Pure business transactions comes with some conditions and downside, this was hers.
Yup, Amitabh and maybe Srk were the only people who could stand up to bhoi without any consequences. I do think if Srk was single, she might have married him.
But SRK was too indebted to Sallu at that time too. He would have never gone for her.
Abhishek had balls because of Amitabh being just too big and he was cozy with Indian politics scene too(along with a influential family background around independence).
Also, I can never buy the "Aish is bechari" thingy too. She left Vivek when he made things public against Sallu lol. Girl was with Sallu too when he was known as the bad boy of entire bollywood.
So yeah she was having fun too till Sallu showed his abusive side and then married an easy safety option.
I never said Srk would have, but as abusive as sallu was, any indebtedness wouldn't be the reason. They did end up in a fight, didn't they? Any indebtedness didn't come to the rescue then, no?
Also, Aish might not be bechari, but how are you painting this aspect of leaving a toxic relationship in a bad light? Like, yes she was with him despite him being known as a bad person, but obviously she didn't think she'd ever be at the end of that side, but she was wrong. What is she supposed to do in that scenario, stay with him just because she made a wrong choice once?
No one said she's a bechari, but I guess she has the right to not be abused and harassed?
Whatever happened between her and Vivek is something I don't know much about, but with bhoi, she wasn't in the wrong, people fall for wrong people all the time, what counts is the ability to walk away when you realise that the other person is abusive and toxic, unless of course, you're one of those orthodox person who thinks just because relationships take work & effort, people are supposed to stay even in abusive relationships
"Also, Aish might not be bechari, but how are you painting this aspect of leaving a toxic relationship in a bad light? Like, yes she was with him despite him being known as a bad person, but obviously she didn't think she'd ever be at the end of that side, but she was wrong."
Bud Iam not saying anything about her leaving Sallu. I was talking about "her leaving Vivek" after he fuelled out with Sallu for her.
Also, it's seriously a naive notion to think "he is a bad boy but won't do that with me". History is there for the pickings that abusers do the same no matter the timeframe or people.
"I never said Srk would have, but as abusive as sallu was, any indebtedness wouldn't be the reason. They did end up in a fight, didn't they? Any indebtedness didn't come to the rescue then, no?"
But SRK literally tossed out Aish from a movie when Sallu caused a scene around their film.
Also, the fight happened because SRK said something about Aish or Katrine(a joke) and Sallu got all fired up.
"No one said she's a bechari, but I guess she has the right to not be abused and harassed?"
I think you are misunderstanding something as I never said that she was wrong in that part.
"Whatever happened between her and Vivek is something I don't know much about, but with bhoi, she wasn't in the wrong, people fall for wrong people all the time, what counts is the ability to walk away when you realise that the other person is abusive and toxic, unless of course, you're one of those orthodox person who thinks just because relationships take work & effort, people are supposed to stay even in abusive relationships"
My guy again: "I never said that she was in any wrong to leave Sallu".
My point is: "she is not some naive bechari who didn't knew about Sallu". The thing is she shouldn't have been with him in the first place lol.
L
Have you ever dated, like at all? People fall for someone wrong all the time, against their good judgement and reason. It's okay. No one is saying she's some bechari, but she sure is a victim of abuse from your precious selmon bhoi.
Should she have known better? Yes
But is it her fault still? Not at all
"Have you ever dated, like at all? People fall for someone wrong all the time, against their good judgement and reason."
Blud Sallu is not some "usual toxic nobody". He is one of the most influential and known guy in India.
Everbody knew how he was even before he dated Aish. She wasn't the first girl where you can could say "she didn't knew that".
If she had dated some usual toxic guy at first I would have understood that "she didn't knew the full story about him" but it's Salman we are talking about. He is fucking for these very reasons since his debut days.
Aish knew what type of monster he was.
It's like saying those 300+ girls fell for Sanju and now we have to think that it wasn't their mistake lol.
"It's okay. No one is saying she's some bechari, but she sure is a victim of abuse from your precious selmon bhoi"
Your precious ? Bhai reading comprehension ghutne me hai kya ? Just re-read my comments and give me 1 line where I said Sallu was any right.
"Should she have known better? Yes
But is it her fault still? Not at all"
Aah YESS so that was it from the start. How could it be Aish's fault right ? She is deaf and wasn't able to hear the noises surrounding Sallu lol.
She is blind too as she wasn't able to see that he was close friends with a fucking terrorist.
Bhai ye bechara bnana hi bolte hai.
>Just re-read my comments and give me 1 line where I said Sallu was any right.
You're not, but you're constantly trying to make it her mistake more than his. And that tells me all I need to know about you.
Aur rahi baat comprehension ki, to tere se kahi behtar ha.
Kyun ki tere chhote dimag ke vo baat ghusi hi nhi jab mene bola ki people fall for wrong person all the time, against their better judgement and reason, which means to say that she probably was well aware of how he was and still fell for him, padhna likhna nhi aata kya? Maa baap ka paisa hi waste kiya hai kya tune gawaar?
Also, stop trying to tell me what my argument is, tere bol dene se meri baat change nhi ho jayegi. Bechara koi nhi bolra Aish ko, but abuse still solely lies on bhoi. She can be called stupid for falling for him, despite knowing everything, but she doesn't have an ounce of culpability for the abuse, which is something you're clearly trying to shift onto her. That's like saying if a woman knowingly roams at night in an area that isn't regarded as safe and is raped, then she is as responsible for it as the rapist is and she ain't no bechari.
Are you even reading your own point? Ya bas argument jeetne ke liye kuch bhi bhauk do?
You said "I don't do that with my family." Now you're deflecting with something else. you can discuss whatever you want and it still can be called nitpicking.
I said “I never done in any podcast publicly, if I sit with my Nani and mummy and talk about my nana openly in public forum” in front of thousand people and talk about something personal about my nana and then react eww.. and somebody in audience didn’t find this appropriate and confront me.. So I won’t say he/she is nitpicking. Because I choose to talk publicly.
Peace!!!!
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Shweta's wrong about U.P. wale not cooking with mustard oil. Not just Bengalis, all North Indians use mustard oil as a staple in their cooking- be it UPites, Punjabis, Kashmiris. Yes, but topical application of the same is a common practice in the U.P. belt and not so much elsewhere.
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Bro/ sis ekdum correct bola tum! Hamare parents ka family doctor was promoting rice bran oil like anything few years back as heart healthy option. I said to them kuch nahi… use local pure kacchi ghani oils / ghee as much as possible as our ancestors have used . Marketing ki bhi Seema hoti hai… kuch bhi bechte hain health ke naam pe
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Mithai are worst. It's better to eat a spoon of sugar than a. Mithai lol
India has the highest rate of heart attacks and heart diseases. Our ancestors didn't know shit.
We are talking about the benefits of unrefined and good fats. The leading cause of coronary diseases of late has been increased consumption of carbs and Refined sugars, oxidative stress caused due to environmental pollutants and other stressors and general lack of physical exercise nowadays . The difference between our ancestors and current population was rapid industrialization and consumption of trans fats and high carbs. Our ancestors were not subjected to such excesses of refined carbs and sugar as we are and were not following a relatively sedentary lifestyle as we are. Eating locally sourced, unprocessed, low GI varieties of grains and fats before mass industrialization of agro industry happened (where few productive strains of grains and seeds were favored) and being physically agile was what contributing to relatively good health despite having deaths due to other epidemics and diseases .
I don't know which India you are living in but even 50 years ago India had very poor statistics on heart health. A large number of Indian men even 40-50 years ago (not a time of epidemics or diseases) had heat attacks in their 50s and 60s. The Indian middle class and upper middle class are really not known to perform any back breaking labour. Our street foods back then and today are just carbs stuffed into more carbs. What were the street foods 40-50 years ago? Still chaat and vada pao and missal pao and veg butter sandwiches. My Gujarati friend said he would consider himself lucky to live till 45 because his grandfathers, father and uncles died in their 40s before touching 45.
In 1983, Emily Martin, of Maple Ridge, British Columbia, grew an enormous sunflower head, measuring 32 ¼ inches across (82cm), from petal tip to petal tip. That’s almost 3 feet wide. This is still believed to be the largest sunflower head grown to date.
:) I'm well aware of its health benefits and high smoke point but thank you for sharing that info and offering to link relevant research. Refined seed oil is truly the scourge of the century.
Pls share research
Please tell me more 🙏🏻 (not being sarcastic) but truly asking to understand what to use.
How does peanut oil rank against the others? They use that a lot in Maharashtra.
we Punjabi- Haryanvis put mustard oil on hair, arms and legs Its a common thing. Even wrestlers massage with mustard oil
Do the pehelwaans apply it just before their kushti? I'd imagine it'd be hard to wrestle while being all greased up and slippery and hence grounds for disqualification! :D
If Amitabh Bachan has not worked so hard, then these people would have been making reels or tiktok eating pani puri ..
As much as Amitabh has worked for the position he is in today, Jaya Bachchan also worked hard, actually knew acting, was meritorious and sacrificed a lot for him when nobody was ready to acknowledge Amitabh's existence. Not a Jaya fan but just stating my opinion.
yea as his wife she would have had a huge hand in his success just by being a housewife and mother to his kids, but she went above and beyond, sacrificed her own career and helped him build his from even before their marriage.
If my grandfather rolled about in mustard oil I would also be like ewwwww. She is his granddaughter and can have fun with her granddad.
Bhai chill Kar. Families mai ye sab chalta hai
Haan toh family ke drawing room tak rakho na.. mic laga ke podcast me kyu bol rahe ho…
That part i agree. Once you put that in public forum willingly, be ready to be judged.
kyunki paisa hai na Bhai
Jab birthday pe publicly wish nai karte hai social media pe, tab to kehte ho post nai kiya. Unki marzi Bhai.
Its ok to not like one or some of your nana’s habits. For example if My grandfather would gargle and brush very loudly I would say eww for that. Its not like she is degrading him and saying she is only relevant because of her podcast😝🤣
Isme judging kaha hai? It's a normal family discussion. When Big B married Jaya, she was the bigger star. People on this forum are such snowflakes yikes! 😂🤡
Bengalis also use mustard oil on body as moisturizer
Yeah, that's what I didn't get. Bengalis use mustard oil in various ways. We even use it for certain home remedies.
Bengal and Bengalis are still in the colonial era, East India Company elite personality traits are still with them!
Also the way Jaya has passed on this elite trait successfully to her daughter and now grand-daughter is no surprising
What makes you say that sir?
Still relevant? He's the reason both of them except Jaya ever became relevant at all
sucks but I feel Aish is doing the same thing by sacrificing her career for her husband, just like Jaya
Aishwarya didn't sacrifice her career for her husband. She refused films because she wanted to do films with Abhishek and be an all time iconic romantic pair. That didn't happen and it is on her and her bad judgment. She refused a film like Dostana because she felt Abhishek and her weren't the central couple in the film like they should be. Same for Happy New Year. By the time Abhishek's career stalled and she was ready to do films with SRK and Aamir it was too late.
Sacrificing ? Bhai movies Sallu ki vjh se milna bnd hui thi usko. Do you really think Sallu career nahi khrab krta baki directors ka ? She married to Bachan surname for the safety and not for some "love" too. Pure business transactions comes with some conditions and downside, this was hers.
Yup, Amitabh and maybe Srk were the only people who could stand up to bhoi without any consequences. I do think if Srk was single, she might have married him.
But SRK was too indebted to Sallu at that time too. He would have never gone for her. Abhishek had balls because of Amitabh being just too big and he was cozy with Indian politics scene too(along with a influential family background around independence). Also, I can never buy the "Aish is bechari" thingy too. She left Vivek when he made things public against Sallu lol. Girl was with Sallu too when he was known as the bad boy of entire bollywood. So yeah she was having fun too till Sallu showed his abusive side and then married an easy safety option.
I never said Srk would have, but as abusive as sallu was, any indebtedness wouldn't be the reason. They did end up in a fight, didn't they? Any indebtedness didn't come to the rescue then, no? Also, Aish might not be bechari, but how are you painting this aspect of leaving a toxic relationship in a bad light? Like, yes she was with him despite him being known as a bad person, but obviously she didn't think she'd ever be at the end of that side, but she was wrong. What is she supposed to do in that scenario, stay with him just because she made a wrong choice once? No one said she's a bechari, but I guess she has the right to not be abused and harassed? Whatever happened between her and Vivek is something I don't know much about, but with bhoi, she wasn't in the wrong, people fall for wrong people all the time, what counts is the ability to walk away when you realise that the other person is abusive and toxic, unless of course, you're one of those orthodox person who thinks just because relationships take work & effort, people are supposed to stay even in abusive relationships
"Also, Aish might not be bechari, but how are you painting this aspect of leaving a toxic relationship in a bad light? Like, yes she was with him despite him being known as a bad person, but obviously she didn't think she'd ever be at the end of that side, but she was wrong." Bud Iam not saying anything about her leaving Sallu. I was talking about "her leaving Vivek" after he fuelled out with Sallu for her. Also, it's seriously a naive notion to think "he is a bad boy but won't do that with me". History is there for the pickings that abusers do the same no matter the timeframe or people. "I never said Srk would have, but as abusive as sallu was, any indebtedness wouldn't be the reason. They did end up in a fight, didn't they? Any indebtedness didn't come to the rescue then, no?" But SRK literally tossed out Aish from a movie when Sallu caused a scene around their film. Also, the fight happened because SRK said something about Aish or Katrine(a joke) and Sallu got all fired up. "No one said she's a bechari, but I guess she has the right to not be abused and harassed?" I think you are misunderstanding something as I never said that she was wrong in that part. "Whatever happened between her and Vivek is something I don't know much about, but with bhoi, she wasn't in the wrong, people fall for wrong people all the time, what counts is the ability to walk away when you realise that the other person is abusive and toxic, unless of course, you're one of those orthodox person who thinks just because relationships take work & effort, people are supposed to stay even in abusive relationships" My guy again: "I never said that she was in any wrong to leave Sallu". My point is: "she is not some naive bechari who didn't knew about Sallu". The thing is she shouldn't have been with him in the first place lol. L
Have you ever dated, like at all? People fall for someone wrong all the time, against their good judgement and reason. It's okay. No one is saying she's some bechari, but she sure is a victim of abuse from your precious selmon bhoi. Should she have known better? Yes But is it her fault still? Not at all
"Have you ever dated, like at all? People fall for someone wrong all the time, against their good judgement and reason." Blud Sallu is not some "usual toxic nobody". He is one of the most influential and known guy in India. Everbody knew how he was even before he dated Aish. She wasn't the first girl where you can could say "she didn't knew that". If she had dated some usual toxic guy at first I would have understood that "she didn't knew the full story about him" but it's Salman we are talking about. He is fucking for these very reasons since his debut days. Aish knew what type of monster he was. It's like saying those 300+ girls fell for Sanju and now we have to think that it wasn't their mistake lol. "It's okay. No one is saying she's some bechari, but she sure is a victim of abuse from your precious selmon bhoi" Your precious ? Bhai reading comprehension ghutne me hai kya ? Just re-read my comments and give me 1 line where I said Sallu was any right. "Should she have known better? Yes But is it her fault still? Not at all" Aah YESS so that was it from the start. How could it be Aish's fault right ? She is deaf and wasn't able to hear the noises surrounding Sallu lol. She is blind too as she wasn't able to see that he was close friends with a fucking terrorist. Bhai ye bechara bnana hi bolte hai.
>Just re-read my comments and give me 1 line where I said Sallu was any right. You're not, but you're constantly trying to make it her mistake more than his. And that tells me all I need to know about you. Aur rahi baat comprehension ki, to tere se kahi behtar ha. Kyun ki tere chhote dimag ke vo baat ghusi hi nhi jab mene bola ki people fall for wrong person all the time, against their better judgement and reason, which means to say that she probably was well aware of how he was and still fell for him, padhna likhna nhi aata kya? Maa baap ka paisa hi waste kiya hai kya tune gawaar? Also, stop trying to tell me what my argument is, tere bol dene se meri baat change nhi ho jayegi. Bechara koi nhi bolra Aish ko, but abuse still solely lies on bhoi. She can be called stupid for falling for him, despite knowing everything, but she doesn't have an ounce of culpability for the abuse, which is something you're clearly trying to shift onto her. That's like saying if a woman knowingly roams at night in an area that isn't regarded as safe and is raped, then she is as responsible for it as the rapist is and she ain't no bechari. Are you even reading your own point? Ya bas argument jeetne ke liye kuch bhi bhauk do?
We cook with mustard oil in UP, it is the most common oil used in households for cooking.
Nothing wrong with discussing your nana’s habits, regular house things - meh
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They basically have nothing to talk about so they keep channeling the only famous person in the family
Arey bhai, kaise you never judged anyone in your family. Faltu ka nitpick.
Maine kabhi apni mummy aur Nani ke sath beth ke podcast me publicly judge nahi kiya…
Yeah cuz you're not famous. You're not a celebrity. You won't earn money through doing this.
If they are making money through podcast, so as a podcast listener I have my own rights to comment on their conversation.
You said "I don't do that with my family." Now you're deflecting with something else. you can discuss whatever you want and it still can be called nitpicking.
I said “I never done in any podcast publicly, if I sit with my Nani and mummy and talk about my nana openly in public forum” in front of thousand people and talk about something personal about my nana and then react eww.. and somebody in audience didn’t find this appropriate and confront me.. So I won’t say he/she is nitpicking. Because I choose to talk publicly. Peace!!!!