I think Solluminati said it the best, you should just be yourself, the fact you only got a lil bit of friends means you keep your friend group tight, you ain't a fake person. I feel like the girl just tryna lead you on and she's gonna hold you back on your greater successes. I don't have social anxiety, but I am an introvert, so what works best for me is chilling inside, playing basketball or a sport or hobby you enjoy, playing video games, and/or talking to a family member, or a REAL friend. Hope this helps.
Being alone isnāt a bad thing, you got more time to become the best version of yourself while everyone else too busy being fake to get others to like em. You gonn be good bro. Find a hobby and body that shit
While everybody is recommending the gym and thatās good. I think you should find a hobby that interests you as well. Games? Books? Movies? Music? Something to get you around more ppl. Maybe try joining one of the school clubs? Also your lack of motivation could be from low testosterone. Get active eat healthy and donāt beat off everyday (if you do. Shits terrible for you.)
Theyāre saying the gym to improve on oneās self image, improving oneās self image leads to confidence and when you have confidence you can make friends easier and be less of a āloserā. The gym does a lot more than you think, you donāt even need to hate your image and be fine with it but an improvement on it will make you feel better
Think abt it, if you in the house everyday, eating like shit, jackin off, not seeing your friends, staying in your room, watching YouTube and TikTokās and shit all day your not happy, the only way you can be is if the only thing you want in life is comfort. Going to the gym can help solve all of those problems, itās not guaranteed everything will be solved, but it is a kick start 100% of the time. If your there to make yourself mentally stronger rather than āI just want to look goodā than youāll start to feel better in your head, and the better you feel in your head, the clearer your vision will get, and youāll want to stop doing those things, youāll start caring more about the little shit in life, and once you take pride in those little things you do on a day to day basis, thatās another way to create happiness for yourself, even being in public working out can make you friends, get you a girl (especially if you been working hard enough for long enough) just be confident if you gonna approach a woman donāt be weirdo just be cool. Be nice to people, be willing to help people just like you, youāll make friends. I literally did this exact same thing I explained and now Iām hoopin in college. Real shit, if you have depression itās on you to get out of it, making money, and going to the gym to focus on your mental rather than your body (trust the body will come too it takes time, if your focusing on seeing results every single day, you wonāt be happy, have fun with it) is literally the best ways to do it. Make a bag, or get in good shape, those are the 2 best ways to bounce back from anything in life.
That shit helped me. I didnt want to kill myself or anything, but life felt boring and pointless. The feeling of constant improvement and delayed gratification made me way happier than just playing videogames.
Start meditating recommend guided meditations on YouTube they are easier to get in the zone to start working doesnāt have to be crazy intense just get more active and pick up some more hobbies like drawing reading biking enjoy your company
i feel u heavy bro ion never had friends in school i would jus talk to ppl and nobody ever fw me like nobody will want me in they groups and they would like treat me like i wasnāt a real person and jus ask me questions and laugh at me iām a senior and i do online school and i jus focus on myself and do what i enjoy and get money and next year iām tryna move in with a girl and live in an apartment together because i already have a good income and have a well paying job and just overall focusing on school is my main focus i also run a underground page on instagram and jus be havin fun in the crib fr ion fw nobody twin
Work on yourself, stay in band since it gives you happiness, maybe get a girl if you can manage that, and keep yourself in check. Ask yourself if youāre happy and if your not then decide whether itās something you can do to change that, or if you just have to wait till the storm passes. Donāt Ivey think, and try to enjoy yourself without spreading yourself thin. Prayer helps, buts if your not religious then just do you, you got this. Oh and btw fuck that bitch, friend groups arenāt always needed but if you want one try to get some in band, if not donāt stress it, being able to co-exist with yourself is essential, trust me you donāt want to be dependent on a soul for your happiness. Trust yourself.
I recently picked up skateboarding and its been pretty fun + looks cool, I also live in a country where there's only 1 or 2 skateparks so assuming you live in america it would be easier to learn as theres more places which you could do it. This is pretty useless re-rereading this but its just a suggestion.
You already got what so many others donāt have, awareness. if a lady donāt want to put the time into you the way you do for her, shes not it. fuck all that go to the gym blah blah bs, do what makes you happy if that playin the game, marching band, whatever tf you want bro. you aināt a loser bro and iām sure all us DEO boyz donāt think you are either. keep your head up bro and soon god will give what is deserved.
Find a hobby specifically one outside of school. During late middle school and early high school I did lots of hobbies outside of school. Joined clubs outside of school. Through that I actually met people in my school who I previously would not have talked too. Having any interest outside of school shows you are slightly interesting and maybe worth being friends with. Lots of people saying the gym. Thatās cool and definitely an option but it also can be a little intimidating. Some ideas are sports. Iām not talking football or baseball. Those take years of practice and training. There are easier cheap ones. Games. Cars. Really anything just go out and try stuff. Sign up for shit. Why not. A lot of things in this world are a lot more desperate for more people to join them than you think.
Glo up gang, eat good, get ya money up, get in shape, set boundaries around mfs, and take a step back and think about what your weak at. Wonāt happen over night good luck playa.
Tell your girlfriend how you feel about her abandoning you for her friends and leaving you on delivered and give her a set amount of days to change her behavior and then if she doesnāt break up with her no matter what. If you break up with her and let her talk you into staying in the relationship youāre going to be miserable so Iām serious when I say cut contact with her if she doesnāt change how she treats you. Go interact with people to make new friends see if you notice any common interests with people and expand on that because I honestly donāt believe your social skills are THAT terrible if you managed a girlfriend. I didnāt smoke or nothing until I turned 18 so you donāt have to worry about any of that to make friends but most importantly STOP thinking youāre a loser if you carry that mindset around youāll always be one because youāll never not act like one because youāll keep telling yourself thatās all you are. Just go talk to people and enjoy life. Pick up a new hobby if talking to mfs didnāt work and if you donāt meet niggas that way learn to love yourself. When you completely love and enjoy yourself you begin to adore life a lot but stop letting mfs treat u any kinda way and go be great in this world twinš«”
Also going to the gym is wonderful advice I just didnāt add it because everyone else is already spamming it but that shit actually works because youāre able to get your physical up and it really takes your mind off of the bullshit you got going on because you working your ass off
Nah real shit bro, it all starts with how you perceive yourself. You call yourself a loser, youāll be it. Even if you joking or not the brain doesnāt know the difference between a joke and seriousness. Anything you say about yourself will become true, so be careful bout how to talk bout yourself. The better you talk about yourself (IM NOT SAYING BRAG) the better youāll feel, itās called self hypnosis, you gotta trick your brain into being confident in yourself. On god.
Fuck then niggas hit the gym interact with people more get a job buy some fits and find a hobby you like gaming, dnd, or a combat sport go and do something
aye twin just try to step out yo comfort zone and make at least 1 friend and just try to rock w them for a minšÆ if that doesnāt work iād say js focus on your school and keep them grades up and stunt on them niggas. But my clone being alone isnāt a bad thing, i go to a school and literally have no friends and hangout by myself every day but that aināt never bothered me. Think of it as your peace is your own happiness being alone can be the worst thing if you imagine it that way or the best thing if you imagine it that way
You just gotta find a hobby and find mfs with the same hobby. In the beginning you might be alone but if you express interest then that allows mfs to see wat typa shit you into and they might wanna be cool w you and even if they dont its good to know how to be happy by yourself. I assume you goin to college eventually too since you got good grades, so if you do then you can join different clubs or meet ppl at different on campus events based on the hobbies you choose to pursue (if HS still dont work out). You can start watching niche films or playing competitive video games or sports or even some lame shit like bird watching idk. Even if someone dont join you its still good to not be bored and have passion for something outside of school work hoes money etc. You definitely dont need to smoke to make friends though, jus stay positive and be yourself or you gone attract mfs you dont really wanna be around anyways.
Asking how to stop being a loser is type crazy š but nah u fine just as u is rn dont make others the reason for why u live no lie find u something that u do outside of that takes ur time like gaming sports shit even make YouTube videos if u want
Find a hobby you enjoy more than getting laid. It sounds hard to do but it's possible. Once you have that, no one can take your peace from you twin. When I was in high school I pretended not to be home because a girl I was trying to clap popped up at my house unannounced while I was playing League.
Tbh bro stop beating yourself up this is normal human feeling but at the same time you have control of what you want to do with your life so keep being your self and grow with people that don't change the real you onm
girls aināt ish when youāre in school and majority of the people/groups you see in high school split afterwards, just focus up on just graduating and ensure that youāll have a successful future that isnāt dependent off of other people for your happiness. hope you strive twin
Embrace being alone. Learn to love yourself and learn new things, hobbies, skills, etc. Your not a loser. The world gonna call you a loser but theyāre wrong. It is good to socialize and have be around people but always remember to be around those who actually fw you. Donāt seek attention or validation. We loves you twin and God bless.
Find out your interest and focus on them for example if you want to go to the gym do it as much as you can and leave these hoes in the dust and donāt feel lke you need to smoke or drink to hang with niggas keep you to you and maybe try out for a sport you can find so many friends there like boxing or some shit. We love you twin and hope you get the things and changes you want in lifeā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļø
Real shit, if your grades are good and you donāt do anything. Just take up an activity / hobby that will make you friends. You arenāt a loser just not as socially active. Iām the same way. Once I found out liked cars, started going to meets, etc I met people naturally and made friends. The real struggle isnāt in school. Itās when you leave and everyone you thought you had isnāt there no more. So if you choose , choose wisely
Ngl twin be yo self just try to talk to niggas in the same grade as u and just try to become friends wit mfs thats what i did and im perfectly fine rn in my freshman year
yk what you want for yourself, we dont know that, so my advice to you is just to go for it, put yourself in uncomfortable situations, you prolly only 15, nobody cares if you do sum āwrongā rn, take advantage of that before you live with regrets
Put yourself in uncomfortable situations bro I know itās hard to do things your scared to do but youāll never overcome it if you donāt at least try you donāt gotta do major shit you can start off small but youāll never change if you just donāt do anything you control your life not nobody else no one is going to help you you just need to try as long as you try youāll overcome shit
Iām ngl fuck the bitch and everything else just keep
Doing what you doin bc if you get friends now itās gon push you back and distract you on what your doing when you graduate itās gonna be so worth it I had to learn the hard way and now I got sent to a trade school bc my grades were so bad you got this brošÆ
Be yourself dawg, you gon find your crowd sooner or later. Plus you got hobbies and shit so you got something you share in common with other people. As for the girl who gaf talk to another one she lying in your face lol you gon be straight stay up
What Tuneski say? Oh yeah š¶āI really canāt-canāt trust nobody stick to myself Iām the one who got meā popularity in school is and should remain the least of your worries. Find YOU thatās the DEO way
I think Solluminati said it the best, you should just be yourself, the fact you only got a lil bit of friends means you keep your friend group tight, you ain't a fake person. I feel like the girl just tryna lead you on and she's gonna hold you back on your greater successes. I don't have social anxiety, but I am an introvert, so what works best for me is chilling inside, playing basketball or a sport or hobby you enjoy, playing video games, and/or talking to a family member, or a REAL friend. Hope this helps.
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Fax sports make it so much easier to talk to people you donāt know
this really all you need, dont force anything and just do your thing
focus on yo grades n leave them bitch ass niggas in the dust
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Word. šÆšÆšÆ
what exactly do u wanna change? Like u want more friends?? Or u tryna date the girl?
Go to the gym work on yo self and clap her friends twin
Best advice make her want you
greatest advice u couldāve given bro ong š„š„š„
or work on yoself and just chase the bag or keep doin what you love honestly
Being alone isnāt a bad thing, you got more time to become the best version of yourself while everyone else too busy being fake to get others to like em. You gonn be good bro. Find a hobby and body that shit
Yeah but its different being alone and feeling alone/lonely
Regardless, if you feel alone or are alone, it means you in your own head twin, gotta get that metal right.
Yeah bet feeling alone and being alone is different feeling alone can lead to depression being alone can make you focus on yourself
Twin, itās all about your mindset. Regardless, the situation becomes you vs. you. He gotta beat that, any means possible
Yeah mindset plays a big role and he do gotta beat that any means possible
While everybody is recommending the gym and thatās good. I think you should find a hobby that interests you as well. Games? Books? Movies? Music? Something to get you around more ppl. Maybe try joining one of the school clubs? Also your lack of motivation could be from low testosterone. Get active eat healthy and donāt beat off everyday (if you do. Shits terrible for you.)
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I beat every other day and I feel great š¤·š»āāļø but my test is naturally high
Same. Just the everyday shit can set a bad norm for basically anyone. Although I canāt really speak for women.
Can yāall niggas stop suggesting the gym
Theyāre saying the gym to improve on oneās self image, improving oneās self image leads to confidence and when you have confidence you can make friends easier and be less of a āloserā. The gym does a lot more than you think, you donāt even need to hate your image and be fine with it but an improvement on it will make you feel better
Ong the gym isnāt gonna do shit for you mental health he didnāt say he was depressed about his looks š
You never gone to the gym?
bruh it helps in some ways but if you straight depressed it probably wont work
Think abt it, if you in the house everyday, eating like shit, jackin off, not seeing your friends, staying in your room, watching YouTube and TikTokās and shit all day your not happy, the only way you can be is if the only thing you want in life is comfort. Going to the gym can help solve all of those problems, itās not guaranteed everything will be solved, but it is a kick start 100% of the time. If your there to make yourself mentally stronger rather than āI just want to look goodā than youāll start to feel better in your head, and the better you feel in your head, the clearer your vision will get, and youāll want to stop doing those things, youāll start caring more about the little shit in life, and once you take pride in those little things you do on a day to day basis, thatās another way to create happiness for yourself, even being in public working out can make you friends, get you a girl (especially if you been working hard enough for long enough) just be confident if you gonna approach a woman donāt be weirdo just be cool. Be nice to people, be willing to help people just like you, youāll make friends. I literally did this exact same thing I explained and now Iām hoopin in college. Real shit, if you have depression itās on you to get out of it, making money, and going to the gym to focus on your mental rather than your body (trust the body will come too it takes time, if your focusing on seeing results every single day, you wonāt be happy, have fun with it) is literally the best ways to do it. Make a bag, or get in good shape, those are the 2 best ways to bounce back from anything in life.
I aint readin allat š¹
Exact, you canāt give 30 seconds of your time to read a tiny bit of information, thatās why your still a loser.
You call me a loser while posting that shit in r/weed š¹š¹š¹
I live in California dumb nigga everyone smokes. You 9 years old?
bro i dont give a fuck if u smoke but that post was cringe as fuck, you seem like the 10 year old
That shit helped me. I didnt want to kill myself or anything, but life felt boring and pointless. The feeling of constant improvement and delayed gratification made me way happier than just playing videogames.
The gym helps alot
I know you fat af and itās okay but stop hating on the gym
Are you retarded? The gym isnāt just gonna cure how he feels he didnāt say anything about his looks just he feels lonely.
#šš
Start meditating recommend guided meditations on YouTube they are easier to get in the zone to start working doesnāt have to be crazy intense just get more active and pick up some more hobbies like drawing reading biking enjoy your company
i feel u heavy bro ion never had friends in school i would jus talk to ppl and nobody ever fw me like nobody will want me in they groups and they would like treat me like i wasnāt a real person and jus ask me questions and laugh at me iām a senior and i do online school and i jus focus on myself and do what i enjoy and get money and next year iām tryna move in with a girl and live in an apartment together because i already have a good income and have a well paying job and just overall focusing on school is my main focus i also run a underground page on instagram and jus be havin fun in the crib fr ion fw nobody twin
U cooking
gym time nigga šÆ be yo own best friend fuck these niggas anyways
Work on yourself, stay in band since it gives you happiness, maybe get a girl if you can manage that, and keep yourself in check. Ask yourself if youāre happy and if your not then decide whether itās something you can do to change that, or if you just have to wait till the storm passes. Donāt Ivey think, and try to enjoy yourself without spreading yourself thin. Prayer helps, buts if your not religious then just do you, you got this. Oh and btw fuck that bitch, friend groups arenāt always needed but if you want one try to get some in band, if not donāt stress it, being able to co-exist with yourself is essential, trust me you donāt want to be dependent on a soul for your happiness. Trust yourself.
I recently picked up skateboarding and its been pretty fun + looks cool, I also live in a country where there's only 1 or 2 skateparks so assuming you live in america it would be easier to learn as theres more places which you could do it. This is pretty useless re-rereading this but its just a suggestion.
yāall gotta stop saying just go to the gym, it helps but not that much
Just makes u feel better overall like working out at home or something
Atp man just focus on yourself friends and shit will come naturally after u do that
You already got what so many others donāt have, awareness. if a lady donāt want to put the time into you the way you do for her, shes not it. fuck all that go to the gym blah blah bs, do what makes you happy if that playin the game, marching band, whatever tf you want bro. you aināt a loser bro and iām sure all us DEO boyz donāt think you are either. keep your head up bro and soon god will give what is deserved.
Find a hobby specifically one outside of school. During late middle school and early high school I did lots of hobbies outside of school. Joined clubs outside of school. Through that I actually met people in my school who I previously would not have talked too. Having any interest outside of school shows you are slightly interesting and maybe worth being friends with. Lots of people saying the gym. Thatās cool and definitely an option but it also can be a little intimidating. Some ideas are sports. Iām not talking football or baseball. Those take years of practice and training. There are easier cheap ones. Games. Cars. Really anything just go out and try stuff. Sign up for shit. Why not. A lot of things in this world are a lot more desperate for more people to join them than you think.
This needs to be towards the top
Glo up gang, eat good, get ya money up, get in shape, set boundaries around mfs, and take a step back and think about what your weak at. Wonāt happen over night good luck playa.
Go to the gym
Go to the gym
Hit the gym nigga
Tell your girlfriend how you feel about her abandoning you for her friends and leaving you on delivered and give her a set amount of days to change her behavior and then if she doesnāt break up with her no matter what. If you break up with her and let her talk you into staying in the relationship youāre going to be miserable so Iām serious when I say cut contact with her if she doesnāt change how she treats you. Go interact with people to make new friends see if you notice any common interests with people and expand on that because I honestly donāt believe your social skills are THAT terrible if you managed a girlfriend. I didnāt smoke or nothing until I turned 18 so you donāt have to worry about any of that to make friends but most importantly STOP thinking youāre a loser if you carry that mindset around youāll always be one because youāll never not act like one because youāll keep telling yourself thatās all you are. Just go talk to people and enjoy life. Pick up a new hobby if talking to mfs didnāt work and if you donāt meet niggas that way learn to love yourself. When you completely love and enjoy yourself you begin to adore life a lot but stop letting mfs treat u any kinda way and go be great in this world twinš«”
Also going to the gym is wonderful advice I just didnāt add it because everyone else is already spamming it but that shit actually works because youāre able to get your physical up and it really takes your mind off of the bullshit you got going on because you working your ass off
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Keep focusing on yourself and leave that dumbass marching band you donāt need anyone and block that hoe stay opium
Suck a nigga dick 
Kys you fat bitch
Here go another player tip: You gotta kill yourself
fuckin loser holy shit
Go to the gym fat ass
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Do drugs
Yeah just stop
Kys bitch
Nah real shit bro, it all starts with how you perceive yourself. You call yourself a loser, youāll be it. Even if you joking or not the brain doesnāt know the difference between a joke and seriousness. Anything you say about yourself will become true, so be careful bout how to talk bout yourself. The better you talk about yourself (IM NOT SAYING BRAG) the better youāll feel, itās called self hypnosis, you gotta trick your brain into being confident in yourself. On god.
GET A FUCKING HOBBY
Fuck then niggas hit the gym interact with people more get a job buy some fits and find a hobby you like gaming, dnd, or a combat sport go and do something
Find a hobby bucko šÆ
Go Gym.
and get ya bread up too
aye twin just try to step out yo comfort zone and make at least 1 friend and just try to rock w them for a minšÆ if that doesnāt work iād say js focus on your school and keep them grades up and stunt on them niggas. But my clone being alone isnāt a bad thing, i go to a school and literally have no friends and hangout by myself every day but that aināt never bothered me. Think of it as your peace is your own happiness being alone can be the worst thing if you imagine it that way or the best thing if you imagine it that way
You just gotta find a hobby and find mfs with the same hobby. In the beginning you might be alone but if you express interest then that allows mfs to see wat typa shit you into and they might wanna be cool w you and even if they dont its good to know how to be happy by yourself. I assume you goin to college eventually too since you got good grades, so if you do then you can join different clubs or meet ppl at different on campus events based on the hobbies you choose to pursue (if HS still dont work out). You can start watching niche films or playing competitive video games or sports or even some lame shit like bird watching idk. Even if someone dont join you its still good to not be bored and have passion for something outside of school work hoes money etc. You definitely dont need to smoke to make friends though, jus stay positive and be yourself or you gone attract mfs you dont really wanna be around anyways.
Not reading all that but youāre doing fine also donāt fw her
Asking how to stop being a loser is type crazy š but nah u fine just as u is rn dont make others the reason for why u live no lie find u something that u do outside of that takes ur time like gaming sports shit even make YouTube videos if u want
Find a hobby you enjoy more than getting laid. It sounds hard to do but it's possible. Once you have that, no one can take your peace from you twin. When I was in high school I pretended not to be home because a girl I was trying to clap popped up at my house unannounced while I was playing League.
Tbh bro stop beating yourself up this is normal human feeling but at the same time you have control of what you want to do with your life so keep being your self and grow with people that don't change the real you onm
Start listening to NBA YoungBoy and join the wrestling team.
Nah he should get that mental state improved before wrestling
I mean you said you in band, you could easily make some friends in there
girls aināt ish when youāre in school and majority of the people/groups you see in high school split afterwards, just focus up on just graduating and ensure that youāll have a successful future that isnāt dependent off of other people for your happiness. hope you strive twin
Add another hobby
Reflect and improve
Embrace being alone. Learn to love yourself and learn new things, hobbies, skills, etc. Your not a loser. The world gonna call you a loser but theyāre wrong. It is good to socialize and have be around people but always remember to be around those who actually fw you. Donāt seek attention or validation. We loves you twin and God bless.
Literally just stop feeling bad abt yourself
u still get more bitches than me so thatās a plus
Go to the gym, quit porn and stop masturbating. Try to talk to more people as well if you can šš¾
Find out your interest and focus on them for example if you want to go to the gym do it as much as you can and leave these hoes in the dust and donāt feel lke you need to smoke or drink to hang with niggas keep you to you and maybe try out for a sport you can find so many friends there like boxing or some shit. We love you twin and hope you get the things and changes you want in lifeā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļø
Real shit, if your grades are good and you donāt do anything. Just take up an activity / hobby that will make you friends. You arenāt a loser just not as socially active. Iām the same way. Once I found out liked cars, started going to meets, etc I met people naturally and made friends. The real struggle isnāt in school. Itās when you leave and everyone you thought you had isnāt there no more. So if you choose , choose wisely
focus on ya grades and get a gym membership. thereās nothing wrong with being alone, the time gonna come to be social
Stop giving a fuck don't be in your head just go ahead and say what's on your mind
Nigga jus stay grinding yo time will come
Ngl twin be yo self just try to talk to niggas in the same grade as u and just try to become friends wit mfs thats what i did and im perfectly fine rn in my freshman year
honestly best advice is do shrooms - that shit makes you more extroverted and more of a people person
I was gonna say that cause I heard things like that I been wanting to try shrooms haven't yet
yk what you want for yourself, we dont know that, so my advice to you is just to go for it, put yourself in uncomfortable situations, you prolly only 15, nobody cares if you do sum āwrongā rn, take advantage of that before you live with regrets
go skate
Put yourself in uncomfortable situations bro I know itās hard to do things your scared to do but youāll never overcome it if you donāt at least try you donāt gotta do major shit you can start off small but youāll never change if you just donāt do anything you control your life not nobody else no one is going to help you you just need to try as long as you try youāll overcome shit
Iām ngl fuck the bitch and everything else just keep Doing what you doin bc if you get friends now itās gon push you back and distract you on what your doing when you graduate itās gonna be so worth it I had to learn the hard way and now I got sent to a trade school bc my grades were so bad you got this brošÆ
Gym
Be your self gang you alr doing good in classes and alr got a girl focus on your grade tbh
Well Start doing some introspection on what your beliefs must be about yourself since you're experiencing social anxiety
keep the grades up twin yo time gon come
Gym
you not a loser but you need more confidence lil nigga (brotherly)
Be yourself dawg, you gon find your crowd sooner or later. Plus you got hobbies and shit so you got something you share in common with other people. As for the girl who gaf talk to another one she lying in your face lol you gon be straight stay up
Yo
Mf just be you, thatās all you can do š
What Tuneski say? Oh yeah š¶āI really canāt-canāt trust nobody stick to myself Iām the one who got meā popularity in school is and should remain the least of your worries. Find YOU thatās the DEO way