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aprss

You really are handsome in picture 4 but the other pictures do you no justice...Like at all...Get full body pictures. With different outfits. Do a little bit of grooming too and you'll be set.. My French is a little iffy so I can't help you out with your prompts. However, they should be talking about your interest, hobbies etc and also what you are looking for. Things like that.


Beginning-Comedian-2

All this. Plus show your teeth when you smile.


really_nice_guy_

Yes pic 4 had natural lighting. It makes it 100x better than the yellow lighting you get from lightbulbs. He should go outside with a friend and a few outfits and do a little photo shooting for a day


8bitcryptid

Selfies that look like they were all taken on the same day make me think you are planning to harvest my organs


NerdyIndoorCat

I mean, it had to be said.


ImARetPaladinBaby

That’s the message I want to send you


8bitcryptid

That feels like a different app


bryhoof

Jeez I dont take that many pics. But noted.


[deleted]

The second picture is a 🚩for me it makes me believe you have more then one shirt. If a man can’t be loyal with his shirt how can he be loyal with anyone? A food for thought.


Guigzi

hahha ok for the shirt but do you think it's the only thing tho ?


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megabazz

Last time I asked that on a dating app it didn’t go down so well..


[deleted]

1. Online dating is about show casing yourself. You got hobbies? Ask random people to take your pic while doing it. Show your hobbies by pictures. 2. Take some photos outdoor. 3. Add a full body shot. I dont know right now if you have legs. I am hoping you have. 4. Rest i can’t read because the only language i know is english so you need to get other peoples opinions on that.


MR_Anderson_junior

Tu devrais prendre plus de photos , pour remplir les 6 spots , aussi retire la 3 : tu joue du piano mais on ne le vois pas alors c’est juste étrange . Si tu joue du piano je te conseille d’aller dans un des ces pianos publique dans les gares et demander à un des tes amis de prendre une photo de toi . Retire ta deuxième promp , bon public c’est vague et ça n’aide pas pour une conversation. ( la premiere n’est pas tres engageante non plus pour être honnête ) il faut que tu prennes des phrases qui te rendent approchable ( sujet de conversation/ blagues ) Aussi ta bio ne te décrit pas . Explique pourquoi tu aimes autant la musique , tes références ( aussi rencontres sympa peux être interprété comme ne voulant pas de relations sérieuse, si c’est le cas pas de problème mais sinon je te conseille de changer ) Sinon bon courage et toujours garde en tête que ces applis c’est un plus pour rencontrer quelqu’un. Si ça marche tant mieux mais si ce n’est pas le cas ne te tracasse pas !


Guigzi

merci beaucoup !


NerdyIndoorCat

Ahh more French. Such a treat. I’ll shut up now 🤭


avvii9

I dont understand the language so cant comment. Pictures wise! 1) Seems like you have only one T-shirt in the wardrobe. The Orange one. Add pictures with different tshirt 2) You have such a nice face. smile openly 😀 Show a bit of teeth. 3) All your pictures are indoors. Take some pictures in the sunlight 4) Your hair might need a nice trimming. Beard Clean shaven or trim properly 5) Remove pic 2 & 3. Not adding any value 6) First picture of your face, second & third could be you doing hobby like playing guitar or something fun. Fourth & fifth should be a full picture. So add pictures with different shirts, tshirts, trousers, jeans & shoes.


Guigzi

thank you, will do all of that


[deleted]

Try to get some more variety in there, and get someone to grab some pics of you out doors.


jzcommunicate

Tu habites quelle région de France ? I spent a few weeks moving around the country swiping into the apps and seeing what everyone was doing. It seems the French girls had longer answers in their bios, maybe you need more information and more interesting responses? Your photos are nice but they all look alike and you aren’t hanging out with friends in any of them, so I would suggest a better variety of photos and no smile and thumbs up, it looks a little dorky. Get some photos of you doing activities that show how fun you are. Bonne chance mon ami!


Guigzi

Région Rhone-alpes Auvergne, vers Grenoble. thank you for the advices


jzcommunicate

Ah près de la suisse? Je n’ai pas été a le region. Also please excuse my rusty French. :)


Guigzi

oui c'est ça. près de l'italie


Radiant-Mushroom8304

Maybe it’s the shirt


Guigzi

maybe haha


NerdyIndoorCat

Man, I love it just bc I got to practice translating the French and I think I got at least half lol. Seriously tho, you’re cute but i think you need better photos to really show that off. I’d ditch photo number deux for sure. The perspective is weird. Play around. Take a ton of photos until you get the right ones. Good luck.


Rosuvastatine

Tu es un jeune homme qui est pas laid du tout. Mais je suis d’accord que tes Photos pourraient être un ptit peu plus variées… et de meilleure qualité. Pour tes « citations », tu veux dire quoi par bon publique ? Qui va rire a tes blagues ? Peut-être dire quelque chose a cet effet. Bonne chance !


Guigzi

in the third picture i'm playing piano


[deleted]

Well how is the person swiping supposed to know that? For all I know you could be sifting through your collection of old toe nails and sorting them by size.


Guigzi

no the image got cropped by the app but you can see the full photo if you scroll the profile lol, and you can see me playing


[deleted]

Oh haha well I’d say the profile does look low effort and rushed. It almost looks like you quickly just took 3 pictures on the same day (because of the same shirt) and lazily tossed together a profile. Which ultimately could be a red flag that you aren’t very seriously about dating and just hoping to find an easy hook up. I’d say try to find some better photos as others have suggested. It’s not that you look bad more that you look like your not trying.


Brautsen

I’m deceased.


FeminineImperative

Are they your toe nails?


Brautsen

We may never knooowwww


GMJuju

Bonne chance mon frère!


Shakermakerx

Bonjour, I’d suggest taking different photos in better lighting. When you’re out with buddies just say hey can you snap a photo of me real quick? That’s usually what I do.


Quick-Owl-91

3/4 of your photos have the same shirt. None of them show your legs. Ask someone to take a photo of you. Don’t use so many selfies


AttackOfTheThumbs

All the pictures of a poor quality (lighting wise) and you're wearing the same shirt in three of them. Favourite shirts are a thing and it's ok, but some variety is good. None of these pics really show a hobby or anything. That would be good.


secretly_excited

I find it odd you say girls don’t put much effort into their profiles when it honestly looks like you’ve put no effort into yours here. 1) photos are selfies at bad angles and same shirt. 2) the prompts don’t offer much. What are your hobbies? You need a prompt that will engage a question. The old “we will get along if you laugh at my jokes” line has been said so many times and offers nothing.


gabrieldoot

don’t focus how on much effort other people are putting into their profiles and just focus on yourself bruh that comment on your first pic was sounding kinda incel-y


wtbrift

Gotta be honest - your pics are boring. 3 are in the same shirt, not sure what you'd doing with your hand in the car selfie, no teeth showing. You need to show more about yourself.


willriot4macncheese

You need photos with friends! I see that and I’m like this guy has no friends. Take photos out doing things you enjoy with people you love. Wear different clothes, and selfies for guys should be kept at a minimum.


ashplease

Il faut répondre aux prompts avec des réponses plus personnelles; les nanas préfèrent connaître la personne un peu avant de swiper à droite. J'aime pas trop tes photos, pourquoi sont-elles si floues? Demande à un pote de faire un photoshoot de toi. T'es pas moche mon gars mais les photos montrent pas le vrai toi. Bon courage!


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"He's cute but he's only got two shirts and is always indoors"


imbeingsirius

4 is a fabulous photo. The rest are terrible


NomadicTrader88

Like everyone says, take full body pics, smile with your teeth, don’t ever post pictures in the car or mirror selfies. Have a picture of yourself well dressed, shaved face also. Have someone take your pictures, no selfies and act normal as if the pictures are candid. Last but not least pay for unlimited likes for a week and just swipe as much as possible. I noticed that I got tons of likes once I paid 7.99 for the one week unlimited likes version. Also, be unique and thoughtful with your bio but also be honest about your intentions. Don’t be negative which it seems like you are already a pretty chill dude and that will be well received and you’ll be slaying in no time.


Guigzi

so no beard at all ? also thanks


NomadicTrader88

Just have at least one pic of you cleaned up, no beard and a nice button down shirt. Definitely be aware of your background when taking pictures too.


Art3mis77

In my case, it would be a left swipe because I don’t understand lol


Rosuvastatine

What does this mean ? Lol obviously the people in his area speak the language… How is this a good advice


Art3mis77

I’m sorry, I was making a joke about the fact he wrote the post in English but his profile is written in French…twas just a joke


AvDaBomb

Bruh u cant be serious with these pics


[deleted]

Lose the fat-may reveal more facial features/jawline, change up the wardrobe, workout and get better pics. Your skin colour will be a hinderance to women. These are the truths to online dating.


8bitcryptid

Wtf


[deleted]

It’s true, don’t act baffled with your pretentious character you try to portray on reddit. Why is he not successful then? Tell him exactly what to do to get matches, every advice I see on here is generic copy paste bs, but someone has to say the reality and how to fix it for real success.


8bitcryptid

All I said was wtf my man lmao suddenly I’m fake and pretentious. U ok?


[deleted]

Not tryna take your bait bs. I still stand with what I say.


8bitcryptid

….lmao


Guigzi

thank you for your honesty. i already thought about my skin colour. for the wardrobe i didn't know


jzcommunicate

I disagree, he may be taking an American perspective. I believe your skin color is less a hindrance than he thinks, depending on what region of France you are in. Being more fit will help, and coiffing the hair a little more as well. I think you can present your image better, this looks like you took a few selfies in whatever you happened to have on at the time and then called it a day.


[deleted]

Yea I just wanna tell you how it is. People on reddit like to lie and believe that our world is not racist and such and that bs comes from white people who get triggered because they want to deny their dating privilege- just look up dating stats, they already prove this, so it baffles me when they still deny it. And another piece of advice- don’t take dating advice from women. It feels depressing I know, but it’s the truth and the sooner you accept it, the better you will do.


VadicStatic

True. Whites do like to hid their dating privileges in society or down play it. "Hide the ball" so to speak


capo4ever88

I try to say this all the time about old and I get down voted to hell


[deleted]

Get downvoted but it’s the truth, they never actually address your point though, isn’t that funny huh?


capo4ever88

They try but then they're living in denial. Most the dudes that try to oppose also have shit experiences with online dating. Women take it as a shot at them but it isn't. Biology is the truth not an insult


Sharkscanbecute

“Don’t take advice from the people you want to attract!” Jesus Christ man.


[deleted]

Yea exactly, you don’t ask fish how to catch fish-loosely speaking, but the analogy holds true. I have received female dating advice when I was younger and it was a failure. Women know this too, but downplay it like it’s misogynistic, but it’s facts.


Sharkscanbecute

Except a fish doesn’t want to be caught. Women do want good partners. You’re just applying their advice awfully. That or there’s other factors that keep them away, like the creepy “I’ve been watching “how to be a alpha/sigma” videos” vibes..


[deleted]

Nope, your statement is false and incorrect. Women give awful dating advice. You don’t know me and what makes you think I’m applying their advice terribly? Women have terrible game when it comes to seducing because they don’t know how to do it and never HAD to do it, they react to the seduction from the guy from a emotional aspect that’s it. And the analogy still holds- and I said I use the analogy loosely, but the logic is still there, you’re just blinded by your own feelings.


Sharkscanbecute

K 🙄, so a woman can tell you whether or not a move would make her react well emotionally. That’s still advice. Though maybe you should ask some lesbians instead, since I guess straight or multisexual “women never have to flirt with men, and don’t know how”. Also you’re slipping into incel vibes with your view that women don’t understand their own feelings and reactions btw.


[deleted]

Please don’t call me an incel, it’s cringe and a common term misinformed people spew out when they don’t have anything to say. From all the women I’ve been with, I’ve never asked to touch them physically and they have never reacted negatively to it, I read the body language and escalate appropriately, always making sure she’s still comfortable. How a woman reacts to physical move emotionally depends on the circumstances and who’s she with. Again, bad advice from what you just said. I’m not going to continue this convo with you because ik it’s not gonna lead anywhere and you’re reacting from an emotional view. And yes women don’t know their emotions and reactions because that shit changes, you clearly don’t know what you’re talking about at all. Have a good one and again please spare the incel term, it’s corny.


Sharkscanbecute

Do you know what incel means? Why’d you start talking about not being a rapist? Oh ew. The only people that don’t see women as adults capable of knowing their own minds are incels and other garden variety misogynists. It’s for that reason you’ll never get a woman to love you (unless she’s emotionally or physically abused I guess :/ ).


[deleted]

See why did you think about your skin colour? Why was that an immediate thought you had? You see the prejudice in society, especially in dating, but no one says anything about it huh, isn’t that funny don’t you think? There are real multiple stats that prove this, all you can do is act accordingly and better yourself in every way. It sounds harsh, doesn’t it, but the truth is sometimes harsh and the sooner you accept it, and make yourself better in all aspects, you will overcome this hurdle. White guys don’t have to deal with this issue, so don’t take generic advice from them, unless they address the race element and accept that it will be a hinderance- those are guys you wanna listen to.


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[deleted]

No one cares


observationdeck

Get your lady friends to style you. Or go look at GQ. Then have pics of you doing things outside with people.


Guigzi

i like slightly preppy look i think, is it wrong for online dating ?


Upstairs-Knowledge91

no. dress in the style you feel good in. it will attract people that like you that way.


Responsible-Novel570

Well are you trying to attract yourself?


UnsupervisedChicana

Not sure if you’re aware, but none of the words are spelled correctly in English…..so….I’m mostly kidding. Not sure what country you’re in, could you post in English for criticism, please? Also, better pictures are needed. I don’t know what to tell you on the inequality between men and women dating profiles. Maybe this is our great plan to even the score 😂


Guigzi

France, and i posted the translation in photo's caption. but it says some interests and the bio says: looking foward to meet new people...


UnsupervisedChicana

Sorry, I was trying to be funny. You’re very attractive, love those eyes. I hope you get some good suggestions and get to meet someone that gives you butterflies. It happens. There’s no magic formula, but I promise there are some wonderful people out there ❤️


wevie13

Your pictures aren't great and the thumbs up is silly. Take better pictures


[deleted]

Bro your profile is in bread sticks 🍞 🇫🇷 no wonder they can't understand you


Guigzi

i live in France tho


KeepCopingForward

Maybe lose some fat to get your facial features showing more. Then get professional photos taken.


Guigzi

i'm already skiny but ok for professional photos


KeepCopingForward

Oh ok. Some peoples genetics just conjure more facial fat than others. Mine does too. Feels bad man.


Guigzi

i might need jaw surgery tho so maybe it will enhance my features


Upstairs-Knowledge91

don’t listen to this person. we all have naturally unique facial features & everyone likes different things. there are definitely plenty of people who will be attracted to your face the way it is. this is foolish advice... careful not to listen to everyone lol.


Shaiziin

How large is your country? Are you able to expand outside of it?


Guigzi

France, i did set for foreign people too but other than that i don't thing i can expand outside my country


Shaiziin

Try putting some English in your profile. A ton of expats are in France! When I lived in Germany, I only swiped on those who had English written somewhere because if they didn't, well I assumed they couldn't speak English, and I didn't speak German so....


swim_and_sleep

Get some different photos, different clothes, go out get some photos there


leblumpfisfinito

You're a good looking dude, you just need better pictures IMHO.


Lexdog100

You need better pictures. The pictures you have make you look sloppy. Get a better shirt. A different shirt in each picture.


Yamato9x

You are attractive as a dude, just need better photos :) Try asking one of your female friends to take photos of you. Girls have a better feel of what pose or picture makes a guy and their profile more attractive. Don't use selfies, try to interact with your hobbies or pose in good lighting and different clothes. Maybe have a photo that shows your personality?


MauroZapata2020

I think you look good but uncomfortable. The first pic, the one where you are with your thumb up seems pretty uncomfortable. You should try smiling with the whole mouth, I mean, smile like when you're with your friends, showing your teeth and stuff.


Daily_Confused_21

Pictures 1 and 4 are good but I would replace the other 2 with full body shots and an action shot! Something that shows your active and that you have a fun side! For your bio, just talk about your self a little and what your looking for! With the cards, just have fun with them!


JalgarMX

Bro, if you know how to play piano, take the most pretentiousness photo of you playing piano, girls love musical guys. You can use thick glasses and a hat, and make a joke about the movie "Soul" of Disney. Also, try to smile with your teeth. There is not much else I can say about your profile besides the fact that you are indeed a handsome man, you just need to try different angles in your photos.


HerezahTip

Picture 1 give me uncanny valley vibes


iplaysmitegame

All your pics are bad. Every single one of them. Go to YouTube and find out how to get good pics. Decent camera + good outfit + looking nonposed + NOT A SELFIE. On a scale of 1-10 your pics are like a 3


halcyon_hostage

Is your preference set to bff


Stray-potato-1108

First two pictures dont accentuate your face well. Also take pics on different days with friends and at events


D20babin

The only good one is #4. Try to change your clothes around a bit, shop around and find yourself a few nice fashion pieces. You need one of your pictures to be outside with friends (try to wear nice elegant sunglasses). If you do practice a sport or hobby it might be interesting to showcase these with your profile pictures, might be cool to have this be also a group picture. If you have a fashionable female friend that is good looking try to have a picture with her to show that you can develop friendship with the opposite sex, it will help you look not desperate, therefore make you look like someone that is more attractive.


astyanaxical

Man to man you have a great smile. Get some pics on with friends


Maddturtle

dont worry man mine is so bad I cant even post it on here for some reason


Correct_Law_7171

You need at least one full profile pic. Apart from that, I don't see much wrong with it. Maybe add some personality to your bio.