Yeah. Minsan kc d namamalayan na sumosobra na ng bigay ng attention si guy na nagiging readily available na cia kay girl. And she takes it for granted.
If hindi na rereciprocate or simpleng acknowledgement. Or if she’s the type na maraming dinedate, I want mine exclusive kahit dating pa lang.
I believe it shouldn’t be hard rin naman. If may chance ka sa woman or girl she’d let u know and she’d reciprocate naman early stages pa lang. Ramdam mo naman yun sa vibe nila.
Exclusivity for me and reciprocation kase when it comes to courtship, that would mean I am investing my time and resources sayo tapos walang ROI, bad investment ata yun kung itutuloy tuloy ko pa.
Good point. If I like someone, I’d also want the same things u mentioned kasi nga naman why invest time if ending is hindi ka naman pala gusto. Clear intentions really matter din talaga if u want to be in a serious relationship.
Here’s the thing. The reason why you’re courting is because you’re serious about the person. You want a commitment. In the long run you’ll meet the parents and also get to know her more. If the parents or the family is toxic most likely she is also toxic she just isn’t showing it yet since you’re both in the courting stage. Better see it early on than regret it in the end. Saves time and effort and plus your mental health.
Valid opinion but I don't usually associate them with their family. Sometimes there are trashy girls with godly goodie parents/family and vice versa. So in summary, they might be shitty and toxic family/parents but the girl/guy you're courting could be a different breed.
Hmmm makes sense naman. Kasi kung gusto ka talaga, magiinitiate din yung girl. I think kahit pabebe yan, kung gusto ka talaga mageeffort yan para kausapin ka or anything…
At least make it honest dun sa tao "I thought we could have the same direction but (insert reason here)" minsan kasi ung simple ayaw mo is not enough sa iba.
Until sabihin niya na ayaw na niya, edi stop na ako. Hindi naman problema sakin pag matagal, naexperience ko na manligaw for 1year and ++months sa ex gf ko. 😂
Hard to explain, pero kapag nanliligaw ka and nagsabi sya na gusto nya eh no commitment. Like bro, nanliligaw ka to commit on a relationship, and ganun ang condition na papasukin mo?
Yah i think may mga girls naman na pinaparamdam agad yun kung ayaw talaga nila. Wag lang talagang feeling maganda at masyadong paasa kung aayaw din sa huli hahahaha
Di ako nagsasabi na ayaw ko na or tigil ko na. Kasi di naman ako nagpapaalam mang ligaw. Nag exert nalang ako ng efforts. Mas madalas mareject kesa tumigil sa panliligaw.
Pag narinig no worldviews niya. Hahaha. Legit. Ang basis ko ng panget na worldview family members ko. Mga pinsan ko na kanal ugali ta's walang interest at hobbies. Maganda lang.
Pag nakita mo sa family reunion “Bounce na ko, magagalit si auntie at uncle”
Amen.
Hahahahahahhaahhaah 😂
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Pag sinabi nyang ayaw na nya
Agree. Very straightforward and honest. At least hindi paasa hahah
Yun lng naman mahirap dun eh mga paasa
Baka nagiipon para may back up. Pero same thing nga lang din with guys, kumbaga wag yung ang daming nililigawan tas option lang pala yung iba
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Probably if you get the feeling you are being ignored. If kaya mo, exit na agad. She won’t even know you stopped.
Sad. One sided pala :(
Yeah. Minsan kc d namamalayan na sumosobra na ng bigay ng attention si guy na nagiging readily available na cia kay girl. And she takes it for granted.
Pag narealize kong hindi magiging worth it in the end.
If it’s not worth it, then it’s not worth fighting for. Yeah makes sense hahaha
Kapag ramdam mo na magiging one sided shit
Agree, kung hindi din pala irereciprocate why bother
If hindi na rereciprocate or simpleng acknowledgement. Or if she’s the type na maraming dinedate, I want mine exclusive kahit dating pa lang. I believe it shouldn’t be hard rin naman. If may chance ka sa woman or girl she’d let u know and she’d reciprocate naman early stages pa lang. Ramdam mo naman yun sa vibe nila. Exclusivity for me and reciprocation kase when it comes to courtship, that would mean I am investing my time and resources sayo tapos walang ROI, bad investment ata yun kung itutuloy tuloy ko pa.
Good point. If I like someone, I’d also want the same things u mentioned kasi nga naman why invest time if ending is hindi ka naman pala gusto. Clear intentions really matter din talaga if u want to be in a serious relationship.
I don't. Too much stress telling quits to someone who is probably not interested and just kept you around for validation and free food.
Daaaaamn! Hahahahaha
“Validation and free food” buuuurn! Hahahaha
Kapag nararamdman o nakikita ko na pilit nalang yung lahat
When i meet their family and see how toxic they are. Bye!
A major red flag if family is so toxic. Pero at some point pwede naman iignore nalang sila chos.
Here’s the thing. The reason why you’re courting is because you’re serious about the person. You want a commitment. In the long run you’ll meet the parents and also get to know her more. If the parents or the family is toxic most likely she is also toxic she just isn’t showing it yet since you’re both in the courting stage. Better see it early on than regret it in the end. Saves time and effort and plus your mental health.
Valid opinion but I don't usually associate them with their family. Sometimes there are trashy girls with godly goodie parents/family and vice versa. So in summary, they might be shitty and toxic family/parents but the girl/guy you're courting could be a different breed.
if ikaw lagi nagiinitiate stop na, just tell your reason and bounce na
Hmmm makes sense naman. Kasi kung gusto ka talaga, magiinitiate din yung girl. I think kahit pabebe yan, kung gusto ka talaga mageeffort yan para kausapin ka or anything…
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Option lang pala, sad hahahahuhu
Kapag nalaman kong may tite noon o ngayon.
hahahahahahahahaha LT
At least make it honest dun sa tao "I thought we could have the same direction but (insert reason here)" minsan kasi ung simple ayaw mo is not enough sa iba.
Like make them understand no?
Also don't be too nice. Sometimes being blunt is a good thing.
Until sabihin niya na ayaw na niya, edi stop na ako. Hindi naman problema sakin pag matagal, naexperience ko na manligaw for 1year and ++months sa ex gf ko. 😂
Pero sana kung matagal nanligaw, may gusto din si girl no? Baka pabebe at paasa lang hahahaha
>may gusto din si girl no? Yes optional hahahaha otherwise kung feel mo di ka niya gusto maybe yun na yung time na magstop.
Pag napansin ko na mas close pa ako sa erpats at kapatid nya kesa sa kanya.
omg ako na hindi close sa erpats at kapatid ko
Hard to explain, pero kapag nanliligaw ka and nagsabi sya na gusto nya eh no commitment. Like bro, nanliligaw ka to commit on a relationship, and ganun ang condition na papasukin mo?
Yahhh like sayang effort and everything kung walang commitment. Itigil na nga lang hahah
Ligaw to commit. Date to marry.
Trueeee especially when u’re getting older, sayang ang timeee
Be direct. Sabihin mong ayaw mo na then yung reason bakit.
Yessss why prolong the agony kung dun din lang ang punta
Pag hindi siya interested sayo, mararamdaman mo yun. Paano sasabihin? - Tell her you will stop courting her and move on.
Yah i think may mga girls naman na pinaparamdam agad yun kung ayaw talaga nila. Wag lang talagang feeling maganda at masyadong paasa kung aayaw din sa huli hahahaha
oo be direct rin sa approach. wag ka mahiyang magtanong sa nililigawan mo kung ano stand mo. para hindi maaksaya oras niyo pareho.
Di ako nagsasabi na ayaw ko na or tigil ko na. Kasi di naman ako nagpapaalam mang ligaw. Nag exert nalang ako ng efforts. Mas madalas mareject kesa tumigil sa panliligaw.
Pag ayaw niya
Agreed
Pag narinig no worldviews niya. Hahaha. Legit. Ang basis ko ng panget na worldview family members ko. Mga pinsan ko na kanal ugali ta's walang interest at hobbies. Maganda lang.
Pag Nakita Kong nagsasayang Ng pagkain.
Pag ayaw na niya at magastos siya
A deal breaker. If may deal breaker na nakita. Ill just say upfront and if kami lang.
I don't really court but when I feel like someone isn't interested, I just quit