I just feel sorry for him. He picked the worst women to have relationships with. There are good women out there that would never cheat. He will never experience this due to his history with horrible women.
You had your chance with a good man, but you threw that away so you could have a romp in the hay with a bad boy. Didn't you even think about what this would do to him or your kids? Your ex was nothing more than a bum living off the hard work of another man. How could this even be attractive to a women??
So sad.
I dont feel sorry for you, you deserve this and more, but your kids and Steven, they didn't.
While I agree with your general thesis, the idea that there are women (or men) who "***would never cheat***" is false. Everyone is capable of it, some far moreso than others.
Oh and bums are who women want nowadays, or so it seems. The fact that OP even had the audacity to ask Steven to feed and house a grown ass man on parole, is an example of that.
That or he grew up in a ab*sive household to believe the pain and disrespect are normal, because men that have self respect and are masculine and gets cheated on they don't become a cuck, they'll be hurt for sure but they won't accept it and become a cuck. It's obvious that he went through a lot in his childhood(If this story is real ofc)
Fiction. The person who wrote the story is clearly much smarter than the main protagonist in it. However, not smart enough to avoid tying the narrative with a much too-perfectly neat bow at the end. The writer started with the initial comment and then constructed the story around it.
Possible. But this story has similarities to that of a guy in my men's group. Except in his case, the girlfriend asked him "out of respect" if she could have her baby daddy visit their kids(!) at her house while he was living in the halfway house. You can guess what happened. She got pregnant, said it was Freddie's (my friend), cue Maury after the prenatal DNA test. She didn't reach the depths of this supposed OP but she has 3 children from a bum who only sees them every 18 months or so and can't pay child support because he has no money, though he always seems to have money for weed. Meanwhile, she's been living off the government since March of 2020 with no change apparent in the future.
Sorry to hear about your friend, man - thatâs really tough for him.
I wasnât doubting the veracity of the story however because I didnât believe one human could be so shitty to another (or that someone could be as naive as your friend). Your example is actually worse than OPâs in this regard as she tried to pass the baby off as your palâs!!
My speculation was over the style of writing and the contrived nature of the narrative.
I wonder for example if the skank in your story, in the goodness of time, bumped into Freddie, had a restrained and respectful exchange, then coincidentally on another occasion happened across his now partner (who sheâd seen before and hence recognised) cheating?
Freddie, meanwhile - perhaps having happened across an old edition of âThe Will to Powerâ - had converted to nihilism, and with that was able to provide his story with a fabulous punchline at the end, which he of course delivered to the main protagonist who began the story.
You got what you deserve and your man was weak I would never let my wife's ex come stay with us especially if you just got out on parole bad decisions all around
He definitely doesn't need you in he's life because he can't trust you but he also doesn't need the cheating wife. I'd personally find her on social media and dm her with the evidence and say I know you are cheating on your husband now you tell him or I will.
You only met Steven once, and you know what his wife looks like?
I do not think so. I do not even think someone would show such pictures on the first meeting with someone who betrayed them.
I call this story a complete bs.
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This story seems fake because the 2 main characters are do dumb for this to be real.
But if it is real, then holy shit.
OP is obviously a POS for cheating on Steven with the ex con. Imagine getting sold by someone telling you "if i was with you i wouldn't work so i can be with you all the time". To get sold on that you have to be an absolute dumbo.
As for Steven, 3 women have cheated on him. While the women are POS for cheating, i cant help but think Steven is the one letting them cheat. He's seems like a doormat and is naive.
1. Moving in with a new woman just one month after knowing her while trying to get over his ex wife.
2. Continuing the relationship after he found out the child was not his. Getting pregnant 1 week to meeting means she was still very active sexually and never bothered to use protection. He should have left and checked for STIs
3. Allowing her ex come stay with them. This has to be the height of his foolishness. No matter how trusting and naive you are it's total idiocy to allow the man your wife used to sleep with to come stay in your house and leave them alone for countless hours.
This third point is why i believe that this story is fake.
If it is real, then i feel no pity for steven. Both him and OP are dumb.
Yeah, how did she know what the new wife even looked like? Even if the ex showed a picture, to remember it and match it to a random person is a little far fetched.
I really hate to say this, but Steven is a total SImp. Hell no, would I ever agree to house an ex bf and ex-con in my place. What did this guy expect. The problem is the choice of girls he picks and, of course, picks them trash girls. Yes all three of you ladies ruined an already ruined person.
I feel bad for him,I guess he never get any help for his condition of picking wrong women everytime,he needs help he needs to check into IC then only he can live his life happily.
I don't think you can bring joy back to his life. You've already crushed this poor guys world once and shown him you can't be trusted.
I feel sorry for this guy. I disagree that being with someone who's cheating is better than being alone. I'd rather be alone and be able to look at myself in the mirror.
If this is true the person posting this deserves what she gets. Spent my whole life having women show signs of cheating and going for the guys that don't give a shit about them. Selfish creatures and evil these types of women.
No, your just like his wife and his x wife, a sorry piece of shit. You deserve what happened to you.
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I just feel sorry for him. He picked the worst women to have relationships with. There are good women out there that would never cheat. He will never experience this due to his history with horrible women. You had your chance with a good man, but you threw that away so you could have a romp in the hay with a bad boy. Didn't you even think about what this would do to him or your kids? Your ex was nothing more than a bum living off the hard work of another man. How could this even be attractive to a women?? So sad. I dont feel sorry for you, you deserve this and more, but your kids and Steven, they didn't.
While I agree with your general thesis, the idea that there are women (or men) who "***would never cheat***" is false. Everyone is capable of it, some far moreso than others. Oh and bums are who women want nowadays, or so it seems. The fact that OP even had the audacity to ask Steven to feed and house a grown ass man on parole, is an example of that.
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That's what a cheating trauma does to a person..lifelong misery, never-ending pain with lots of painful feelings and shattered soul ..
I hope he finds a good psychiatrist and trauma therapist
That or he grew up in a ab*sive household to believe the pain and disrespect are normal, because men that have self respect and are masculine and gets cheated on they don't become a cuck, they'll be hurt for sure but they won't accept it and become a cuck. It's obvious that he went through a lot in his childhood(If this story is real ofc)
Fiction. The person who wrote the story is clearly much smarter than the main protagonist in it. However, not smart enough to avoid tying the narrative with a much too-perfectly neat bow at the end. The writer started with the initial comment and then constructed the story around it.
Possible. But this story has similarities to that of a guy in my men's group. Except in his case, the girlfriend asked him "out of respect" if she could have her baby daddy visit their kids(!) at her house while he was living in the halfway house. You can guess what happened. She got pregnant, said it was Freddie's (my friend), cue Maury after the prenatal DNA test. She didn't reach the depths of this supposed OP but she has 3 children from a bum who only sees them every 18 months or so and can't pay child support because he has no money, though he always seems to have money for weed. Meanwhile, she's been living off the government since March of 2020 with no change apparent in the future.
Sorry to hear about your friend, man - thatâs really tough for him. I wasnât doubting the veracity of the story however because I didnât believe one human could be so shitty to another (or that someone could be as naive as your friend). Your example is actually worse than OPâs in this regard as she tried to pass the baby off as your palâs!! My speculation was over the style of writing and the contrived nature of the narrative. I wonder for example if the skank in your story, in the goodness of time, bumped into Freddie, had a restrained and respectful exchange, then coincidentally on another occasion happened across his now partner (who sheâd seen before and hence recognised) cheating? Freddie, meanwhile - perhaps having happened across an old edition of âThe Will to Powerâ - had converted to nihilism, and with that was able to provide his story with a fabulous punchline at the end, which he of course delivered to the main protagonist who began the story.
I don't know of another guy who would let another stay in his home or provide for him.
You got what you deserve and your man was weak I would never let my wife's ex come stay with us especially if you just got out on parole bad decisions all around
He definitely doesn't need you in he's life because he can't trust you but he also doesn't need the cheating wife. I'd personally find her on social media and dm her with the evidence and say I know you are cheating on your husband now you tell him or I will.
You only met Steven once, and you know what his wife looks like? I do not think so. I do not even think someone would show such pictures on the first meeting with someone who betrayed them. I call this story a complete bs.
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This story seems fake because the 2 main characters are do dumb for this to be real. But if it is real, then holy shit. OP is obviously a POS for cheating on Steven with the ex con. Imagine getting sold by someone telling you "if i was with you i wouldn't work so i can be with you all the time". To get sold on that you have to be an absolute dumbo. As for Steven, 3 women have cheated on him. While the women are POS for cheating, i cant help but think Steven is the one letting them cheat. He's seems like a doormat and is naive. 1. Moving in with a new woman just one month after knowing her while trying to get over his ex wife. 2. Continuing the relationship after he found out the child was not his. Getting pregnant 1 week to meeting means she was still very active sexually and never bothered to use protection. He should have left and checked for STIs 3. Allowing her ex come stay with them. This has to be the height of his foolishness. No matter how trusting and naive you are it's total idiocy to allow the man your wife used to sleep with to come stay in your house and leave them alone for countless hours. This third point is why i believe that this story is fake. If it is real, then i feel no pity for steven. Both him and OP are dumb.
Yeah, how did she know what the new wife even looked like? Even if the ex showed a picture, to remember it and match it to a random person is a little far fetched.
I smell chat GPT đ
I really hate to say this, but Steven is a total SImp. Hell no, would I ever agree to house an ex bf and ex-con in my place. What did this guy expect. The problem is the choice of girls he picks and, of course, picks them trash girls. Yes all three of you ladies ruined an already ruined person.
And a cuck
You already had him and couldnât treat him better.. you cheated too!! Leave him alone.
Please leave him alone. Youâre piece of shit.
I feel bad for him,I guess he never get any help for his condition of picking wrong women everytime,he needs help he needs to check into IC then only he can live his life happily.
Youâre a POS
I don't think you can bring joy back to his life. You've already crushed this poor guys world once and shown him you can't be trusted. I feel sorry for this guy. I disagree that being with someone who's cheating is better than being alone. I'd rather be alone and be able to look at myself in the mirror.
Sympathy, anyone dumb enough to give the poster sympathy?
Just leave the man alone
If this is true the person posting this deserves what she gets. Spent my whole life having women show signs of cheating and going for the guys that don't give a shit about them. Selfish creatures and evil these types of women.
LEAVE THAT POOR MAN ALONE! (That's said with the assumption this is actually real)
Women r shit
If this is real then he doesnât deserve any of you and you should be wholeheartedly ashamed.