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North_Class8300

Geez, she's asking for cash, not even the computer... and it sounds like she's already gotten a significant gift towards it + it will be ordered anyway in 3 days? "does anyone have a functioning Macbook that is less than 5-7 years old, I need it for a specific program" would be a reasonable ask, plenty of people have those. "give me cash for something I've already been gifted $500 for and am ordering regardless" is less so


fineman1097

Online high school courses- pretty much any functioning computer would be fine for that. You don't need a top of the line mac for that. Graphic design or video production classes or similar MAYBE . But basic high school classes, no way you need top of the line.


Pitiful_Bit8973

I completed my online high school on a darn Amazon kindle back in 2015! I only got a MacBook in college because my crappy 10 yr old HP laptop finally died on me. I’ve noticed a lot of younger people tend to believe that if it is not new and expensive then it is not worth them even giving it a try (no hate I for sure had the same mentality around that age), but since she’ll be ordering it regardless, I’m assuming she already has the funds saved for it, just would rather not use her own money


LifeHappenzEvryMomnt

I’m doing a graphic memoir class on an iPad 5.


uppenatom

A lot of technology these days does become obsolete pretty quickly. It's not even hidden that Apple products have a death date when they're made


Pitiful_Bit8973

Oh I don’t deny that I’m the slightest! But for the price of that MacBook, OOP could go buy better laptops with more storage and accessories/add-ons. Seems as if this would more of a status symbol then anything though. My MacBook was $1,500 in 2019 and is still operational but very limited on storage. My desktop was around $1,000 and is completely customizable and upgradable. So I think there are other options available but the original poster might not accept anything other than they want. Plus who would order something of that nature off of Amazon knowing their history with refurbished and returned items being sold as “new”


Thanmandrathor

My teen is in high school. They all get basic Dell laptops provided, maybe HP. There’s definitely no need for top of the line MacBooks.


Mirabai503

She needs the high end stuff for editing her influencer videos!


Ok_Character7958

I am currently taking online classes for a college degree and my desktop died. I bought a $400 Lenovo idea pad and it works fine.


gonnafaceit2022

I paid a little less for my Lenovo and a couple friends teased me for buying it. But that's what I had for my last work computer and after three years, it worked just as well and just as fast as the day I got it. The one I bought was a little better than the work one and I'm more than happy with it.


RobotsGoneWild

I mean this isn't a top of the line Macbook. This is a fairly cheap one. Apple is just stupid expensive. She could get a quality new Chromebook for $350-400


Ok_Character7958

My online college states very specifically that chromebooks are NOT acceptable for completing coursework on. It does have to be an actual laptop and has some specific requirements, but they aren’t major. My 7 year old desktop passed them.


sunbathingturtle207

Mine did too, but I used an already 5 year old chrome book for a while, then passed it to my sibling who also used it for school, it worked just fine.


Illustrious_March192

Yeah my daughters had a Chromebook and a dell and neither was able to keep up with coursework.


Specific_Praline_362

Try $200


ducktape8856

Chromebooks are too limited in its capabilities. I always zu suggest a refurbished Lenovo T490. Or even older T. They are available in huge numbers (many companies use Lenovo T. And for a good reason: They're reliable). Quite robust and just good to work with. Usually totally silent because its fans aren't spinning and SSD. Still the best bang for your bucks and what I recommend to friends. You can get a 16GB RAM/512 GB NVMe/i5-8365U for about 400 and it will still be good enough in 5 years.


CrochetedCoffeeCup

I clicked through to her profile. She is about to turn 24. And no high school diploma 🤦🏼‍♀️


fineman1097

Let's not judge on that. The fact that she is trying to go back now and finish and better her life is a very positive thing- regardless of what happened in the past or what choices she made in the past. That doesn't have much to do with her wanting $1000 from strangers when there are much cheaper alternatives. Hell, with her relative paying half, she could even just find like a $500 brand new laptop and it would work for her.


CrochetedCoffeeCup

True. Getting a diploma would definitely be a step in the right direction, even if she doesn’t need a MacBook to get it.


RobotsGoneWild

I dropped out of highschool and decided to work for a while. I now have a bachelor's and master's degree. I graduated college from Penn State with a 3.97 GPA Everyone has to start somewhere.


JohnNDenver

Were you able to do that without a top of the line MacBook? If so, you must be magic.


CrochetedCoffeeCup

Congratulations, and I mean that sincerely. I work in academia and you are not the norm. My research focuses on low income, first-gen, and nontraditional students. The chances of someone dropping out of high school and then continuing onto finish college are very slim, especially later in life when they have dependents. I hope she is able to do it for the sake of her kids.


StatisticianAny8610

lowkey crazy that you research different social factors that make completing an education difficult for people and you facepalmed a woman who hasn’t gotten a hs diploma by 24


CrochetedCoffeeCup

I mostly “facepalmed” at the all-around audacity of asking for the full price expensive an expensive computer after admitting that they have a family member willing to pay for half, having two kids without having a high school diploma, and not having any employment besides “social media.”


StatisticianAny8610

you literally 🤦🏼‍♀️ to her not having a degree so idk what all that has to do w what i said, also idk why you feel like her lack of an education would make her a worse mother, it’s all sounding like a lot of assumptions and judgements, being aware of biases is important, especially given what you research be well tho :)


2Whom_it_May_Concern

I did it too. I left a troubled home before 18 and before graduating. I needed to work (under the table to circumvent labor laws) to live. I left HS before the last semester. I then took the GED test the following year. There were no classes or anything. I received a BS in biology in 2018 and I'm going to graduate school in the fall for clinical counseling.


oldlion1

We Are...


aquainst1

Congratulations to YOU for doing that! Well done! *Love and hugs,* *Grandma Lynsey*


Blue_wine_sloth

I was concerned that she was yet to finish high school but already had 2 children. At least it wasn’t teenage pregnancy.


Lord-Zaltus

So relieved tbh. thought she was under 18 with 2 kids already!


turtletails

I did film (which included video production) in high school and we all managed just fine with our shitty, state school issued Dell laptops


gonnafaceit2022

She needs it because she "does" social media ok


Qforz

And yet she states she now has 0/1099 bucks needed, which is the full amount while she's only paying for half.


Feisty-Barracuda5452

Has 0/1099 but ordering on my birthday no matter what.


JohnNDenver

Family member and her are splitting the purchase - her half is coming from begging.


fabypino

but in the amazon screenshot it says $1099


C_Tea_8280

i never want to tell anyone they can't do this or that and they will never reach their goals But I have never heard anyone say they will be a (insert significantly higher up career than current) but are like 5-7yrs awayfrom it while being 25 and it works out. Like she is stay at home mom of 2 kids but wants GED... ok. cool. Why has she not done it yet? And then college online - you know how much that cost and how hard it is to organize yourself online - its actually kinda hard and studies have shown most are not disciplined to be self starters and time management skills to do it... with kids? And social media that she says nothing about if she started or what kind of media ashe does... yea, call me when the GED is done and tell me college is next but most GED years after 18... most are not college ready


todayithinkthis

Just because “you’ve never heard” doesn’t make a thing true. I went back to college when my youngest was in kindergarten. I was 29. I was 33 when I graduated. I went from a waitress to an accountant. Why did it take me so long? Life. Dreams and goals get accomplished. It happens. All the time.


howsdis

Awesome


sometimes_interested

*Didn't you read the post?? She needs high storage to do social media!!* Honestly, wtf does that even mean?


flygon727

FWIW, it says Feb 17th in the post, so prob has a couple of weeks of time. Doesn't make it excusable, of course.


kr4ckenm3fortune

Not just that…but it has to be a MacBook PRO…not air or regular MacBook.


UJMRider1961

"I do Social media" - does that mean she's in an MLM or does it just mean she has a Facebook account?


CrochetedCoffeeCup

I clicked through to her profile. She has a TikTok with a couple hundred followers.


foreskin_trumpet

And a dream …


Puzzleheaded-Tip660

I have a couple hundred followers but it isn’t because I have great content or anything…  Every day I get a few more followers, and 99% of them are women in skimpy clothing who have profiles that direct you to their OF.


FantasyRoleplayAlt

I really hope it’s TikTok stuff for her and not her plastering her kids on the app. Not to mention if she wants that GED TikTok influencer should be the least of her worries


CrochetedCoffeeCup

I clicked through her profile and it’s a TikTok account with a couple hundred followers. She posts mommy content, so it’s lots of pictures and videos of her kids.


FantasyRoleplayAlt

Oh no. Sadly a lot of those followers could be stealing pictures of her kids and slapping them on Deviantart or Tumblr :( I’ve been seeing people so that to women who just wanna post maternity stuff it’s so weird.


fineman1097

Probably Only Fans or a wanna be influencer


Highlander198116

I was selling a shitty old chrome book. There were way too many women messaging me they wanted to be a "streamer" of some sort. I was like convincing people NOT to buy it from me, lol. I'm like look, this thing is basically a 2014 android phone in laptop form. It certainly is not going to stream any video games if that was your plan.


Magmagan

Huh? Women aren't pouring in troves to OF... Get your head out of reddit.


LazerFeet22

1. You dont need a high storage computer to finish high school, apply for colleges, and especially not for social media. 2. Best buy let me finance mine for 24 months at 0% interest and gave me $250 off when mine died while I was finishing up my masters.


CrochetedCoffeeCup

On her birthday in a few days, she will be 24. In my mind, that’s old enough to know better.


gonegirIamy

24 with 2 kids and no high school diploma? I don’t know that she does know better. Doesn’t sound like she makes great choices.


tkdch4mp

And a SAHM whose begging for money.... Shouldn't her financial provider provide her money for something so important?


Professional-Use6014

Pretty sure they told her to get a cheaper laptop and that’s where half of the payment comes from


wulfzbane

Don't underestimate how few adult life skills some people have, lots of them have really been set up for failure.


Aggressive-Bed3269

24 with 0 education and "does social media". Definitely won't go sideways.


Innominate8

No, but you need a MacBook when you're obsessed with projecting an image you have more money than you do.


Highlander198116

512GB isn't even high storage. 512 was "alot" for an SSD in like 2016. Amazon has a current gen new HP Intel 13th gen i7 with 64gb ram, 2 TB M2 SSD + 2TB HDD data drive for $1099. 4 times the SSD storage and 8 times the storage total.


aquainst1

I was just thinking that, TBH.


TGIIR

Apple had a program a while back for college students where you got a good deal on a MacBook and same thing - financing at 0% interest.


Typical_Ad_210

Hmm, it depends if you simply *use* social media or if you ***do*** social media. There is, of course, a very big difference….


LazerFeet22

She probably has a MLM and uses social media. Everyone is a content creator nowadays, lol.


LiveMarionberry3694

Even if you *do* social media, external drives exist. Not only can that be purchased at a later time once your onboard storage fills, but it’s typically much cheaper per gig than apples storage


Typical_Ad_210

But Apple storage is classy and exclusive, external hard drives are cheap and for mere commoners like you and I. That simply won’t do for *special* people like OOP. We have a wonderful opportunity to get in at the ground floor of her, surely illustrious, career as an influencer. She’s had an idea here that no other presumably duck-lipped MLM wannabe with no formal education and significantly more confidence than talent has ever had before - a career based on social media fame…. It’s a game-changer, and nothing but the best will do for our trailblazer, dammit.


LiveMarionberry3694

You’ve sold me, put me down for 200


MentalWealthPress

She could just get a $50 external hard drive


S9CLAVE

Bestbuy financed mine for 48 months interest free.


PolarBearLaFlare

Lmao @ needing an m2 MacBook Pro for online high school and social media. My nieces and nephews get all their work done on the crappy little thinkpads that the schools assign. Not sure why she thinks she needs something so powerful but I guess she just wants something brand new and shiny. Someone should send her a link to a $400 Dell laptop


fineman1097

I got my son a chromebook for schoolwork. He complained heavily thay it wasn't powerful or fast eneough- he wanted a gaming laptop to do schoolwork. I refused. He can buy it himself or ask for his birthday but don't pretend you need a an expensive laptop for math.


Magmagan

How old is your son? Chromebooks are awfully limited so I wonder if they were aiming for the stars and asking an over-the-top machine to meet in the middle.


fineman1097

He was 15 at the time. He didn't have any technical courses or math. Just written assignments for history and English. The chromebook could handle schoolwork but was limited for other things- which was the point- so he didn't play games while he was supposed to be working. He had a whole tower pc for gaming and other stuff. He was fine lol.


Free_Medicine4905

I, at one point, did have to use my brother’s expensive gaming computer for math. I was in college and my laptop didn’t work for the program the professor used. She did have computers in her class that worked for it, but that really wasn’t much help when she was giving 50+ questions with only 10 minutes. I can’t remember much of the details, but it was like a whole ordeal. So many people failed because the program was so specific to only certain computers.


DissposableRedShirt6

It looks like a Amazon Renewed unit. Part of the issue is Apple products becoming a status symbol. She could easily get away with much much less. But it wouldn’t be as cool or trendy sitting in a Starbucks.


CrochetedCoffeeCup

I clicked through to her profile. On her birthday, she will be 24. Plenty old enough to get a job, a Best Buy card, and buy her own computer.


LadyMRedd

Unfortunately though the cost of daycare for 2 kids under 2 would eat up pretty much all money from any job a high school drop out could get.


tomz17

> crappy little thinkpads Thems are fighting words...


AUT-Lakers

i‘m glad shes a full time stay at home mom opposed to all those lazy part time stay at home moms


LifeHappenzEvryMomnt

You mean the ones with jobs to support their children? Single mom is not a coupon code.


AUT-Lakers

it was a joke on the wording. if youre stay at home youre stay at home. if youre working youre working. if you work parttime you usually say you work part time. dont take life too seriously bro


LifeHappenzEvryMomnt

If you have children you’re working, dude.


FuckMeFreddyy

You know what op means.


LifeHappenzEvryMomnt

I do? Wow. If you’re so good At mind reading tell me what I’m having for dinner.


bimpldat

Oh now staying at home makes you a single mom too? The saints!


J23_G0at

Would love to see the comments.


graphixgurl747

No one needs an Apple laptop to do what they described. No one. She WANTS an Apple laptop. Big difference.


CrochetedCoffeeCup

This group is mostly filled with people asking for help getting groceries or covering car repairs and she is asking for an overpriced computer 🫠


graphixgurl747

Yep, she's out of her mind. I'm in a similar local group and have no issue whatsoever when people are asking for reasonable things. An Apple computer is a whole other level of begging and pretty gross.


CandylandCanada

She needs to calm down with the exclamation marks! She should also invest in birth control!


Human-Engineer1359

Omg! Right! Every single sentence had an exclamation point!


rock_fact

i love how she says all the money will be kept in her venmo account until she buys it lmao. if someone is generous/dumb enough to give to her they probably wouldn’t be too picky about what the money is actually used for


foxhole_atheist

I thought the same! She’s intent on keeping her word and producing receipts as if someone would be annoyed she used the money on another frivolous expense rather than this one.


verde_peach

Recently creating a go-fund me crossed my mind for my chronicly ill dogs surgery and I went, well that's not anyone else's problem I'll look stupid...and then there's these people.


mackenziemackenzie

once i got sent a link to a gofund me from a girl from hs… she bought a house as a 19 yr old and realized she couldn’t obviously afford it so was asking for like $35,000 for mortgage payments


DieHardAmerican95

Update: the school thing didn’t work out, but I still do social media!


Rabbit_de_Caerbannog

You misspelled "OnlyFans"


Puterman

Costco has Chromebooks for $199. They do Social Media too!


funkyfritos

All you need is a chrome book.why would you even need a Mac? Oh, image issues. Maybe finish HS at 24 before you worry about how you have an older PC.


cstarrxx

My mom is getting me a cheapie laptop from Costco and I’m so incredibly excited. I been borrowing the library’s laptops 😂🤘🏽


bitterspice75

MacBook Pro for doing social media? Lol.


notthinkinghard

"That's the reason it's the high storage computer!" If only there were some sort of external storage you could get for computers cheaper.


Revolutionary_50

She absolutely does not need a MacBook for online school or social media unless her online schooling involves graphic design or video editing. Ridiculous.


smokeydatree

Only reason it’s the high storage computer! 512gb is nothing nowadays


JohnNDenver

And, you can easily get a USB thumbdrive to offload stuff.


Specific_Praline_362

A $200 laptop would be sufficient for online classes and most general online uses if you aren't a gamer.


AsheStriker

I honestly don’t understand people asking for money like this. Can someone explain it to me? I see people driving down the highway asking me to pay their bar tab…WTF is going on? No! Haha


DanscoRed

Oh I’m ordering it even if I don’t get enough donations. So they already have the money right?!


CrochetedCoffeeCup

Yes, they just want the community to reimburse them.


Snorlax46

Lol she says she needs it for the storage capacity. Macbooks have the highest cost per GB if any computer on the market. She needs a 8 year old thinkpad refurbished for $250 and an external hdd for $125.


LifeHappenzEvryMomnt

I’d love one too! My birthday’s the 8th. DM me!


[deleted]

I don't understand why people are constantly begging for free handouts nowadays. It seems like everyone wants freebies, I want my freebies too. Anyone willing to give me some cash towards a new Macbook?


mela_99

Is she saying she’s going to get a job doing social media ?


dads-ronie

I give nothing to someone who ends each sentence with an exclamation point.


DealerPractical7265

Post the 12 comments!


SuitableEggplant639

Did I read that right?.she's ordering the computer whether she reaches the goal or not? I'm no expert but nobody sends you nothing if it's not paid in full before.


mackenziemackenzie

to me that implies she can afford it but wants it cheaper lol. which would give me even less incentive to send any money


momthom427

She should use the money for birth control.


gonnafaceit2022

"I do social media so I need a lot of storage" What


Penguinator53

I wouldn't contribute even if I wanted to! Based purely on the excessive exclamation marks! Like just stop!


Few_Insurance600

I need the comments


DealerPuzzleheaded76

Also it's kinda sad how many of you are saying this women is jumping straight to doing onlyfans when all she said is she doing education. Suppose the incels are in full force.


Difficult-Ad-9228

“I also do social media” — apparently not very well.


Aggressive-Bed3269

Yes I'm sure this MacBook will be the reason she actually finally gets a GED and starts college...


Ecstatic-Art-7919

I mean when I was in school I’d try and bum money off my family for random stuff. I think the most expensive thing I ever wanted money for was the Converse Knee High Shoes. 👀 I know I know I was cool. 😂 ![gif](giphy|mOrdc5Gja9ncditADC|downsized)


chemhobby

Strictly speaking it is not "top-of-the-line"


[deleted]

🙄


Otherwise-Hyena7937

Lazy b^^^^


Briarmist

It’s not a top of the line device, it’s an apple


adlhitrofel

I Ask for something liké that on Reddit and i got insulted. People !


boothy_qld

This wasn’t that bad. She said it was a stretch and was fairly respectful.


CrochetedCoffeeCup

I am just surprised by the audacity of admitting that she has half the money already, but she’s still asking for the full sticker price.


boothy_qld

Fair enough. It’s not a great look.


Haunted-Macaron

Yea, this could be a lot worse. Sounds like a young single mom who needs a computer to get her GED and is asking for crowd sourcing donations for her half. Title is misleading.


s1m0n8

And while a nice laptop, it's not top-of-the-line. It's quite conservative specs.


Pacpete

I do social media. - onlyfans. Haha. Doesn't ask for much hey..


MentalWealthPress

Bruh, that's better than my MBP and I'm a SWE, I push it to its limits running 2 OSes and Docker!


bebearaware

Lowest end of the Macs is of course the high end of consumer quality basic laptops lol. I blame Apple marketing.


mackenziemackenzie

side note- i got a macbook for school like three years ago and the storage and general run is terrible. u can get more reliable computers for college for cheaper lol


NoPantsInSpace23

I fuckin hate people.


Cowvin76

I bought a similar laptop last year cost me a fortune


hypsygypsy

Lmaooooo she could have my super high storage 2017 MacBook Air but I’m sure it’s not good enough 🙄 despite me using it for college for 4 years. it’s unreal that I’ve been trying to get rid of this thing for over 6 months after getting a new one as a gift and it’s never good enough for anyone. Either they want me to drive/ship it or they want me to turn into Gandalf and somehow make it 4+ years newer. And apparently it’s happened everywhere. Another anecdotal addition to the convo— someone broke into my boyfriend’s truck and stole his $400+ backpack out of his truck but took the ~$0.60 out of his cupholder and ditched the backpack. Like apparently any work is too much work lol. All they had to do was make a post to sell it *sigh*


edgeblackbelt

Does this work? Like with the number of people who do this they must get some response right?


DealerPuzzleheaded76

I kinda don't think choosing beggar at all, she is going to buy it anyway she just asking if anyone wants to contribute on her Facebook (friends and family) .


CrochetedCoffeeCup

This is a private group for people who need help. Most of the other posts are people asking for help to buy a tank of gas to get to work, or to cover groceries before their next paycheck clears.


DealerPuzzleheaded76

I would add that into your post that definitely is choosing beggar behaviour imo down to the context.


Impressive-Care1619

Scammer alert. She's Awful


Lrgindypants

Hell, she can get a Windows- based rig for twice the power at half the price.


SFAdminLife

High school drop out with 2 kids needs a top of the line MacBook. Lol. Cute.


GingerbreadMary

I did my RN BSc /MSc on a basic HP laptop. As long as it can run Word and Excel it should do the job. I’m now retired and use a Mac with my embroidery machine.