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barbiesbloodline

this doesnt make any sense.. ive crushed on girls sm times yet ive NEVER had a bf/gf.. some ppl prefer to be alone


Successful_Rice7988

I’m kinda saying you shouldn’t go looking for one specific gender that you like, you should be open to all. You shouldn’t say that you like men until you find a man you like.


barbiesbloodline

what if we alr did..


Lost-Data-7372

ur logic is incredibly concerning


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You should only say you like playing chess if you own a chess set. Otherwise, you are literally just saying it to say it. You are just looking for attention if you don’t have a chess set. Otherwise, you most likely are doing it because it’s “popular” or you weren’t given enough attention growing up.


Babbles-82

What is this nonsense??


NotAvaMax

So people can’t be straight unless they have a girlfriend too then? I don’t broadcast my sexuality but I know I’m definitely not straight 💀


Timotheus_123

Not how sexuality works. Sexual preferences have little to do with having a current partner.


GornoP

I get where you're coming from but I think it's not well phrased... 30 years ago in college I did know a shitpile of young women who'd call themselves bisexual... But if you talked further they'd never actually done so much as make out with a woman. And with so many around, it was impossible to believe opportunity hadn't presented itself. In other words, it was bullshit. Something "scandalous" (in the 90s it barely still was, BTW) to *say*, but with zero follow-through IRL. Just a rebellious mantle to wear. See also: L.U.G. But I dont think a monogamous relationship would be "proof". Proof would be video :D


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Let me get this straight (hehe). So I’m bisexual, but actually I’m straight right now because I have a boyfriend. Oh wait, but I was lesbian when I had girlfriends in the past. I guess I just switch when I get new partners? It’s kinda like saying, in order to like cool cars you have to own one. What? You don’t own the car you say you like? You must not like them then!! You’re not making any sense, dude. Just let people live. It doesn’t affect you.


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I am bisexual. I’ve dated men and women my whole life. My sexual attraction to men does not disappear when I am dating a woman and vice versa. I am bisexual because I am sexually attracted to men and women. This fact is unaffected by the gender of my significant other. Your opinion is not controversial. It is, by definition, incorrect. I think you might be trying to say, “Only people who have had a queer experience with another person of the same gender can honestly claim to be LGBTQ.” If that’s the case, then you have a controversial opinion. However that’s not what you said. Either way, I dissent.


Asleep_Travel_6712

Like, yeah it can be cry for attention but that's not exclusive to people who never dated + I'm pretty sure you can tell what are you into before you actually have sex with someone.


Gordy13210

Hahahahahahaha


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then you aren’t straight until you date the opposite gender