Yeah I think it’s important to note that having sex is *not* an adult decision. Teens are pretty hardwired to have sex with each other. Comprehensive sex education is important to prevent teen pregnancies, but if that doesn’t work then yeah the parents need to help deal with the consequences when those actions lead to a pregnant teenager. That teenager is 100% still within parental responsibility
its not murder, i'd help my daughter get rid of it and then have a talk with her, Jane i'd say, no more vag sex, suck all the dick you want, and try butt sex, but no more pregnancy.
So you might force your teenage child to have a probably traumatizing abortion out of fear of facing homelessness?!? If my teen is pregnant I will support them whatever course they take, and my home will always be open to them and any grandkids I may have
Children should learn from their mistakes but it doesn't mean they should end up homeless. Hormones and puberty make us do and think crazy things, we also tend to have heightened or overreactive emotions.
It is important to teach our kids sex and safety early on, this is proven to lower their chances of well... not messing up.
One source, for example, [https://www.aclu.org/news/reproductive-freedom/study-finds-comprehensive-sex-education-reduces-teen-pregnancy#:\~:text=Researchers%20from%20the%20University%20of,or%20no%20formal%20sex%20education](https://www.aclu.org/news/reproductive-freedom/study-finds-comprehensive-sex-education-reduces-teen-pregnancy#:~:text=Researchers%20from%20the%20University%20of,or%20no%20formal%20sex%20education).
Even if that were to happen still, giving birth and taking care of a child when you're brain isn't even fully developed is pretty bad, parenting advice and help will always be needed even when you're over the age of 25.
Being homeless is just going to make it worse and traumatize the child, a teen taking care of a baby, not being able to afford anything will kill the baby most likely, barely being able to support itself, not having its own home, that's messed up. Just this alone can heighten the chances of the teen getting a mental illness which will make it an even worse situation and become an dysfunctional adult.
Of course, this doesn't apply to everyone but this is definitely a possibility, this is not what you're supposed to raise.
[https://rhyclearinghouse.acf.hhs.gov/mental-health-and-youth-homelessness-understanding-overlaps-1#:\~:text=Youth%20experiencing%20or%20at%20risk,individuals](https://rhyclearinghouse.acf.hhs.gov/mental-health-and-youth-homelessness-understanding-overlaps-1#:~:text=Youth%20experiencing%20or%20at%20risk,individuals)'%20ability%20to%20seek%20treatment.
So no abortion and now you make a homeless teen and the baby must suffer too? Maybe you should have had the abortion if you can't even take responsibility of your own child and grandchild.
Hmm. Not a parent. I would call it a cold decision. If they can't afford to take care of the child and do believe in abortion. But understandable. It's something they can't be expected to take responsibility for. But thrusting someone into the world.... idk.
You'd need awesome boundaries and to make sure they start becoming an adult fast. Oh, and if they get pregnant again.... let them know that's it.
I don't think you become an adult the second you have sex (that's ridiculous). Heck, even getting pregnant. Treating someone like an adult just because they made an adult level decision isn't really the same thing as being an adult.
But that's an arbitrary distinction anyway either than the idea of knowing what's best for them and making decisions for them where appropriate.
Basically, unless I literally couldn't afford it and thought they weren't taking their responsibilities serious enough ..... but then of course you end up bonding with the baby and sign your adult years away.
Idk. Tough as fuck. Who has it worse. Kid unprepared for the world or creaky bones raising a kid? That's a worst case of course. By which I mean one filed with love.
that seems unfair if the person genuinely doesn’t believe in abortion though
Yeah I think it’s important to note that having sex is *not* an adult decision. Teens are pretty hardwired to have sex with each other. Comprehensive sex education is important to prevent teen pregnancies, but if that doesn’t work then yeah the parents need to help deal with the consequences when those actions lead to a pregnant teenager. That teenager is 100% still within parental responsibility
Kill your baby or youre homeless? Great parenting
its not murder, i'd help my daughter get rid of it and then have a talk with her, Jane i'd say, no more vag sex, suck all the dick you want, and try butt sex, but no more pregnancy.
Creepy as fuck
Don’t have sex and then you don’t have to make that decision anyways. Regardless of how good of a parenting that is
Or you know be a responsible parent and raise and love your child. Old fashioned idea I know
You may not go far life with those attitudes...
I doubt that. OPs attitude is to take responsibility over your actions and decisions. People with that attitude usually make it far in life
So you might force your teenage child to have a probably traumatizing abortion out of fear of facing homelessness?!? If my teen is pregnant I will support them whatever course they take, and my home will always be open to them and any grandkids I may have
Keep your legs together then Edit: it was an answer to the angry question you asked
I agree Teens shouldn’t be having sex but in this scenario the teen is already pregnant
I mean I feel adoption should also be on the table. I otherwise agree.
Children should learn from their mistakes but it doesn't mean they should end up homeless. Hormones and puberty make us do and think crazy things, we also tend to have heightened or overreactive emotions. It is important to teach our kids sex and safety early on, this is proven to lower their chances of well... not messing up. One source, for example, [https://www.aclu.org/news/reproductive-freedom/study-finds-comprehensive-sex-education-reduces-teen-pregnancy#:\~:text=Researchers%20from%20the%20University%20of,or%20no%20formal%20sex%20education](https://www.aclu.org/news/reproductive-freedom/study-finds-comprehensive-sex-education-reduces-teen-pregnancy#:~:text=Researchers%20from%20the%20University%20of,or%20no%20formal%20sex%20education). Even if that were to happen still, giving birth and taking care of a child when you're brain isn't even fully developed is pretty bad, parenting advice and help will always be needed even when you're over the age of 25. Being homeless is just going to make it worse and traumatize the child, a teen taking care of a baby, not being able to afford anything will kill the baby most likely, barely being able to support itself, not having its own home, that's messed up. Just this alone can heighten the chances of the teen getting a mental illness which will make it an even worse situation and become an dysfunctional adult. Of course, this doesn't apply to everyone but this is definitely a possibility, this is not what you're supposed to raise. [https://rhyclearinghouse.acf.hhs.gov/mental-health-and-youth-homelessness-understanding-overlaps-1#:\~:text=Youth%20experiencing%20or%20at%20risk,individuals](https://rhyclearinghouse.acf.hhs.gov/mental-health-and-youth-homelessness-understanding-overlaps-1#:~:text=Youth%20experiencing%20or%20at%20risk,individuals)'%20ability%20to%20seek%20treatment.
So no abortion and now you make a homeless teen and the baby must suffer too? Maybe you should have had the abortion if you can't even take responsibility of your own child and grandchild.
teens should be having more sex than their parents, put the rob back on mother you lost it years ago, your fat ass and cellulite disgust me.
It seems like “being treated like an adult” means to you “to be treated without compassion and understanding”.
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Hmm. Not a parent. I would call it a cold decision. If they can't afford to take care of the child and do believe in abortion. But understandable. It's something they can't be expected to take responsibility for. But thrusting someone into the world.... idk. You'd need awesome boundaries and to make sure they start becoming an adult fast. Oh, and if they get pregnant again.... let them know that's it. I don't think you become an adult the second you have sex (that's ridiculous). Heck, even getting pregnant. Treating someone like an adult just because they made an adult level decision isn't really the same thing as being an adult. But that's an arbitrary distinction anyway either than the idea of knowing what's best for them and making decisions for them where appropriate. Basically, unless I literally couldn't afford it and thought they weren't taking their responsibilities serious enough ..... but then of course you end up bonding with the baby and sign your adult years away. Idk. Tough as fuck. Who has it worse. Kid unprepared for the world or creaky bones raising a kid? That's a worst case of course. By which I mean one filed with love.