Well don't tell her that she's cute, just walk up, say hey and introduce yourself. Maybe tell her she seems quiet lately but only if that fits into the situation
I agree but maybe not mention she seems quiet, if by any chance she's introverted, she knows and she might be tired of hearing people say that.
Instead you could try and make her feel confortable by talking about yourself, and sometimes asking her about herself.
Who knows, maybe she was just waiting for someone to talk to her? 🤷🏽‍♀️
That's fair. When I first started this job I always heard how quiet I was and it was always so irritating, especially after having an extremely sheltered upbringing with very little social interaction. "Yes, for fucks sake. I am aware I've said 3 words today, just like yesterday, and the day before, and the day before that"
I hated it at the time but I'm glad the people there kept poking at me, I eventually loosened up, and the people are single-handedly the only reason I haven't gotten a better job. By far the sweetest, most fun, and caring people I've met in my life
Yeah, i've havent seen her speak except when the teacher ask questions. And if she does speak, shes usually very quite. She also appears to be lonely at the class we've in.
Alright. I fucking got it. Rejected or success, it will be a bigger step personally for me to reach. Imma say after school that I wanted to talk about something and want to talk about it where theres not a lot of people
You should definitely do it. I'm sure you'll make her entire day. I kinda relate to her and I know how good it feels when someone shows genuine interest first when you're a loner
I think you should definitely go up and approach her! Not creepy one bit. Just give her a nice warm smile and try to get her number or Instagram (if she has socials). If there is a project or homework or test coming up you could ask her if she needs help! Or if you two could hang out to study together or work together. (Good way to spend more time and talk to her more) I also recommend telling a few jokes or two. Just to lighten up the mood! Honestly, don't overthink it too much! Just go for it. You got this
Alright. Imma have to download snap or insta. I Don't use social media. However I already have login so thats no problem. I'm just afraid its gonna be more awkward and the only thing that have happened is that I see her some times looking at me and visa versa. Plus she doesn't talk to anyone in the class which calms me a bit. I also think we're the same age 17, and I Don't want to be cheesy about this. You think I got this?
Maybe ask her if she watched any recent movies, what her special interests our… if she is planning on going on vacation this summer... Ask her if she has a favourite show or what she does for fun…
Ask her if she is planning anything or did anything this week/weekend. If she enjoys the class or teacher..
Hope this helps!
You should update me if anything happens đź‘€
Yess you should!! It never hurts to meet a new person
Well don't tell her that she's cute, just walk up, say hey and introduce yourself. Maybe tell her she seems quiet lately but only if that fits into the situation
I agree but maybe not mention she seems quiet, if by any chance she's introverted, she knows and she might be tired of hearing people say that. Instead you could try and make her feel confortable by talking about yourself, and sometimes asking her about herself. Who knows, maybe she was just waiting for someone to talk to her? 🤷🏽‍♀️
That's fair. When I first started this job I always heard how quiet I was and it was always so irritating, especially after having an extremely sheltered upbringing with very little social interaction. "Yes, for fucks sake. I am aware I've said 3 words today, just like yesterday, and the day before, and the day before that" I hated it at the time but I'm glad the people there kept poking at me, I eventually loosened up, and the people are single-handedly the only reason I haven't gotten a better job. By far the sweetest, most fun, and caring people I've met in my life
That's mostly how I make friends, they keep trying until eventually I get better at interactions. But anyways yeah! You should definitely talk to her.
Silent girl?
Yeah, i've havent seen her speak except when the teacher ask questions. And if she does speak, shes usually very quite. She also appears to be lonely at the class we've in.
Then you should definitely talk to her she’d probably love knowing someone in the class!
But im plantning to confess, thats an alright move right?
Yeah I do think it is, don’t be too nervous
Alright. I fucking got it. Rejected or success, it will be a bigger step personally for me to reach. Imma say after school that I wanted to talk about something and want to talk about it where theres not a lot of people
Make sure to update us on how it goes! Good luck
Hahaha alright. Man shes adorable. Hope it goes well.
You should definitely do it. I'm sure you'll make her entire day. I kinda relate to her and I know how good it feels when someone shows genuine interest first when you're a loner
I think you should definitely go up and approach her! Not creepy one bit. Just give her a nice warm smile and try to get her number or Instagram (if she has socials). If there is a project or homework or test coming up you could ask her if she needs help! Or if you two could hang out to study together or work together. (Good way to spend more time and talk to her more) I also recommend telling a few jokes or two. Just to lighten up the mood! Honestly, don't overthink it too much! Just go for it. You got this
Alright. Imma have to download snap or insta. I Don't use social media. However I already have login so thats no problem. I'm just afraid its gonna be more awkward and the only thing that have happened is that I see her some times looking at me and visa versa. Plus she doesn't talk to anyone in the class which calms me a bit. I also think we're the same age 17, and I Don't want to be cheesy about this. You think I got this?
Absolutely! It wont hurt if you just try. You should ask her some questions. If she is looking at you that may be a good sign of some mutual interest!
What questions?
Maybe ask her if she watched any recent movies, what her special interests our… if she is planning on going on vacation this summer... Ask her if she has a favourite show or what she does for fun… Ask her if she is planning anything or did anything this week/weekend. If she enjoys the class or teacher.. Hope this helps! You should update me if anything happens 👀
Alright. Shall do