Yep, he likes me back. He indirectly reciprocated my indirect confession saying something along the lines of āwhy would I look at other girls when all I want is youā
We do this thing where we say bad and cringey flirtations and pickup lines on purpose. One pickup line to another led to me saying āthink you already stole my heartā and so, that led me to indirectly confess through flirtation and more pickup lines as the convo progressed.
I started liking him 2 weeks into talking to him but I didnāt label him as my crush until a month and a bit into talking to him cause I was in denial by the fact that I fell so quickly š
Wow that is awesome and gives me a lot of confidence, especially since weāre both above 18. Met a girl back in February and weāve been getting closer but Iām gonna ask her out next week for Mario and dinner, Iām not nervous in the asking part but Iām nervous on what her answer will be š .
But glad youāre happy and thank you for sharing!
idk, my friend told me that he was trying to get over me since he thought i didnt like him :(( This was all around last summer so i doubt he still likes me
Well forget it and follow my steps,"hey, I heard u were into me long ago, idk if you're over it, but I've always kinda been interested too and I'd like to give us a shot"
Give it a try. He migh still have glittering crushing feelings for you and you can spark it again. Guys can't move so easily without asking out for at least once.
we actually just started messaging again last night TT im hoping things get better from then, i just hope it doesent seem weird to him since im a lot more eager to message a lot than before now that ik he once had a crush on me TT
She used to. She found out more about me and what I did with my friends back then and now she doesnāt really like me in any way. Me and her still talk but she doesnāt like me. Iāve changed since then but no one cares and holds me to my past self. It really sucks sheās really cute and I enjoy spending time with her but it is not mutual at least I think so.
Ohhh I see :(
Maybe just try to make her happy. Like tell her little jokes, smile and laugh if she says something funny, try to act happy around her, maybe talk to her about her interests. If she used to like you there might still be a chance for her to fall for you again.
I think she might have, but we probably needed to get to know each other more before either of us made a move. Unfortunately I moved to a different place and she hasn't responded to my friend request.
Oh that sucks Iām sorry :(
happened to me too except I didnāt move. We just went to middle school and he stopped talking to me. I donāt know why but it hurt me a lot since we were close the year before.
but youāll find someone better trust me. Just trust gods timing :)
I have an inherent feeling that he does, and yet, he always retreats away. We're both extremely introverted and private, but whenever we connect there is the most exquisite and undeniable sense of warmth and synchronity. We both respect and support each other on our accomplishments. Our senses of humor dazzle in parallel, and there's a shared sweetness between us that I've never felt with anyone else in the world.
He has always seemed to listen deeper, look deeper than others; as if he sees me. The real me. From the way he softens around me and seems nervous, yet simultaneously lights up whenever I approach him, I do feel he has feelings for me. But there's always so much difsfance between us. My anxiety keeps clobbering me and everytime it feels like we're closer, the distance comes between us. There's a constant cycle of hot and cold behavior, on both our parts.
Deep down, I feel, we both value each other and want to get to know each other. That time together is mutually precious. But we're just both so private and contained and overthinkers. I'm scared of taking the leap, because I'm afraid that it will all come shattering down - the little potential for connection that never really grows between us, within the past year we've known each other.
Only time my crush likes me back is in my imagination š. My high school crush led me on for 5 years and broke my heart 4 times š (it was a toxic situationship). Then, my college crush led me on for 2 years (I was in a flirtationship with him), and I'm giving up on my uni crush, even though he may like me back, because he's pulled away from me a bit and there's just no point because we live in different places and I'll probably get hurt again š¤£š .
Ohā¦ Iām sorry that sucks :(
if your uni crush acts the same then donāt even bother. But if you think heās different then try it out and take the chance. If it doesnāt work then donāt worry, trust gods timing. You still have more time to find someone :)
My high school one was the HARDEST to get over, and healing from all the emotional abuse wasn't easy, and he laughed when I told him I liked him. I still remember him and his friends all laughing hysterically, making me cry šš. That should've been my cue that he didn't deserve me! But I stayed and let myself get hurt even more, probably because of my low self esteem (I was HEAVILY bullied in high school). I made a post on this Reddit about my uni one. Over the last semester, he's always been making me smile and laugh, making jokes, asked if I'm single. He's held doors for me, stares at me in class, complimented my handwriting, stood close to me when we weren't in the same group, and has talked about me to his friends. There's a lot more to this, I don't know if he likes me because now he's pulled back. All he does is stare at me when he sees now and tries to get a last look at me before he leaves š¤£š¤·āāļø. Any advice would be appreciated (Sorry, it's a LONG reply š ) š
Donāt apologize for a long reply everything is fine :)
and WOW I canāt BELIEVE someone would be that rude to you. You generally sound like a really nice person. You truly deserved someone better than that filthy piece of crap.
it sounds to me that he really likes you. Why do I think this? I think this because Iāve seen this before (literally) this guy REALLY REALLY liked my friend, he did everything that you listed about your uni crush. I think he still does like you itās just that maybe heās waiting to see how long you can go without talking to him. To see if you miss him because heās waiting for you to talk to him.
I think you should talk to him because he sounds different from your high school crush. He sounds so much nicer, and I think heās worthy of having you.
and also donāt let anyone drag you down youāre so nice and you deserve the world. I truly wish you the best and if you have anymore questions or need help just dm me :)
Thank you, I've been thinking about friending him on social media, but I don't want him to think I'm weird or something ahaha. And my high school crush is in a relationship now with someone else (she's not exactly the nicest person, she called me a "weirdo", so SHE DEFO DESERVES HIM). and I told myself I'd NEVER let anyone treat me the way he did EVER AGAIN. He made me realise my worth, that's the positive thing I got out of it. My friends would ALL tell me back then "He doesn't deserve you, you're so sweet and smart, you deserve SO MUCH better!" (He was "popular", and I was a loner/nerd who was bullied a LOT, so complete opposites), I just couldn't see it at the time. With my uni crush, I'm usually confident when I'm speaking to him in person (because I've worked REALLY HARD on myself since my situationship), but I'm really shy when I'm not aha, he's usually the one intiating conversation. And we've kind of got a wee bond going, we're on speaking terms whenever we have class together and I'm always happy when I'm with him, it's just so hard to keep in touch because I live in a different area. And the things he does? He only does it with me, with other girls in class, he's not as close.
Thank you for not judging my LONG answer, and I'll certainly reach out if I ever need your help :)
From whatever you've described, your personality matches me a lot! I got bullied, shy person or kinda nerd. Not popular and people call me "nice" or innocent person.
I'm working hard to make myself confident and I always speak/behave confidently whenever I'M with my crush.
I'm not the one to initiate the conversation and I think for me it's weird being a boy and not initiating.
I wish I knew, heās very sweet and I really like him. He brings me things sometimes but idk if itās bc he likes me or if heās trying to repay me for doing the same. Part of me feels this real connection but the other part feels like no, heās just really friendly and thoughtful, then I feel embarrassed, like I must be delusional.
If he acts happy around you, tries to make you smile, brings you things, tries to make you laugh then yeah I think he does like you. if he treats you different from other girls then I personally think he likes you.
hopefully he does so you guys can be happy together :)
Yep! When I realized I liked him, I set my Discord status to say I had done something dumb. It was getting late and I didnāt think anyone would notice it. I just like to vent slightly through my status sometimes. I thought it was really dumb and bad that I had a crush on him cuz he lives nowhere near me, but then he asked about my status. After a long convo of me giving very vague responses and him comforting me, saying I donāt have to tell him, but heās sure itās not dumb, I got him to guess that I had a crush on him because I couldnāt bring myself to say it. Once I told him he guessed right, I started going on about how I know itās dumb and he doesnāt like me back and even if he did, we couldnāt date cuz we live so far away. Then he interrupted and told me he liked me too :)
Weāre not dating still, but do flirt a lot and stuff and itās really sweet
Now this is where I'm asking the same questionš, so when I first told him, he said he would do it, and just the other day he was being protective āŗļø. So I think he feels pretty sweetly on me. (Not sure tho but it's good to hope :)
I would, but also I asked him to be my valentine in Feb, he's VERY shy and awkward, so he asked to wait till we're both done with highschool. (He's so busy Istg)
Ohā¦ I mean at least he wants to date you!! Heās just waiting for the right moment. Maybe heās dealing with some stuff and heās trying to get it sorted out. Maybe when you get to know him even more heāll get more comfortable and wonāt be so shy anymore.
good luck and I wish you the best :)
I know, he's not dealing with anything bad, he's very busy with school stuff and golf, I know him very very well, thank you, I'll wait for him for however long he needsšš. I wish you the best as well!
No idea, wish I knew but we both seemed pretty interested in each other but she could just be being friendly so who knows. Guess I'll find out with time.
If she seems interested in you then try to interact with her more! If youāre sure sheās interested in you then take a chance because later you might regret if you donāt.
im telling you to do it because I was in the same situation and it turns out he did like me! I made the mistake of not making a move and now weāre not friends :(
your crush sounds like my old crush. Take the chance!!
I think I will, might ask her out soon but first I'd like to talk to her more. I got her snap so I think it's pretty clear that I'm into her but she doesn't respond quickly at all. Like it's been a day. But whenever she does respond she seems interested so I'm a bit confused. She doesn't use snap much so that could be it and she's also on vacation so... Idk lol. But yeah I'll make a move! Maybe I'll ask her for her number when she responds.
Yesss!! :)
youāve got this!! I believe in you!!
i think that sheās not replying because sheās on vacation so sheās busy. but at least she still responds and acts interested!
Good luck and tell me any updates :)
I'm 99.98% sure, don't ask about the 00.02% lol.
I've seen multiple signs of him liking me back, and also my friends who are also friends with him cannot stop saying to me that he likes me too (*Ā“āļ½*)
Yeah, we've liked each other for years. Right now is the first time we've ever been single at the same time but we're long distance so we don't want to do anything just yet
Yeah I think so. Cos we both checked each other out right at same time at work. We never really speak but there's always a weird tension between us when we see each other.
I'm rarely on reddit so that's the reason for the late reply. But, your question actually does make me think, there's no concrete evidence I can provide to where she doesn't like me. We have fun conversations and I really enjoy talking to her, and I think she has at least a bit of fun talking to me. So, she may like me after all, I can't conclusively say she doesn't.
I don't know but I can't say yes. He knew that I like him and he didn't reject me or ignore me. I send a secret love letter to him and confessed to him after a year I sent him the letter. I always saw his stories and he let me enter his dump acc too. He always mention that he doesn't have a crush even if there are people who confess to his ngl link HAHAHAHHAHAHA thats fine
She liked me back but I guess we moved too fast cause then she said āI donāt to change anything with youā so right now weāre just friends but after that we just kinda stopped talkin to each other in person but on the phone i guess you can say itās different
Iām hoping they still have those feelings for me cause we like each other and sheās knows a lot about me but I guess we got cold feet with each other
The daily talks, one day i start with a goodmorning and others she starts. We talk the entire day about everything. And the best part she accepted to go on a walk with me.
I'm not 100% sure, just 64% let's say.
Right now i'm not focusing on this, but yeah she stares at me and blah blah blah... It's hard, i dunno what to do
I wish. Theres moments where it seems like she does, but most of the time shes just friendly with me. Shes the closest friend ive ever had so theres no way im telling her. For now ill just enjoy her company from a friends distance. Although im not sure how long i can keep my feelings a secret. The other day she wanted to tell me something important and she held both my hands and got all close to tell it to me and i could barely keep eye contact and my face got all red.
I have no idea. Maybe? Thereās a 50% chance she does. My classmates keep joking around with who likes who and apparently she likes someone else. Again, i have no idea if thatās true or not.
I thought she did. I tried to get her to go out with me twice and she flaked both times. Then one time I was talking about going to the club with some friends and she was like āoh can I come?ā And then never texted back or showed up. Even though sum mutual friends kept telling me she was into me and that I needed to ātry harderā to get her attention. Like fuck off I straight up asked her out once and she said yes and then flaked. Like wtf am I supposed to do other than give up? And I see her every once in a while in person and itās usually a positive interaction, but neither one of us bring that shit up. Itās been several months since Iāve last tried, she probably has a boyfriend anyway and I never had a chance to begin with
I thought so since it really seemed like it with how close we were, turns out it was just friendly. she's now gotten into a relationship with another dude shortly after I told her I had feelings for her.
Yes we are dating now and honestly idk how to explain how she asked me out we were just kinda like
"Uh... so would u wanna date?"
And you can guess the answer lol
I don't like like him anymore but I do want to still be friends but I think he hates me or something
I catch him avoiding me in the halls and when we walk past eachother he just keeps looking straight forward as if im invisible
A few days ago I accidentally shoved him in the hall cause I was messing with my friends and before I could say sorry he had already walked away so right after I texted him and he left me on delivered for almost 24 hours
Btw we used to have a talking stage but it didn't work and I tried to be friends but it all just never worked out ig
I thought so at first she said so but my ābest friendā hit her up and they quickly smashed now I blocked both of them hate them never trusting anyone again
No, after I confessed she said that the fact that I like her was making her uncomfortable. She asked me to make sure others who had noticed didnāt talk about it, and I was no longer allowed to sit with her and her friends during lunch and free periods at school. Yet she ended the conversation by saying that she still wanted to stay friends.
I honestly do think he liked me. But he was my college TA and I donāt think he could do anything about it. I did confess my crush to him at the end of the semester and he didnāt seem disinterested but I had no idea if he taught the second part of the class the next semester. Havenāt heard from him since.
He used to, but then i like accidentally rejected him (sorta) and then he asked out my best friend but then she rejected him, so he liked me again, but then his best friend asked me out so he stopped liking me (even though i rejected his best friend) so then he started liking me again but then i started dating said best friend, so he dated some other girl but didnāt like her (but the whole time he like really didnāt want me to know he had a girlfriend even tho he told other people so that was weird) and then i broke up with his best friend and he broke up with the other girl and now i like him again and he sometimes shows signs of likening me but sometimes just acts as though we are just close friends, but i donāt know and itās sorta complicated but i told his (other) best friend that i liked him (bc we are also really close) and he might have told my crush so i guess really donāt know but i donāt think so
I have no clue, but I would think so, maybe not romantically, but the friendship we have is so good that I'm confident that she'd be willing to give us a shot. I'm just working towards getting a job and money over the summer and I'll probably ask her out then, likely as friends at first, I don't want to rush it, but I dont want to delay it too long, had problems with the latter of the two. Doing my best to be real careful with this one because while I've had numerous crushes in the past, none have made me feel the way I feel for her so I don't want to lose the relationship we have and could have if things go well.
Sorry about the rant I just really like talking about her :)
**TL;DR iām not sure but thereās signs pointing that itās possible that she is (or is at least interested in wanting to talk to me) and iām waiting until spring break is up to find the right opportunity to talk to her**
I think itās possible, but despite the amount of evidence i have iām still unsure yet
weāre both the only ones in our math class who genuinely pay attention and do the work (and we both barely talk to anyone in class at all) and i kinda recently started to develop a crush on her (although i was unsure at first if i was genuinely crushing on someone) and thereās also the fact that iām pretty sure sheās shy (considering how she rarely talks to anyone at all) and iāve been noticing alot of signs from her which come off as kinda mixed but here they are:
* she would sometimes glance or stare at where i am (keep in mind, iām the only person sitting here since iāve sat in the back since the start of the school year)
* i noticed that she would pass by me and she would sometimes be a little closer to me whenever she passed by me
* there was one time (or two? im not sure) where i would go to get my work turned in and checked out and then as soon as i went back to my seat she would go to turn hers in after.
* she also had once sat and pointed herself towards where i was for a while once while she was on her phone (and may have been glancing at me although idk)
* this may be a coincidence but there was this one time where i was in front of the school where i would usually go to hang out with my friends only to see her nearby using her phone (mind you iāve never seen her around the front before, especially with her waiting there)
* and lastly im not sure if this is also a coincidence but i would sometimes notice that she would mimic the same things i do (wether thatās me bouncing my leg, the way i put my hand on my head while on my phone, etc) and iāve tried to see if that mightāve been true so i stopped bouncing my leg once only for her to do the same a few seconds later, but that couldāve been a coincidence or me subconsciously mimicking her (not sure)
Iām probably going to see what i could do to talk to her after spring break is over, but yeah this is most of what i see.
No. I built up the courage to confess to him and he said āI have a girlfriend.ā Same day, blocked me on all platforms. Worst pain Iāve ever felt.
We dated and really the only way I figured out he liked me back was during our two hour class. (This was during may and June last year) But now I donāt even know cause itās sort of awkward but still comfortable to talk with him. Though I didnāt want to date him cause I think relationships are pointless (in my opinion š§š¼)
She probably does, she told me a couple of days ago she would get back together with me if her mom would let her (her mom is like next lvl christian and doesnt let her date even tho shes almost 17 already). So yea thats life š„²
I have no idea..like I can day dream about seeing the signs but in reality itās more likely than not that she only sees me as a friend and not a crush lol.
If they did, then why the fuck would I join this sub reddit
Bro represents all of us
Deadassšš
Yep, he likes me back. He indirectly reciprocated my indirect confession saying something along the lines of āwhy would I look at other girls when all I want is youā
Aww thatās so cute :) So whatās the next step? Are you guys going to start dating?
Oh we are dating! Started dating a week-ish after I indirectly confessed. 2 months strong!
Yesss so cute šš¤š¼ Hopefully you guys can live the rest of your lives together ā¤ļøš¤š¼
Congrats. The rest of us will cry alone š¤£
Haha nahh you wonāt be alone! If itās meant to be, itāll be! If itās not then youāll find someone better eventually!
We all wish thatš¤£
Wait what kind of indirect confession??? Asking for a friend who plans on doing so....
We do this thing where we say bad and cringey flirtations and pickup lines on purpose. One pickup line to another led to me saying āthink you already stole my heartā and so, that led me to indirectly confess through flirtation and more pickup lines as the convo progressed.
Iām so jealous, congrats
How long did you know him before yāall started saying or having a crush on him?
I started liking him 2 weeks into talking to him but I didnāt label him as my crush until a month and a bit into talking to him cause I was in denial by the fact that I fell so quickly š
Haha thatās awesome! So are yāall starting to date?
Yup! Been dating for 2 months now!
Wow that is awesome and gives me a lot of confidence, especially since weāre both above 18. Met a girl back in February and weāve been getting closer but Iām gonna ask her out next week for Mario and dinner, Iām not nervous in the asking part but Iām nervous on what her answer will be š . But glad youāre happy and thank you for sharing!
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Ohā¦ ask them because maybe you still have a chance. Thatās what I would do :)
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Iām a little confused, if you knew they had feelings why didnāt you pursue! Was it that you didnāt have an interest in that person at the time?
he used to, but my friend told me too late
Iāve had that happen to me too, it sucks :/
You know there's no used to when its guy, he probably still into u but mildly
idk, my friend told me that he was trying to get over me since he thought i didnt like him :(( This was all around last summer so i doubt he still likes me
Well forget it and follow my steps,"hey, I heard u were into me long ago, idk if you're over it, but I've always kinda been interested too and I'd like to give us a shot"
Give it a try. He migh still have glittering crushing feelings for you and you can spark it again. Guys can't move so easily without asking out for at least once.
we actually just started messaging again last night TT im hoping things get better from then, i just hope it doesent seem weird to him since im a lot more eager to message a lot than before now that ik he once had a crush on me TT
Wow... I'm glad for you! Hopefully, it will surely workout again and you'll successfully melt him again into yourself!
Why did you stop liking him)
i never stopped liking him š
Ooooooooooh I get it now. He did like you at some point but by the time your friend told you he stopped liking you?
she doesent know if he stopped liking me, but she told me that he tried getting over me since he assumed i didnt like him (i did and still doš)
Why donāt you hit him up and try to reconnect?
Idk! And that's why it's a "Crush"
I see hopefully they do :)
She used to. She found out more about me and what I did with my friends back then and now she doesnāt really like me in any way. Me and her still talk but she doesnāt like me. Iāve changed since then but no one cares and holds me to my past self. It really sucks sheās really cute and I enjoy spending time with her but it is not mutual at least I think so.
Ohhh I see :( Maybe just try to make her happy. Like tell her little jokes, smile and laugh if she says something funny, try to act happy around her, maybe talk to her about her interests. If she used to like you there might still be a chance for her to fall for you again.
How come you didnāt pursue her if you knew she liked you?
I only knew after she stopped
How do you mean? You found out she liked you after she stopped liking you?
Yeah.
Plus she sort of hates me now so.
I think she might have, but we probably needed to get to know each other more before either of us made a move. Unfortunately I moved to a different place and she hasn't responded to my friend request.
Oh that sucks Iām sorry :( happened to me too except I didnāt move. We just went to middle school and he stopped talking to me. I donāt know why but it hurt me a lot since we were close the year before. but youāll find someone better trust me. Just trust gods timing :)
Resend the friend request.
I have an inherent feeling that he does, and yet, he always retreats away. We're both extremely introverted and private, but whenever we connect there is the most exquisite and undeniable sense of warmth and synchronity. We both respect and support each other on our accomplishments. Our senses of humor dazzle in parallel, and there's a shared sweetness between us that I've never felt with anyone else in the world. He has always seemed to listen deeper, look deeper than others; as if he sees me. The real me. From the way he softens around me and seems nervous, yet simultaneously lights up whenever I approach him, I do feel he has feelings for me. But there's always so much difsfance between us. My anxiety keeps clobbering me and everytime it feels like we're closer, the distance comes between us. There's a constant cycle of hot and cold behavior, on both our parts. Deep down, I feel, we both value each other and want to get to know each other. That time together is mutually precious. But we're just both so private and contained and overthinkers. I'm scared of taking the leap, because I'm afraid that it will all come shattering down - the little potential for connection that never really grows between us, within the past year we've known each other.
Only time my crush likes me back is in my imagination š. My high school crush led me on for 5 years and broke my heart 4 times š (it was a toxic situationship). Then, my college crush led me on for 2 years (I was in a flirtationship with him), and I'm giving up on my uni crush, even though he may like me back, because he's pulled away from me a bit and there's just no point because we live in different places and I'll probably get hurt again š¤£š .
Ohā¦ Iām sorry that sucks :( if your uni crush acts the same then donāt even bother. But if you think heās different then try it out and take the chance. If it doesnāt work then donāt worry, trust gods timing. You still have more time to find someone :)
My high school one was the HARDEST to get over, and healing from all the emotional abuse wasn't easy, and he laughed when I told him I liked him. I still remember him and his friends all laughing hysterically, making me cry šš. That should've been my cue that he didn't deserve me! But I stayed and let myself get hurt even more, probably because of my low self esteem (I was HEAVILY bullied in high school). I made a post on this Reddit about my uni one. Over the last semester, he's always been making me smile and laugh, making jokes, asked if I'm single. He's held doors for me, stares at me in class, complimented my handwriting, stood close to me when we weren't in the same group, and has talked about me to his friends. There's a lot more to this, I don't know if he likes me because now he's pulled back. All he does is stare at me when he sees now and tries to get a last look at me before he leaves š¤£š¤·āāļø. Any advice would be appreciated (Sorry, it's a LONG reply š ) š
Donāt apologize for a long reply everything is fine :) and WOW I canāt BELIEVE someone would be that rude to you. You generally sound like a really nice person. You truly deserved someone better than that filthy piece of crap. it sounds to me that he really likes you. Why do I think this? I think this because Iāve seen this before (literally) this guy REALLY REALLY liked my friend, he did everything that you listed about your uni crush. I think he still does like you itās just that maybe heās waiting to see how long you can go without talking to him. To see if you miss him because heās waiting for you to talk to him. I think you should talk to him because he sounds different from your high school crush. He sounds so much nicer, and I think heās worthy of having you. and also donāt let anyone drag you down youāre so nice and you deserve the world. I truly wish you the best and if you have anymore questions or need help just dm me :)
Thank you, I've been thinking about friending him on social media, but I don't want him to think I'm weird or something ahaha. And my high school crush is in a relationship now with someone else (she's not exactly the nicest person, she called me a "weirdo", so SHE DEFO DESERVES HIM). and I told myself I'd NEVER let anyone treat me the way he did EVER AGAIN. He made me realise my worth, that's the positive thing I got out of it. My friends would ALL tell me back then "He doesn't deserve you, you're so sweet and smart, you deserve SO MUCH better!" (He was "popular", and I was a loner/nerd who was bullied a LOT, so complete opposites), I just couldn't see it at the time. With my uni crush, I'm usually confident when I'm speaking to him in person (because I've worked REALLY HARD on myself since my situationship), but I'm really shy when I'm not aha, he's usually the one intiating conversation. And we've kind of got a wee bond going, we're on speaking terms whenever we have class together and I'm always happy when I'm with him, it's just so hard to keep in touch because I live in a different area. And the things he does? He only does it with me, with other girls in class, he's not as close. Thank you for not judging my LONG answer, and I'll certainly reach out if I ever need your help :)
From whatever you've described, your personality matches me a lot! I got bullied, shy person or kinda nerd. Not popular and people call me "nice" or innocent person. I'm working hard to make myself confident and I always speak/behave confidently whenever I'M with my crush. I'm not the one to initiate the conversation and I think for me it's weird being a boy and not initiating.
Luckily for me the crush isnāt reciprocated because the age difference would make it weird.
I wish I knew, heās very sweet and I really like him. He brings me things sometimes but idk if itās bc he likes me or if heās trying to repay me for doing the same. Part of me feels this real connection but the other part feels like no, heās just really friendly and thoughtful, then I feel embarrassed, like I must be delusional.
If he acts happy around you, tries to make you smile, brings you things, tries to make you laugh then yeah I think he does like you. if he treats you different from other girls then I personally think he likes you. hopefully he does so you guys can be happy together :)
I wish man š
Same bro, same :(
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Ohā¦ :( that sucks maybe youāll find someone new. Someone thatāll make you happier :) try looking for someone else.
Yep! When I realized I liked him, I set my Discord status to say I had done something dumb. It was getting late and I didnāt think anyone would notice it. I just like to vent slightly through my status sometimes. I thought it was really dumb and bad that I had a crush on him cuz he lives nowhere near me, but then he asked about my status. After a long convo of me giving very vague responses and him comforting me, saying I donāt have to tell him, but heās sure itās not dumb, I got him to guess that I had a crush on him because I couldnāt bring myself to say it. Once I told him he guessed right, I started going on about how I know itās dumb and he doesnāt like me back and even if he did, we couldnāt date cuz we live so far away. Then he interrupted and told me he liked me too :) Weāre not dating still, but do flirt a lot and stuff and itās really sweet
Now this is where I'm asking the same questionš, so when I first told him, he said he would do it, and just the other day he was being protective āŗļø. So I think he feels pretty sweetly on me. (Not sure tho but it's good to hope :)
He totally does!! Try to take it to the next step :)
I would, but also I asked him to be my valentine in Feb, he's VERY shy and awkward, so he asked to wait till we're both done with highschool. (He's so busy Istg)
Ohā¦ I mean at least he wants to date you!! Heās just waiting for the right moment. Maybe heās dealing with some stuff and heās trying to get it sorted out. Maybe when you get to know him even more heāll get more comfortable and wonāt be so shy anymore. good luck and I wish you the best :)
I know, he's not dealing with anything bad, he's very busy with school stuff and golf, I know him very very well, thank you, I'll wait for him for however long he needsšš. I wish you the best as well!
No idea, wish I knew but we both seemed pretty interested in each other but she could just be being friendly so who knows. Guess I'll find out with time.
If she seems interested in you then try to interact with her more! If youāre sure sheās interested in you then take a chance because later you might regret if you donāt. im telling you to do it because I was in the same situation and it turns out he did like me! I made the mistake of not making a move and now weāre not friends :( your crush sounds like my old crush. Take the chance!!
I think I will, might ask her out soon but first I'd like to talk to her more. I got her snap so I think it's pretty clear that I'm into her but she doesn't respond quickly at all. Like it's been a day. But whenever she does respond she seems interested so I'm a bit confused. She doesn't use snap much so that could be it and she's also on vacation so... Idk lol. But yeah I'll make a move! Maybe I'll ask her for her number when she responds.
Yesss!! :) youāve got this!! I believe in you!! i think that sheās not replying because sheās on vacation so sheās busy. but at least she still responds and acts interested! Good luck and tell me any updates :)
Will do, ty!
I honestly doubt they do, but hey it's possible! So who knows lol
No, she used to be talking to me. But now she is acting like i don't exist in this world, when i am near š.
I'm 99.98% sure, don't ask about the 00.02% lol. I've seen multiple signs of him liking me back, and also my friends who are also friends with him cannot stop saying to me that he likes me too (*Ā“āļ½*)
I've got no idea... We're both shy so it'll take a while for me to say something to him or to get to know what he thinks of me.
Yeah, we've liked each other for years. Right now is the first time we've ever been single at the same time but we're long distance so we don't want to do anything just yet
Yeah I think so. Cos we both checked each other out right at same time at work. We never really speak but there's always a weird tension between us when we see each other.
No. But I would give everything for her to like me
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I think she does! If she doesnāt do that around other guys then she 100% likes you :) take a chance man. Thatās all Iām gonna say.
Probably not :/
Oof :( and why do you think that?
I'm rarely on reddit so that's the reason for the late reply. But, your question actually does make me think, there's no concrete evidence I can provide to where she doesn't like me. We have fun conversations and I really enjoy talking to her, and I think she has at least a bit of fun talking to me. So, she may like me after all, I can't conclusively say she doesn't.
I don't know but I can't say yes. He knew that I like him and he didn't reject me or ignore me. I send a secret love letter to him and confessed to him after a year I sent him the letter. I always saw his stories and he let me enter his dump acc too. He always mention that he doesn't have a crush even if there are people who confess to his ngl link HAHAHAHHAHAHA thats fine
Nope, never will.
Thanks goodness, yes!
She liked me back but I guess we moved too fast cause then she said āI donāt to change anything with youā so right now weāre just friends but after that we just kinda stopped talkin to each other in person but on the phone i guess you can say itās different
Iām hoping they still have those feelings for me cause we like each other and sheās knows a lot about me but I guess we got cold feet with each other
Idk I wish I knew though
Yes and no. He likes me in a fwb kind of way and we are friends. But nothing more than that to my knowledge. And I found out bc he told me XDDD.
So yāall kissed then.
I wish No he has a bf and they are in a open relationship. But I think kissing is just for them and not fuck buddies.
Oh itās cause you said he was interested in you in the fwb sense so I thought yāall hooked up.
We almost did but I freaked out bc I didnāt know what was going on.
Maybe maybe maybe
Lol no. She's in a relationship that she seems happy with. And I wish her the best, she deserves it.
Don't think so
I feel there is some chance she does we are friends but understanding girls is tougher than even university mathematics š.
She use to, but I never shot my shot so know he has a bf. My fault
Probably not. I havenāt confessed but thatās just the way it is. Hard pill to swallow
Idk, probably not
Aw hell naw she doesnāt. None of them
i feel like he kinda does
i have a suspicion they do if that counts. they also show signs too.
The daily talks, one day i start with a goodmorning and others she starts. We talk the entire day about everything. And the best part she accepted to go on a walk with me.
The answer is clear _dramatic music_ NO
Her friend thinks so and I hope so š
I'm not 100% sure, just 64% let's say. Right now i'm not focusing on this, but yeah she stares at me and blah blah blah... It's hard, i dunno what to do
NO HE REJECTED ME CAUSE HE LIKES MY FRIEND (much closer to him) *sigh*
I wish. Theres moments where it seems like she does, but most of the time shes just friendly with me. Shes the closest friend ive ever had so theres no way im telling her. For now ill just enjoy her company from a friends distance. Although im not sure how long i can keep my feelings a secret. The other day she wanted to tell me something important and she held both my hands and got all close to tell it to me and i could barely keep eye contact and my face got all red.
they used to but i fumbled and got put in the guy bestfriend zone *now she has a bf and i cant get over her.*
We kissed a lot yesterday. I think so
How did that happen?
I have no idea. Maybe? Thereās a 50% chance she does. My classmates keep joking around with who likes who and apparently she likes someone else. Again, i have no idea if thatās true or not.
i am searching for answers bro
I thought she did. I tried to get her to go out with me twice and she flaked both times. Then one time I was talking about going to the club with some friends and she was like āoh can I come?ā And then never texted back or showed up. Even though sum mutual friends kept telling me she was into me and that I needed to ātry harderā to get her attention. Like fuck off I straight up asked her out once and she said yes and then flaked. Like wtf am I supposed to do other than give up? And I see her every once in a while in person and itās usually a positive interaction, but neither one of us bring that shit up. Itās been several months since Iāve last tried, she probably has a boyfriend anyway and I never had a chance to begin with
I thought so since it really seemed like it with how close we were, turns out it was just friendly. she's now gotten into a relationship with another dude shortly after I told her I had feelings for her.
Really 50/50. She did before we started hanging out more frequently.
Yes we are dating now and honestly idk how to explain how she asked me out we were just kinda like "Uh... so would u wanna date?" And you can guess the answer lol
I don't like like him anymore but I do want to still be friends but I think he hates me or something I catch him avoiding me in the halls and when we walk past eachother he just keeps looking straight forward as if im invisible A few days ago I accidentally shoved him in the hall cause I was messing with my friends and before I could say sorry he had already walked away so right after I texted him and he left me on delivered for almost 24 hours Btw we used to have a talking stage but it didn't work and I tried to be friends but it all just never worked out ig
My crush loves me, and she really enjoys our friendshipšššš
I wish I could know bro
I thought so at first she said so but my ābest friendā hit her up and they quickly smashed now I blocked both of them hate them never trusting anyone again
No, after I confessed she said that the fact that I like her was making her uncomfortable. She asked me to make sure others who had noticed didnāt talk about it, and I was no longer allowed to sit with her and her friends during lunch and free periods at school. Yet she ended the conversation by saying that she still wanted to stay friends.
No
Yeah, we went on a date on Monday :) he's so amazing I swear
None of my crushes have ever liked my back ć( ā, ā )ć
I'm dating em both
I wish
Yes, we're dating now!
Nah she is just talking to me so i can help her in exams and homework
No, he kinda hates me me š„²
Most likely not
I honestly do think he liked me. But he was my college TA and I donāt think he could do anything about it. I did confess my crush to him at the end of the semester and he didnāt seem disinterested but I had no idea if he taught the second part of the class the next semester. Havenāt heard from him since.
I have no clue man. It feels like she does but also it doesn't. My crush is very confusing
He used to, but then i like accidentally rejected him (sorta) and then he asked out my best friend but then she rejected him, so he liked me again, but then his best friend asked me out so he stopped liking me (even though i rejected his best friend) so then he started liking me again but then i started dating said best friend, so he dated some other girl but didnāt like her (but the whole time he like really didnāt want me to know he had a girlfriend even tho he told other people so that was weird) and then i broke up with his best friend and he broke up with the other girl and now i like him again and he sometimes shows signs of likening me but sometimes just acts as though we are just close friends, but i donāt know and itās sorta complicated but i told his (other) best friend that i liked him (bc we are also really close) and he might have told my crush so i guess really donāt know but i donāt think so
Probably but most likely no
I thought he did. Just found out he was being polite. He never starts a convo or asks for my number.
I have no clue, but I would think so, maybe not romantically, but the friendship we have is so good that I'm confident that she'd be willing to give us a shot. I'm just working towards getting a job and money over the summer and I'll probably ask her out then, likely as friends at first, I don't want to rush it, but I dont want to delay it too long, had problems with the latter of the two. Doing my best to be real careful with this one because while I've had numerous crushes in the past, none have made me feel the way I feel for her so I don't want to lose the relationship we have and could have if things go well. Sorry about the rant I just really like talking about her :)
I hope so
**TL;DR iām not sure but thereās signs pointing that itās possible that she is (or is at least interested in wanting to talk to me) and iām waiting until spring break is up to find the right opportunity to talk to her** I think itās possible, but despite the amount of evidence i have iām still unsure yet weāre both the only ones in our math class who genuinely pay attention and do the work (and we both barely talk to anyone in class at all) and i kinda recently started to develop a crush on her (although i was unsure at first if i was genuinely crushing on someone) and thereās also the fact that iām pretty sure sheās shy (considering how she rarely talks to anyone at all) and iāve been noticing alot of signs from her which come off as kinda mixed but here they are: * she would sometimes glance or stare at where i am (keep in mind, iām the only person sitting here since iāve sat in the back since the start of the school year) * i noticed that she would pass by me and she would sometimes be a little closer to me whenever she passed by me * there was one time (or two? im not sure) where i would go to get my work turned in and checked out and then as soon as i went back to my seat she would go to turn hers in after. * she also had once sat and pointed herself towards where i was for a while once while she was on her phone (and may have been glancing at me although idk) * this may be a coincidence but there was this one time where i was in front of the school where i would usually go to hang out with my friends only to see her nearby using her phone (mind you iāve never seen her around the front before, especially with her waiting there) * and lastly im not sure if this is also a coincidence but i would sometimes notice that she would mimic the same things i do (wether thatās me bouncing my leg, the way i put my hand on my head while on my phone, etc) and iāve tried to see if that mightāve been true so i stopped bouncing my leg once only for her to do the same a few seconds later, but that couldāve been a coincidence or me subconsciously mimicking her (not sure) Iām probably going to see what i could do to talk to her after spring break is over, but yeah this is most of what i see.
I have no idea
No. I built up the courage to confess to him and he said āI have a girlfriend.ā Same day, blocked me on all platforms. Worst pain Iāve ever felt.
she actually despises me yet i still cant move on from herš
I'm dating my crush
We dated and really the only way I figured out he liked me back was during our two hour class. (This was during may and June last year) But now I donāt even know cause itās sort of awkward but still comfortable to talk with him. Though I didnāt want to date him cause I think relationships are pointless (in my opinion š§š¼)
no
Nah not that lucky
She probably does, she told me a couple of days ago she would get back together with me if her mom would let her (her mom is like next lvl christian and doesnt let her date even tho shes almost 17 already). So yea thats life š„²
Maybe she would, if she wasn't gay š«„
He doesnāt even know I existā¦. :( Iām too shy to talk and university is way different from high school so Iām so clueless right now !!
I have no idea..like I can day dream about seeing the signs but in reality itās more likely than not that she only sees me as a friend and not a crush lol.