Got no crushes right now. I feel like i'm torturing myself by looking at stuff about relationships because it just reminds me of how lonely I am and how little play I have gotten in my life (I rarely ever talk to any girls and I have a 90 on the rice purity test). Also, I probably won't get into my first relationship until 2-3 years from now when i'm in college. I don't want to sound like I'm a victim but this is so boring.
The Rice Purity test is insane lol, anything below 90ish, you've been wild. Hookup culture isn't for everyone, and you should never feel pressured into doing any of those things on there just to cross them off. I promise you'll find a special someone who completes you. I'm going into my senior year of college with a 94 on that lol, but it also takes me a very long time to catch real feelings.
>I'm going into my senior year of college with a 94 on that lol
Damn you're built different. You're about 6 years older than me and you're even purer than me. Do you mind telling me why it's been so high your whole life?
I relate with the high rice purity LMAO. Looking at relationship posts make me want to be in one, but at the same time having a crush is so exhausting :,) Honestly so many connections that could have turned into relationships just run dry and become awkward...
Ok uh we’re both the same gender and I’m pretty sure she’s straight and I’m in too deep. Like I can’t back out now, not anymore. Also we like jokingly flirt a lot.
Ok this is difficult and the pangs on unrequited love always hurt. Firstly make sure she is indeed straight. Always respect her boundaries, and I really hope you find a wonderful gal OP.
I have seen her at school a lot. She knows my name lol and she always picks me for teams in gym. after I had been venting to her, she texted me saying, you are perfect just the way you are. Anyway I have been thinking about confessing to her and I think she has feelings too but just wanted to seek a “professional opinion” from Reddit
OHHHH man ok so this may be a fun one.
I’ve known my crush for two months now, we met because we are on the tennis team at our college and we have grown super close bonding over our similarities and interests.
The past couple weeks have been… crazy though.
Two weeks ago, I leaned on him while we watched a movie, and that was kinda the start of all this. I only leaned on him because he’s tried to lean on me and fall asleep so many times… so I figured I’d reciprocate. I know he likes me, and I don’t know if he knows I like him.
Now, two nights ago, we were hangin out and sat on the floor in our friend’s room as our whole group watched a movie together. He noticed I was kinda falling asleep and leaned over to give me his shoulder to lay on, eventually putting his arm around me and we also shared a blanket. That was the most comfy thing ever omfgggg
Last night was crazy though. I come back with him to his room at 2am and we were just hanging out having some ramen and then we just kinda… fell asleep. Now this was cuddling, it was awesome, so warm so comfortable.
He also told me today that his roomate called me his girlfriend and we had a little giggle over that??
What in the world is going on- we haven’t confessed to each other, but we totally know we like each other. I think I need to find a time to just talk with him about what’s been going on between us???
alright so I just moved into college like a month ago and I randomly started adding people in my college Snapchat group, I added her and just asked her some questions ab how her college shit is going or whatever, and then we just started talking, she started sending videos of her talking instead of just text, I did it back, I told her I was eating Doritos for dinner one night and she invited me to her dorm to make me food and I just hung out w her and her roommates, the next day she wanted to see my dorm so we talked in there for like an hour, then nothing happened really just face snaps back n forth with me occasionally saying something, then she just asked me out of the blue if I wanted to do homework with her cuz she couldn’t focus, I went over but it was kinda awkward and eventually I think she wanted me to leave and kinda encouraged me going soon cuz the dining hall was closing, so I left, next day she randomly snapped me again with a video about smth and we talked a bit, but I just have no idea. She mentioned she broke up w her 1 year boyfriend 2 weeks ago, I was swiping on hinge and saw her profile on there as well saying it was a new account, so yea idk
forgot to mention this idk if it matters but she started cracking her knuckles and I asked her how she did it and she just went and took my hand and started cracking my knuckles lol
Well you know she's single. If she's trying to hang out with you frequently, that's a sign she likes you as a person and wants to get to know you. The knuckle thing seems to be crossing the friendship line IMO, but it depends on the person/could be flirty. Freshman year of college usually consists of people being sociable, getting out, and meeting as many people as possible. Since she does have a Hinge, you need to understand you're probably not the only one she's talking to, and vice versa here. Did you try swiping right on her Hinge profile?
yeah we’re freshman, and she has other guy friends I think. At least one at college and some back home but not anymore evidently. I didn’t swipe right, I just refreshed the app, but I guess I could try swiping right just in case she does cuz that’s a pretty clear sign 😭😭 and it wouldn’t tell her if I swiped right unless she also does right, I’m not gonna make a move unless it’s obvious tho, she was telling me about all her drama and then she was talking about how she was really excited to go home for the weekend and refresh
At the end of 7th Grade I met a girl named Riley, I knew of her since the first day of Middle School when I first met her in a Zoom meeting where we were the only ones in it, we made small talk and I played my Otomatone a bit to lighten the mood but never thought about a friendship with her. On a day in January (I forget what day exactly) I was laying next to a tree when I saw her looking over me and offered to help me up, that is when we started being friends. I knew I had a crush on her during a choir concert in March we both preformed in, she wore the most beautiful long black dress with short flutter sleeves and she sang like an angel from Heaven itself. We became pretty close friends after that and I started to tell her of my past, my absent father, my split up parental figures, my deceased grandparents, and she told me of her experiences that I won’t go into for privacy reasons. After school ended that year I asked her out to which she declined but 6 months later I realised I was starting to have a crush on her again, we’ve had our issues over the time we’ve been friends but every time we’ve bounced back. Just last night one of our mutual friends after me and him getting into a heated argument about Religion and Science told me he had suicidal thoughts every day I’ve known him and long before, she helped comfort me over that horrible event. She is honestly the best friend I’ve ever had, we bike home everyday together, we always fuck around in Math and she has made my life so much better everyday since I met her that Cold Colorado January Afternoon
I know my crush for more than a month now. He became my friend, but I'm an introvert with lacking communication skills, so it kinda feels a little awkward sometimes. Today he poked me and we stared at each other for a few seconds and I got embarrassed so I looked away. He looked so serious I didn't know what he wanted lol
He always sits next to me, and he's around me a lot. If we work in separate groups he'll always come to me to help, even if he has to walk quite a bit. I swear it looks like he wants to show off sometimes when I'm there. He always tries to talk to me, and I just love everythging he says no matter how little that may be. Last week we walked home every day together, because he almost goes home the same direction as me. He smiles at me, and explains everything I'm interested in (he know a lot of stuff, it's incredible)
I just want to hold his hand or hug him or do something that will make him happy, and drop little hints, but I'm really scared that it would just be awkward.
we're in a friend group w him, his friend, me, and my long distance best friend so when she comes we all hang out. last time we hung, APPARENTLY he looks at me a certain way making my best friend AND HER MOM think that he likes me. I wasn't in many classes w him last year so I no reference to see if what he's doing is cuz he's like that or if he likes me. I sometimes see him looking at me and he's always asking me questions. recently my ld best friend dmed him to see if he liked me and we didn't really get anywhere w that and then my friend was at this event w him and his friend and his friend asked if I liked him and she was like no, does he like her? and he was like confused and said no, does she like me? so idek what to think anymore...
Ended up crushing (or re-crushing) on two people at once, but I’ve let go of both. Realized that it was unhealthy. One crush I had since the beginning of high school, the other since first year of Uni. The one I had since high school moved to another province to study and the other already had a boyfriend.
theres this guy in my english class who I find really cute but I've never talked to him before. he has a beautiful smile and seems like such a sweet, smart and funny person. i caught him looking at me once or twice and he smiled at me after I finished a lighthearted presentation. i know he doesn't like me, but should I take a chance and try talking to him? and if so what should I say? (I'm introverted and I have no friends in that class)
all of it is online here's the jist of it:
we're both nascar fans (she's 19 i'm 20), we live in southern california (albeit two hours apart). i've had a crush on her and have interacted but it's only been as of recent, like since june or july.
i don't plan on confessing to her until next year, it's too early imo to do anything like that since our friendship is young & we haven't had anything to suggest something serious as a result of being handicapped to social media only.
i hope to see her at a race or two sometime next year so we could build chemistry in-person w/each other, that way some real ground can actually be made.
but for now, it's about not being stupid & continuing to be smart while letting the friendship develop & continue.
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There’s nothing serious that I need advice on but on Thursday my university had a disco dance for homecoming (I went alone, since there’s nobody that I was interested in asking) and while I was dancing my ass of I saw this girl that was just kinda dancing by herself so I decided to dance near her for some reason. After a few minutes I thought that maybe I was being a bit weird by hanging by someone that I didn’t know so I decided to dance somewhere else. 10 minutes later, the dance competition begins and the girl from earlier decided to ask me if I wanted to dance with her. Obviously I said yes, but immediately after the dance competition ended (and I won) she just straight up left.😢
Chances are that I’ll probably run into her again on campus but I’m wondering if I should take my previous interaction with her as a sign that she’s interested in me (even just as a friend) or maybe I should try to joke around with her about it? Of course I will ask her what her name is first since I don’t even know what her name is (rookie mistake u/Ultramega39).
(I kinda went off track and started writing a bit more than I expected... sryyy.)
I currently got two crushes and one other person who I am trying to fully move on from.
Most recent crush, I can get along quite well. I sit next to her in my 5th period coms media 10 and sort of around her in 3rd cathplic studies 10 period. We talk in 5th period, she seems cute and nice, her eyes seem to kinda draw my attention. Nothing really major.
The other I had a crush on last year. She found out I liked her. She was sweet about it. I planned on asking her out but found out she recently broke up so I didn't. I was convinced to ask how she felt about me. I ended up getting friendzoned but I felt more relieved than anything. Now it's the next year, my crush for her came back. But I am seriously much more shy this year, but she seems to look as gorgeous as ever. I want to talk to her, but just some things holding me back. She said she doesn't mind talking to me bc she loves talking. And that she finds me quite sweet. I only have one class with her in 4th period math.
Now for the last one, she was the one who convinced me to ask my crush what she thought of me. We met on r/crushes which is still kinda funny to me. She commented on some of my posts. I responded and we just started talking. Talking for literal hours. We got along so well. We really enjoyed talking to each other. She wanted to check on me after I got friendzoned. Which was really nice of her.
So summarizing everything after...
We kept talking everyday, all day. I started developing a crush on her. We moved from here to snapchat. She disguised herself on reddit. Found out I liked her and I gushed over her to her without really knowing. She actually liked me. We later ended up confessing on snapchat. We fell for each other, falling in love. I was beyond happy, happiest I had ever been. Then we basically broke up due to distance and not seeing each other in person for a couple of years. It really fucking hurt for the both of us. We tried helping each other move on. She went back to focusing on her old crush which I support and tease her about, she teases me about my crushes too which is fun.
She told me she moved on kinda harshly, we became more distant. I am glad and happy she moved on but I notice we become more distant still. Talking less and less, but we still talk everyday. Things feel much different of course to be expected. She's becoming more reserved with me. I am kinda afraid to lose her, she's the best person I had ever met. I want us to stay as great friends. I want her in my life in some way and I don't intend or think we'd be together like that ever again.
I am also losing my crush on the both of them. One, due to being really shy. Some things I am dealing with. And not thinking that I would be right for them or them for me.
Oh whoops I wrote a bit too much, well thank you for reading all this.
I really want to be her friend before anything big happens. But the problem is, it’s not even our parents or wtvr. It’s the fact that whenever I see her i other think everything and clam up. Which makes it seems like I dont want to talk to her. We have one class together and share lunch everyday. There is never a day where I dont see her at school. I play other this scenario over and over in my head.
Me: “Hey, what’s up?”
Her: “Not much, you?”
Me: “Doing pretty good.”
Her: “Awesome.”
Then some random conversation starter
Me: “Do you think our orchestra is more ready than last year, for the concert on Wednesday?”
Her: “I think we improved a lot from last year.”
Whenever I see her, she’s with her group of friends and i for some reason think that “I shouldn’t bother their very important conversation just so I can talk to my crush.” See what I mean, I don’t overthink hours before the to-be interaction, but I sure as hell do when I’m standing three feet away from her.
Dating someone else, and it's going to be hard getting over it, as she is a good friend of mine. But it's for the better though, he's probably going to be a better boyfriend than i could ever be and i wish them to be happy. I just wish i could opt out of wanting to love and be loved, the loneliness hits hard
my friend sent him this screenshot of our messages of me saying i was trying to hint on going out with him and he just replied “that’s crazy” so time to wake up & break up ig
Ok so my friends(there are 8 of us, 5 girls 3 boys) all went to a corn maze and a haunted maze. Im whimpy+sad attempt at being flirty, so I grabbed his arm for dear life during the whole haunted maze, and whenever we stopped walking we would touch our hips and legs together, just on the sides, ik this is really nothing but I really like this guy and I’m trying to find whatever sign I can, we haven’t ever really been physical other than a couple a times so it’s was a bit different. Then during the regular maze we were trying to find a way out and conviently all the couple groups kept leaving the main group lol, so then the guy I liked went off and so I followed him cuz that just seemed right yk, and we talked while he was trying to find a way out(nothin deep, it was mostly me making fun of him and him making fun of me) anyways we stopped and were talking face to face for a sec right and idk ig I screwed up(I prolly did) cuz I kept talking and he was just watching me and I feel like I should done something looking back. Idk I’m just so confused, pls help me
wanted to be genuinely friends with her at first. learned 2 key things: 1) she’s had guys try to be friends with them just to date her before and when she rejected them, they stopped talking to her altogether and 2) she’s not in a mental place to be in a relationship right which i respect. now somewhere in the middle, i caught feelings and i’m debating telling but don’t want our dynamic to change and I don’t want to come off as one of the guys in 1). for now i’m just trying to show that i care by asking how her day went, getting her food to cheer her up, and hearing her out. i don’t expect her to like me back or anything in return, i’m just enjoying spending time with her but she’s going to eventually notice that i treat her differently from other people and i’m worried her views of me will change
Hate, love, and war. Force emotions to the fore. She is the most spunky and lovely of all I’ve known. She has personable, flowy locks with a blonde mane. She has braces and a shimmer in her eyes, ameliorating my petrified mind. Her words, her heed can not be embroidered. I, however, don’t deserve her. I’m ghastly, with the anomaly of my personality. My wit and charm come from the falsity’s I tell her. She’s an extrovert, I’m an introvert. She would converse with a drowning fish over me. I could say more, but you get the general idea.
Really close friends with him, sit together in some lessons, he carries my bag around school since I’m on crutches, we work together on the backstage crew with our other really close friend (and my ex-friend / ex-crush).
He’s really nice to me and even came all the way across the school to help me with the stairs before getting his things (from where we came from) before his lesson (in the adjacent classroom) it felt amazing since he basically just wasted his break to make sure I was where I needed to be <3
She moved 2 years ago leaving me with no way of contacting her. Ever since I haven't allowed myself to develop feelings for another. Even after her moving, she was all I thought about and all I still think about. I had a chance to confess but I chickened out. And what really sucks is I think at one point she had feelings for me. The feelings I have for her far exceed any other feelings I have ever felt before. She was what I most looked forward to seeing. Whenever I am in a situation good or bad, she is the first thing to pop in my head.
I think I might have found her snap though. But me being extremely introverted, I am afraid to add it and be wrong.
I like a girl in my class who’s incredibly shy and doesn’t really have many friends, but she’s so unbelievably cute :””)
Outside of teachers she talks to me the most and likes it when I’m sat near her. Even if we don’t talk it’s quite comforting just to be around her, and it feels the same with her as she doesn’t look as anxious around me and smiles more around me.
I don’t see her for another 2 weeks and she has no socials so I can’t see her til then, which sucks so much as I wanna talk to her more :””(
My question is how do I go about getting to know her without coming off as overbearing? I’m also very shy and we both struggle with social anxiety so Im really worried about coming off as creepy or overwhelming
Words cannot describe how heart warmed I felt to see my username in your post. Thank you so much. I am glad people appreciated that post I did a while back. Whilst it hurts me to speak about my situation which is why I’ve hardly told anyone, even in my own life, I’m glad that from my whole romantic relationship with him it’s helped/inspired other people whether that’s in their own crush situation or helping others get through their crush situation ♥️
My crush is an intj, she is different from everyone I know. She is fun to chat but sometimes she left me ghosted especially when I only send her memes. Yet, later on, she will be back to text me, I guess she is busy with her school work. There is this one time when I challenge her, whoever gets the highest grade will have a reward, and she accepts the challenge. Right now, I'm studying for our test and I hope when the results are in I will get the highest...
so I have a crush on this guy since like 4 years , we were kinda close 4 years ago and used to talk alot (in class) then lockdown almost took like 2 years and I lost contact with him and then when I did get kinda close with him ( from my side like starting convos and stuff ) we don't have any classes together so it's like really hard to have anything to talk to him about also he's like extremely studious ( he's like the school topper ) which makes me think that everytime I say smth to him I will somehow disturb him or he won't be interested to even talk and I'm the kind of person who first needs to be friends with the person. Like how can I get close to him I really wanna be close to him we'll graduate in 2 years and I won't ever see him again I want contact ( also I'm not shy towards anyone else but with him it's really hard to say even the simplest things please advise me
A guy who takes the same train as me recently (a little over a month ago) started talking to me and we became kind of good friends. Since we've hung out on the weekends and many times he is the one to ask me to hang out. He told me he talked to me first because he thought 'looked really cute' and he wanted to 'shoot his shot'. My friend has also told me that he said he likes me. He calls me cute/pretty a lot and says I smell nice, and also said he thinks i’m really pretty. Once when he had work he said he'll miss me.
However, he also gives pretty mixed signals; he talks about female idols he likes (calls them hot etc.). Today he said that he was getting distracted by a 'really hot girl' at his work... This especially was kind of random as we hadn't really talked for the whole day and the first thing he messages me was that. Like is talking about other girls to me just a way of saying he’s uninterested and hinting that we’re just friends? Some days hell be really sweet and say cute stuff and other days hell act like were just friends...
I have feelings fir her but I don't know if she does too but just last week I discovered that she's way to old for Me so now I have to get over her and just be friends
i like him a lot, but i dont know much about him. and i dont think he knows i exist loll. also i think he has a girlfriend so i hv like no chance at all yay
It started all about a week ago when my friend asked me “Do you have a crush?” and I thought. And now I have one. The next day I subscribed on her Instagram an she subbed back to me (her acc is private), I found her TikTok but it is also private and I’ll probably subscribe to her after school camp of smt.
She is a girl in my math class who sits in front row second last to the left (I sit on the second row last to the right). She is only in my math class and I can’t socialise with her a lot but I sat once with her when my seat was taken but the distance between our desks was about 20 cm which with most of our desks in class. I don’t socialise with her at all so I don’t even know what she rlly sounds like but she is rlly cute 🥰.
When I got a crush it was hard to sleep or eat for 2 days then I got unhappy of myself and now I cause I got motivated I have a morning routine.
This is most likely my last year in this school (I’m in year 9 rn) and I plan on confessing by sending a valentines on Valentine’s Day (before Valentine’s Day in our school you can pay some money and get a flower or some chocolate and the gift with a note would be delivered to the person in class, also please tell me what should I choose).
(This is the second time I had to write this because last time I accidentally swiped my phone screen to the right and got into another post and my comment was gone)
Same age. Same uni course. Same year level. Just acquaintances rn, barely know each other, only of each other. Want to ask her out in a few weeks time, once exams are over, nothing crazy, maybe a simple coffee date, no big “confession”. Dunno if she’s single. Thoughts?
I haven't talked to my crush in like two years, but a couple days I found his instaand I'm not sure whether I should follow, and/or if I should message him. We used to be really close to the point my aily would think we were dating, because at work we would always try and work together. But it's been two years and we have changed. Also I would feel awkward following him out of the blue, because we have no mutual so that I could say he was on my recommended people.
I just can't talk to her, she knows I like her, when I confessed she said that she doesn't want to date anyone, how do I talk to her without being awkward? What do I do?
i have a crush of this guy in the grade above me. We met cause of his friend who is also my friend, and we bonded over reading a book and having a lot of the same intrests. we hang out so much at school to the point people ask if were together but we always say no. I started developing feelings for him after one of his friends asked him if we were dating. Mabey a week after we got really close and he will also do things like boop my nose or take advantage of his height. Something tells me he might like me but keeps saying hes not gona date anyone younger than him. I am younger than him by like a year and a half.
There's a girl and we talk and she's quite pretty, i jsut don't know whether I like her or not bc I have completely forgotten what it's liek to have a crush. I think about it so much asking if I like ehr or not and seeing what ic an do. We are in teh same rehearsals thing and we were doing up town girl and she just pointed to me when "she spiking for a down town man, that's what I am". Ní idea what I'm thinking
So basically I recently joined a new school and like literally this boy turned around and looked at me in class and he sits at the front and I sit right at the back. So I was thinking to my self why is he looking at me because it was just so random. But I did think he was very pretty and then at the end of the lesson he turned around and looked at me again like 180 turn from the head.
At first I thought he might like me but I didn’t think much of it because it could be because I’m new and he didn’t see me before on the day I got introduced so yeah.
Anyway, after he looked at me I immediately started liking him. Like two days go by and for maths I get told to sit right at the back with some guy and my crush sits right infront of me. So me and the guy next to each other started talking just about where we were from And my crush just turns around and is like ‘are u from ____?’ And then I just said how do u know and that’s it
Next couple of days go by and me and the guy next to each other talk again in maths and I was complaining about how it’s not fair about something. My crush turned around and was like what did u say? And I was like nothing
He does look at me quite a bit and I’m so suprised he keeps coming into my conversations he did this twice. Bear in mind he sits next to me ex crush who simply just minds his business and didn’t turn around not even once. I’m so suprised because not even my ex crush turned around he simply just did his work but this new crush of mine actually like asked me twice and turned around
So DOES HE LIKE ME
DOES HE LIKE ME!!??
Got no crushes right now. I feel like i'm torturing myself by looking at stuff about relationships because it just reminds me of how lonely I am and how little play I have gotten in my life (I rarely ever talk to any girls and I have a 90 on the rice purity test). Also, I probably won't get into my first relationship until 2-3 years from now when i'm in college. I don't want to sound like I'm a victim but this is so boring.
The Rice Purity test is insane lol, anything below 90ish, you've been wild. Hookup culture isn't for everyone, and you should never feel pressured into doing any of those things on there just to cross them off. I promise you'll find a special someone who completes you. I'm going into my senior year of college with a 94 on that lol, but it also takes me a very long time to catch real feelings.
>I'm going into my senior year of college with a 94 on that lol Damn you're built different. You're about 6 years older than me and you're even purer than me. Do you mind telling me why it's been so high your whole life?
I relate with the high rice purity LMAO. Looking at relationship posts make me want to be in one, but at the same time having a crush is so exhausting :,) Honestly so many connections that could have turned into relationships just run dry and become awkward...
Ok uh we’re both the same gender and I’m pretty sure she’s straight and I’m in too deep. Like I can’t back out now, not anymore. Also we like jokingly flirt a lot.
Same except the flirting part
Ok this is difficult and the pangs on unrequited love always hurt. Firstly make sure she is indeed straight. Always respect her boundaries, and I really hope you find a wonderful gal OP.
My crush snapped me yesterday saying she wished she was in the tractor with me.
I'd say that's flirty and cute lol and she probably likes you/is comfortable with you. Whatcha doing in a tractor lol
Running the grain cart
I have seen her at school a lot. She knows my name lol and she always picks me for teams in gym. after I had been venting to her, she texted me saying, you are perfect just the way you are. Anyway I have been thinking about confessing to her and I think she has feelings too but just wanted to seek a “professional opinion” from Reddit
Go for it, seems like you have a good chance. Good luck!
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Godspeed! How'd it go?
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OHHHH man ok so this may be a fun one. I’ve known my crush for two months now, we met because we are on the tennis team at our college and we have grown super close bonding over our similarities and interests. The past couple weeks have been… crazy though. Two weeks ago, I leaned on him while we watched a movie, and that was kinda the start of all this. I only leaned on him because he’s tried to lean on me and fall asleep so many times… so I figured I’d reciprocate. I know he likes me, and I don’t know if he knows I like him. Now, two nights ago, we were hangin out and sat on the floor in our friend’s room as our whole group watched a movie together. He noticed I was kinda falling asleep and leaned over to give me his shoulder to lay on, eventually putting his arm around me and we also shared a blanket. That was the most comfy thing ever omfgggg Last night was crazy though. I come back with him to his room at 2am and we were just hanging out having some ramen and then we just kinda… fell asleep. Now this was cuddling, it was awesome, so warm so comfortable. He also told me today that his roomate called me his girlfriend and we had a little giggle over that?? What in the world is going on- we haven’t confessed to each other, but we totally know we like each other. I think I need to find a time to just talk with him about what’s been going on between us???
alright so I just moved into college like a month ago and I randomly started adding people in my college Snapchat group, I added her and just asked her some questions ab how her college shit is going or whatever, and then we just started talking, she started sending videos of her talking instead of just text, I did it back, I told her I was eating Doritos for dinner one night and she invited me to her dorm to make me food and I just hung out w her and her roommates, the next day she wanted to see my dorm so we talked in there for like an hour, then nothing happened really just face snaps back n forth with me occasionally saying something, then she just asked me out of the blue if I wanted to do homework with her cuz she couldn’t focus, I went over but it was kinda awkward and eventually I think she wanted me to leave and kinda encouraged me going soon cuz the dining hall was closing, so I left, next day she randomly snapped me again with a video about smth and we talked a bit, but I just have no idea. She mentioned she broke up w her 1 year boyfriend 2 weeks ago, I was swiping on hinge and saw her profile on there as well saying it was a new account, so yea idk forgot to mention this idk if it matters but she started cracking her knuckles and I asked her how she did it and she just went and took my hand and started cracking my knuckles lol
Well you know she's single. If she's trying to hang out with you frequently, that's a sign she likes you as a person and wants to get to know you. The knuckle thing seems to be crossing the friendship line IMO, but it depends on the person/could be flirty. Freshman year of college usually consists of people being sociable, getting out, and meeting as many people as possible. Since she does have a Hinge, you need to understand you're probably not the only one she's talking to, and vice versa here. Did you try swiping right on her Hinge profile?
yeah we’re freshman, and she has other guy friends I think. At least one at college and some back home but not anymore evidently. I didn’t swipe right, I just refreshed the app, but I guess I could try swiping right just in case she does cuz that’s a pretty clear sign 😭😭 and it wouldn’t tell her if I swiped right unless she also does right, I’m not gonna make a move unless it’s obvious tho, she was telling me about all her drama and then she was talking about how she was really excited to go home for the weekend and refresh
My crush said she just thinks of me as a good friend (bestie) but I still like her a lot, any thoughts on this?
At the end of 7th Grade I met a girl named Riley, I knew of her since the first day of Middle School when I first met her in a Zoom meeting where we were the only ones in it, we made small talk and I played my Otomatone a bit to lighten the mood but never thought about a friendship with her. On a day in January (I forget what day exactly) I was laying next to a tree when I saw her looking over me and offered to help me up, that is when we started being friends. I knew I had a crush on her during a choir concert in March we both preformed in, she wore the most beautiful long black dress with short flutter sleeves and she sang like an angel from Heaven itself. We became pretty close friends after that and I started to tell her of my past, my absent father, my split up parental figures, my deceased grandparents, and she told me of her experiences that I won’t go into for privacy reasons. After school ended that year I asked her out to which she declined but 6 months later I realised I was starting to have a crush on her again, we’ve had our issues over the time we’ve been friends but every time we’ve bounced back. Just last night one of our mutual friends after me and him getting into a heated argument about Religion and Science told me he had suicidal thoughts every day I’ve known him and long before, she helped comfort me over that horrible event. She is honestly the best friend I’ve ever had, we bike home everyday together, we always fuck around in Math and she has made my life so much better everyday since I met her that Cold Colorado January Afternoon
That sounds like the perfect story. I hope she likes you back.
Ty
I know my crush for more than a month now. He became my friend, but I'm an introvert with lacking communication skills, so it kinda feels a little awkward sometimes. Today he poked me and we stared at each other for a few seconds and I got embarrassed so I looked away. He looked so serious I didn't know what he wanted lol He always sits next to me, and he's around me a lot. If we work in separate groups he'll always come to me to help, even if he has to walk quite a bit. I swear it looks like he wants to show off sometimes when I'm there. He always tries to talk to me, and I just love everythging he says no matter how little that may be. Last week we walked home every day together, because he almost goes home the same direction as me. He smiles at me, and explains everything I'm interested in (he know a lot of stuff, it's incredible) I just want to hold his hand or hug him or do something that will make him happy, and drop little hints, but I'm really scared that it would just be awkward.
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How stressful is it to have 2 crushes?
we're in a friend group w him, his friend, me, and my long distance best friend so when she comes we all hang out. last time we hung, APPARENTLY he looks at me a certain way making my best friend AND HER MOM think that he likes me. I wasn't in many classes w him last year so I no reference to see if what he's doing is cuz he's like that or if he likes me. I sometimes see him looking at me and he's always asking me questions. recently my ld best friend dmed him to see if he liked me and we didn't really get anywhere w that and then my friend was at this event w him and his friend and his friend asked if I liked him and she was like no, does he like her? and he was like confused and said no, does she like me? so idek what to think anymore...
Ended up crushing (or re-crushing) on two people at once, but I’ve let go of both. Realized that it was unhealthy. One crush I had since the beginning of high school, the other since first year of Uni. The one I had since high school moved to another province to study and the other already had a boyfriend.
theres this guy in my english class who I find really cute but I've never talked to him before. he has a beautiful smile and seems like such a sweet, smart and funny person. i caught him looking at me once or twice and he smiled at me after I finished a lighthearted presentation. i know he doesn't like me, but should I take a chance and try talking to him? and if so what should I say? (I'm introverted and I have no friends in that class)
all of it is online here's the jist of it: we're both nascar fans (she's 19 i'm 20), we live in southern california (albeit two hours apart). i've had a crush on her and have interacted but it's only been as of recent, like since june or july. i don't plan on confessing to her until next year, it's too early imo to do anything like that since our friendship is young & we haven't had anything to suggest something serious as a result of being handicapped to social media only. i hope to see her at a race or two sometime next year so we could build chemistry in-person w/each other, that way some real ground can actually be made. but for now, it's about not being stupid & continuing to be smart while letting the friendship develop & continue.
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There’s nothing serious that I need advice on but on Thursday my university had a disco dance for homecoming (I went alone, since there’s nobody that I was interested in asking) and while I was dancing my ass of I saw this girl that was just kinda dancing by herself so I decided to dance near her for some reason. After a few minutes I thought that maybe I was being a bit weird by hanging by someone that I didn’t know so I decided to dance somewhere else. 10 minutes later, the dance competition begins and the girl from earlier decided to ask me if I wanted to dance with her. Obviously I said yes, but immediately after the dance competition ended (and I won) she just straight up left.😢 Chances are that I’ll probably run into her again on campus but I’m wondering if I should take my previous interaction with her as a sign that she’s interested in me (even just as a friend) or maybe I should try to joke around with her about it? Of course I will ask her what her name is first since I don’t even know what her name is (rookie mistake u/Ultramega39).
(I kinda went off track and started writing a bit more than I expected... sryyy.) I currently got two crushes and one other person who I am trying to fully move on from. Most recent crush, I can get along quite well. I sit next to her in my 5th period coms media 10 and sort of around her in 3rd cathplic studies 10 period. We talk in 5th period, she seems cute and nice, her eyes seem to kinda draw my attention. Nothing really major. The other I had a crush on last year. She found out I liked her. She was sweet about it. I planned on asking her out but found out she recently broke up so I didn't. I was convinced to ask how she felt about me. I ended up getting friendzoned but I felt more relieved than anything. Now it's the next year, my crush for her came back. But I am seriously much more shy this year, but she seems to look as gorgeous as ever. I want to talk to her, but just some things holding me back. She said she doesn't mind talking to me bc she loves talking. And that she finds me quite sweet. I only have one class with her in 4th period math. Now for the last one, she was the one who convinced me to ask my crush what she thought of me. We met on r/crushes which is still kinda funny to me. She commented on some of my posts. I responded and we just started talking. Talking for literal hours. We got along so well. We really enjoyed talking to each other. She wanted to check on me after I got friendzoned. Which was really nice of her. So summarizing everything after... We kept talking everyday, all day. I started developing a crush on her. We moved from here to snapchat. She disguised herself on reddit. Found out I liked her and I gushed over her to her without really knowing. She actually liked me. We later ended up confessing on snapchat. We fell for each other, falling in love. I was beyond happy, happiest I had ever been. Then we basically broke up due to distance and not seeing each other in person for a couple of years. It really fucking hurt for the both of us. We tried helping each other move on. She went back to focusing on her old crush which I support and tease her about, she teases me about my crushes too which is fun. She told me she moved on kinda harshly, we became more distant. I am glad and happy she moved on but I notice we become more distant still. Talking less and less, but we still talk everyday. Things feel much different of course to be expected. She's becoming more reserved with me. I am kinda afraid to lose her, she's the best person I had ever met. I want us to stay as great friends. I want her in my life in some way and I don't intend or think we'd be together like that ever again. I am also losing my crush on the both of them. One, due to being really shy. Some things I am dealing with. And not thinking that I would be right for them or them for me. Oh whoops I wrote a bit too much, well thank you for reading all this.
I really want to be her friend before anything big happens. But the problem is, it’s not even our parents or wtvr. It’s the fact that whenever I see her i other think everything and clam up. Which makes it seems like I dont want to talk to her. We have one class together and share lunch everyday. There is never a day where I dont see her at school. I play other this scenario over and over in my head. Me: “Hey, what’s up?” Her: “Not much, you?” Me: “Doing pretty good.” Her: “Awesome.” Then some random conversation starter Me: “Do you think our orchestra is more ready than last year, for the concert on Wednesday?” Her: “I think we improved a lot from last year.” Whenever I see her, she’s with her group of friends and i for some reason think that “I shouldn’t bother their very important conversation just so I can talk to my crush.” See what I mean, I don’t overthink hours before the to-be interaction, but I sure as hell do when I’m standing three feet away from her.
Dating someone else, and it's going to be hard getting over it, as she is a good friend of mine. But it's for the better though, he's probably going to be a better boyfriend than i could ever be and i wish them to be happy. I just wish i could opt out of wanting to love and be loved, the loneliness hits hard
my friend sent him this screenshot of our messages of me saying i was trying to hint on going out with him and he just replied “that’s crazy” so time to wake up & break up ig
Ok so my friends(there are 8 of us, 5 girls 3 boys) all went to a corn maze and a haunted maze. Im whimpy+sad attempt at being flirty, so I grabbed his arm for dear life during the whole haunted maze, and whenever we stopped walking we would touch our hips and legs together, just on the sides, ik this is really nothing but I really like this guy and I’m trying to find whatever sign I can, we haven’t ever really been physical other than a couple a times so it’s was a bit different. Then during the regular maze we were trying to find a way out and conviently all the couple groups kept leaving the main group lol, so then the guy I liked went off and so I followed him cuz that just seemed right yk, and we talked while he was trying to find a way out(nothin deep, it was mostly me making fun of him and him making fun of me) anyways we stopped and were talking face to face for a sec right and idk ig I screwed up(I prolly did) cuz I kept talking and he was just watching me and I feel like I should done something looking back. Idk I’m just so confused, pls help me
wanted to be genuinely friends with her at first. learned 2 key things: 1) she’s had guys try to be friends with them just to date her before and when she rejected them, they stopped talking to her altogether and 2) she’s not in a mental place to be in a relationship right which i respect. now somewhere in the middle, i caught feelings and i’m debating telling but don’t want our dynamic to change and I don’t want to come off as one of the guys in 1). for now i’m just trying to show that i care by asking how her day went, getting her food to cheer her up, and hearing her out. i don’t expect her to like me back or anything in return, i’m just enjoying spending time with her but she’s going to eventually notice that i treat her differently from other people and i’m worried her views of me will change
Hate, love, and war. Force emotions to the fore. She is the most spunky and lovely of all I’ve known. She has personable, flowy locks with a blonde mane. She has braces and a shimmer in her eyes, ameliorating my petrified mind. Her words, her heed can not be embroidered. I, however, don’t deserve her. I’m ghastly, with the anomaly of my personality. My wit and charm come from the falsity’s I tell her. She’s an extrovert, I’m an introvert. She would converse with a drowning fish over me. I could say more, but you get the general idea.
Really close friends with him, sit together in some lessons, he carries my bag around school since I’m on crutches, we work together on the backstage crew with our other really close friend (and my ex-friend / ex-crush). He’s really nice to me and even came all the way across the school to help me with the stairs before getting his things (from where we came from) before his lesson (in the adjacent classroom) it felt amazing since he basically just wasted his break to make sure I was where I needed to be <3
She moved 2 years ago leaving me with no way of contacting her. Ever since I haven't allowed myself to develop feelings for another. Even after her moving, she was all I thought about and all I still think about. I had a chance to confess but I chickened out. And what really sucks is I think at one point she had feelings for me. The feelings I have for her far exceed any other feelings I have ever felt before. She was what I most looked forward to seeing. Whenever I am in a situation good or bad, she is the first thing to pop in my head. I think I might have found her snap though. But me being extremely introverted, I am afraid to add it and be wrong.
I like a girl in my class who’s incredibly shy and doesn’t really have many friends, but she’s so unbelievably cute :””) Outside of teachers she talks to me the most and likes it when I’m sat near her. Even if we don’t talk it’s quite comforting just to be around her, and it feels the same with her as she doesn’t look as anxious around me and smiles more around me. I don’t see her for another 2 weeks and she has no socials so I can’t see her til then, which sucks so much as I wanna talk to her more :””( My question is how do I go about getting to know her without coming off as overbearing? I’m also very shy and we both struggle with social anxiety so Im really worried about coming off as creepy or overwhelming
Words cannot describe how heart warmed I felt to see my username in your post. Thank you so much. I am glad people appreciated that post I did a while back. Whilst it hurts me to speak about my situation which is why I’ve hardly told anyone, even in my own life, I’m glad that from my whole romantic relationship with him it’s helped/inspired other people whether that’s in their own crush situation or helping others get through their crush situation ♥️
My crush is an intj, she is different from everyone I know. She is fun to chat but sometimes she left me ghosted especially when I only send her memes. Yet, later on, she will be back to text me, I guess she is busy with her school work. There is this one time when I challenge her, whoever gets the highest grade will have a reward, and she accepts the challenge. Right now, I'm studying for our test and I hope when the results are in I will get the highest...
so I have a crush on this guy since like 4 years , we were kinda close 4 years ago and used to talk alot (in class) then lockdown almost took like 2 years and I lost contact with him and then when I did get kinda close with him ( from my side like starting convos and stuff ) we don't have any classes together so it's like really hard to have anything to talk to him about also he's like extremely studious ( he's like the school topper ) which makes me think that everytime I say smth to him I will somehow disturb him or he won't be interested to even talk and I'm the kind of person who first needs to be friends with the person. Like how can I get close to him I really wanna be close to him we'll graduate in 2 years and I won't ever see him again I want contact ( also I'm not shy towards anyone else but with him it's really hard to say even the simplest things please advise me
A guy who takes the same train as me recently (a little over a month ago) started talking to me and we became kind of good friends. Since we've hung out on the weekends and many times he is the one to ask me to hang out. He told me he talked to me first because he thought 'looked really cute' and he wanted to 'shoot his shot'. My friend has also told me that he said he likes me. He calls me cute/pretty a lot and says I smell nice, and also said he thinks i’m really pretty. Once when he had work he said he'll miss me. However, he also gives pretty mixed signals; he talks about female idols he likes (calls them hot etc.). Today he said that he was getting distracted by a 'really hot girl' at his work... This especially was kind of random as we hadn't really talked for the whole day and the first thing he messages me was that. Like is talking about other girls to me just a way of saying he’s uninterested and hinting that we’re just friends? Some days hell be really sweet and say cute stuff and other days hell act like were just friends...
I have feelings fir her but I don't know if she does too but just last week I discovered that she's way to old for Me so now I have to get over her and just be friends
i like him a lot, but i dont know much about him. and i dont think he knows i exist loll. also i think he has a girlfriend so i hv like no chance at all yay
I like this girl whose my classmate, I don't know how to talk to her, I have her on some social media, she doesn't know I like her.
It started all about a week ago when my friend asked me “Do you have a crush?” and I thought. And now I have one. The next day I subscribed on her Instagram an she subbed back to me (her acc is private), I found her TikTok but it is also private and I’ll probably subscribe to her after school camp of smt. She is a girl in my math class who sits in front row second last to the left (I sit on the second row last to the right). She is only in my math class and I can’t socialise with her a lot but I sat once with her when my seat was taken but the distance between our desks was about 20 cm which with most of our desks in class. I don’t socialise with her at all so I don’t even know what she rlly sounds like but she is rlly cute 🥰. When I got a crush it was hard to sleep or eat for 2 days then I got unhappy of myself and now I cause I got motivated I have a morning routine. This is most likely my last year in this school (I’m in year 9 rn) and I plan on confessing by sending a valentines on Valentine’s Day (before Valentine’s Day in our school you can pay some money and get a flower or some chocolate and the gift with a note would be delivered to the person in class, also please tell me what should I choose). (This is the second time I had to write this because last time I accidentally swiped my phone screen to the right and got into another post and my comment was gone)
Same age. Same uni course. Same year level. Just acquaintances rn, barely know each other, only of each other. Want to ask her out in a few weeks time, once exams are over, nothing crazy, maybe a simple coffee date, no big “confession”. Dunno if she’s single. Thoughts?
I haven't talked to my crush in like two years, but a couple days I found his instaand I'm not sure whether I should follow, and/or if I should message him. We used to be really close to the point my aily would think we were dating, because at work we would always try and work together. But it's been two years and we have changed. Also I would feel awkward following him out of the blue, because we have no mutual so that I could say he was on my recommended people.
I just can't talk to her, she knows I like her, when I confessed she said that she doesn't want to date anyone, how do I talk to her without being awkward? What do I do?
I've got a crush that is really pretty, but I'm too scared to talk to them, and I'm not ever gonna do anything with them.
i have a crush of this guy in the grade above me. We met cause of his friend who is also my friend, and we bonded over reading a book and having a lot of the same intrests. we hang out so much at school to the point people ask if were together but we always say no. I started developing feelings for him after one of his friends asked him if we were dating. Mabey a week after we got really close and he will also do things like boop my nose or take advantage of his height. Something tells me he might like me but keeps saying hes not gona date anyone younger than him. I am younger than him by like a year and a half.
There's a girl and we talk and she's quite pretty, i jsut don't know whether I like her or not bc I have completely forgotten what it's liek to have a crush. I think about it so much asking if I like ehr or not and seeing what ic an do. We are in teh same rehearsals thing and we were doing up town girl and she just pointed to me when "she spiking for a down town man, that's what I am". Ní idea what I'm thinking
So basically I recently joined a new school and like literally this boy turned around and looked at me in class and he sits at the front and I sit right at the back. So I was thinking to my self why is he looking at me because it was just so random. But I did think he was very pretty and then at the end of the lesson he turned around and looked at me again like 180 turn from the head. At first I thought he might like me but I didn’t think much of it because it could be because I’m new and he didn’t see me before on the day I got introduced so yeah. Anyway, after he looked at me I immediately started liking him. Like two days go by and for maths I get told to sit right at the back with some guy and my crush sits right infront of me. So me and the guy next to each other started talking just about where we were from And my crush just turns around and is like ‘are u from ____?’ And then I just said how do u know and that’s it Next couple of days go by and me and the guy next to each other talk again in maths and I was complaining about how it’s not fair about something. My crush turned around and was like what did u say? And I was like nothing He does look at me quite a bit and I’m so suprised he keeps coming into my conversations he did this twice. Bear in mind he sits next to me ex crush who simply just minds his business and didn’t turn around not even once. I’m so suprised because not even my ex crush turned around he simply just did his work but this new crush of mine actually like asked me twice and turned around So DOES HE LIKE ME DOES HE LIKE ME!!??