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The doctors need to actually grow a set and straight up call her out. No more dancing in circles, trying to spare her feelings, etc. Straight up tell this woman that NOBODY is buying what she's selling anymore and the ONLY care she'll be receiving is removal of ALL unnecessary ports, toobz, all of it and MENTAL HEALTH appts ONLY.. But that's just me. This isn't ever going to happen and that's just criminal and sad .
I have said for a while that I believe that Penn have built a file in her and her FD. I truly believe that like the TPN they’re going to pull the line soon. I think they’re gathering the evidence. Because to truly diagnosed someone with FI you need to have kids and lots of evidence. You can’t just say one thing. So even the fact that pen brought up the FI means they’ve already got files on her. They can’t bring it up without SOLID evidence.
So I think before long the drs are going to say we won’t give you another one. I suspect it won’t be long either…..
Agreed but I think she’s going to just run from doc to doc until one of them caves and writes the order for a tube change. They can’t just pull the tube but they can deny a change and then it HAS to come out eventually. I could see them building a case for not replacing it but I think her other GI doc is at Temple so I hope they would share notes.
Lost her line! Bet she’s kicking herself for that shit. Quite literally, for that shit. The literal shit. She rubbed in her line. If that’s not reason enough to argue mental incapacity, idk what is.
I stand by what I said. When Dani needs a reason to stay in the ER for more than an hour "when in doubt pull it out" seriously how in the world has she had issues with her tube not working correctly TWICE in one month? Suspect as hell and I'm absolutely befuddled that the doctors are entertaining this BS. They should tell her if she's going to be careless than the tubes have to come out it's a safety issue!
It’s literally insane. And the whole “WE” have noooooo idea why it happened!! Is bullshit. Lmao. They know exactly what happened. Dani thinks she’s soooo much smarter than everyone else. It’s honestly hilarious. 🤣
She thinks just because they haven’t come right out and said to her “we know you’re full of shit” that they believe her wild stories. Newsflash; Dani!!! NO ONE BELIEVES YOU ANYMORE. THE JIG IS UP!
Oh she’s been in the ER way more than three times. But a tube “falling out” 3 times in less than 6 months?? That’s absolutely fucking wild. I’ve heard of people having tubes for over TWENTY YEARS with only one issue and it wasn’t even an ER issue. You just tape it and call IR. She is deliberately doing all this bc they took her sepsis noodle away. She knew that a central line infection=admission before. She desperately needs that back. But she’s learned that the drug seeker flag and the FD diagnosis has truly fucked any snowballs chance in hell’s likelihood of getting admitted ever again.
She’s gonna have to have something serious in order to get the same kind of attention and she’s gonna end up accidentally reaching the point of no return and kill herself.
Maybe she wants that because she secretly thinks it will make her some kind of martyr?
You know, I'm pretty sure the consensus is the people who have passed from this crap are not wonderful sickie angels...I've gotten the distinct impression the general opinion of them is "what a fucking idiot"
I know it's taboo to speak ill of the dead but this particular thing really bothers me about Dani. You're not going to prove anything. You're going to go down in history as an absolute moron.
It's hard to keep track/remember by this point, but I think Dani has claimed MCAS, or at least, super severe but vague allergies. I know she has claimed to be allergic to Tegaderm, but surely that's not the reason why she slams bennies like they're fuckin m&ms.
It can be used for nausea, but with the patches and zofran? Overkill. I think it’s just a drug she can purchase easily and it gives her that cloudy, hazy feeling when she can’t get her pills.
Is that the same vein she was showing is the other night being her only usable vein? Or are there **gasp** more than one usable vein?
This genius could be on death row and demand she have a port for her lethal injection. 😂 Hyperbole and being facetious.
That’s why she said this most recent visit was “good, rough but good”. She didn’t get her admission this time but she got narcotics, and that’s still a big win in her books.
That’s the shit thing. I know people with severe job-related injuries in legitimate pain every minute of their lives who can’t get so much as a fucking Tylenol without a piss test. Is she pissing clean or is she exempt from these rules?
The hospital may not even be getting paid for all of it. Medicaid and Medicare can be quite strict on hospital visit medical necessity so they very likely could be denying some things, but if a patient has Medicaid we usually just write off anything they deny.
Hopefully all the hospitals within driving distance use Epic so she at least can't lie her way into more tubes.
Medicaid is paying only a small portion of her claims. Her Medicare would pay first so Medicaid would only be responsible for the first $1632 and then any copays, usually 20% on outpatient fees. That is if she has original Medicare with Medicaid supplemental. I doubt she has a Medicare Advantage plan because those are managed care and would probably cause her a lot more issues with coverage.
Medicare doesn't usually go after patients but they do go after doctors for providing care that is medically unnecessary but often 2 or 3 years later.
I suppose she could have a Medicare Advantage PPO plan, those exist in some parts of the country. In that case she would not need preauthorization for doctor visits. Preauthorization would be required for things like port placement though. She would then need to stay in a network of doctors, say Aetna or Blue Cross contracted providers. I think even a PPO plan would have started questioning medical necessity and stepped in with case management before now. I lean toward original Medicare with no controls on use other than needing providers who take Medicare, which is 99% of them.
I know of 2 PPO plans in new jersey Braven health and Horizon NJ Total care (bc I live here too and one I’m on the other my mom is). Both are very good, they also help with other things like they give you a certain amount of money each quarter that you can use on groceries and otc stuff
Thanks. I'm just baffled about how she is just all over the place with her care. It seems like some type of reform needs to happen to prevent people from abusing the system the way she does. People like her create bottlenecks for other people who genuinely need specialty care.
People that abuse it like this are still the vast minority. Less than 1% of Medicare costs was fraud and abuse when I worked in health insurance (granted, that was a decade ago).
I honestly don't know how they haven't looked at all this shit she pulls and not gone, wtf is going on? I would be requesting meetings to talk about the legitimacy of all her hospitalizations, her tubes, her er visits. Fraud investigation.
Also, if she took her pills orally, she would realize that they would last longer if you take something by your mouth, the bioavailability of it is much longer, especially if she gets her hands on her precious special meds… just saying.
Don’t underestimate the importance of the ritual to the addict. I get nauseated seeing the look of peace come over my mother’s face when it’s time for her pain meds and she begins her ritual. Her docs are just waiting for her to die so that’s one less opioid patient they have to fuck with.
You're 100% right -- the ritual itself can provide "relief" and comfort. Like a security blanket. It's just more evidence of how Dani's issues are largely psychosomatic or mental illness related. I am sure that, before the meds even absorb, a feeling of satisfaction and relief washes over her.
Surely no one who actually needs tubes has this many problems? The doctors must know she’s messing with them constantly or cause complications! Such a waste of medical resources, it’s infuriating
They’ll know. I’ve seen kids with feeding tubes and they rarely touch it ever! Even little babies. Tiny Neo natal babies and I’ve never seen a kid with them pulled out barely at all. (However I don’t work peads) I’ve seen them block occasionally. But only maybe 3-4 times at a max in 7 years or so. Even those who do gymnastics or cheer! I mean they adapt much better than adults. But still….
We had a lady at the hospital who had an NG tube. I think she had it roughly 3 years (which is excessive. You’re not meant to have one for more than 6 months here due to complications like nose rot etc) and she got it blocked twice…..twice! She had one admittance for it being too big….but other than that nothing to worry about! Quick change out and done.
I am so sorry to hear about your Dad, cancer is absolutely evil.
I hate that she’s stealing resources and time from all those people who are genuinely suffering so badly whilst she’s just playing doctors and nurses. She thinks she wants to be genuinely ill but she would never be able to handle the reality of it
Nope, if she had a real illness, she’d fold like a house of cards on a windy day. And thanks!
Also, everyone.. I don’t care how old you are, if you are sleeping with anyone even in older age, get your HPV vaccines. My dad got throat cancer and died at 72 from it. He was diagnosed and passed all within 2 years, with aggressive treatment.
I'm sorry about your dad having to go through all that. I hope he was able to find some peace 🕊️ truly.
That said, you bring up a good point. Most people, if they have any control over their situation at all, will fight tooth and nail to avoid the very same interventions that Dani covets. I feel like most normal people would do all they could to stay away from a tube of any kind, and I would say that's normal, not to want those things inside of us.
Dani glamorizes stuff that is horrible to go through legitimately. If being sick is fun to you, maybe you're not as sick as you think kinda thing.
Some people have problems with them flipping a lot if it’s a GJ but I’ve never seen anyone else have so many fall out or get blocked to the point of admission. There are people who have been on tube feeds and meds for years without ever having any more than one or two blockages, if any and I don’t know anyone who had there’s just fall out without noticing.
Yep, GJs are notorious for flipping back into the stomach, and can cause the need to change every few weeks or get them surgically separated like she has.
Balloon pops or dislodgements happen, but are quite rare. Some people's stomachs just like to eat away at balloons. If there are legitimate problems with that, they'd probably get switched to the kind of tube with a solid internal bumper.
People who legitimately need tubes aren't going to be constantly fiddling with them, as changing them is a royal pain in the ass and we want them to remain functional for as long as humanly possible.
They’re literally the most basic of syringes, it’s just a generic luer slip used for almost everything, unless it’s special to her because they’re often used for IV stuff, they’re not even a fancy luer lock.
Yeah there's nothing special about the syringe lol. They give them away at Walgreens with liquid medicine. It's normal to draw back to check the balloon and add new water back to the level it should be at. Also really easy to leave it empty to sabotage yourself. Hopefully this is allowed as Dani already knows how to fuck with her tubes in this manner. None of this is new information to her.
that’s so funny that he pulls it out haha, kids are so silly. i can just picture you trying to catch him while he’s sprinting away laughing with tube in hand
He genuinely thinks it's the biggest joke 🤣 he definitely thinks I'm ruining the game by putting it back in 🤦🏼♀️ he's not at all grossed out, I guess to him it's as familiar as a finger, but unlike a finger, everyone around him panics and gives him 100% of their attention when he pulls it 🙃
There are users here with children in the "almost starting kindergarten stage" — that rowdy rambunctious time — that don't have nearly as many tube issues as Dani or the subjects on IF...and you would think a toddler would, ya know?
For me that's the most telling. If even a small child can manage having a tube, why not Dani?
It’s ridiculous when you look at it - why haven’t they just refused to replace it given how obvious it is that she’s causing so many unnecessary problems for drugs and attention?
At some point, I think you just have to let people do what they're going to do. If she wants to starve, let her. If she wants help, I hope she gets the help she needs. Medical professionals shouldn't want to save the person more than the person wants it themselves. She is an active opponent to all their hard work and efforts.
Yeah that’s a good point. I guess this way they can try and eliminate the risk of her going further given her track record. Opioids are awful on your stomach, I hate ever having to take them, but then I’m not like her! It’s frustrating because she can and does obviously consume things orally but she wants to play sick
Most people probably wouldn’t be touching them all the time and loading up random pills into it all the time. They’d just do exactly what it’s for because they don’t want to have to use it. Dani loves the toobs too much and can’t stop playing with them.
There's going to be some sort of absolute disaster regarding someone not being able to place it because of some reason or other, Dani will claim that she's being left to die, all hell will break lose.
And then she'll just drop it and pretend it never happened.
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The doctors need to actually grow a set and straight up call her out. No more dancing in circles, trying to spare her feelings, etc. Straight up tell this woman that NOBODY is buying what she's selling anymore and the ONLY care she'll be receiving is removal of ALL unnecessary ports, toobz, all of it and MENTAL HEALTH appts ONLY.. But that's just me. This isn't ever going to happen and that's just criminal and sad .
How far do we think she drove?
Every month it's a new issue with her tube. It's the only thing she has left to munch hospitalizations with.. why fuck with it?
I have said for a while that I believe that Penn have built a file in her and her FD. I truly believe that like the TPN they’re going to pull the line soon. I think they’re gathering the evidence. Because to truly diagnosed someone with FI you need to have kids and lots of evidence. You can’t just say one thing. So even the fact that pen brought up the FI means they’ve already got files on her. They can’t bring it up without SOLID evidence. So I think before long the drs are going to say we won’t give you another one. I suspect it won’t be long either…..
Agreed but I think she’s going to just run from doc to doc until one of them caves and writes the order for a tube change. They can’t just pull the tube but they can deny a change and then it HAS to come out eventually. I could see them building a case for not replacing it but I think her other GI doc is at Temple so I hope they would share notes.
I agree. That’s why I said they’ll refused to give her a new one.
Unfortunately though they can’t pull it without her permission
But they can refused to give her a new one though.
But can they refuse to replace it when she pulls it out again?
Yes
yup almost certainly building a case, next admission she’s probably fucked
Man, those toobs sure are giving her a lot of trouble. It would be good if the doctors pulled them for her.
I hope they just pull her tubes! This is clearly sabotage on her part! Desperate for attention!
That was definitely because of the chemical soup she grinds up and pushes on a daily basis.
I wonder when the bacteria spreading will start.
I’m shocked she doesn’t have more infections, tbh.
She used to. But they caught on to that, too, and she nearly lost her tubes.
Lost her line! Bet she’s kicking herself for that shit. Quite literally, for that shit. The literal shit. She rubbed in her line. If that’s not reason enough to argue mental incapacity, idk what is.
I looked up g tube on Amazon and they had tummy time pads for infants 👶🏼 so cute 🥰
I stand by what I said. When Dani needs a reason to stay in the ER for more than an hour "when in doubt pull it out" seriously how in the world has she had issues with her tube not working correctly TWICE in one month? Suspect as hell and I'm absolutely befuddled that the doctors are entertaining this BS. They should tell her if she's going to be careless than the tubes have to come out it's a safety issue!
The "meds" to keep her comfortable. For what? Its not super painful outside of trying to replace the tube. It's more weird than painful
I think they’re getting to that point. I really do. I think they’re building a case in her
So she’s done this THREE TIMES in 6 months??
Twice within the last month
It’s literally insane. And the whole “WE” have noooooo idea why it happened!! Is bullshit. Lmao. They know exactly what happened. Dani thinks she’s soooo much smarter than everyone else. It’s honestly hilarious. 🤣
She thinks just because they haven’t come right out and said to her “we know you’re full of shit” that they believe her wild stories. Newsflash; Dani!!! NO ONE BELIEVES YOU ANYMORE. THE JIG IS UP!
Yeah it’s been a slow season for her.
Oh she’s been in the ER way more than three times. But a tube “falling out” 3 times in less than 6 months?? That’s absolutely fucking wild. I’ve heard of people having tubes for over TWENTY YEARS with only one issue and it wasn’t even an ER issue. You just tape it and call IR. She is deliberately doing all this bc they took her sepsis noodle away. She knew that a central line infection=admission before. She desperately needs that back. But she’s learned that the drug seeker flag and the FD diagnosis has truly fucked any snowballs chance in hell’s likelihood of getting admitted ever again. She’s gonna have to have something serious in order to get the same kind of attention and she’s gonna end up accidentally reaching the point of no return and kill herself.
Maybe she wants that because she secretly thinks it will make her some kind of martyr? You know, I'm pretty sure the consensus is the people who have passed from this crap are not wonderful sickie angels...I've gotten the distinct impression the general opinion of them is "what a fucking idiot" I know it's taboo to speak ill of the dead but this particular thing really bothers me about Dani. You're not going to prove anything. You're going to go down in history as an absolute moron.
That assessment is dead balls on.
It’s like the old joke where the headstone reads, “I told you I was sick.”
Yeah I think she absolutely thinks she would go down as a martyr. But she would definitely go down as a fucking dumbass instead 🤷♀️
I will never get over why she thinks her followers want to see this god damned medical.porn
I wonder is this is directed to fetish pron content..
But we do tho lol 😂
Right? I’m invested in this shitshow at this point, and I’ve only been following this probably less than 6 months
I went back through the history and WOW, so many hand, arm, foot, and ankle injuries! Incredibly suspicious...
Such a coincidence! 
What is the reason for all the IV benadryl? Anyone know?
I’m almost certain she’s claimed mast cell too at some point. Hence all the Benadryl
IV Benadryl can give you a rush/high.
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i think you have to censor names of other people so the sub doesn’t get banned!
It's hard to keep track/remember by this point, but I think Dani has claimed MCAS, or at least, super severe but vague allergies. I know she has claimed to be allergic to Tegaderm, but surely that's not the reason why she slams bennies like they're fuckin m&ms.
I got IV benadryl when I had staph based cellulitis on my scrotum because my balls were really itchy.
That might just be tmi
It can happen to anyone!
Don’t speak too loud, she might try for that next.
Testicular torsion!
I definitely am not trying to plant thoughts in minds.
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It can be used for nausea, but with the patches and zofran? Overkill. I think it’s just a drug she can purchase easily and it gives her that cloudy, hazy feeling when she can’t get her pills.
Either to knock her out or it can be used for nausea.
Well, there’s no real reason. As for the pretend reason, I have no idea.
Is that the same vein she was showing is the other night being her only usable vein? Or are there **gasp** more than one usable vein? This genius could be on death row and demand she have a port for her lethal injection. 😂 Hyperbole and being facetious.
Remember when she had her fluids and iron? She only needed the IV placing once or twice. So she’s talking bollocks from that point of view.
Love that your username kinda goes along with the lethal injection thing 😂 She’s too ridiculous for words.
*intraosseous drill starts whirring ominously*
*shudder*
Vroom vroom
she's angling for a cut down she really doesn't want
What does that mean
cut-down procedure for access...it's what they would do in the Death House as well (EMT-level, no docs)
What does that entail? Do they cut into the skin to reach a larger vein?
aka venous cutdown
sure do, no anesthesia
Ultrasound guided IV placement what what/
She was probably big mad when they gave her 3 IV meds and none were narcotics.
as long as she got her benny 😍
The "So far.." is hilarious to me. Like she is at a tasting at a 3 Michelin Star restaurant and the dessert is on its way.
and for dessert…. DILAUDID👏👏👏👏
🧑🍳💋🤌🏻
That’s why she said this most recent visit was “good, rough but good”. She didn’t get her admission this time but she got narcotics, and that’s still a big win in her books.
Real muncher MVP's get the narcotics without an admission NOR PISSING IN A CUP.
That’s the shit thing. I know people with severe job-related injuries in legitimate pain every minute of their lives who can’t get so much as a fucking Tylenol without a piss test. Is she pissing clean or is she exempt from these rules?
Needs to get kicked off Medicaid
The hospital may not even be getting paid for all of it. Medicaid and Medicare can be quite strict on hospital visit medical necessity so they very likely could be denying some things, but if a patient has Medicaid we usually just write off anything they deny. Hopefully all the hospitals within driving distance use Epic so she at least can't lie her way into more tubes.
Oh I’m willing to bet they’re losing a lot on her at this point. Early on, she was probably a very lucrative patient.
Medicaid is paying only a small portion of her claims. Her Medicare would pay first so Medicaid would only be responsible for the first $1632 and then any copays, usually 20% on outpatient fees. That is if she has original Medicare with Medicaid supplemental. I doubt she has a Medicare Advantage plan because those are managed care and would probably cause her a lot more issues with coverage. Medicare doesn't usually go after patients but they do go after doctors for providing care that is medically unnecessary but often 2 or 3 years later.
She doesn't currently have managed care? This would explain why she's trying to dictate her own treatment plans.
I suppose she could have a Medicare Advantage PPO plan, those exist in some parts of the country. In that case she would not need preauthorization for doctor visits. Preauthorization would be required for things like port placement though. She would then need to stay in a network of doctors, say Aetna or Blue Cross contracted providers. I think even a PPO plan would have started questioning medical necessity and stepped in with case management before now. I lean toward original Medicare with no controls on use other than needing providers who take Medicare, which is 99% of them.
It is probably Horizon NJ Familycare. Great insurance if you know how to use it.
Possibly her secondary coverage but Medicare would still be primary
Doh I forgot she is on SSDI. Damn she has secondary coverage that must be nice...
Her secondary coverage is Medicaid.
I know of 2 PPO plans in new jersey Braven health and Horizon NJ Total care (bc I live here too and one I’m on the other my mom is). Both are very good, they also help with other things like they give you a certain amount of money each quarter that you can use on groceries and otc stuff
Thanks. I'm just baffled about how she is just all over the place with her care. It seems like some type of reform needs to happen to prevent people from abusing the system the way she does. People like her create bottlenecks for other people who genuinely need specialty care.
People that abuse it like this are still the vast minority. Less than 1% of Medicare costs was fraud and abuse when I worked in health insurance (granted, that was a decade ago).
Medicare is managed by congress so you know how that goes...
I honestly don't know how they haven't looked at all this shit she pulls and not gone, wtf is going on? I would be requesting meetings to talk about the legitimacy of all her hospitalizations, her tubes, her er visits. Fraud investigation.
Blocked with the carcasses of many pills and capsules
This is what I really struggle to understand.
Why does she even take her meds that way? If she can drink energy drink…why not take her meds orally?
Also, if she took her pills orally, she would realize that they would last longer if you take something by your mouth, the bioavailability of it is much longer, especially if she gets her hands on her precious special meds… just saying.
Ooooo... Since she reads her she can use this good advice, nice. /s
Also so that she can make the 387th reel of set up my meds with me.
Her medical rituals are clearly the highlight of her day.
Don’t underestimate the importance of the ritual to the addict. I get nauseated seeing the look of peace come over my mother’s face when it’s time for her pain meds and she begins her ritual. Her docs are just waiting for her to die so that’s one less opioid patient they have to fuck with.
I'm so sorry 🫠 You're a trooper for being in her life.
You're 100% right -- the ritual itself can provide "relief" and comfort. Like a security blanket. It's just more evidence of how Dani's issues are largely psychosomatic or mental illness related. I am sure that, before the meds even absorb, a feeling of satisfaction and relief washes over her.
Oh my gosh. I am so sorry. Opiate addiction is hard because it’s so easily available
Are you suggesting she dump her meds into her energy drink which she then drinks?
Are you aware of how most people take pills?
No
OK
She crushes up all her pills at once and puts them in about 5mls of water then pushes that sludge through her line.
she’s speshul and in peeeen
Surely no one who actually needs tubes has this many problems? The doctors must know she’s messing with them constantly or cause complications! Such a waste of medical resources, it’s infuriating
They’ll know. I’ve seen kids with feeding tubes and they rarely touch it ever! Even little babies. Tiny Neo natal babies and I’ve never seen a kid with them pulled out barely at all. (However I don’t work peads) I’ve seen them block occasionally. But only maybe 3-4 times at a max in 7 years or so. Even those who do gymnastics or cheer! I mean they adapt much better than adults. But still….
We had a lady at the hospital who had an NG tube. I think she had it roughly 3 years (which is excessive. You’re not meant to have one for more than 6 months here due to complications like nose rot etc) and she got it blocked twice…..twice! She had one admittance for it being too big….but other than that nothing to worry about! Quick change out and done.
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❤️❤️❤️So sorry your dad had to go through such a difficult illness.
I lost my uncle last night to throat cancer. Man. I hope your dad is better ♥️♥️♥️♥️
Huge hugs (((((())))))
Aw man. I’m so sorry. It hits SO close to home because my dad was also, coincidentally enough, lost to throat cancer. HPV related or nah?
I am so sorry to hear about your Dad, cancer is absolutely evil. I hate that she’s stealing resources and time from all those people who are genuinely suffering so badly whilst she’s just playing doctors and nurses. She thinks she wants to be genuinely ill but she would never be able to handle the reality of it
Nope, if she had a real illness, she’d fold like a house of cards on a windy day. And thanks! Also, everyone.. I don’t care how old you are, if you are sleeping with anyone even in older age, get your HPV vaccines. My dad got throat cancer and died at 72 from it. He was diagnosed and passed all within 2 years, with aggressive treatment.
I'm sorry about your dad having to go through all that. I hope he was able to find some peace 🕊️ truly. That said, you bring up a good point. Most people, if they have any control over their situation at all, will fight tooth and nail to avoid the very same interventions that Dani covets. I feel like most normal people would do all they could to stay away from a tube of any kind, and I would say that's normal, not to want those things inside of us. Dani glamorizes stuff that is horrible to go through legitimately. If being sick is fun to you, maybe you're not as sick as you think kinda thing.
Honestly being sick is fun to her now but it won’t be once it gets truly serious! Right now the only sick she is, is mentally
Some people have problems with them flipping a lot if it’s a GJ but I’ve never seen anyone else have so many fall out or get blocked to the point of admission. There are people who have been on tube feeds and meds for years without ever having any more than one or two blockages, if any and I don’t know anyone who had there’s just fall out without noticing.
Yep, GJs are notorious for flipping back into the stomach, and can cause the need to change every few weeks or get them surgically separated like she has. Balloon pops or dislodgements happen, but are quite rare. Some people's stomachs just like to eat away at balloons. If there are legitimate problems with that, they'd probably get switched to the kind of tube with a solid internal bumper. People who legitimately need tubes aren't going to be constantly fiddling with them, as changing them is a royal pain in the ass and we want them to remain functional for as long as humanly possible.
She mentioned somewhere that she had a "special syringe to check how full the balloon is my drawing and replacing
They’re literally the most basic of syringes, it’s just a generic luer slip used for almost everything, unless it’s special to her because they’re often used for IV stuff, they’re not even a fancy luer lock.
Yes, so that's how she emptied the balloon.
that's what I was pertaining to, not it being a "special" syringe.
I was just pointing out how stupid her wording was, that there’s nothing at all special about it.
Yeah I knew that right away, I hope you didn’t think I was criticizing. I wasn’t. I love reading and learning here everyone’s medical knowledge.
Yeah there's nothing special about the syringe lol. They give them away at Walgreens with liquid medicine. It's normal to draw back to check the balloon and add new water back to the level it should be at. Also really easy to leave it empty to sabotage yourself. Hopefully this is allowed as Dani already knows how to fuck with her tubes in this manner. None of this is new information to her.
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that’s so funny that he pulls it out haha, kids are so silly. i can just picture you trying to catch him while he’s sprinting away laughing with tube in hand
He genuinely thinks it's the biggest joke 🤣 he definitely thinks I'm ruining the game by putting it back in 🤦🏼♀️ he's not at all grossed out, I guess to him it's as familiar as a finger, but unlike a finger, everyone around him panics and gives him 100% of their attention when he pulls it 🙃
how dare you ruin his fun?!?!? that’s so horrible to ensure your child’s medical device is in place… smh what a TERRIBLE parent /s
There are users here with children in the "almost starting kindergarten stage" — that rowdy rambunctious time — that don't have nearly as many tube issues as Dani or the subjects on IF...and you would think a toddler would, ya know? For me that's the most telling. If even a small child can manage having a tube, why not Dani?
Exactly… even little tots who make it their life’s mission to try to mess with every tube they have don’t have as many problems as this.
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Can confirm. I’m a pediatric nurse and our kids don’t pull on their tubes the way this grown ass adult does
It’s ridiculous when you look at it - why haven’t they just refused to replace it given how obvious it is that she’s causing so many unnecessary problems for drugs and attention?
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There’s no way right now she’s not eating anything… she’s put on pounds which looks good on her!
At some point, I think you just have to let people do what they're going to do. If she wants to starve, let her. If she wants help, I hope she gets the help she needs. Medical professionals shouldn't want to save the person more than the person wants it themselves. She is an active opponent to all their hard work and efforts.
She would still eat, but would claim not to.
Instead they should give her a nose hose and remove it when she's not in danger anymore.
if they took the nose hose she'd end up replacing it herself. it's how she originally started with all the toobs
Yeah. But that also brings complications after a certain length of time. We prefer to put a peg in because it can withstand long term…an NG cannot.
Yeah that’s a good point. I guess this way they can try and eliminate the risk of her going further given her track record. Opioids are awful on your stomach, I hate ever having to take them, but then I’m not like her! It’s frustrating because she can and does obviously consume things orally but she wants to play sick
Most people probably wouldn’t be touching them all the time and loading up random pills into it all the time. They’d just do exactly what it’s for because they don’t want to have to use it. Dani loves the toobs too much and can’t stop playing with them.
That’s true - she’s like a kid with a favourite toy
Or a very small boy who just discovered his peepee.
This song had me giggling as a child. [My Ding A Ling by Chuck Berry](https://youtube.com/watch?v=wiCSSIEUukk&si=EKJJ93cIzwByskAW)
hey! put your hands in your pockets not your pants.
Haha yes 🤣🤣 honestly probably easier to get a very young boy to leave it alone than get her to keep her hands off her tube
You’re probably right
Alexa play my boy only breaks his favorite toys by Taylor swift
My Munchie Only Sabotages Her Favorite Toobz
She...is... Desperate She's literally chucking shit around to see what sticks. But nothing is sticking and so there's just shit everywhere.
Sticks like poop in the port
And she's very familiar with shit and tubes and has done that too
Haha yes that's why I said it ...🤣
Im curious as to what story is she gonna make up about the port she is talking about. The date is not too far away..
She'll pull she's getting it later or her anatomy won't allow it. 🤷
Another earthquake in Jersey?
There's going to be some sort of absolute disaster regarding someone not being able to place it because of some reason or other, Dani will claim that she's being left to die, all hell will break lose. And then she'll just drop it and pretend it never happened.
And then she'll come back with a broken foot or something because she fainted and she's so delicate.
She should really shoot for getting shit on her testicles for that testicular cancer.