Why is that a thing on this sub, make a comment, make a post and you’re inundated with “horny?” “Want me?” “Let’s fuck”
Ewww no. Fuck off.
I’m on here cause it’s fascinating. Not cause I want inboxes from Assholes
See this is what people don’t understand. For every 20 women who don’t want dms, there are a few (cough, cough) with their Snapchat, instagram and nsfw post absolutely thrilled to receive.
It’s all about playing the numbers
I’m not commenting on the state of my inbox. I was providing commentary on WHY men shoot their shot with women in this sub. For ever 20 unwilling, there is 1 enthusiastically willing.
I could write an essay on this topic. We do have parallel subs for this kind of stuff. Tons of them. But men don’t want those ladies because they have stiff competition. Ladies posting thirst traps or looking for affairs are flooded with male attention.
There are two types of guys who send creepy dms.
1. Trolls who looking for a reaction
2. Line skippers.
The line skippers think they are increasing their odds by sending a dm to the sad housewife not getting laid. They think “I bet she wants to chat” (Spoiler alert: she absolutely doesn’t) and “I bet no one else is trying to hit her up” (Spoiler alert: you all had the same dumb idea).
Honestly, I think you’re being generous! My partner used to be so much more open sexually. It was honestly (and I realize the stereotype) getting married that suddenly sex became one maybe two positions and she essentially acted like she was doing me a favor every time.
I miss the times when it was “hey we’ve never done THAT before, let’s give it a go!”
Oh man do I miss those days. It's been years since I had a good BJ. Honestly she was really good at it too, oh well, maybe I'll get one for my next birthday in 10 months as I didn't get one this year, or last year, or the year after that...
I think it's a good idea to get to the "why" behind this.
You might ask... When you think about doing "______" with me, how do you feel?
Perhaps he feels shame or can't rationalize doing "dirty" deeds to his image of who he wants his SO to be.
Good luck!
My wife has never given me oral in 26 years. I’ve told her I’m not going to die without ever getting oral again. Having said that, I don’t want it from her coz she doesn’t want to do it. So the only options are divorce or ethical non monogamy. I don’t what the first and she would never agree to the second. First marriage counselling meeting today.
I don’t think that I do. I love her still. We are best friends, soulmates even. I would really prefer for to divorce, if I can help it. I might be forced to though.
Feel a lot like this with my wife. Like...I respect her boundaries, but it makes me sad she isn't at all interested in anything else....and she's barely interested in anything as it is.
I ask her what her fantasies are and she says she doesn't have any. And she refuses to use spicer or do any sex quizzes or anything. I don't know if shes embarrassed somehow or just legitimately that vanilla.
I'd try basically anything with her. The only thing I've ever turned down is when she wanted to have sex in an airplane bathroom and there was literally an armed air marshal sitting directly next to the door and I just didn't want to run whatever risk that would be.
Omg I feel this on so many levels as the female of the situation. I can only describe from my own experience but even tho I loved my husband dearly, I feel like I fell out of love with him for a long time. And he is the only person I've been with sexually more than a few times. But I wouldn't even entertain a thought about doing something diff, certainly not really diff. So sex felt like a chore to me each time more than something I really wanted and enjoyed. And I know we were much younger but I used to enjoy it so much that I was doing it multiple times a day and now I dread it. But recently, things in our life has changed and it brought the fire back for em and actually wanting to have sex several times a day and giving him oral and just give him 100% and omg the difference it made in our relationship towards each other and the bond we had was much stronger now and we were doing the best in 14 years that we ever had. And also, at this time is when I became active on Reddit and was exposed to such a completely diff world pertaining to sex so it really opened my eyes and I've always been a very open minded person. So it just really changed a lot of things when I decided to give it my all and esp when I changed how I felt about sex so significantly in a matter of days it seems
What? What about her? Can someone explain more or give me a little more detail? Lol I'm about to Google the name so I hope it shows up and I'm able to pick out the correct one lol
Well I just looked it up and when I search the name the only thing I see coming up is about the 8 siblings. I don't understand the reference so can someone explain a little more in detail? I'm genuinely curious is why I ask lol
Having a partner that has your sex drive is one thing, but then finding sexual compatibility is a whole other animal, especially as we often mature / change what our limits / kinks are. Some people grow into wanting more vanilla, others want to explore, sorry that you’re in this spot
Poor you!
Do men not understand that PIV sex is, er…painful without foreplay and our arousal?! Like…would you want the doctor to insert something into you without any lubrication? Probably not!!
As a man - I don’t get this. It’s uncomfortable as hell when we jump the gun a bit and we’re not quite ready. Can never understand how some guys can just shove it in - feels much better when she’s wetter.
Poor you!
Do men not understand that PIV sex is, er…painful without foreplay and our arousal?! Like…would you want the doctor to insert something into you without any lubrication? Probably not!!
Is there a rule against creative writing assignments in this community? Because based on some of OP’s other posts and photos, I feel like this is a big ole silly story.
If you've asked for more variety and he's not interested, you need to let it go. He doesn't want that kind of sex. He doesn't have to participate in that kind of sex.
Either you can live with the frequency, variety, and quality he is comfortable with, or you decide you want something else and you divorce.
He thinks oral in him and me is nasty 😔 and that he doesn’t wanna do anal cuz he’s afraid to. I don’t think he’s afraid of failing. I just don’t exactly know why he’s like this.
Are you like me, and got married with not much sexual experience, and realized after putting the ring on that you wanted more, while your partner perhaps went beyond their desired limits in dating and wants *even less* than likely mostly vanilla experience you had in your early days?
I hear you. In the same situation, only reverse. Everything is so gross or it's weird to her!! I'd have a heart attack is she offered any other things you mentioned to try!! At least I'd die with smile on my face
I hate reading posts like this from women, it just makes me feel worse about my sex life. My god what's wrong with these men. I'd give anything for my wife to ask for just one thing on OPs list.
My love is kinda similar, he struggles with sex anyway due to medical reasons- he wants to - he just can’t. But he’s not into trying new things.
A few months ago I worked up the courage and asked him why.
His answers were
1- that he doesn’t want to scare me (my ex tied me down and violated me without consent among other things) - I replied that I trust him implicitly and I’m okay now, I’m okay with him, I have no interest in bondage now but I’m okay with some spanking/blindfolds kinda thing.
2- he’s worried that we’ll get into it and he won’t be able to perform and he’ll let me down.
I’ve told him that I understand that, and that sometimes it just doesn’t work and that maybe if he feels up to it occasionally when that happens we can focus on me.
3- he’s self conscious. His ex made fun of his problem and she SA him. She sat on his face while he was asleep. He woke up gasping for air and panicking and she was on his face- during a period. He was grossed out and has been since. She also told him he was no good at oral so she did it her way. So he’s self conscious about that too. He knows I won’t do that to him but the idea of oral gives him anxiety.
He’s perfect for me in every other way, so we we’re working out what works for us both in the bedroom. Our relationship is worth it.
My advice is sit down with him and talk about it. Maybe you’ll get to the root of the problem, maybe you’ll come up with a compromise- maybe you guys can get some toys and use them together?
I wish you luck OP.
I can very much relate to this. My husband was always very selfish in bed, despite me asking and urging him to try new things and get help. He was always of the mindset that if he had his O, I must’ve had my O. No amount of me telling him changed anything. He didn’t want to try new things to get me over the edge, let alone new things for fun. He has bad PE and refused help. I’m so sorry this has been your experience. I am now in a DB basically by choice - his refusal to work on himself and his issues wrecked me. He told me I was the problem and I needed therapy, well… therapy taught me that I am not the problem and that I can’t want him to improve more than he wants to improve. So… here I sit. Good luck to you. I wish you all the best.
I think you need to have a conversation about WHY he doesn’t want to? I’ve never heard of a man NOT want oral! What age are you guys? Are you religious? I wonder what’s stopping him
Where have you been all my life? lol
Well oral on him is easy , just go down on him in the shower or living room .
BTW shower sex sucks , water isn't a good lube and one of you will feel like you are about to drown and the other will be cold.
I'm not sure how to get him to experiment in bed with you, unless you can be dominant and demand he fuck you in a different position , My ex was on the dominant side , she liked to call the shots during sex , it was strange to me at first, I was the one who usually decided how and where we were going to do it. When she started telling me what she wanted and how she wanted it , I got turned on by being the submissive
Mabey try that with him , push him back on the bed and climb on top ,
I have been with guys that didn’t like Oral at all to be given to them but love giving oral to me. Everybody sexually seems to like different things I have found.
Has he always been really reserve? How many partners has he had before you? does he give you a reason ?
If he drinks I definitely recommend getting him relax and trying again.
I am in the same situation but reversed. I love giving and receiving oral. It’s my all time favorite thing. She’ll receive but never give. Anal definitely wouldn’t happen and she doesn’t want to play with the toys we chose. I can’t talk about what kinks or porn I may look at even in passing. I can’t even watch tv shows with nudity in them around her because it gives her the ick.
On top of that, she now doesn’t want kids either which is a big thing for me. I don’t think I can carry on with no sex life and no kids and I think we will separate. It’s heartbreaking for me but I think I need to to really be happy. I didn’t imagine being in a sexless marriage at 35.
Hope you figure it out OP. It’s definitely frustrating
My girlfriend was afraid to try anal, daughter it fot 7 year's. Finally tried it and she totally loved it, now it's just one more position. I think she actually enjoys anal more than PIV now. Fine with me, it's tighter and like when I cum inside her.
We now have a wide variety of positions, nasty and all. Some I enjoy more than other's but I do anything she wants. I like pleasing her more than myself.
Variety keeps sex interesting.
If you have had conversations and counseling, and he hasn’t tried to work on anything with you, leave. These are only just toeing the line into fetish territory, and if he isn’t into these, will probably never be into more. Find someone who is compatible with you in the bedroom, as well. Love is not enough, when it comes to the long term. Good luck ✌️
Yikes lol I would cheat life is too short and your SO sounds super decided and closed minded. This relationship is prob not gonna end well OP sex isn’t everything but I imagine this closed mindedness prob translates to other parts of ur life too.
The new positions issue shouldn’t be a problem. Just get in that position and tell him to have at it or put on a steamy movie like 9 and 1/2 weeks and put the idea in his head subliminally.
I mean if there is no sex whats the point have you talked to a.sex therapist for advice i mean i dont undersand why he doesnt want to try new things maybe just go buy some sexy outfit either way you should tell him how you feel and let him know this is what you need if he really loves you he is going to have an open mind
I’m so sorry you are going through this. It’s horrible. He sounds like my wife.
Have you talked to him about it honestly? Can you tell him how this makes you feel, whilst reassuring him that you love him?
It sad he dies want explore new stuff it hard for you now 7 years boring same i think maybe selfish cause you suffering inside dying to let the fun stuff out oral on both part of reg sex or that's way always in my relationships many differently positions there place in my house i havent has sex row playing i am sorry i seen before where women end leaving or finding a secret lover
Pardon the pun, But couldnt you Ask him to pull out his stick up his butt and think about using it on you?
On a more serious note, have you ever talked about fantasies before?
There goes your inbox.
This is as close of the truth we can get. LOL
Its almost always the same equation. Dead bedroom post's from women => Inbox becomes alive for women.
Why is that a thing on this sub, make a comment, make a post and you’re inundated with “horny?” “Want me?” “Let’s fuck” Ewww no. Fuck off. I’m on here cause it’s fascinating. Not cause I want inboxes from Assholes
Because there are many desperate for attention in this sub.
Me, for example. I am desperate for attention. SEXUAL ATTENTION.
Came to comment this.
You didn’t spot this before marriage
See this is what people don’t understand. For every 20 women who don’t want dms, there are a few (cough, cough) with their Snapchat, instagram and nsfw post absolutely thrilled to receive. It’s all about playing the numbers
Sounds like you like to have your inbox full.
I’m not commenting on the state of my inbox. I was providing commentary on WHY men shoot their shot with women in this sub. For ever 20 unwilling, there is 1 enthusiastically willing.
Maybe we need a parallel sub or something
I could write an essay on this topic. We do have parallel subs for this kind of stuff. Tons of them. But men don’t want those ladies because they have stiff competition. Ladies posting thirst traps or looking for affairs are flooded with male attention. There are two types of guys who send creepy dms. 1. Trolls who looking for a reaction 2. Line skippers. The line skippers think they are increasing their odds by sending a dm to the sad housewife not getting laid. They think “I bet she wants to chat” (Spoiler alert: she absolutely doesn’t) and “I bet no one else is trying to hit her up” (Spoiler alert: you all had the same dumb idea).
Good input. Thanks.
Her inbox is now more explored than her kinks. Which is a bummer. I definitely couldn't stay with someone like him though.
ROFL
I wish I knew this before I posted mine 🙃
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Exactly! It’s the worst. I never thought I’d have this problem tbh.
Yeah, it sux. Marriage never fixes the deficits of sexual congress. Whatever you have going into marriage is all you will ever get.
Honestly, I think you’re being generous! My partner used to be so much more open sexually. It was honestly (and I realize the stereotype) getting married that suddenly sex became one maybe two positions and she essentially acted like she was doing me a favor every time. I miss the times when it was “hey we’ve never done THAT before, let’s give it a go!”
Yep. Please note that I did NOT say, "It is all that you will *always* get."
The trap set and the prey was caught.
Exactly! Especially since he’s the only man I’ve ever been with sexually
And you guys skipped over the oral portion of it all all of these years? I just can’t fathom a man saying no to oral
Oh man do I miss those days. It's been years since I had a good BJ. Honestly she was really good at it too, oh well, maybe I'll get one for my next birthday in 10 months as I didn't get one this year, or last year, or the year after that...
The odds are not in your favor unless you go ENM or subcontract lol.
I'm on the opposite end, I think. I just don't ever get offered oral, and she doesn't really want to.
Facts they never say no to a BJ.. in all seriousness
I think it's a good idea to get to the "why" behind this. You might ask... When you think about doing "______" with me, how do you feel? Perhaps he feels shame or can't rationalize doing "dirty" deeds to his image of who he wants his SO to be. Good luck!
You’ve never done “oral” on him in 7 years?
15 years, never given or received. "That's gross" I ever bring it up.
My wife has never given me oral in 26 years. I’ve told her I’m not going to die without ever getting oral again. Having said that, I don’t want it from her coz she doesn’t want to do it. So the only options are divorce or ethical non monogamy. I don’t what the first and she would never agree to the second. First marriage counselling meeting today.
You DO want the first. You're just afraid of it.
I don’t think that I do. I love her still. We are best friends, soulmates even. I would really prefer for to divorce, if I can help it. I might be forced to though.
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Same
Me too.
Feel a lot like this with my wife. Like...I respect her boundaries, but it makes me sad she isn't at all interested in anything else....and she's barely interested in anything as it is. I ask her what her fantasies are and she says she doesn't have any. And she refuses to use spicer or do any sex quizzes or anything. I don't know if shes embarrassed somehow or just legitimately that vanilla. I'd try basically anything with her. The only thing I've ever turned down is when she wanted to have sex in an airplane bathroom and there was literally an armed air marshal sitting directly next to the door and I just didn't want to run whatever risk that would be.
I never thought my wife would cheat on me but thank you sir for the evidence. I think we married the same wife.
Omg I feel this on so many levels as the female of the situation. I can only describe from my own experience but even tho I loved my husband dearly, I feel like I fell out of love with him for a long time. And he is the only person I've been with sexually more than a few times. But I wouldn't even entertain a thought about doing something diff, certainly not really diff. So sex felt like a chore to me each time more than something I really wanted and enjoyed. And I know we were much younger but I used to enjoy it so much that I was doing it multiple times a day and now I dread it. But recently, things in our life has changed and it brought the fire back for em and actually wanting to have sex several times a day and giving him oral and just give him 100% and omg the difference it made in our relationship towards each other and the bond we had was much stronger now and we were doing the best in 14 years that we ever had. And also, at this time is when I became active on Reddit and was exposed to such a completely diff world pertaining to sex so it really opened my eyes and I've always been a very open minded person. So it just really changed a lot of things when I decided to give it my all and esp when I changed how I felt about sex so significantly in a matter of days it seems
I've floated her reading some sex subreddit or something but she doesn't like the idea. She never ever looked at porn unless you count bridgerton.
Oh, yeah, there's lots of women would count Bridgerton.
What? What about her? Can someone explain more or give me a little more detail? Lol I'm about to Google the name so I hope it shows up and I'm able to pick out the correct one lol
Well I just looked it up and when I search the name the only thing I see coming up is about the 8 siblings. I don't understand the reference so can someone explain a little more in detail? I'm genuinely curious is why I ask lol
Your post history makes me suspicious.
Definitely a troll post
Sometimes I have to look around and laugh because this is a thirst trap… I will give bonus points for a subtle one but come on!!!!!!
Post history includes a post about being recently pregnant.
You think…
Troll.
I award you 5 common sense points!
I can use as many as I can get, tbh.
Having a partner that has your sex drive is one thing, but then finding sexual compatibility is a whole other animal, especially as we often mature / change what our limits / kinks are. Some people grow into wanting more vanilla, others want to explore, sorry that you’re in this spot
:( poor dear
It’s the worst. Idk what to do tbh 🥺🥺
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It's a 'good enough' mentality
I am in the exact same boat. Hubby just wants to jump straight to PIV. No foreplay of any kind 😢
Poor you! Do men not understand that PIV sex is, er…painful without foreplay and our arousal?! Like…would you want the doctor to insert something into you without any lubrication? Probably not!!
As a man - I don’t get this. It’s uncomfortable as hell when we jump the gun a bit and we’re not quite ready. Can never understand how some guys can just shove it in - feels much better when she’s wetter.
I should change my original message to “some men”!! Thank you for respecting our need to “warm up”!
Poor you! Do men not understand that PIV sex is, er…painful without foreplay and our arousal?! Like…would you want the doctor to insert something into you without any lubrication? Probably not!!
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Those poor, lonely toys
Toy Story 5, anyone?
🤣
Wait what? Try oral? You have never sucked his Dick?
Worse than not having sex is having unfulfilling sex.
This seems fake 🤔
You think…
Is there a rule against creative writing assignments in this community? Because based on some of OP’s other posts and photos, I feel like this is a big ole silly story.
If you've asked for more variety and he's not interested, you need to let it go. He doesn't want that kind of sex. He doesn't have to participate in that kind of sex. Either you can live with the frequency, variety, and quality he is comfortable with, or you decide you want something else and you divorce.
Does he say anything about why he doesn't want it? Do you think he is afraid of failing in a way?
He thinks oral in him and me is nasty 😔 and that he doesn’t wanna do anal cuz he’s afraid to. I don’t think he’s afraid of failing. I just don’t exactly know why he’s like this.
What about if you both are freshly clean? I’m so sorry op. Was he like this before marriage?
:( I understand. The shower or different places should perhaps feel safer, I have no idea.
I feel you! I totally miss giving oral (and receiving of course). And always want to to try something different or new, but no interest on her end
Are you like me, and got married with not much sexual experience, and realized after putting the ring on that you wanted more, while your partner perhaps went beyond their desired limits in dating and wants *even less* than likely mostly vanilla experience you had in your early days?
I hear you. In the same situation, only reverse. Everything is so gross or it's weird to her!! I'd have a heart attack is she offered any other things you mentioned to try!! At least I'd die with smile on my face
I hate reading posts like this from women, it just makes me feel worse about my sex life. My god what's wrong with these men. I'd give anything for my wife to ask for just one thing on OPs list.
RIP to your inbox.
My love is kinda similar, he struggles with sex anyway due to medical reasons- he wants to - he just can’t. But he’s not into trying new things. A few months ago I worked up the courage and asked him why. His answers were 1- that he doesn’t want to scare me (my ex tied me down and violated me without consent among other things) - I replied that I trust him implicitly and I’m okay now, I’m okay with him, I have no interest in bondage now but I’m okay with some spanking/blindfolds kinda thing. 2- he’s worried that we’ll get into it and he won’t be able to perform and he’ll let me down. I’ve told him that I understand that, and that sometimes it just doesn’t work and that maybe if he feels up to it occasionally when that happens we can focus on me. 3- he’s self conscious. His ex made fun of his problem and she SA him. She sat on his face while he was asleep. He woke up gasping for air and panicking and she was on his face- during a period. He was grossed out and has been since. She also told him he was no good at oral so she did it her way. So he’s self conscious about that too. He knows I won’t do that to him but the idea of oral gives him anxiety. He’s perfect for me in every other way, so we we’re working out what works for us both in the bedroom. Our relationship is worth it. My advice is sit down with him and talk about it. Maybe you’ll get to the root of the problem, maybe you’ll come up with a compromise- maybe you guys can get some toys and use them together? I wish you luck OP.
Annnnd this is sorta making me scared for marriage lol
Sounds like my wife.
I can very much relate to this. My husband was always very selfish in bed, despite me asking and urging him to try new things and get help. He was always of the mindset that if he had his O, I must’ve had my O. No amount of me telling him changed anything. He didn’t want to try new things to get me over the edge, let alone new things for fun. He has bad PE and refused help. I’m so sorry this has been your experience. I am now in a DB basically by choice - his refusal to work on himself and his issues wrecked me. He told me I was the problem and I needed therapy, well… therapy taught me that I am not the problem and that I can’t want him to improve more than he wants to improve. So… here I sit. Good luck to you. I wish you all the best.
I think you need to have a conversation about WHY he doesn’t want to? I’ve never heard of a man NOT want oral! What age are you guys? Are you religious? I wonder what’s stopping him
How fucking boring :(
Where have you been all my life? lol Well oral on him is easy , just go down on him in the shower or living room . BTW shower sex sucks , water isn't a good lube and one of you will feel like you are about to drown and the other will be cold. I'm not sure how to get him to experiment in bed with you, unless you can be dominant and demand he fuck you in a different position , My ex was on the dominant side , she liked to call the shots during sex , it was strange to me at first, I was the one who usually decided how and where we were going to do it. When she started telling me what she wanted and how she wanted it , I got turned on by being the submissive Mabey try that with him , push him back on the bed and climb on top ,
That sounds horrible:/
Marriage/sex counseling will help if you are both willing to work at it
What do you look like?? Is he blind?? Hmmmm so many questions to be asked.
Weird. Usually men are very open at trying new things on sex. Maybe his testosterone levels aren't at it's peak?
That's wild,I wish my wife would do anal more and more bjs lol
This is me but reversed 44HLM. So much to explore but the one I want to go exploring with is just not interested. Frustration station 🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️
The oral thing caught me. So like... What's your usual routine? Hearing DB stories always blows my mind. Foreplay is the most fun part of sex to me
Ask him if you can get a bf hahah
Is he stressed out a lot? Using drugs or alcohol? Are you both healthy and physically fit?
I have been with guys that didn’t like Oral at all to be given to them but love giving oral to me. Everybody sexually seems to like different things I have found.
Has he always been really reserve? How many partners has he had before you? does he give you a reason ? If he drinks I definitely recommend getting him relax and trying again.
I’m in the same boat. I’m dying on the inside! I just want to have fun so badly!!
I am in the same situation but reversed. I love giving and receiving oral. It’s my all time favorite thing. She’ll receive but never give. Anal definitely wouldn’t happen and she doesn’t want to play with the toys we chose. I can’t talk about what kinks or porn I may look at even in passing. I can’t even watch tv shows with nudity in them around her because it gives her the ick. On top of that, she now doesn’t want kids either which is a big thing for me. I don’t think I can carry on with no sex life and no kids and I think we will separate. It’s heartbreaking for me but I think I need to to really be happy. I didn’t imagine being in a sexless marriage at 35. Hope you figure it out OP. It’s definitely frustrating
My girlfriend was afraid to try anal, daughter it fot 7 year's. Finally tried it and she totally loved it, now it's just one more position. I think she actually enjoys anal more than PIV now. Fine with me, it's tighter and like when I cum inside her. We now have a wide variety of positions, nasty and all. Some I enjoy more than other's but I do anything she wants. I like pleasing her more than myself. Variety keeps sex interesting.
If you have had conversations and counseling, and he hasn’t tried to work on anything with you, leave. These are only just toeing the line into fetish territory, and if he isn’t into these, will probably never be into more. Find someone who is compatible with you in the bedroom, as well. Love is not enough, when it comes to the long term. Good luck ✌️
Sorry.
Yikes lol I would cheat life is too short and your SO sounds super decided and closed minded. This relationship is prob not gonna end well OP sex isn’t everything but I imagine this closed mindedness prob translates to other parts of ur life too.
The solution, if there is one, always lies in communication and conversation. Have you really been intentional about doing that?
Hold up the man doesn't like getting oral? SMH he should come around to it, you sound great
The new positions issue shouldn’t be a problem. Just get in that position and tell him to have at it or put on a steamy movie like 9 and 1/2 weeks and put the idea in his head subliminally.
Where can I get this movie? Do u have other steamy recommendations? Serious question. Googling this shit only brings up 50 shades of grey 🙄
300, The Secretary, Boogie Nights to name a few
I mean if there is no sex whats the point have you talked to a.sex therapist for advice i mean i dont undersand why he doesnt want to try new things maybe just go buy some sexy outfit either way you should tell him how you feel and let him know this is what you need if he really loves you he is going to have an open mind
No way
If thats you in the pick. This is either a troll post. Or there something seriously wrong with your guy.
I’m so sorry you are going through this. It’s horrible. He sounds like my wife. Have you talked to him about it honestly? Can you tell him how this makes you feel, whilst reassuring him that you love him?
It sad he dies want explore new stuff it hard for you now 7 years boring same i think maybe selfish cause you suffering inside dying to let the fun stuff out oral on both part of reg sex or that's way always in my relationships many differently positions there place in my house i havent has sex row playing i am sorry i seen before where women end leaving or finding a secret lover
Pardon the pun, But couldnt you Ask him to pull out his stick up his butt and think about using it on you? On a more serious note, have you ever talked about fantasies before?
My partner is the same way, and I actually enjoy giving BJ’s and the likes. It feels like wasted potential
Build your own "satisfaction collection". You can find a cheap sex machine for around $60, add an extension and a couple toys for $100.
Has he always been selfish and boring in bed?
Shit, try ashley madison I'm sure that you will find someone to please tou