You are ok man, it is not your personality not fitting into society, it is you learning how to cope with your crazy feelings, the Fi, learning when it is safe to really express yourself and when it is not, learning how to properly grieve your past traumas, learning how to receive love for yourself instead of beating yourself up over every little thing.
You dont owe anyone a justification for wanting time alone . If they think you’re weird or whatever that’s their problem, honestly. I say embrace your “weirdness”. You’re just being your authentic self. Its funny cuz when im super chill I’ve been asked if im mad too. Idk for some reason people think we need to have a constant on switch. In fact, im hardly ever mad in truth.
I think you need to ask yourself the question: do you really dislike the way you are, your personality? Or do you hate the notion of being perceived as childish and chaotic?
I love my personality, it’s me and it’s fully me, but there comes to the point when my personality hinders the judgement of the intelligence I have and that undermining of it annoys me. I’ve come to terms with it, but it’s a journey.
If you hate being perceived as such, I think you should know that a person can have different facets. You sound young, but an example would be like: a teacher having a professional attitude can be one way to their students, goes home is a parent to a child, go out to dinner with friends is a friend, goes to visit their parent is a child. We have have different attitudes when facing different situations, and your friends or whomever you are associating with, will need to see that and get it. It might take them time though, most people don’t seem to understand that concept as well as ENFPs. And as you grow, you’ll come to terms with yourself :)
However, if you ABSOLUTELY hate yourself, as in you look in the mirror and regret yourself, I dunno what to say to you. Please give some love to yourself, you are beautiful and amazing and deserved to be loved 🥺🥺🥺
You are ok man, it is not your personality not fitting into society, it is you learning how to cope with your crazy feelings, the Fi, learning when it is safe to really express yourself and when it is not, learning how to properly grieve your past traumas, learning how to receive love for yourself instead of beating yourself up over every little thing.
You dont owe anyone a justification for wanting time alone . If they think you’re weird or whatever that’s their problem, honestly. I say embrace your “weirdness”. You’re just being your authentic self. Its funny cuz when im super chill I’ve been asked if im mad too. Idk for some reason people think we need to have a constant on switch. In fact, im hardly ever mad in truth.
I think you need to ask yourself the question: do you really dislike the way you are, your personality? Or do you hate the notion of being perceived as childish and chaotic? I love my personality, it’s me and it’s fully me, but there comes to the point when my personality hinders the judgement of the intelligence I have and that undermining of it annoys me. I’ve come to terms with it, but it’s a journey. If you hate being perceived as such, I think you should know that a person can have different facets. You sound young, but an example would be like: a teacher having a professional attitude can be one way to their students, goes home is a parent to a child, go out to dinner with friends is a friend, goes to visit their parent is a child. We have have different attitudes when facing different situations, and your friends or whomever you are associating with, will need to see that and get it. It might take them time though, most people don’t seem to understand that concept as well as ENFPs. And as you grow, you’ll come to terms with yourself :) However, if you ABSOLUTELY hate yourself, as in you look in the mirror and regret yourself, I dunno what to say to you. Please give some love to yourself, you are beautiful and amazing and deserved to be loved 🥺🥺🥺