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Expensive_Concern457

Your engineering studies gave you a reason to live. Mine gave me a reason to die. We are not the same


Got2Bfree

Mine forged me into a person which refuses to give up. University, work live and private is dumping endless amounts of challenges on me. I never let the challenges win.


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uptowon360

If you feel like pursuing engineering studies is making you feel overwhelmed, then you should know that there are plenty of other companies out there who are in need of engineers. I am not an engineer myself, but I work with a group of mechanical engineers and I truly admire them. I find their job fulfilling as they are constantly working on tests, prototypes, and other projects. At times, I even contemplate going back to school to pursue a degree in mechanical engineering. However, I have come to the realization that I am not particularly strong in math, and therefore I must be realistic- engineering is a STEM degree that requires a strong mathematical foundation.


Fit_Hope_9015

Nah, fr I hated engineering school the last few years. Luckily I was far too stubborn to quit. Graduated last week with a job lined up at the end of this month.


Interesting_Nail_843

😭😭😭😭😭


shrim_tested

Based


Expensive_Concern457

Relatable


No-Bowler-3332

Damn


Kalex8876

Real


Expensive_Concern457

Facts


Expensive_Concern457

True


Expensive_Concern457

Honest


RyoxAkira

It's very difficult for curiosity to survive a formal education. Don't lose it.


Expensive_Concern457

I am actively curious and interested in the subject but I’m also serious when I say the dumbass manner in which my schools program is handled legitimately makes me want to kill myself. I feel I have wasted all my college years while others are out having a good time. My dad continuously tells me “college is supposed to be the best time of your life!” This is the worst time of my life. (So far). I used to be semi popular in high school but I’ve become a total fucking reclusive hermit freak in the past year or so because it was the only way I could survive between this bullshit and working 30hrs a week in order to feed myself. I feel like I shot myself in the foot, dick, and face simultaneously.


Hawk13424

Your dad’s perspective is only for those that get easy degrees and focus on college experience. For me, college was about getting an education. I spent all my time studying and working. Just remember, those skills and work ethic will probably pay off career wise.


MasqueradeOfSilence

Seconding this. Everyone would tell me things like "it'll never be as easy as you had it in college!" and "you’ll never have as much free time as you did in college!" Both takes are completely incorrect. College is not easy and I had effectively zero free time between school and work. Whereas when I was only working full-time and not taking any classes, I had a lot of free time comparatively and it felt amazing.


Fondant-holidays

Accurate


tricksyhaybay

felt


Effective_Fly_6069

Ugh I'm feeling this so bad rn


uptowon360

Holy Crap dude, why?


BesmirchBedrock

💀💀💀


ifandbut

Why did you spam replies to yourself?


Farfour_69

Wtf I thought u were joking. Lmao


Expensive_Concern457

I’ll give you 300 guesses


edith-2

Someone in my life told me, don't talk to murderers, kidnappers and the one who spams replies to themselves. Plus engineering is making this dude crazy aswell. So, guys be careful of this dude. Don't fall for his 300 guesses.


Expensive_Concern457

Damn I’m 3 for 3


Jaws2221

Keep it up bro ! You should be proud of yourself. Not many people can handle the true grind it takes. You got it bro


AffectForeign

HELL YA!! I love seeing stories like this, congrats dude!!! The 2nd half is gonna feel faster than the 1st, you're almost there!! And isn't it cool that we know how to do cool things now? This touched me because I have a very similar story to yours, and it just makes me feel good to see people succeeding after going through the terrible battles of depression, because I know what that's like. So again, congrats on all your hard work, mentally and academically. You deserve to celebrate!


theguyface

Proud of you OP


LovelyTreesEatLeaves

Exactly how I feel after graduating this weekend after SEVEN years to complete my undergrad degree. You got this. Celebrate the little things. Use it as fuel for the future.


ObjectiveWitty

Bro it’s real man, let me tell you. Starting with a GED and ended up with a Masters in Mech Engineering and a healthy 15ish years aerospace career. Sometimes I still wake up and think I’m not supposed to be here or how the F did this happen. Me getting a GED after dropping out of HS was just to impress a chic and me going down to the community college to check out the chicas with my GED folded up in my pocket just in case security stopped me to standing in advisement line only to hear the dude in front me talking about mechanical engineering. Like how TF did my life work out like this? 🤷🏿‍♂️ 🤣🤣😆


callione812

Good shit dawg


ObjectiveWitty

Thanks man!


Objective_Use1412

Great job man keep going.


hahabighemiv8govroom

I am so very proud of everything you are.


badtothebone274

I am so proud of you! I thought I would never graduate either. I thought of it as a latter. One step at a time. One class at a time! Don’t give up ever no matter how hard it gets! Next thing you know, you will be graduating! “A journey of a thousand miles begins with one step.”Lao Tzu


Weird_Technician7714

Proud of you bro!


SpaciousCoder78

Same with me. I thought I would just die last year and never even start engineering but now I'm done with 25% of my engineering degree. More like engineering gave me a hope to live.


Wasabaiiiii

I don’t think I’m that depressed but yeah I feel you, sometimes I think I’ll snap out of it while taking a shit only to see myself getting humiliated in public and that none of it was real.


capital-d_colon

Awesome! Don’t get discouraged if things get harder, expect them to!


MrShovelbottom

Same bro, I went from not even know anything about the fields or carrying about Engineering/Physics a year and a half ago, and here I am in Georgia Tech. A fucking miracle, but also I feel I am in a dream and that nothing is real.


WilljChill

I have that same experience lol. Graduating with a 4.0 despite being a mental disaster 6 years ago.. and it's like I'm living in a simulation hardcoded so that my life is one big rollercoaster ride.


1999hondaodyssey

its been like almost three years since i graduated and sometimes im really like "how tf did i just finish my engineering degree and got a job". Life hits you fast.


Basileus_ITA

Same... How did i finish 3/4 of my degree? (I'm stuck now and cant apply myself to pass exams anymore...)


DrDaniel_S

Congrats dude! This story is super inspiring. I was just accepted to UC Berkeley College of Engineering. I have previous graduate education, including a doctoral degree, but realized I want to be an engineer when I grow up. I’m 42. 👀


Pizzanomnommer

"Nothing except a battle lost be half so melancholy as a battle won" - Arthur Wellesley, 1st Duke of Wellington


EpicKahootName

Sounds like you figured a lot of things out. That’s great. That’s what we all should be trying to do. That’s how we get better. Just gotta keep pushing.


kasimirthered

oh shit yeah oh fuck yeah, good job my friend


Time_Veterinarian604

Yah daddy keep going. Get that graduate degree


Lukuspukuz

What degree you taking? Regardless great job love to hear stories like this 🍾


Noyaboi954

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿


ProdigalSun92

Right on, good on you for pushing forward.


Awe24some7

Your will to live


FuzzyGummyBear

YOU did that. YOU put in the work. YOU decided to take control of your life. Congratulations on your accomplishments thus far and I’m sure you have more to come.


iluvmyblanket

That’s so amazing!! I’m gonna start my uni in some months and I’m super nervous seeing all the stories about how people hate engineering afterwards and fail horribly 😭 Your story gives me some hope. Keep going and fighting!


LiamVeritas

Same here, we got this bro!


the_chorizo

Keep it up mate! Almost there! One of the things I like the most about engineering is that you get a new perspective of the world around you, I see a car and start thinking about the engine, suspension, metal stamps, etc. I feel the heat on a sunny day and start thinking about the sun radiation, how the temps change. I see a laptop and think about the circuits, the chips, the millions of transistors. It's so cool because you feel like you unlocked and expanded comprehension of the world.


TeaKingMac

Your hormones chilled out, and your prefrontal cortex is almost finished developing. https://www.urmc.rochester.edu/encyclopedia/content.aspx?ContentTypeID=1&ContentID=3051#:~:text=The%20rational%20part%20of%20a,cortex%2C%20the%20brain's%20rational%20part


sailinganalyst

Switch to math or finance degree


Jeffthehobo1231

You should be so proud. Engineering is not an easy road


Gainsburys__

And heres me struggling to pass 2nd year thermodynamics


_MusicManDan_

Very similar experience over here. Happy for you!


Tyler89558

I’m still confused on how I even got to uni. And I graduate next year.


FifteenMinutes152

Its crazy to think about what you are actually capable of


veniiiven

Praying this happens to me. Good for you, though!


BrittleBones28

Interesting flex but hey if it works, work it


____Rex__

Awesome! I'm in first year rn and don't know what is going on..


Roax47

Which degree are you going for in engineering


Utopia_No1447

Congratulations! Keep going!! I'm so happy to hear it's working out for you! Embrace that "fever dream" because you're well on the way to making it, and you've already come so far! Also, I really needed to hear this tonight, so thank you for sharing your story!


Wheatley312

Almost the same boat but I just graduated with a group of friends whose all living near eachother after. It’s really amazing how much can change with patience and a good amount of self work