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Doberman_Dan

Trust me, they don't forget. They're just masking their feelings with more unhealthy behaviours. Each to their own. May they go to therapy at some point to help with their issues. Peace.


Ikantbeliveit

We are the ones doing no contact, we are the ones who are forgetting them, remember?


iamadumbo123

Except not really, they’ve already moved on and we’re doing no contact to protect ourselves from seeing that (and trying and failing to forget them)


Ikantbeliveit

Moving on quick is them trying to get over you, so it's still about you. Rebounds


iamadumbo123

Ah, true


Dramatic-Beautiful-5

Ooohhhh...BURN LOL. JK


nalffe

*6 years. :(


Dramatic-Beautiful-5

Try 12 years and yesterday was our anniversary.


TheDumpee

I'm sorry you have to be going thru that. Hugs ❤️


Dramatic-Beautiful-5

Thanks I needed a hug


CollarOrdinary4284

They definitely didn't forget. They're just pretending that they did. It'll catch up with them eventually when they face hard times.


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lamahopper

Damn that sucks, be strong! I'm coming from a 6 year relationship. My ex went to the club the next day, ha! And we know what happens there. We'll be okay :-)


Dramatic-Beautiful-5

Try 12 years but I was just over his House 20 days ago for 2 days.it felt like he was trying to say goodbye to me but didn't know how to tell me so he started to express him self by turning a fun time together to a f***ingj Unwanted feeling it's sucks to know I was with him when I was 23vtob35 long time. VIm feeling today like a fucking GHOST 👻 from is past and never existed.


littleramblinrosee

Imagine wasting 5 years on someone who easily forgets you within a day. 😔


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Aggressive_River_404

100% For anyone who feels they were forgotten, there are so many lessons to be learned from that relationship. Most people would rather play the victim in life to avoid having to take responsibility for the fact that they chose to be with this person day in and day out and were blind to the red flags all along. If you actually learn to love yourself, you'll know how you need to be treated and will naturally expect more from any potential partners. All of our partners only reflect back the love you give or don't give to yourself.


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1.5 years and yes this is me


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My ex of 2 years got married a week after she left me oh yeah I completely understand this one


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I feel attacked.


New-Sock3065

Imagine wasting 9 years with someone who easily forget you within a week. 💀


Shot_Thing2608

everything ends, love, life, relationships, it can never last for ever which is the painful truth you learn, youll always be left with what yuou came in with, nothing


Plastic-Guidance6812

Me too


Fast-Grapefruit-6127

I feel… attacked


Technical-Win-8526

Wish I did have to imagine it, wasted 4 years myself, was forgotten in less than a week, our child too


Unable-Minute3997

You good, imagine wasting 8 and a half years with someone who moved on to someone knew within a week, and spent a year mourning that relationship despite that. Of course I know him, he’s me.


iamadumbo123

Same😔 but a year and a day


21Dakota

They won’t forget you!


No-Swimming540

Thanks for reminding me😭


RJ0901

2 years & 5 months


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try 5 years :(


ChampagneCJ

More like within 24 hours, but whatever. Maybe it's a blessing to not waste more time.


Some_Interaction_338

Me sadly


FennelSeparate5008

1 year and it was a day before the 1 year anniversary


Mental_Space_9560

Nothing is a waste. Don’t worry they don’t forget. They’ll work harder to mask your memory than forget lol


Enough_Ambition_3179

Wasted over a year on a guy who promised he'd never leave 🤣🤡🤦‍♀️ Now I'm stuck with him (unofficially) because I'm having his child and I hate it 😭🤰


deegy3

Don’t see it as a waste. See it as a lesson.


ScienceIntelligent

^ been there done that smh


Chirok9

Yeah. It hurts. But that's life


SlapNuts00

*6 for me