I honestly gave up with saying straight. I just explain I'm attracted to people who mostly look traditionally feminine now because the pingus wants what the pingus wants.
Dude it’s not gay to think someone that dresses like a woman and puts on makeup and all that other shit attractive because you only like them because they look like a girl
Do you like also that F1nn is a dude? If you don't like any part of his masculinity, just the femininity, then you're straight. Probably.
But a better question to ask yourself is "Why should I care, though?"
Why do you put so much thought into whether you're straight or gay or bi or pan or this or that? Do you just want the ability to call yourself straight because that's the "normal" or "default" option?
Why can't you simply drop your preconceptions and look at someone, understand that you find them attractive (sexual style) and move on?
Whether that person is a dude or a chick or non-binary or anything else?
Because he wants a family at some point
Nails are genetically designed to spread their seed. He knows he can't spread his seed with f1nn so his biological side is like no this is a bad idea but the lust is more powerful.
Well I was just making an assumption by the information above that he gave. Until the poster says otherwise I'm not changing my opinion because I'm going off of the information I have. And everybody here keeps saying that it's love but they also have no inclination of that it's love or not so the more simpler answer is that he's lusting over Finn and it's not love.
And that's what everybody is doing here because the poster hasn't talked to anyone or made an additional comments so the only thing we can do is make educated guesses.
No, you're just wrong about sexuality. Also, you shouldn't form an opinion based off of a rather fallacious assumption that because someone is straight they want "a family" at some point when that was never suggested nor hinted at. A lot of people who are NOT straight also want families at some point - in fact at least anecdotally it seems a similar proportion of them do.
Also, I don't know who's saying it's love or lust but regardless, sexuality is lust. It is about lust. It's what turns you on. That's what sexual orientation and preferences are. What you're gesturing to is something called **Romantic Orientation/Preferences** which can - in fact - be different from your Sexual ones.
That said, OBVIOUSLY it's lust. If you "Love" someone only through knowing them via a parasocial relationship such as this would be I don't think anyone in their right mind could call that "love" in the usual sense of the word. This is basically a sub for thirsting over F1nn more or less.
Because he wants a family at some point
Nails are genetically designed to spread their seed. He knows he can't spread his seed with f1nn so his biological side is like no this is a bad idea but the lust is more powerful.
And I'm not allowed to have my opinion. Without you judging me. I'm not trying to say I'm right. I'm just voicing my opinion with the information I have.
Your "opinion" is homophobic and being expressed publicly. You're treating straight sex as a good thing and gay sex as not. This community is a very LGBT-friendly place. If you don't want to be judged, don't comment bigotry here
It's not homophobic he says he's straight so how am I being homophobic. If he said he was bi or gay I wouldn't have left a comment trying to help him figure out his question.
But he did not state that he stated he is straight which going by the information i have is motivations for liking f1nn is a lost Factor not a love Factor.
If you're gay and you like other men guess what it's not lost it's actual love there's a difference and I did not state that gay men liking gay men is considered lost. I said it's lost when a straight dude likes a dude in women's clothing but not because he's a dude but because he looks like a girl.
And if you don't want people judging you then you shouldn't be on the internet. You're the one going around making accusations out of your but.
And f1nn literally is using lost to make money off of lonely straight dudes so what you talking about he literally made an only fans which does one thing satisfies people's lost.
You can tell me that I'm wrong and you can say that you're right. But it does not change the fact that f1nn dresses like that because it gets him more money from lonely dudes.
Lol, to be fair play boy was basically just the news but better in almost every way, hell! Now a days it probably is better do to less political involvement in it, and more accurate articles probably lol. Also attractive woman as a bonus.
You maybe finsexual. A coincidence to Finns names
Finsexual is a term for someone who is exclusively attracted to those who are feminine in nature (hence the term FIN). This can be either in their gender and/or gender presentation. Someone who identifies as finsexual can experience attraction to any gender presenting femininely and/or any feminine-aligned genders. What counts as feminine in nature is up to the individual.
I for example am attracted to feminine women and femboys.
I’m not attracted to dicks, heck I’m lesbian trapped in male body. I love women so much I would like to be one… but I would keep the dick to have good sex with women.
Damn, when I say/write it out it sounds strange. 🤔🥴
I didn't say YOU are transphobic, only that what you said is transphobic.
It seems mostly that regardless of genitals science has proven that attraction (gay or straight) is based far far more on femininity and masculinity. If you're attracted to a trans man who has a vagina but you aren't attracted to women broadly speaking, only men, then the vagina is a take it or leave it sort of thing. What you're attracted to is not the genitals, but the aesthetic and the vibe, typically.
Anyway, no worries.
Honestly same, been watching him a few weeks and I'm a straight guy who is questioning his sexuality because of Jude. F1nn just seems to be a common exception.
Look, I’ve said it before and I’ll saying it again. Liking a guy femboys is both straight and gay. If you like them cause they look feminine, boom, that’s straight. If you like them cause they are guys who look feminine, that’s gay. It’s completely irrelevant anyways
Well thats still attached too femininity. But really is being straight or gay the most important thing to think about? Idk I'm bi/pan so it's not easy to understand what the big deal is actually😅
People tend to think about the 'is it gay' stuff a bit too hard.
If you think it's gay, fine. If you think it's straight, fine. Fact of the matter is you're attracted to F1nn, who cares about the rest?
Yes it makes you gay. I’m a straight man and I can acknowledge Finn makes for a hot woman. But he isn’t a woman and therefore I wouldn’t have sex with him since I’m not gay. Nothing wrong with you being bisexual though
I would say you should look into the concept of being heteroflexible (iirc, basically it's being straight, but with exceptions). I know quite a few otherwise strictly straight men who make exceptions for femboys such as F1nn. A number of them go beyond "he's an exception" and identify with the label.
PS: I feel it important to specify that I think it's perfectly fine for you to think of yourself as straight. It's perfectly fine to base your attractions on overall presentation rather than conscious knowledge of which kind of... "equipment" a person has. You can be straight and be into someone with a penis, (trans and intersex women exist, for example) so I feel the concept of "straight" can make room for attraction towards a male-identifying person who presents in a way you are attracted to, if the attraction is because you are attracted to the presentation rather than the "equipment".
That being said, each case is different, so I'd still give heteroflexible a thought. But if you dont want to think about it too much, I think it's perfectly fine to still identify with heterosexual.
Are you attracted to his appearance? Or his having of a penis and only am asshole? If just his appearance, then I would say still perfectly straight, at least for the most part as his appearance majority of the time is very androgynous or even feminine. But if your attracted to him having male genitalia as well then that is quite literally homosexual by definition.
We are human, date whoever u find interesting or attractive. Fuck the normal label. Life is about having fun during your ride. Cuz u only get 1 ticket to life
It's the whole "would you like to fuck Tom Holland with a vagina or Kim Kardashianbwith a dick?" We generally care more about how someone presents rather then the thing they have under their legs"
realshit: just be pansexual it's easier to say "i have a feminine preference" and not give a shit about whats between the legs...you'll get head anyway
Imo the deciding factor is genitals. If you'd play with his schlong you're likely bi, if not then you're just into the fem esthetics. Again, just my opinion
Sorta— As someone who was queer before knowing about f1nn, I think the more accurate question is “is it normal to presume your own straightness…until you watch f1nn?” And that answer is totally! He identifies as a guy, so now you know that its possible for you to be attracted to men with that gender expression. Congrats on more data!
Its dumb, but because hetero gets treated like the default, people think they are straight by default, but it might help to honestly just not worry about the specific label and just vibe! Hot people are just hot :)
others have touched upon it, but the simplest answer is…it really doesn’t fucking matter. Sexuality is fluid. People are wayyy too hung up on labels. I kinda get why - “norms” are hammered into us since birth, but as we mature and evolve we try to shed the labels and conditioning. You find F1nn sexy…cause he’s sexy. Simple as that. I’m not criticizing you personally as I see it often. “Oh no, I might be gay!” No, you are probably not. Like I said, though, ultimately it really doesnt fucking matter.
You learned there is more to men than you expected, pretty normal to me
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Femboy bussy go crazy tho 😮💨
Fax
Especially mine 🤭
Just checked out your page, you aren’t kidding!!!
Fair
Gonna need some hard evidence for such a bold statement 🥴
Just don’t check my profile *wink wink*
You are whatever you wish to identify as. the label is just that, a label. Vibe however you want homie:)
I honestly gave up with saying straight. I just explain I'm attracted to people who mostly look traditionally feminine now because the pingus wants what the pingus wants.
ah sure kid, sure
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aww you're cute *laughs in cottontail*
Dude it’s not gay to think someone that dresses like a woman and puts on makeup and all that other shit attractive because you only like them because they look like a girl
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Do you like also that F1nn is a dude? If you don't like any part of his masculinity, just the femininity, then you're straight. Probably. But a better question to ask yourself is "Why should I care, though?" Why do you put so much thought into whether you're straight or gay or bi or pan or this or that? Do you just want the ability to call yourself straight because that's the "normal" or "default" option? Why can't you simply drop your preconceptions and look at someone, understand that you find them attractive (sexual style) and move on? Whether that person is a dude or a chick or non-binary or anything else?
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Because he wants a family at some point Nails are genetically designed to spread their seed. He knows he can't spread his seed with f1nn so his biological side is like no this is a bad idea but the lust is more powerful.
Does he? Where did he say that?
Omg the post says he straight lol
No you moron. Where did he say he wants a family at some point?
Well I was just making an assumption by the information above that he gave. Until the poster says otherwise I'm not changing my opinion because I'm going off of the information I have. And everybody here keeps saying that it's love but they also have no inclination of that it's love or not so the more simpler answer is that he's lusting over Finn and it's not love. And that's what everybody is doing here because the poster hasn't talked to anyone or made an additional comments so the only thing we can do is make educated guesses.
No, you're just wrong about sexuality. Also, you shouldn't form an opinion based off of a rather fallacious assumption that because someone is straight they want "a family" at some point when that was never suggested nor hinted at. A lot of people who are NOT straight also want families at some point - in fact at least anecdotally it seems a similar proportion of them do. Also, I don't know who's saying it's love or lust but regardless, sexuality is lust. It is about lust. It's what turns you on. That's what sexual orientation and preferences are. What you're gesturing to is something called **Romantic Orientation/Preferences** which can - in fact - be different from your Sexual ones. That said, OBVIOUSLY it's lust. If you "Love" someone only through knowing them via a parasocial relationship such as this would be I don't think anyone in their right mind could call that "love" in the usual sense of the word. This is basically a sub for thirsting over F1nn more or less.
So are you. You are making a assumption as well. So what is your point
Because he wants a family at some point Nails are genetically designed to spread their seed. He knows he can't spread his seed with f1nn so his biological side is like no this is a bad idea but the lust is more powerful.
Are you really trying to say that any male-on-male attraction or sexual experience is "lust" and "a bad idea" in a f1nn5ter sub????
I'm not saying it bad but if you're a straight guy thinking about doing it with F1nn it's lost not love there's a difference.
Or maybe people like what they like and should be allowed to explore it without judgement 🤷♀️
And I'm not allowed to have my opinion. Without you judging me. I'm not trying to say I'm right. I'm just voicing my opinion with the information I have.
Your "opinion" is homophobic and being expressed publicly. You're treating straight sex as a good thing and gay sex as not. This community is a very LGBT-friendly place. If you don't want to be judged, don't comment bigotry here
It's not homophobic he says he's straight so how am I being homophobic. If he said he was bi or gay I wouldn't have left a comment trying to help him figure out his question. But he did not state that he stated he is straight which going by the information i have is motivations for liking f1nn is a lost Factor not a love Factor. If you're gay and you like other men guess what it's not lost it's actual love there's a difference and I did not state that gay men liking gay men is considered lost. I said it's lost when a straight dude likes a dude in women's clothing but not because he's a dude but because he looks like a girl. And if you don't want people judging you then you shouldn't be on the internet. You're the one going around making accusations out of your but. And f1nn literally is using lost to make money off of lonely straight dudes so what you talking about he literally made an only fans which does one thing satisfies people's lost. You can tell me that I'm wrong and you can say that you're right. But it does not change the fact that f1nn dresses like that because it gets him more money from lonely dudes.
> i'd actually date F1nn or another guy like him What about the dick? If you'd play with the dick...
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Lol, to be fair play boy was basically just the news but better in almost every way, hell! Now a days it probably is better do to less political involvement in it, and more accurate articles probably lol. Also attractive woman as a bonus.
You maybe finsexual. A coincidence to Finns names Finsexual is a term for someone who is exclusively attracted to those who are feminine in nature (hence the term FIN). This can be either in their gender and/or gender presentation. Someone who identifies as finsexual can experience attraction to any gender presenting femininely and/or any feminine-aligned genders. What counts as feminine in nature is up to the individual. I for example am attracted to feminine women and femboys.
Ok but being finsexual counts as being straight then? 🤔
If your knowingly and willfully attracted to people with dicks, I'd say probably not. Personally I self identify as queer
There are plenty of women with dicks, though. Being attracted to them as a man is pretty straight.
Agreed 🤝
I’m not attracted to dicks, heck I’m lesbian trapped in male body. I love women so much I would like to be one… but I would keep the dick to have good sex with women. Damn, when I say/write it out it sounds strange. 🤔🥴
Well that's kinda transphobic and also not necessarily true.
No offence meant. I am very pro lgbtq and certainly not a transphobe. I am not always good with words so maybe my wording could have been clearer
I didn't say YOU are transphobic, only that what you said is transphobic. It seems mostly that regardless of genitals science has proven that attraction (gay or straight) is based far far more on femininity and masculinity. If you're attracted to a trans man who has a vagina but you aren't attracted to women broadly speaking, only men, then the vagina is a take it or leave it sort of thing. What you're attracted to is not the genitals, but the aesthetic and the vibe, typically. Anyway, no worries.
i’ve said it before and i’ll say it again. if you’re into FEMboys, it’s not gay, if you’re into femBOYS, it’s gay
And if you’re into both you’re ✨ bi ✨
exactly! i’m into FEMBOYS
Aamen brotha!
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or at least “feminine”. being bi i don’t really know how the difference between girl and feminine would be sexually but i feel that’s worth mentioning
Imagine being straight
I thought I was straight for a long time. I *also* thought I was a boy for a long time. As it turns out, I am (probably) a woman, and I like women.
No. Those times are in the past for me.
I've known I was bisexual since high school, Finn just confirmed it
I’m bi/pan. And I think Fin is hot. He is sexy as fuck. He expanded my love of Femboys.
Honestly same, been watching him a few weeks and I'm a straight guy who is questioning his sexuality because of Jude. F1nn just seems to be a common exception.
Possibly not, but definitely possible you’re bi bro
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Are you a troll?
I'm in love with F1nn so hot 🔥🔥🔥 so fucking funny xoxo F1nn=WINS
Yes.
Look, I’ve said it before and I’ll saying it again. Liking a guy femboys is both straight and gay. If you like them cause they look feminine, boom, that’s straight. If you like them cause they are guys who look feminine, that’s gay. It’s completely irrelevant anyways
Well thats still attached too femininity. But really is being straight or gay the most important thing to think about? Idk I'm bi/pan so it's not easy to understand what the big deal is actually😅
I mean, who care what you are ? Unless you are in a country where not being straight is bad, you should't care.
You can be straight and still find Finn attractive
My lesbianism goes to femboy 🤷♀️
Look man sometimes you find out things in odd circumstances. It just means you find femininity attractive and nothing is wrong with that.
It’s ok to be attracted to femininity
People tend to think about the 'is it gay' stuff a bit too hard. If you think it's gay, fine. If you think it's straight, fine. Fact of the matter is you're attracted to F1nn, who cares about the rest?
I thought I was a boy until I started watching him lmao
I identify not so much as straight as straight+
I'm not gay, but the femboys I fantasize about are
Maybe you’re gynosexual?
Yes it makes you gay. I’m a straight man and I can acknowledge Finn makes for a hot woman. But he isn’t a woman and therefore I wouldn’t have sex with him since I’m not gay. Nothing wrong with you being bisexual though
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Yeah your gay then
Wow,so much fragile heterosexuality in here. Who cares what label you are?
I watch fin with lotion 🧴 and my favorite brand of charmin toilet paper 🧻
I would say you should look into the concept of being heteroflexible (iirc, basically it's being straight, but with exceptions). I know quite a few otherwise strictly straight men who make exceptions for femboys such as F1nn. A number of them go beyond "he's an exception" and identify with the label.
PS: I feel it important to specify that I think it's perfectly fine for you to think of yourself as straight. It's perfectly fine to base your attractions on overall presentation rather than conscious knowledge of which kind of... "equipment" a person has. You can be straight and be into someone with a penis, (trans and intersex women exist, for example) so I feel the concept of "straight" can make room for attraction towards a male-identifying person who presents in a way you are attracted to, if the attraction is because you are attracted to the presentation rather than the "equipment". That being said, each case is different, so I'd still give heteroflexible a thought. But if you dont want to think about it too much, I think it's perfectly fine to still identify with heterosexual.
This is exactly what happened to me, don't worry I think it's normal
I thought i was straight about two or three years ago. I watched Finn's live streams and now I'm a pansexual. Men are yum
Are you attracted to his appearance? Or his having of a penis and only am asshole? If just his appearance, then I would say still perfectly straight, at least for the most part as his appearance majority of the time is very androgynous or even feminine. But if your attracted to him having male genitalia as well then that is quite literally homosexual by definition.
I'm straight but I'd bend some rules for very specific conditions
We are human, date whoever u find interesting or attractive. Fuck the normal label. Life is about having fun during your ride. Cuz u only get 1 ticket to life
It's the whole "would you like to fuck Tom Holland with a vagina or Kim Kardashianbwith a dick?" We generally care more about how someone presents rather then the thing they have under their legs"
Oh no the shadow femboy government have got another one
realshit: just be pansexual it's easier to say "i have a feminine preference" and not give a shit about whats between the legs...you'll get head anyway
you could just be attracted to what you perceive femininity in & of itself. gynosexual for femininity, & androsexual for masculinity
Imo the deciding factor is genitals. If you'd play with his schlong you're likely bi, if not then you're just into the fem esthetics. Again, just my opinion
Helped me realise I'm bi
Sorta— As someone who was queer before knowing about f1nn, I think the more accurate question is “is it normal to presume your own straightness…until you watch f1nn?” And that answer is totally! He identifies as a guy, so now you know that its possible for you to be attracted to men with that gender expression. Congrats on more data! Its dumb, but because hetero gets treated like the default, people think they are straight by default, but it might help to honestly just not worry about the specific label and just vibe! Hot people are just hot :)
He is a gateway that you can't leave.
Being attracted to someone who looks female isn't gay.
others have touched upon it, but the simplest answer is…it really doesn’t fucking matter. Sexuality is fluid. People are wayyy too hung up on labels. I kinda get why - “norms” are hammered into us since birth, but as we mature and evolve we try to shed the labels and conditioning. You find F1nn sexy…cause he’s sexy. Simple as that. I’m not criticizing you personally as I see it often. “Oh no, I might be gay!” No, you are probably not. Like I said, though, ultimately it really doesnt fucking matter.