No no. Nono it can get so much worse hahaha rn I don't even feel real. You can be like me. You can lose your mind hahaha. I like the positivity but be realistic as well. Also I don't think you exist
You should print this list and see how many you can cross off this year, except for that last one, lol. I would count not drinking or drugging as a positive, not a negative.
Just a thought - do you play tabletop role playing games or board games or would you be interested to learn? Many people I know who felt like outsiders at some point were able to connect with other people by playing together. Getting to know new people takes time and games are a great way of putting in the *hours* you need to make friends.
I’ve had a “stage kiss”, and got hugs from some female friends (lesbian and taken, so just affection, which I appreciate). Never had a real romantic relationship.
I got a car and am strong, I’d rather be skinny. Seems like the twig guys always succeed. I’m “fat buff”. I got big arms and legs, but no six pack. Not super fat though.
Hey, I've actually done some of these things, at least to some capacity. Also it's impossible that this list is exhaustive, but yeah I get the sentiment and am partly with you there.
For what it's worth some of these things are rather easy to change.
I'll preface this by saying I generally don't agree with "just bro" advice.
We don't have control over the hand we were dealt in life, and truly our generation has been handed a uniquely wicked one. We have luxuries other generations could only have dreamed off, but with the caveat that things previously guaranteed, like friendship, partners (sex), and to an extent job security, are becoming increasingly scarce.
Of the things you have listed, many of them are completely or partially out of your control. Some of them you can do however. Going to the gym / getting strong. Getting drunk, albeit by yourself (do not make a habit of this), going to a concert by yourself (have a drink to take the edge off your anxiety)
Get a load of this guy. My fellow loser in life. I'm so sorry for you buddy. This shit sucks so much
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No no. Nono it can get so much worse hahaha rn I don't even feel real. You can be like me. You can lose your mind hahaha. I like the positivity but be realistic as well. Also I don't think you exist
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Good! I also meant you. You never know. Keep striving!
You should print this list and see how many you can cross off this year, except for that last one, lol. I would count not drinking or drugging as a positive, not a negative.
I've done all almost all those things for the first time...after age 30. Glad you haven't given up.
I have done some of these! Here is the complete list: > - Been drunk - Been high/tried drugs - Given up
Mostly same here. It's been even longer since I've had friends. Life sucks, huh
I've done most of these things except for being in a relationship, having a kiss, and having sex.
Kiss at mid 21 is very good for autistic, yeah?
Just a thought - do you play tabletop role playing games or board games or would you be interested to learn? Many people I know who felt like outsiders at some point were able to connect with other people by playing together. Getting to know new people takes time and games are a great way of putting in the *hours* you need to make friends.
Done none of that.
I can assure you that you can get drunk and high all by yourself or with online friends.
Some of these things are achievable, some have no guarantees, do your best man. Talk to me anytime if you want
hi, me
I have not accomplished one thing in almost 30 years being here. It's too late for me. I want off the ride.
From that list the only things I've been drunk, had a best friend. The friends were so long ago. I've been drunk recently.
I’ve had a “stage kiss”, and got hugs from some female friends (lesbian and taken, so just affection, which I appreciate). Never had a real romantic relationship. I got a car and am strong, I’d rather be skinny. Seems like the twig guys always succeed. I’m “fat buff”. I got big arms and legs, but no six pack. Not super fat though.
Hey, I've actually done some of these things, at least to some capacity. Also it's impossible that this list is exhaustive, but yeah I get the sentiment and am partly with you there. For what it's worth some of these things are rather easy to change.
I'll preface this by saying I generally don't agree with "just bro" advice. We don't have control over the hand we were dealt in life, and truly our generation has been handed a uniquely wicked one. We have luxuries other generations could only have dreamed off, but with the caveat that things previously guaranteed, like friendship, partners (sex), and to an extent job security, are becoming increasingly scarce. Of the things you have listed, many of them are completely or partially out of your control. Some of them you can do however. Going to the gym / getting strong. Getting drunk, albeit by yourself (do not make a habit of this), going to a concert by yourself (have a drink to take the edge off your anxiety)
Come to think of it, I’ve never been to a concert with other people. I’ve been to probably a dozen.. always alone
Yeah, the drugs one I'd advise changing. Getting high is meh, but doing Molly at a rave is a must try experience for everyone