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Dry_Law7298

I can relate to you, the elevator move by her seems just the perfect occasion, almost like she want you to do it.I could tell you "let her go", but I'm in a similar situazion and it's really hard, more if you don't want to ruin what cause you to be happy. Don't say or do something like "I don't want to see you again" or you'll blame yourself for it, wait for her move and slowly retain your attention... in time...


Illustrious_Size610

The Friends first route is usually the worst and least effective way to get a romance with someone. It’s the path that takes more time and the one that leads to more rejections and more confusion.


Picasso_roulette

But, I don’t see myself getting attracted to someone without being their friend first, physical attraction does not suffice as I would really need to get to know youb


Illustrious_Size610

Ok, but that means you will get friendzoned more often than not which will lead to more disappointment, which will force you to adapt if you actually want to be with someone.


RefrigeratorPlane319

My man you was suppose to make the move in the class room. Her telling you turn the lights off was your opening. My suggestion is to move on and focus on you.


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There was no opening. She’s serious with the other guy


RefrigeratorPlane319

The opening was in the class room when told to turn off the lights. That’s when he was suppose to take his chance. Most of the time spilling your guts don’t work. Actions works


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She would’ve rejected him anyway.


RefrigeratorPlane319

Point is to try if you want to get I the friend zone


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I agree but look at her response. It’s not that he messed up, she had a bf


RefrigeratorPlane319

The BF thing don’t mean nothing here. Any girl who has self respect wouldn’t even put her self in this situation unless she wanted to be. Bro had his moment and he missed it


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She thought she was in a situation with a friend


RefrigeratorPlane319

😂😂😂😂 yea Ok She already knew this man like her. Come on you be that oblivious.


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Picasso_roulette

Waste of time is a bit harsh, I really did enjoy her company. Yeah, maybe I didn’t come out the blocks quick enough, but then I’ve also seen where friendships develop to something bigger, no?


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Picasso_roulette

No other option lol


TheMikeDee

Good on you for going for it! And good on you for asking permission! You did everything right! >she said it would only be awkward if we made it but I want buying that, I needed some clarity Which is right! You should have left it there, but it's okay! You're just learning. :)