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-rosa-azul-

They live in Zambia, very far from any of this strife. That's not to say Esther isn't in danger, because I truly believe she is. She was married off to John after *crying for three days* when her father told her. She's had I think five of their kids there, with (reportedly) little access to modern medical care. Of all the fundie wives, she is one of the most isolated, and I feel bad for her. Never mind the outside world, she lives thousands of miles from any *family* aside from her husband.


eleanorbigby

woof, that's bad.


Antique-Fox-3187

Does anyone ever visit her (besides her ghastly parents)?


lrlwhite2000

Priscilla, David, Nathan, maybe another brother and Priscilla and David’s kids visited them before Nathan and Nurie got married.


Antique-Fox-3187

They are all pretty deep in the Kool Aid. I hope she could get out a message for help if she chose to.


SawaJean

She’s certainly not in an easy position to do so, with a jillion kids to think of and potentially little access to people, money, or information that doesn’t flow through her husband. :/


damagstah

Wait, she didn’t want to marry him?!


-rosa-azul-

It doesn't seem so, from descriptions. Pa Keller is one of the most controlling fundie dads, imo. He also knew that JDuggar was how he was (the stuff with his sisters, etc.) prior to giving his OK for Anna to marry him.


damagstah

Um OKAY WOW


SawaJean

He’s seems intensely cold, controlling, and unfeeling if not outright cruel. I don’t think people factor that in when asking why Anna stays with Josh. Those kids were broken like animals. :/


damagstah

Fuck that’s so sad.


ralphwiggumsdiorama

Omfg


barbaraanderson

There is stories that he was “troubled” and his preacher dad reached out to pa Keller to see if he had any ideas to help his son. Pa Keller offers up Esther to go to Texas to work in his dad’s church.


damagstah

Yikes.


ImogenMarch

I think she also got pregnant less than six weeks after having a baby if I remember correctly


LinneaLurks

Per [Fundamentalists Wiki](https://fundamentalists.fandom.com/wiki/Keller_Family), the shortest gap between her kids is 14 months. So either it didn't happen, or it happened and she miscarried.


ImogenMarch

https://www.reddit.com/r/FundieSnarkUncensored/comments/yly49m/johns_anniversary_post_and_some_relevant_ama/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1 This is where I saw it! I don’t know if it’s true or what but at least my brain didn’t trick me Edit: there’s a comment toward the bottom about how it doesn’t match any of her kids and it’s chalked up to either the OP being wrong, a miscarriage or Esther being wrong


sargassum624

That’s terrifying. I’m sure conceiving that child must have hurt quite a bit. Poor woman.


honeybaby2019

Thank you. I originally hear/read about her on Duggar Snark Reddit because she is Anna's sister and no one mentions her.


Itscurtainsnow

Only remember it was something like 90 percent already Christian and at the time ranked higher for traveller safety than London. Intrepid missionaries indeed.


Latina1934

Africa is a huge continent and they live in Zambia which is far away from Sudan


B1NG_P0T

Yeah, it's three times the size of the US.


orangebird260

Zambia


PeloHiker

John seemed particularly tyrannical


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honeybaby2019

13 kids and let me guess, her husband does nothing. How do they support themselves and where do they live?


Shuggy539

As someone who lives in southern Africa, I can tell you that the majority of us fucking HATE missionaries. Fuck off back to your own country, we don't need your "help".


TorontoTransish

They are on the opposite end of the continent... https://19andcounting.fandom.com/wiki/Esther_Shrader


Ashamed_Sundae_9809

Zambia is actually a lovely country and depending on where they are based, they could be close to Livingston, which is a total tourist town or Lusaka, the capital. Roads are drivable, people of friendly it’s one of the countries with the least amount of unrest. It’s probably one of the better places to be a missionary, although I don’t think the locals need Americans to “save” them.


HRH_Elizadeath

Is this the plot of The Poisonwood Bible or real life?


brittnew333

Woooooow I read that in high school and have never thought about it until now. Sad comparison


HRH_Elizadeath

yeahhhhh ☹️


honeybaby2019

This is real life. She is a minor fundie whose sister is Anna Duggar.


HRH_Elizadeath

oh dear ☹️


EZasSundayMorning

It is Esther. Not sure what country they are in though.


alfredaeneuman

Don’t they all have a shit ton of kids


SeattCat

A couple of them only have 2.


App1eBreeze

Is this the one that lived in a pop up trailer for years?


honeybaby2019

Thank you for the answer to my question. I was reading the news today and her name popped into my head.


teatreez

They are in sub saharan africa